 Ni kumbe unani kumfoz, kama jo nani, jo baby Anu kumbe unani affect, unani smartphone kit Kastoma, karibu wa inu money Kenfa nasu whatfifone facebook, whatfifone channel on twitter hashtag is what inu morning or wcw So it is that time to have strong people I say people because two Wednesdays Two Wednesdays ago we had gentlemen Strong people are going to come and they are going to tell us the experience Tell us what they are doing in the world to make it a better place Cue in Michael Jackson Hashtag what inu morning or wcw Or at color ni wcw But chamu himuni nansiki money today Good morning How are you? I am doing good First of all you look amazing Thank you If you are not sure, do you look fantastic You look like you are about to go to Sampare After this I am very happy to see you Mwaka 859 It's okay It is what it is Please introduce yourself My name is Nansiki Mani I am a student of Kireji Women's University And I am also a founder of Spirit of Giving Community based organization And I am 19 years old I was not found in anything when I was 19 In fact I was busy trying to help myself I was discovering things And things that I am not able To say out loud on TV But it is what it is What inspired you and why at 19 Okay personally I mean to leadership So way back in high school I was really interested in mentorship Did you have a mentor yourself? Personally no I did not have I wanted to become a problem solver in the community So I tried to look for some ways On how I can be able to help out So what happened is When I was in high school I did not love how the mentors Used to mentor us At Nilianda Sijuina Kukumoja I am sure you used to get such stories As in there was a lot of illusions They were not straight forward on how they are mentoring us So I was like What if there will be a young generation A young people who will be telling us facts Telling us the real things Telling us this and this is what happens And I came to realize that There were no young people Who could mentor the young generation When you look at the campus I mean to the high school level We could get the mentors Who could come to school to mentor the students It is what was there So I got really motivated I want to say That what you are saying sounds a little bit like The current It is something that they are celebrating in the United States Where we have the first female first Female vice president Not only she is female but she is of color That means she is black And she is also of Asian descent And I am sure just seeing her face Just being called vice president Is enough for a whole generation of sures Who have dreams who want to do big things Is that what you had in mind when you started this? Okay personally I knew what I really wanted in life When I was in high school I used to also study During the holidays Because I guess The age level I took what I wanted to say So I was more into focusing And I knew what I wanted in life So When during holidays I could study entrepreneurship I was under an organization Which could keep me busy Holiday? Ya holidays Ya ni mefunga shule Ya ni mefunga shule So what was your obsession? So During that organization I had a lot of interest So they were teaching about entrepreneurship Financial capability Social asset building So I used to find that The order was teaching them Not them teaching me So I developed some interest Trying to involve myself into lively activities Ya I'm going to tell you a six years When I was in high school I was a geek Picking up and up Sana, Sana, Sana And that kind of Set me apart from Very many people Ya Ya Ya ni kwa po ni mega nga na Kucho man So how did you How did you work through that Kus I'm sure when you're very headstrong When you know what you want And you're not afraid to say it I'm sure there are Some type of people who will tell you About to learn Just relax Just have fun in high school You'll know You'll live once How did you go through that Okay So back in high school The life was very difficult for me Personalistic when you are sharing And when people are going to Eat or maybe do something together There is no people who will sit in a group I guess it's all the high schools Usually sit in a group Talking So I used to find that When they are talking I find myself asking Myself a lot of questions Like what are they saying I used to get that ashamed Like you don't know shame So you find yourself So what I decided is That is not the way I'm supposed to stay So I have to go on with my own life So I used to be alone I became a leader So I was a focused person And in terms of leadership It was also another thing Which was so stressful Because I really wanted I used to fight for the rights of the students For gender equality I mean for equality If it is duties Distributing very them equally So I was just focused They say it's lonely at the top Is it true? Ya sure it is Ya Ya But I'm so impressed by you And if it's not true But okay let's get into the meat Of the matter What do you do When did you find it Because you're a founder That means you found it So when did you find it So when I cleared the high school Now that is coming next year That was last year Last year was 18 years So I was really I thought that Life will be very easy To get You need to reach my goals To reach the opportunities That I really needed So life in that journey Was not that much easy Because I wanted to grab everything I was like I'm done with the high school So this is my time To get the opportunities And to do what I love My passion Such things like those ones So I tried to I've ever been confused You're just confused You're like You're so much confused You don't know where to go You don't know how to start it Because I don't have someone to guide me It is only me who knows What I can do What I'm capable of doing So I'm just like that So not unless And go of myself using my phone To enter online Get to know people People to help me out To reach my visions To reach my goals Though it was not an easy journey So last year I worked for a team It was known as A2J Crew Africa That was addicted to Jesus So I worked for them It was just like a charity work But that group It was all about ministry Ministry of God Going to win souls So I thought It was my vision Like this is where I will I will do it to the next level So I continued the journey We did it together I gave them ideas I had ideas with me So I could give people ideas They work on it But unfortunately They did not work on it I stayed around six months I quit at this year So they are So I'm just learning I'm learning things Getting to know people Getting to interact myself With different leaders Of different university Then I became passionate Mentorship So I tried to Make groups We make groups more than 10 times Failing Group was up Like group You can't do alone You can't do charity Or mentorship alone You have to work with that team Who believes in you I made a group of Almost 10 times Failing What happened What failed Is it that the people were not as passionate As you were Or they were not available Mama haikwatu na jeepa So now like the first one I made it Yani I made several So the first one I made it It's not working It became a dating site Up to date they are dating Allah And you allow one I did it by the way Thank you for putting people together Although that was not the point Ya, that was not the point So it was like If these people have turned into dating Automatically we can't work this journey together Because what you talking about So we can't work the journey together So I decided to Slash it away It came up with another one Mojakena maju And it also became a dating site So I had to slash it off Then I tried I kept trying Because I was passionate about it Because I could not have peace In my heart Because my heart was just beaten for the youth For the teenagers Something like that You're not sleeping You can't sleep Because you're feeling that You have not yet done something It's just like you come in You come and give someone an idea But those people are not buying the idea It's just that you don't know The way forward to go about it So I met now that group Known as A2Jcro Africa I thought that was my dream come true I learnt a lot I can't regret being with them I learnt a lot I learnt the challenges on how to work with people So I left that group Because on the way I started going to universities To mentor the university students I've gone to a university of Nairobi Kabete What year are you in? And what year are you in? I'm a first year What time of first year? What giving you confidence To touch up into people older than you? So it just comes automatic You know So a guy Known as Tony Manyara He called me out for the talks For the mentorship So I got famous in here And Kabete Because that passion should grow So then I started going to ICS college in Tikka But now that one was tricky How can you go to advise people of your own age? It sounds funny Like it sounds funny Going to mentor the You're the same level all of you But I had to do it It just came automatic I started going to a high school campus Ya You know it's just because I can hear the passion in your voice Otherwise Why are you advising me and we are together How did you overcome that? Like now personally I believe in greatness And I believe in leadership of a woman And because a woman can be able to do anything You can also be able to multitask And a lady She's passionate and she can be able to do anything Like I knew that everything is possible I knew I can make it I knew that I can make it personally And so I told you is I like being a problem solver According to if it is my friends If it is family or anywhere So I like to look for solutions Like now when I look at my circle Most of the people have kids Most of the people Like Your age mates Ya my age mates And I was like If these people If these people they don't They don't get someone who can support them Either not financially Mostly the physically The emotional love Who will mentor them Who will guide them So I have to Keep on pushing to show them that Everything is possible And making a mistake It's not the end of life You can be able to To go to the next level And you can be able to be a motivation To the next generation Looking at this time that There is high teenage pregnancies Which have risen And I'm 100% sure by the By a few years to come We'll be having a lot of single mothers And we also need to hold them And work with them this journey together Ya, afaikwa chiliwa Kusu wa isama listening to Is it your mum or your dad Because someone must have given you this wisdom No, no, no Even my mum cannot be able to stand Belia wa itu Ya, so I used to I used to I used to I used to believe in people I believe in people I believe in listening to an ear Because there is also depression Depression is running Ya ni a lot of things are happening To the youth But they just need someone Who can listen to them Someone who can hear them Wana wana But now So I went Now January came Corona came So after quitting It took me like four months To know which is the next step Which is the next step If I may interrupt you What did you do for those four months As much as What did you do in those four months after you quit For some time Uma joveni mtu anangaliangam tu kuativi Anana me omoka Ya, so I expect Uli kwa skumoji uli ka If you come Ba kwa suma mungu tu nusili Lafufu the next day kafa nika And then shwa usha kwa I need them to understand That there are some days You won't want to do What you love to do I need them to understand That it's hard I need them to understand That's part of the process Masaebu Tamadali Don't think it's very strange Or it's very unique to you It happens to everyone So what did you do in those four months Okay, like what I can say is First of all let me go back to When I was in high school I used to pray for my future I used to say this is what I want to do You speak it You speak it I speak it I spoke it Like an example is Before deciding on which course I wanted to do I used to tell people You see that magazine Or that newspaper I used to read newspapers Getting knowledge Like I was much interested into the world Getting to know and to learn ideas And I had some tips Of what I really wanted So when you were selecting some courses On what to do I used to tell my friends By the way Why don't you do business administration That is the best course There is a unique course in terms of business It is wide So I used to find myself advising people In terms of business So I was advising them to do business So I used also to declare I had a strong faith in me I used to say I will go to a university But I could not tell you Which university I will go So I could say I will go to a university I wanted to do something Which I will be talking I don't want to say It will hinder me from my passions I just need something for talking Talking, sharing ideas Being passionate about it But now there are a lot of challenges Because no one understands you You want to do this You want to do this You want to do this You want to do this I could find myself I can't do anything I can't do anything But I am in this side I am in that side So until my parents will ask me Are you not seeing that you are confusing your life Pick one thing And stick to it I have also had a lot of it But now my parents are very supportive Ni nile ya upole They could tell me Are you not seeing that you are confusing yourself Because you are good at this side You are good at this side You are good at that side You are good at that side Why don't you choose something In ita kufitu kwa You just do one thing At least you don't limit yourself But I don't have any problem You do in all of them That is what she told me So earlier this year Challenges were very many As a lady As a lady Many people will discourage you Because they have seen the passion in you They have seen a lot in you And others will also approach you for sex So that they give you that chance Thank you for saying that Excuse me I don't know who needs to hear this Please normalize doing business with ladies Without wanting to have sex with them Thank you So you find that A lot of people they see what it is in you And they are like Let's do this Give me this I give you this Give me this and give you this And I was like No, I don't do that And if it will take me long No problem I will just wait When God's time come He will do it Sklyoku high five So I kept on pushing But people will just approach you Mostly the men They think that you are desperate By the way They think that you are desperate Since they once They tell you that Oh I can support your project What you will do is Just give me sex I give you money I connect you So and so And I'm like No, I don't do such things I believe in God And the right time will come I know it is not the right time Right now So I'll just keep on pushing Ya, I mean But then I said Na ringa sana But life was in my song Na ringa sana But this is where I am Because I believe in who I am So earlier this year That is January The journey was just smooth And I was like feeling to quit The team that I was working with But now I'm always patient I like giving personal An ear and eye to see So there is how you can tell yourself You can say something But you have to be patient At least you have a clear thing Had to be patient Now I quit Though it was It was not that good I quit in a Let me say in a badly way I quit in a badly way So it took me time to heal It took me 4 months to heal To heal up That I've ever been betrayed By someone Like I've never been betrayed By someone So me personally I've never been betrayed By person By anyone So that was my first time To be betrayed In a completely To be betrayed completely So like me Like I used to I'm very good Yani I have that heart of giving So I give almost everything Yani I'm always there For all my friends For anyone Even for a stranger I make friends very fast And I trust very fast But that time I used to trust Very very fast I like what you said by that time So life in me kupigama bares So that time I used to trust Okay, I usually trust people very fast Personally I trust very fast Because of intelligence Amulis attracted to intelligence My self is atro So Amulis attracted to intelligence When I find you are intelligent Automatical get attracted to you Because I would like to learn something from you And even if you are my friend Or if we meet today I'll have to learn something from you That is a sure bet I like learning ideas from people Either you meet today Or we meet any time That is a must There is nothing new in terms of mentorship I just grab what you say Grab that Grab that So that is what I do Like I will make sure Any type of friend that I get Or anyone I usually meet I have to learn one idea from that person Ya So I got time to heal It was not easy I used to pray to God Manzei God sukuji saasa I used to pray to God I'm very pushed But now I'm like You have no friends Because you've been betrayed If you marry me Because the kutin was It was very bad for me I guess it was just a changing point of my life I did not know That's why I say that it was God's plan So during the 4 period month I was like thinking What can I do I was like What if I do this If I be sharing ideas with people Who are interested I'll be giving them ideas They buy it But I don't work Like I don't be part of it Ya ni ni kwa behind the scenes Because I'm very pushing about this day But I don't have people to work with So I was like Let me do this I share ideas with someone They do it But now I'm like I don't have people to work with Just want to be behind the scenes That way my heart will be very happy That is what I wanted But now I joined myself First of all I had already deleted all the contacts I did not have anyone It was me and my family Because I needed that time to heal To compose myself To wake up You know to think It took me almost 4 months What is the next level to do? Imagine I can relate I can truly relate to what you are saying Sometimes life can put you to your knees You don't even understand Uo uli kwa na jum nendo Suddenly Umeteleza wuka Kusya namutwa nangu kaha din namu kona It is what it is Ya ya sure Like now before corona came That was 14th march I was in High school That was the largest number I've ever met My whole life They were 1200 students So that time Then the next Now because I was a leader Now that time before I quit I had to multitask myself To balance myself I attended this one I attended this one the afternoon So it just went Life in a bit bana Like he ni akuna manyanaju I used to pray to humble myself And I tell God God just do your ways Because I don't know What is about to happen next Like I've never been Not having anyone Like you've been betrayed by Those close people Who you are just close with them You did work together But now psh What you do Because they have been told bad things about you And they believe it Those people who have covers Like now an example If someone come and says That you are bad No one will ever believe Because there is how you have carried yourself In terms of how you Maybe you do your things So you have a cover Of friends Who just cover you up But me I did not have a cover I did not have a cover The only cover which I heard it was God And I stood with saying the truth Because when you do something wrong I will always tell you you have done Something bad So I will tell you But now telling someone the truth It's Just telling someone the truth Like you are not doing something good Just like that So Life continued I gave ideas to different friends Others used it Others did not use it Were you getting paid for these ideas? No no no no Like give them for free Come and tell you Why don't we try to do this and this and this But now You will see yourself that And yeah this is a nice idea Then on the way to Nakusana Any some piti piti things And me I don't like having issues with people Anyhow I was too good Anyhow I am too good I felt myself just being too good So I said it like this I thought I went to a charity event Now my friends Now other friends Not friends Now other friends We could do with them charity So I said Kindly add me to all the charity groups that you know We kind of use one then I thought Kajuliza What am I benefiting from all these charity groups Nothing Okay what am I benefiting from them Nothing I was like nothing Nothing Because there is no any benefit Like you have a call in you But You don't know what's next I told myself No Come on Nancy There is nothing you are getting from all these I went and gave a friend of mine the idea Like this and this is what I want But I don't want to have any leader I want to be me Only me alone Because I know To work with people sometimes it's very stressful Say it again It is very very stressful Kusaw kumalimko Kusababu mnodi ya kiyomoka Let's say like we partner I and you In terms of maybe a project There is one who sells almost everything Maybe you sales the group Anywhere you go Who sells everything But not me on the other hand I'm not maybe that socially to people Something like that At the moment when you do a project On your two of you It is a must It is a must Because one of the person you'll be thinking The other one is much better than the other Or because Any there is a lot of things Which might happen on the way So I wanted like I wanted to be my own boss Because I know what I want This is me This is This is what I love doing So I decided I gave a friend I created a group Kitambu But one of the members What I did is I created a group So I was thinking I was thinking I was thinking I created two heavy I guess that was August I was thinking What type of an event I can come up with Because Now I was Now a bit confused I gave a couple of friends of mine The ideas Not giving them an idea When you want to When you want to start something Don't go and give your friends ideas No Which are them Already what you have planned for Because that person Atona you are not serious We have two thoughts So I did not have thoughts I had already worked on it I told A couple of friends The ones I don't know Like now I don't know you I just come and tell you This is what I am interested in doing I would like you to be supporting me That is it So I worked with people Who I don't know them Like who don't know me I did not want to work with people who know me Because there will be that jealousness Invinence And it will not progress That is why I came to learn I came to learn something is Never work with people who you know Work with people who you don't know you That is very powerful Never work with people Who you know They will never help you They will never help you Because you will be loving You will be having jealousy Of the progressive of that someone I used to think That women We are our own worst enemies Sure We cannot stand to see each other But I have had A group of friends And all we have ever done Is just wanted the best for each other And that is it Kama mimi nikona I have confided in you I have told you ok in my life Nona nikona job Nikona nikona pesa Maybe for now what I want Now is to start a family And I tell you that And maybe for example I know As As very much physically I am sitting here Touching touching things That there are people who will clap for you Even if that's what they want But when do we part They will clap for you Like good job Like kuna sezon Sezoni akon doi Yanguina kamsawa But let us all be happy for each other And we are not many We are not We are not many See I have looked But the ones that are there Yeah sure Sure definitely they are true So I came up with the group I had to look for a name I guess the group it was I can say it was a foundation Of prayers I prayed I prayed I guess it's just a revelation Of what I would love to do And the group is named Spirit of Giving I named it Spirit of Giving Because It's a gift Not everyone can be able to give by the way Not everyone can be able to give out something So I came up with the one Okay there is Now starting the foundation Moja kajaribu kuhiaribu Like she came She wanted to be like the boss She wanted to be like the boss And I refused I removed them In the whatsapp group Because By that time I really knew What I want And singipenda amtuani bring down Because I struggled to be there Because I failed several Almost ten times Coming up with that team I told God Man say God Stegi nime choka kunga nisha watu kuwa Becoming a date is such Even up to date their dating And it is good Until I had to tell God That is not what I want Okay but you might be the start of A very happy marriage But that was not the point No that was not the point I was like no This is not what I want I want something great I want something big So I came up with an idea I came up with an event I was like What type of an event can I do I came up with a street kids event I wanted to do it Where was it? Uku town No, kakete hivi I've ever Your heart beats for mentorship But before you reach there Nudya bado sujiya nini sujiya kwa stable I have not been stable by that time Like I don't know what I want I decided There is a lady in FB I saw what she was doing And I got interested in what she was doing She could donate sanitary pads To the young ladies And talk to them So she approached me She told me I love what you are doing now me I love what you are doing And I would like you support me I usually help the girl child But now I don't have finances Because of some few issues So she was doing an event in Kibra So I decided I told her No worry I'll know what I will do Let me first I'll just give you the feedback I thought I'll use once So I was very passionate about mentorship And I was like How do I even How do you even start by Telling your parents You know First of all I did not tell them Before coming up with an event I got a chance to act So I'm also a local I'm also an actress At local TV in Oro So I act Kikuyu Centrosinema Do you know Mubani? No See that kashu I just that I forgot in this room I act Centrosinema I'm an actress there The local television So before that chance came I was that in that process Of healing myself So a friend of mine Who is the president Of Kiriru Immense University And also a founder Of Tuas Learning Shady I'm heart-reshara So she told me I told her jokingly By the way me wanna act So later I got a chance Boone ite You know jokingly I just few days she called me And told me Eh we are going for a set And I'm like What? I don't know how to speak Kikuyu Like you try to You try to see yourself And you're like There's some people who speak much better than you So I'm going to say Nairobi So obvious it's not that fluent I can remember now you have to go Our director Misha Amwambia So you have to attend It is a must you attend And I'm like how Like okay I composed myself But that was also a partial Back high school So like I'm all round I can't do anything I got a chance I went I did I did not go for auditions by the way Ah yeah Wolling ya tukazi Eling ya tukazi bana Wolling it on Okay So we have some very interesting photos From Anansi's Instagram page Maybe you can look at that before We go Aki Jamani One time you wish I don't understand what's going on But anyway As my very able team Works on that Anansi how can we support you So personally I've been doing mentorship In campus High school And community Right now Now I'm into community I donate sanitary pads Soaps T-shirts Ya And boxers I met a boy child and girl child I met a boy child and girl child So Anyone who have sanitary pads Anilete Anilete Ya Maybe boxers If you would like to donate anything You can always reach me out On my Facebook I'm Nansiki Mani You'll see just a picture of there Of a lady Who is holding sanitary pads I believe Ya Ya So I'm going to So I'm into mentoring the boy child And the girl child You can donate any T-shirts Sanitary pads Ya What are we looking at over here What are these What's going on here So these one When you look at these These were sanitary pads Which were Which were thrown For the girl child As in this pose though Ya this pose They are used No, they are not used They are just thrown away They were just thrown away What do you mean? These were just thrown away This one was a picture Of Kiyapu County This Kiyapu County Where the pads were just thrown Ya na elam kwa wami Giyadim na tukutu Ya see wami mi Like this one is just a post from A place where I just got it Like it is very bad This is just a disposal Someone did this And it was very hurtful You can imagine So I had that pain Like what should someone Dispose all these When I need these sanitary pads This is the first time I am seeing Something like this in my life So na easy So na kuni kutuba zime tupo How? But okay Hashtag is Why in the morning Alright What else are we looking at here? So this one is We were donating at Kasarani Mweki These are sanitary pads As you can see We have the panties Now these ones were For the girl child And ya We have two hips We have two children Okay Alright So for Mweki Was it like a home? No That one was We Like it was just a A place we had looked for And anyone Who could be available Could attend Mostly the teenagers We teach them about Early pregnancies Mental health Gender based violence And also the general life And later we Offer them sanitary pads Because not Not everyone can be able to afford And just a full package And a panty That one up there It's a boxer Wow Meanwhile Alright So this is the last photo What are we looking at? I think I am seeing tissue Ya tissues And that one is a pad So this one it is At Kibra Here we had gone To mentor the girl child And the boy child So we donated So this is what we do If anyone can be able to donate Sanitary pads or tissues Can always reach To me Are you open to Monetary compensation Like instead of me Going to buy pads Just give you money Ya you can Okay Alright so what would you like To tell the audience In conclusion In conclusion What I can say is I appreciate for everyone Who has ever supported me Physically Financially Or emotionally We all appreciate And being A young youth I would like to I would like to urge Other youths Can also come up With the same project To help the young generation Ya Ya see mimi kama For Lantain I have visions Of voting for half a president In the near future But Africans We are still telling women That they cannot Eat certain parts of the chicken I try to find Facebook I try to find on Twitter Hashtag is why In the morning Thank you for staying With us on strength of a woman I think this one Is a bit more strength of a lady Seeing as how Very very young she is But her passion Is the strength part My name is Val Or at Colomibel Please do not go away We are not done with you yet