 You know what? I'm gonna be honest. I'm just gonna be honest. Let's talk about it. The position you have to get in to get milked. And this is... See, I'm uncomfortable just talking about it. The position you have to get in. If any of my homies walked into Sabya, I'm like, you didn't see nothing bro. And I'll kill you if you tell me. What's up, lovers and friends? I'm away from home for an entire month. And I am missing home and missing all of you. But I did not want to miss out on the opportunity to personally tell you about the sponsor of this video. Let's get checked. A home health kit that provides a better way of managing your health. And as all of you know, I am a huge proponent for STD and STI testing. Did you know over one million sexually transmitted infections are required every single day worldwide? And 51% of people don't get tested because they're afraid of talking about STDs with their health care provider. 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Yes, but it's this idea that a woman can be not relaxed and receiving the kind of stimulation that would result in orgasm and she won't orgasm because she's in her head. Whereas for a man, I don't think it's like, regardless of how you're feeling or what you're thinking, if someone's stimulating you in a way it's going to lead to orgasm, you're going to orgasm. Yeah, I'm not even going to cap, but maybe it's just me. I'm not done studying. I'm like, hey bro, but for me personally, if she knows what she's doing, even if I don't want to orgasm, I'm coming. You know what I mean? Even if my mind state is not there, if she got the technique, she'd do the guac guac with the double hand. It's a wrap. Yo, it's a wrap. I'll tell you when you come like, no, you won't. I was like, oh shit, she's going to tell me. She told me today. So there's a certain element of that that I do believe is true. And I think here's how I always define it. I'm like, this is how the trade off went. I think men have easier orgasms, but worse orgasm. I think women have the superior product. Oh yeah. It just costs more. It's harder to reach. I'm like, I want to have an exorcism too. Yeah. Because he'd be there like, you know. Yeah. Yeah. Don't touch me. Don't touch me. I've had women who have to take like four minutes off. They break. Yeah. And I'll never, I'll never get to experience that. They pop and shit. No. I've had level twos. Level twos are cool. But they don't come close. I had level twos and a half. But women, when you hit the spot, right, they got level. But you had a prostate orgasm. You have. Yeah. I'm open minded. You've had a prostate orgasm. Yeah. Tell me more about it. I mean, for me, I'm going to be honest with you, even though, you know, it was intense. It wasn't another level. To me, it wasn't more intense than the level two I get from a really good blow job. Were you milked? What? How did it happen? I mean, so. All right. I'll never talk about this again. I'm feeling naked right now. Essentially. No, I can't do it. Okay. You got to tell me afterwards. Yeah. I just, I started thinking about it. Here's the thing. Okay. And I know I'm going to be honest. Let's be honest. Let's talk about it. Let's go. You know, because I'm out here. I came here. I'm going to do it just for you because I love you. Okay. The position you have to get in to get milked. And this is. See, I'm uncomfortable. The position you have to get it. If any of my homies walked in to saw me, I'm like, you didn't see nothing bro. And I'll kill you. Because I think it took me such a long time to even be comfortable to do that with the person I'm intimate with and to trust her. Even just saying I did it makes me. I'm so happy right now. I'll let you know that man. I did it for you. I'm like, um, yeah, you know, you just. Position. Okay. Position. Yeah. You know, you get on your knees. Arch it. Possibly. Arch it. And then, you know, she behind. Like a cow. She milked that. And she doing her thing. By far. How about in a doggy style? Oh, man. Big pause. Big, big pause. You know, it's just one of those things where. That's funny. I thought it was cool, but it didn't give me like a tsunami alert. Like, like. Like the blow job did. So yeah, it was on the same level. What if you could combine the two? That probably would be something special. I don't think it could reach whatever woman experience. I'm going to tell you what. Go for it. I've. All the times that orgasm, I could always walk after. I'm talking about. I cannot walk. Going to the washroom. I need to go to the washroom because it needs to drip out. Oh my God. And then she has to take the wall. Whether it's that or getting fingered or whatever. A woman that gets an orgasm and I can't walk after. I never, I could always walk. I could always walk. I could just come and just run a marathon. I'm good. Blown away. Woman. When they come. I'm so jealous. I went when I come. I feel like I can run a marathon. But my body can get my mind doesn't want to do it. But my body. My body. My body. My body can do it. Right. But a woman. When they orgasm. Some of them. It's like they're at the end. They're at the end of the marathon. They're like. Crossing the line and falling down. That's what it is. So by that definition. By that. Just seeing that. I can just say that women's orgasm are more powerful. It costs more. Like you said. It costs more to achieve. But when you pay that money and you get there. Who. Who. Yeah. I mean. One girl had to shut down for an hour and a half. Yeah. And you know. It was so intense and it. Like how about this. This is one thing I know women can do that. Men can't do. Women can come continuously. Yep. Yes. But then so can some men. After. Two times. There's like a school of. You're getting powder. Did you guys do that on purpose. What what. You guys both went like this. Well I mean you just said something I never heard of. Okay. So you don't have to draw my nose. I've never heard of dudes who could come nonstop. Yeah multi orgasmic men who can disconnect ejaculation from orgasm can I ask you how many times have you made a man multi orgasm? Oh, I've never not not man. This is one of those like lock this monster type. Yeah, I need to see it to believe it Well, I've never been with somebody who's trained themselves in that way either I don't think it's a journey that I can go on for you. I think you got to go on this for yourself There's a school of thought out there that if a woman can't orgasm It's because she's not relaxed enough Which puts the burden of responsibility to blame on her for why she can't achieve pleasure versus I'm just not being stimulated correctly Well, who it feels like a lot of conversation whose job is it for fair women's sexuality is based around male ego Yes, but but who's responsible of your orgasm of your pleasure Women death I've everybody definitely responsible for their own and who's responsible. Let's see for you Who's responsible for your partner's pleasure? I mean in success and mutuality. I'm responsible for yours. You're responsible for mine But I have to also be able to teach you but because what a lot of women don't even learn about what works when they learn about sex From the lens of what is best for a man. They don't need necessarily know that. Yeah Okay, so I think when it comes to the orgasm thing men often approach it from the idea of like They want you to come because it makes them feel good to be able to get you to that place rather than just understanding like That even the approach to orgasm doesn't have to be so intense It should be some that you're thoughtful and interested in but understanding that it puts a lot of pressure on your partner when you're saying I'm you come yet. Have you come yet? Yes, and it gets them more into their head as a result of the actions That's you're taken not to be considered of that So I think orgasms are important. I think they're good for sex. I do not think they're necessary I don't think they're defining for great sex even for man. I've had amazing sex that had nobody orgasm And that's okay And I think if you have that more holistic approach and you're more patient with that Then they're gonna be much more relaxed because it's not such a Crux of your ego to make them get there You're the first man I've ever heard before say that you can enjoy sex without an orgasm Oh, I think that school of thought is out there that you don't need an orgasm for positive to have great sex But that usually is because a lot of women are doing anything in history the Sex and the point of sex is your gas. Yes, and that's what people think That you're having that to have an orgasm. I'm just having sex to have sex That's really just that so I agree with what he says when yeah, you can have sex and not have orgasm and then It was it was good. Can you tell me about a time you've had a great sexual experience did not end in orgasm Like what did you do that made it so great then? It's just great all the all the all the senses that we were talking about the smell the taste Touch all of that all of that was there it was good and why that was happening because that's the thing Why people are having sex they're thinking about the orgasm They're supposed to have or how to reach that. Okay, but they're not even in the present They're not in the present and in everything that is going on. This is a wonderful thing that's going on What yeah, we're doing it and And all this is going on and it's great and we're in the mood and Yes, so that could be just great just being in the present Don't even think about the orgasm at the end But think about all the sensation that's going on right now Everything that's going on with your body with her body how she responds I think it the approach that I have is the same approach when we dance There's no orgasm at the end dance, but everything is nice how you nailed that move how you guys are in sync How you move to the beat of the music in bed? There's no music, but you're gonna be your own beat You know me you're gonna be your own tambourine how all that is in sync and all that is great and doing and working Well together as though and then after that if there's an orgasm great, but all the dash you were all in the zone So yeah, I don't know I would say I want to give you an affirmative touch right now. Do you mind was that? What was an affirmative touch? Oh, that's what it is a dad. You could have said that I want to give you an affirmative Hey, I don't know that language when you get a degree in sexology All of a sudden you don't say that like we're gonna consensually fist bump girl I'm from the East Coast and Montreal. I don't do this LA, California shit. I'm gonna I'm gonna feel you affirm I Can't help but flex it off. I can't wait to break