 So today's question is for all of you out there. I have two very similar questions that I'm going to read out to you and I want to know that if these people came to you for advice what would you tell them? So the first question is is it okay if my husband shares a cigarette with another woman? I don't like it but he says don't be silly she's just like a sister to me am I wrong or is it okay for him to do this? And the second question is my girlfriend follows her ex on Instagram they like each other's every single post I have told her I don't like this but she says there's nothing to it they're just friends but how can I trust her? So what do you think is it okay or is it not okay? If both of these people came to you for advice what would you tell them?