 Hello everyone welcome to another Narx Fibre Live video. Yes as you probably noticed there is But the noise in the background as always But I'm still gonna continue with this video and do the best that I can So yes the topic for this one is Do this To make the narcissist miss you because it's actually a lot easier than you might think and a lot of situations it is very easy to make a narcissist miss you and What you need to do To get the narcissist to miss you is you need to feed their ego Because that's all they really want when they come out around you They just want a piece of the action They want you to tell them how great they are How beautiful how handsome How rich and successful Intelligence all of these things and Yeah, I mean that's the same for a lot of people of course We all like validation. We like to know that we're on the right path We're doing the right thing people recognize our hard work or achievements But with narcissists it is typically the superficial things Things that didn't really require Too much of their time and effort so Some narcissists may be naturally blessed with good looks or Or They may have been born into a family with a lot of money So they didn't have to worry in anything And yet they will put these things on display and they will want validation They want you to feed their ego And when you do that Make some feel alive Make some feel like there's something important something special So doing that and then pulling away Giving them that chance to chase you to chase your validation. Yes That will make them miss you And not only that but giving them a taste of what they want And that could be anything that could be Giving the narcissist money Giving them a place to stay Giving them a sex Giving them all of these things and then Cutting it off But then also kind of teasing them and enticing them with it Making them think that yes, you just need to put in the work You need to chase after me and then I'll give you Exactly what you're looking for When you do that, of course, it will make them think about you Because that's how you get them to miss you It's to get them to be thinking about you But of course Narcissists are not just gonna be thinking about anyone You've got to have something That leaves them to think so Another thing that you can do And This is a very effective tactic You give them a compliment But it's kind of like a sneaky Sly Like you kind of teasing them But they don't really know if you're teasing them or not So you kind of give them a compliment in a way where it seems where it could be sarcastic or it could be genuine and they don't actually know So it leaves them to think about it and I don't I don't know about you but sometimes You know, I've noticed on my own experience when I like someone I Can be quite awkward in some Social situations Where I do exactly that And it's not even I'm trying to manipulate someone it just comes out naturally And I've noticed in the past this really gets people addicted to me Where I'll say something and I could say it like gosh You look really beautiful today other than the other person is thinking Is this a genuine compliment or not? Does he actually mean it? And I'm thinking of my mind. Yes, this is a genuine compliment. This is actually how I feel in this moment But it leaves them wondering it leaves them wanting more Because they're not very sure whether you mean it or not This is effective with anyone But is it is especially effective with narcissist because as we know Yes, they are very insecure They are very concerned about superficial things Like their success and accomplishments their physical appearance all of their stuff So Yeah, you give them a little compliment and then you pull back And then you leave them to chase you and seek that validation that reassurance where it's like Did you actually mean that what you said? Or are you just having me on and that is how you want them to think You want them to wonder to ponder because otherwise If you just give somebody puzzle with all of the pieces if you just go out and do that They're just gonna put the pieces together then the puzzle is solved It's completed It doesn't leave them wanting more So of course what you have to do is give them a puzzle without all of the pieces there So that they have to come back to you To request the rest of the pieces and that's how it works. That's what makes it so effective But yes, of course, you do have to give them something You can't just cut them off altogether give them nothing and Expect them to chase you and miss you of course that's not gonna work because Someone else could come just around the corner And give them the very thing that you were withholding from them the very thing that they wanted And then of course they're not going to be thinking about you then Of course not even if that person Isn't half as attractive Or A successful or whatever it is that you may be They're still going to devote all of their attention to that person Because that person gave them something so Yeah, there's really no other way around it You do have to give them something for them to chase after Because narcissists they have very short attention spans They lack object consistency So believe it or not, but it is actually very easy for them to forget about you Unless you have something that made them attached to you So Yes, these are the tools see the things that have been Tried and tested they've been proven to work on many occasions At my own experience Other than Lee to me at the time, but When I look back I can see how it worked how it was effective And yes, you feed their ego You give them a little bit of what they want you give them a taste You lure them in you reel them in like imagine you've got a fishing rod And you're giving them the bait They bite on to it and then you're reading them in You're pulling them closer to you And then it's very hard for them to swim away So That's really what you have to do I mean it is In effect it is manipulation. Yes I mean for me in my past It's not really something I ever thought about something I've always done naturally Because typically in my own experience I do tend to Have a lot of resistance Towards the very things that I want And also at times the things that I don't want as well So at times it can be very difficult to tell what it is that I actually want Which is why Naturally at times I can come across as Socially awkward Believe it or not because I know you see me now And I seem like such a confident powerful person And I understand that But yes, there are other sides to me and when I am presented With something That I find To be very Attractive maybe challenging Then yes I do find that I Can kind of distance myself And then I want to release the resistance And I do that maybe by complimenting someone But because there's still a bit of resistance there doesn't come across as a genuine compliment Which leaves the other individual wanting more And Yeah, that really gets the retention when you do that I mean that is really where the power is And if you explore this Idea and you look into it yourself You will see that yes, it is very true Because The most powerful Compliment And this goes for insults as well the most powerful compliment or insult Is one which Wasn't intentional One that just happened by chance And then the next thing up to that is One that Was Deliberate but it didn't really come out right in the way that you intended And then what comes last is One that's pre-meditated it's pre-planned you already thought it out And you may have even been quite hesitant to say or do it and it comes across as Just very fake and ingenuous. It's obvious that Maybe you didn't really mean it or you only said it with the intention of manipulating that person And that is just Very unattractive when you do that That will just push the person away It won't make them miss you. It'll just make them think yes I've got this person all figured out and exactly what they want And I feel no desire or need to give it to them So yes, this is the psychology behind it And you would think that a man like myself With all of this knowledge and experience When I go out into the field Into the world As I have these interactions with real people in my life You might assume that it's very unnatural That everything is pre-meditated everything is planned out, but actually no almost never I am always in the moments And the interactions that I have with people are very real They're very real. I never Really plan anything out unless I feel like I'm in danger Then of course in those situations I might have to but then it's not going to be any fun And in those situations it's only designed to protect myself I'm not thinking about how I can advance or develop anything with another person But in actuality that is very rare for me anyway because I'm not really too concerned about that At this moment in time, I am really more focused on my own self-development And just becoming the best person that I can be Although I do like to share bits and pieces myself As well I do like to share my energy And just make other people happy But then I also don't mind walking away For me, yes, I actually enjoy The the act of Missing someone Yes, I can quite honestly say that I do enjoy that I personally believe that love is about letting go And that moment of separation Yes, it does leave you wanting more and I think that desire that I feel enough wanting more It's important. Yes, it has a place in our lives as well Especially when that desire Leads you to want to take action Then it can be very powerful I mean just that feeling of longing and yearning for something Yes, that can be very powerful as well It may be something that you don't really like in the beginning, but As time goes by It makes you feel something It makes you feel something And that's really what will help you with anything in life Because when you look at these narcissists and how they don't feel anything I can quite honestly say that I would rather feel Something Rather than nothing even if it is Just pain and despair I'd rather go with that But yes, this is what you have to do If you want the Narcissists to miss you Because I know I understand a lot of you Yes, you may be going through this process the situation Where certain things have happened you feel Unwanted By this individual You feel like They don't really want you they've always got their eye on someone else And you want to Reignite That passion That sexual Desire and yes, that is actually quite possible This is exactly how you do that It is by Feeding their ego And then pulling away because that leaves them wanting more And there's nothing wrong with that. I mean Yes, it may come across as manipulation, but it depends. What are you trying to do with it? Because everyone wants to feel attractive We want to feel sexy We want to feel like Someone just wants to rip our clothes off And do it now Of course, we want to feel like that sometimes A narcissist are no different At least some of them because Some narcissists can be asexual others can be Hypersexual and this can also change back and forth from moment to time But yes, that is really what you have to do Even with those narcissists who may come across as asexual This is how you reignite that passion And desire and make them Or rather leave them wanting more Yes, it's by feeding their ego giving them a little bit of validation, but also giving them compliments Whether they wonder Is this real? Is this true? Or is there a subliminal message behind it because by doing that It may frustrate them sexually and It may make them Want to develop and advance something with you It will make them think about you It will make them miss you So yeah, that's really what you have to do It really is that simple And yeah, there's nothing wrong Short term You want to have some fun with an narcissist? Just don't get your feelings too much involved And Just recognize it can be a bit of fun Maybe for one night stands maybe for a weekend I just wouldn't advise developing it into something long-term But yes, you can have some fun with them especially in the beginning And I think it's good for them too because You know, you have to remember that narcissists they are people They still exist and Yes, of course, they want fun too And a lot of them they're very frustrated with their lives So Even if it is manipulation You are giving them what they want you're not Harming them you're giving them something that they want Because yes, of course, we all want that passion We want that desire at times in our life And there's nothing wrong with that at all I think there is a Misconception when think when people think about manipulation and seduction It's only bad if it's intended to harm someone Especially if it's intended to harm someone over a long period of time and with intense pain suffering and misfortune Because of course remember sometimes you do have to be cruel to be to be kind So Yes, I think it is important to recognize The difference in that as well Because you have to recognize that if things were just All good and happy all of the time It would get boring very fast It really would And no one can really develop anything in that anyway Even in a normal relationship. Yes, there does have to be ups and downs There has to be a little bit of drama sometimes You just need to know when to pull the reins in on it when it's gone too far When it's no longer a game When shit gets real you have to know when to stop But having a bit of fun with it Especially when you're doing it with the intention of the other person's enjoyment Because yes, you know a bit of frustration here and there that can lead to even more satisfaction So Yeah, there's nothing wrong with making someone miss you a little bit. There's nothing wrong with that at all But that that does not give you this this green light Just go and harm and do whatever you want with this person Just because You think or you know that they are a narcissist And they're bad they're going out of their way to harm people Two wrongs do not make a right Just because someone did that to you it doesn't mean that you've got to go out And harm people as well, of course not You must still continue on your path And be who you are Be who you are supposed to be Be a good person a kind person A generous person within A reasonable limit, of course You must also be careful to Not cause any harm to yourself But yes, there's nothing wrong with having a little bit of fun now and again Teasing them enticing them There's nothing wrong with that at all I mean, we all like to play little games now and again But just don't let it go too far Where you see that it's putting someone in serious danger That's when your Empathy should kick in and you should recognize okay This is not a game anymore so Yes I would say that But if elation seduction it isn't completely Bad, of course. Yes, there are times When it is When you are deliberately misleading someone deliberately intending To harm someone But of course, this should be obvious. This should be common sense I mean, this isn't really something that I Should have to outline. I don't think And of course, I don't advise anyone to do that As I said two wrongs Do not make A right But yeah other than that if you want to make the narcissist miss you that's all you've got to do I mean I would say just to leave the narcissist alone You know if you're in a harmful situation And you're being manipulated and there's no Empathy or compassion for you Then you should probably get yourself out of that But yeah, I mean it's really your decision It's up to you What you want to do And of course What we do we may Then suffer the consequences of These actions so it's important to be aware of that as well But yeah, I didn't want this video to be too serious. It was just meant to be A bit of fun a bit of enjoyment. That's all So I hope you got something out of that And I hope it's helpful for you Maybe you can Have a bit of fun with an narcissist in your life and you know give them A bit of fun as well because as I said, yes, we are all people We all exist so Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with that although you do need to know When to pull away as well As I said, I recommend Just one-eyed stands, maybe a weekend If there's anything long term with attachments That's only going to cause problems for you It really is So I don't recommend that at all But if you're dealing with them short to You want to make them miss you then yeah, that's all you have to do So that's it. I hope this video was helpful for you If it was please give it a thumbs up down below Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. I read your commentary day Subscribe If you'd like to book a one-on-one with me, you can do that on my website It is narksurvivor.co.uk And Check out my instagram as well. 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