 I really didn't think it was anything at first. I mean, she just seemed really nice. How was I supposed to know? Then she just wouldn't leave me alone. But I don't think anyone noticed. Sometimes the victim isn't who you think it is. My mind was everywhere. I couldn't focus. I couldn't concentrate. Nothing was real anymore. You might not be able to connect the face to the crime. I guess I could have done it, but what would people have thought of me? I'm supposed to be a man. Who do I go to? Who do I ask for help? Try to act before it's too late. Was everyone scared of her? Because I was really scared. I didn't know what to do. And then it all became too much. We own it. We'll solve it together. For more information about bystander intervention, visit www.sapper.navy.mil.