 Have you found the one? Or have you? Relationships are things every young person must confront at a point in their lives It is a considerate commitment too and shouldn't be hurried. Some people who have gotten into Relationships have fared quite well while some others not so well. According to the Jordan Harbinger show Every relationship has its problems. Even the happiest couples will hit a few bombs in the road But there are some issues that are more like giant summits than stumbling blocks Challenges can come up in the course of a relationship. The first instinct is to solve them However, some challenges can't be solved So how do you know if a relationship will last or not? In today's video I'm going to share with you 12 signs that show that a relationship will last One, you are always fighting. There's no relationship in which there are no fights Don't get me wrong fighting can be bad But it's also pretty normal. In fact, if you guys don't fight at all, it may be a problem However fighting all the time is a recipe for failure in every relationship This applies to built friendships and romantic relationships If all your partner can think of when they remember you is unhappy memories It is only a matter of time before they live. No one wants to be unhappy in a relationship and more importantly No one wants to imagine a future where there is only unhappiness. If you are always fighting with your partner It is time for a change. Ask yourself honestly. What do you fight about? Does your partner come to apologize each time you're done fighting in a relationship? People who apologize value their relationship more than they value being right. If your partner always does this Then maybe there's a shot. If they don't save yourself It'll only get worse. If you're unfortunate The fight may become physical and then you would have scars as memorabilia of a useless relationship You should have quit when you had the chance Two, when there is no trust This is perhaps the most important element. If you lie to your partner They will doubt everything else you have told them. If they can't trust you They will naturally not see a future. Tell them the truth at all costs and ensure to stay away from trouble A lipstick stain on your shirt left by a mischievous work colleague might not be seen as a joke by your partner Even if you had nothing to do with a person. If your partner can trust you that you're actually working where you are working They will also likely doubt that you own the car, your house and even earn the amount you have told them Even if you're not the one doubting if this continues over time talk to them about it You can't have your partner doubting you that way They may tell your kids that you are a liar if you talk to them and the persists with their distrustfulness It may be time to move on You don't want to spend the rest of your life in fear that your wife may wake up one day and murder you for Cheating on her with an imaginary woman. It is something that no one should have to deal with at all Three your partner seems happier when you're not around if you realize this through observation It may be time to consider other options You're supposed to make them happy or at least make them excited if your boyfriend or girlfriend suddenly gets dull every time You're around it is a clear sign that they may no longer want you They just don't know how to tell you if you have noticed that they have been quiet and cold and you try talking about it And they say they're not interested but the same person appears normal with her friends It may be a silent way of telling you that whatever is going on isn't working anymore No hard feelings though try looking for love elsewhere. There are millions of other women in the world There's always someone for you dedicate yourself to becoming a better version of yourself, but don't beat yourself up Sometimes it is the person who leaves that is at fault Some people are not mature enough to talk about their feelings like other people they can't blame you for that For your partner picks a fight with you This is a clear sign that the relationship is headed nowhere when people pick fights with you It is usually so that you get mad and then they will hold on to the situation as an excuse for breaking up It is a cheap technique for instigating a breakup whenever you see this happening. Just prepare yourself mentally Anyone who resorts to this probably thinks they would hurt you more if they just came out openly with their intentions It is a clear sign that the relationship is all likely to work out Five you can't really be yourself People need to be able to express themselves fully in every situation When they are in a relationship if they still feel a need to conform to a certain standard It is likely because you created that environment once it continues long enough your partner will begin to pull away Everyone wants to be understood. This is not different in a relationship if your partner feels judged or misunderstood It is a clear sign that the relationship will not last who does he or she talk to first when they have a problem If it isn't you then you have a problem according to Bustle for a relationship to last long term It is so important to feel like you can always be your genuine authentic self around your partner If you just started dating it might take a beat for you to open up and that's okay But if you find yourself walking on eggshells let you sleep up and reveal part of yourself You don't want to share with your partner. That's unsustainable in the long run Six you don't communicate as often anymore if both of you are always calling each other and texting late into the night And this changes it means that something has gone wrong Sometimes life happens you get a job and you just can't keep up anymore But even still you would find time to call and check in when you stop calling and check it in It is likely because you're tired of adding so much value without getting anything in return It is fun to be happy when you're 18 years old and are fresh out of college until you get a job This applies to both men and women little gaps in communication mean that the parties are moving on indirectly Seven you don't like their friends Imagine you met this girl at a networking event you exchange contact and went on a few dates then subsequently you started dating You then meet her friends. They're not anything like her They're loud and carefree and you wonder about her is she putting up a different front to fool you into a long-term relationship? From the friends you have met you're not comfortable with her anymore What would you do not to put you in the spotlight and all but that's what usually happens to young couples many of the time One of them will walk away eight. You notice your partner adopting your interests. This is a red flag in a relationship She should have her own things. She should have her own hobbies favorite shows and so on if she tries to adopt yours It means she may also want you to adopt hers It'll also mean that she will expect you to make many sacrifices because she's making them It is almost manipulative don't fall for it if she insists to her that maybe you guys should slow down It's another way of saying that you don't know if it'll work out 9 you feel undervalued Imagine traveling 100 miles to see your boyfriend during his graduation and realize that it doesn't even look that excited to see you He hugs you and goes off to do one thing and doesn't really give you any attention throughout the day Is this you stop making sacrifices for people who don't appreciate them you deserve better A person wouldn't love you simply because you have made sacrifices 10 your partner cheats on you If he cheats on you, it doesn't care about you enough There is no mistake in taking another woman to a hotel and sleeping with them while in a relationship Only people who don't respect or value the woman they are with behave this way if he cheats on you live him 11 your partner doesn't accept your faults if you always forgive him and accept all his faults and he can't accept yours This is a big problem It means that you will bear all the burden in the relationship in the future and that he will make no compromise Such a relationship is toxic leave while it's still early 12 your partner treats people poorly anyone who treats you poorly ultimately doesn't value you This is a problem in the long run those show their true colors. It's easy to pretend when the relationship is young It's only a matter of time in circumstances for them to treat you exactly like this people a man who doesn't respect this father is Unlikely to respect you don't think it doesn't apply to you run away from such people The signs are visible red flags to any observant person that they are wasting their time in a relationship You're better off on your own than with people who bring out the worst in you