 Now, let me be clear, as I say those words out loud, I have great amount of sympathy and empathy for anyone who's experienced pain in their life. There's no doubt about it. At the same time, the past is prologue. If you're still holding on to the pain, if there's still a charge over a past relationship, guess what happens is you bring that into a new relationship. Because now I wanna spend the next few minutes talking about what really matters most in this conversation, what you need to do instead. And that is completely heal from your past relationships. To come at, if you want to attract, I don't care if you call it a high value, high quality, good man, whatever it feels like for you, the right man for you.