 Shadow, shadow, shadow. Why did I say it three times? Shadow three people for a year who have already gotten what you want and are 20 years ahead of you. Think it through. It'll be harder than you think but it'll also be at the same time easier than you think. Humans don't learn through school as much as people think. You know how you mostly learn? You shadowed kids who were your peers. Most kids growing up, it's their peer group. It's their teacher's body language, how they talk, the things they don't do. It's not actually the textbook itself and the lecture on the chalkboard. So shadow, shadow, shadow.