 و أقولوا في القرآن ما جاءت به آياته فهو الكاريم المنزاله و أقولوا قال الله جل جلاله والمصطف الهدي و لا أتأوّاله ما should we do when we see our parents sinning? how do we maintain good treatment of them? الحمد لله رب العالمين والصلاة والسلام على أبت الله و رسوله نبينا محمد و على آله و صحبه أجمعي لا يوجد دعوة أن نبينا يجب أن نساعدنا على كل شيء من تبقى أكسلاتهم و أن يكونون جيدا لهم و جيدا لهم الله سبحانه وتعالى تقولوا في القرآن و إن جاهداك على أن تشتك بما ليس لك به عنه فلا توطيعهما و صاحبهما في الدنيا معروفة و إذا كانوا يتبقى لتبقى لك لتبقى معي و ليس لديك معرفة فإن here the parents are telling their child to make a partner with Allah the greatest sin that a person can do فلا توطيعهما لا تبقى لهم و صاحبهما في الدنيا معروفة and accompany them in this world in the best way so a parent who is compelling their child forcing their child to make a partner with Allah still has the right of good treatment even though they are doing that so the parent who is sinning in general is still entitled to that good treatment and Anas radiallahu anhu narrated that the messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم said فقال الرجل يا رسول الله أنصره إذا كان مظلوما أفرأيت إذا كان ظانما كيف أنصر قال تحجره أو قال تمنعه من الظلم فإن ذلك نصره we're going to use this hadith just to highlight a particular issue this hadith of Anas radiallahu anhu the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said help your brother whether he is an oppressor or oppressed so a man said I will help him if he is oppressed but what do you think about if he is the oppressor how could I help a person who is an oppressor the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said that you prevent them you stop them from their oppression this is what it means to help them so what I brought this hadith for is to show you that the way that you do to your parents in a situation where your parents are doing major sins is by finding a way to help them to stop and not showing of course any disrespect to them at all so you have to find a way to help them to stop but the way you stop them might be different from the way you would stop for example your children because you have a sultana authority over your children but your parents have an authority over you and that is why we can bring in this hadith narrated by Imam Ahmed and others من أراد أن ينصح لذي سلطان فلا يبده علانيه ولكن يأخذ بيده فيخلوبه فإن قابل منه فذاك وإلا كان قد أدل الذي عليه امام هل يريد أن يتعلم ينصح لذهن وإن إما المرئ في حدث يرد لمن يشاهد أو يرد للتعليم يأخذ أنها أدول أبدا لا أخذ كذلك فسأل إذا لن يأخذ يدخل وإن ويكون ده وإذا اذا وإذا في المدفل وإن This is all well and good ووếu لا و إذا لم يكن هناك فتاة فتاة فتاة فتاة فتاة لذا لا يوجد فتاة when you're advising a person in authority و حتى تستطيع أن تستطيع هذا إلى أصدقائك ما أنت لا تستطيع أن تفعله هو أن تقوم with your children your child يمكنك أن توقف them in public and you might say to them لا تفعل this again I never want to see this behavior from you لا تستطيع أن تتحدث with your parents like that and you can't publicly give them a dressing down like that because they're sinning rather what you have to do is to speak to them privately gently kindly and if you do that you have done what you have to do you've done the best you can do so when your parents are doing sins major sins serious things what you're going to do is you're going to realize that your beer towards them part of your beer towards them is stopping them from what they're doing but you have to do it in a way that is respectful to the authority they have over you taking them aside speaking to them gently kindly privately and what you'll find is that this will preserve the connection between you and your parents in a good way as opposed to the one who does things publicly shout at them or complains about their parents to other people this person is doing a major sin which might be worse than the sin that the parent is doing in the first place so it might be a case that the cure is worse than the sickness because it may be that the parent is doing a sin 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