 Hi, how are you good? What do you got for me? This is my first time or coming on this is my third time being with you And I really want to come on and hate with you because you remind me so much of my brothers I'm the youngest of seven boys Okay, let's do it. You give us, you know the raw shit. So I was like, oh Okay, so what do you got for me on the topic so on the topic I Trying to I'm I'm trying to get some advice some big brother advice. Okay, Kevin Okay You got to get to it though Okay Yeah, okay. I am seasoned a Little bit, but I'm not the skirt. Okay. It's a question woman. I'm sorry. What's the question? So I'm trying to figure out What I need to be focusing on and looking for I don't know what outcome do you want? I want happiness. You want to be married? Okay, hold on. Let's just let's just answer these questions your mother for and how many how many different fathers for Holy shit, how many times you've been married? That ain't gonna work That ain't gonna work. That's not gonna work No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no what I'm saying is not gonna work There's no marriage to a woman who's has four kids by four different means who's never been married What guy wants to follow that? So, so your answer is I'm done as far as marriage and all likelihood. Yeah, I mean, how old are you? 44 44 for first off man, let's take you out of it Let's say you you have a brother, right? Right and your brother comes up and says hey, hey sis, I'm gonna marry this woman with four kids by four different men She ain't never been married What you gonna tell him? Yeah, man lock that deal down Yeah, what you gonna tell him you're gonna tell him a lot So, well, you know, what are you gonna tell him? Of course, I'm gonna have my own personal experience You're gonna tell him absolutely So you love your brother so much you were telling to marry a woman four kids by four different men They never been married to either one of them. That ain't love ma'am. That ain't love Okay, ma'am ma'am listen This is where you women go wrong Because you're too into it. Do you have any sons? So to your your two sons come back and both of them say hey mama found a woman with four kids from four different men I'm a Mariah. You're gonna say go ahead son. Let's go ahead and plan that up Exactly Exactly because the men you're talking about are somebody's sons I mean, here's the thing if you didn't need to be married to have babies, you don't need to be married You don't need to be married. That's really how men think about it Okay I Get it ma'am I get how does how does how does your youngest child? All right, ma'am, but still you got to understand That you're deciding to come to these things at beyond middle-aged You are unless you're going to live to be a hundred you are beyond middle-aged Okay, you want me to tell you what you want to hear Or you let me tell you what I think Well then listen You you came to these decisions to where now this is now it seems to now be a priority Because the 44 with four kids you were just out here doing what you wanted to do. You said you got a bag Okay, but now you don't want to die alone. All right, but then who's the thing I hear you But there is a man out there who's going to have to attach himself to you and what is he going to get? Yes So when he attaches himself to me, he's going to get An awesome individual He's going to get a down-to-earth individual someone that has a Grass on life and what they want Okay, someone that can provide Someone that knows how to cook Someone that knows how to Take care of the household That's what he's gonna get somebody's gonna. Okay. All right. So let me ask you let me ask you some other questions. Okay, okay How tall are you? I'm not dress size So I'm probably like 14 a.m. So I'm five nine to 30. All right five nine two hundred and thirty Four kids listen five nine forty four years old Five nine two hundred and thirty pounds size 14 with four children by four different men And everything that you said you were going to give provide for a man is you're gonna get an awesome individual Who has a grasp of something or other who knows how to clean a house and knows how to cook ma'am? He can get that and a 25 or 30 year old with no children and Address size six Listen listen, do you understand do you understand what I just said what you're bringing to the table what you're bringing to the table Okay, you're an accountant, right? Okay, okay I give a list listen, I give general advice on this show because you need specific advice use up some of that bag and book a session I don't just give free specialized advice So here's the thing yeah, but in general man, I'm speaking to you in some of terms of accounts can understand assets and liabilities Assets need to outweigh your liabilities for someone to want to take that deal And the things I've asked you about assets were very vague, but your liabilities are very real Absolutely. All right. Hopefully that helped