 All Giggles says how to catch him on things. Best ways of telling him or expressing it. He ignores certain questions. So I mean the best way with men is to be direct with things like that right? Like if he's not going to answer one first off you need to realize that if a guy is not answering a question and he's and you think that he's probably intentionally avoiding it like you've asked him more than once and he's intentionally avoiding it first off that is an answer right? If he's not willing to answer a question that's an answer right? If he's a man he's got an answer for the question and he should be willing to be open to talking about it. So if you know he's ignoring a question first you want to take that as an answer and second you want to be direct especially if it's a really important question about what's going on and it's something that's that you need to know and that it's really important to you is just just cut it you know just cut all the BS and just be like look you know let's cut the BS you know like here's the like you know like what's going on in this situation I need to know about this and it's really important that you answer me and if he's not willing to answer you when you're when you're being that direct with him then he's never going to answer you and you need to take that as the answer and figure out what that means to you and go from there.