 Welcome back to my channel. It's your girl Coco styles and on this channel We talk about beauty fashion and lifestyle and styling guys So I am doing a voiceover because I have no idea what happened to my audio And I am on a time crunch and I don't want to miss out on loading a video But in today's video, I'm gonna talk to you guys about what led you to be in the style rut You are in today And I'm just gonna jump right into it I'm gonna try to do this video in two different parts So what we're gonna do is we're gonna talk about why you're in it and how to fix it So it's not gonna match up what I'm saying on the screen, but bear with me guys This sucks, but I have to do it. So the first thing I want to say is why are you in the style rut today? most of the time people Start to think of other things that are more important than their wardrobe, right? and life Happens to all of us, but sometimes we have to Learn how to put ourselves first because your image is important and it affects so many other areas of your life So the first thing I want to say is why you're in this style rut It's because you're trying to keep up with what you see on social media Social media is a place to pull inspiration from not to really copy and mirror So what happens is you end up seeing these people Unboxing all these things we all do it and you Want your wardrobe to look like that or if it doesn't you feel a little bit sad or depressed about it. So a good Fix for that would be pull inspiration from Instagram Facebook Pinterest and Try to create your own style your own budget all that good stuff Don't try to do what other people are doing Don't try to purchase what everybody else is buying if it's if it's not true It's just not gonna work. You're never gonna be happy with it. So that's the first thing and that's my first quick fix for that one the second thing is You think you have to have all designer stuff guys and you don't okay? So you always want to choose the best quality for your money and what I mean by that is if you only get a Shirt that's $50. That's the best that you can do you get the best quality for that $50 Okay, and you guys not always talk about J crew J crew has really nice things and I think the quality is really amazing So that's a quick fix for number two. The third thing is you've gained a little weight Because we've all gained a little weight in turn cove it and now you just kind of lounging around in Leggings and sweatpants and stuff and you don't have the urge to even look stylish anymore So I always tell people this you shop for your current body unless you are absolutely in the process Actively working and losing the weight. Okay, just for your current body Still look good And when you lose the weight just tailor it to fit to your body and the best part about it guys Is that it'll actually look even better because it's tailored to your actual body now? so the fourth thing I want to say is You don't think anything looks good on you anymore and the reason why is that you're not using the three pillars of style so the three pillars of style is Not style the three pillars of style is Fit fabric and style so you're fit because you know, that's how the clothes are gonna fall on your body The fabric is it helps you to know how long this item is gonna last you and the style is what you actually love So when you're shopping shift your mindset start using those three pillars when you're shopping Does it fit me really good? Do I love the fabric and is this my style? That way you're not buying things that do not go with your current wardrobe or with your style and the last thing is Everything else comes first for my mom's for my wife's for my Whoever my my career women you guys have to learn how to take some time for yourself and look and feel good I don't care if it's you going to a spa you need time for yourself something that makes you feel good if it's closed That's what you do So you just know that it is okay to put yourself first it's nothing wrong with it Okay And I definitely think that it's much needed especially for my mom's and my career women who are just always on the go all the time So those are just my few ways of why you're why you are in a style rut? Today and how to get out of them So I'm sorry guys again that I had to do a voiceover on this one But it is short notice and I did not want to miss loading my video to tomorrow So if you like videos like this, please comment below and if you stay to the end of this video Please comment Coco. We see you and guys don't forget to hit that like comment and subscribe button and Follow me on Instagram at Cocoa Styles and why and my website at Cocoa Styles and why see and My blog actually my blog is NYC and my website for my styling services is Cocoa Styles and why guys and again Don't forget to hit that like and subscribe button guys and I will catch you guys in the next one. Bye