 Hi, it's Frigid. Welcome to Above Life Channel. The purpose here is to inspire your spirit and to fill you with hope. Today, we're going to have a fun conversation with a dear friend of mine, Ms. Halle. And she is joining us from the lovely country of Ocanada. So we're doing like cross the borders kind of vibe going on here. And we are going to have a conversation with Freddie Mercury in the afterlife specifically about sex. Oh, yes. We are going to let Freddie talk with us about sex. And Halle and I actually had some conversation previously where she has listened and watched some of my videos. And she too also communicates with Freddie in the afterlife a lot. And so we've had conversations about that and about the topic of sex since I did do some channeling videos with other celebrities talking about this topic. So I thought it would be fun for the three of us, since Halle, you know Freddie so well, to just try to have a candid adult conversation. And by adult, I don't mean X-rated. I mean adult as in mature conversation. Now, with Freddie, that may not happen. He's playful and fun. But we're going to see what comes out. All right. All right. So Halle, hey, thanks for coming on with me and being willing to have this unique conversation. I should also mention that Halle is also a medium. And she does intuitive connection as well. So someone that I, a good friend of mine that we can have real accurate conversations like this. So for all of you who don't know her, there you go. OK. So should we bring them in? I mean, he's already here, you guys, for those of you who don't sense or know. I literally get hot. All of a sudden, I am like warm. I feel it in my heart. And it's not an attraction thing, friends. It's definitely an energetic thing, as Freddie is such an empathic energy for me. That's how I connect with him, and so I feel him that way. But this topic is hot. So I'm sure he's going to be real fun with that. But I do see yellow. I'm going to tell everybody. I do see yellow, which is solar plexus spirit, which is also on purpose. So there is a deeper, besides the fun we're going to have, a deeper purpose and meaning to having this conversation now. Very intimate and also playful, OK? Because we can talk about serious topics or very important topics and also still enjoy the conversation that we have and the energy around it. So that's what I feel, Halle. I'm not sure how do you connect and receive Freddie as he's kind of stepping in here? He is very playful. I don't know what he's going to say. You told me. You could tell everybody. You told me before we started that you're like, I tried to get it out of him, but he wouldn't tell me. Right? All right. So we're just going to have conversation as though Halle and I are just having to talk about Freddie, and you guys just get to listen in on us talking with them. OK? Real casual. OK. So all right, Fred. You've been waiting to have this conversation. It's a bit early for me to be talking about sex, but hey, whatever. It's a dreary day outside. It could be a good day to just lay in bed and hang out. Is there anything initially out of the gate here that you would like to, I want to say, focus on or share with us about this topic? It's interesting. I literally feel like monogamy and relationships. He's kind of showing me a list of things that he and I have talked about previously around the topic of sex without actually talking about sex. He's telling me what I feel him saying is that this is a transcendent thing. This is something that is important, and he's saying like it's transcendent. Like sex in a human body, there's nothing like it. Like he's talking to me about the energy of the sensuality of it, the sensory. He's making me feel like eating a really good meal, like a good hamburger, like eating that meat. And for my friends who are vegan, sorry, eating a really good chocolate cake that's totally vegan, flourless chocolate cake or whatever. It's like that. It's like something, eating something that's so decadent or so super salty on the mouth, or super sweet, or something that just, ooh, just really very sensory. And he's likening it to eating. And saying that it is transcendent with the body that he, part of the information that comes through, the way I'm translating it, is that the senses or the sensory pieces are what makes it so incredible, what makes it so worthwhile and worthy. It's not necessarily the partner that you have or the partnership. It's the fact that there is the ability for bodies to intertwine and to come together, whether it's for a nighttime or a lifetime, like he'd say, nighttime or lifetime. It's interesting because I literally want to ask him about monogamy. What does he think about like monogamous relationships and stuff, but I know that that's not the intent. I'm trying to talk around this topic of sex. It feels like he was very polyamorous in his relationships and at that time, maybe even people would say promiscuous or one night stand type things, but I don't necessarily feel that to be true. It feels more like the interactions that he had with people were playful and open and we're all adults here. He says, we're all adults here. We're all adults here. We all make our own choices. And the feeling of feeling good in our bodies is something that can be wonderful, blissful, blissed out. And he's like, blissed out when it's shared. He's like making me feel very taunt-er, you guys. So taunt-er is like sacred sex. He's like making me feel like it's very taunt-er. Like he's showing me very much the third eye, the crown, very like spiritual, but not deep core spiritual, just like this. Oh, everything's great. Like kind of like champagne, like bubbles in your head, like that is what he's giving me as far as being with people. And then he's also, he is showing me, I won't let you talk, Callie, any time you want me. He is showing me also multiple partners at the same time. So for those of you who are even remotely curious about that, yes, that is 100% illegitimate, accurate expression and experience that he certainly did have. So there's no judgment here about any of this, about polyamory, about monogamous relationships, about marriage or partnerships or anything like that or sex partners types of sexual arrangements or anything like that. There's no judgment at all. Please everybody just know that here on Above Life channel. So try to mind your P's and Q's in the chat. All right, so how do you feel Hallie about some of this stuff? That was a whole litany of things. And we know, cause you and I have talked that I skirt around the topic cause I try to stay a little more PG-13 in my work just because then YouTube, you know but this is a special thing. So we're going to classify it as such so YouTube doesn't get mad at me. So how do you feel about all that stuff, all those topics? Anything grab you that he's saying to say, Bridget's not saying this. Well, because you know that's the truth. What he's saying is just say it girl, just say it with the red face, just say it. We talked about being on camera. We are thinking of just doing audio but we're trying to do this on camera and this might end up just being an audio anyway because I feel like a high school kid, girl or like a teenager. What's he saying, Hallie? What's he saying? He's saying it's the connection. It's the whole body connection but it's also a soul connection at the same time. And it's not sex is more than just the active intercourse. Just the active intercourse. It's a whole body of work from beginning to end. He said, the sensual part of just like running your fingers down the spine of your partner. He does this thing at the chin. I can do this chin thing like that. Yeah. Just kissing every part of them. It's a whole thing. Interesting, his mouth. I can see his mouth. He's a little braggy about his mouth. Do you notice that? Yeah. Doesn't he feel like, look at these lips. Wouldn't you want these lips on your body? He's like, look at these lips. Look at these lips. Fred, I have to say though that yeah, those lips. Yeah, very nice lips. But so the type of partner or body type of partner, does that really matter? Now that you're an afterlife spirit, I know you're reflecting on human expression, but how do you feel about that insights, insights onto that body type? Cause I'm looking at your lips going, hmm, a lot of women love you. He's kind of like been there, done that. Did you get that five? Oh yes. Been there, done that. But he's really explicit. You guys, I'm just being really super transparent. He like shows us pictures. You see that, Hal? Yes, I do. I'm just like, oh my God. So this is not supposed to be pornographic, but it's okay, you guys. We can't, our third eyes, both Halle and I, do see clairvoyantly. I should probably mention that. How we get information is very similar, clairvoyantly. Halle does have more of a, I would say more of a kindred, more of a developed friendship with him, where he's going to be more, he's going to push me and think it's funny, but with you, he'll literally just talk to you. So when it comes to partner or body type, is there anything that he has to share about that? And that's kind of feeling to that. I see a lot of yellow based upon what you said about the soul connection, but I'm focusing on his lips, maybe because speaking our truth, or bringing his gifts into the world, his lips through his mouth, but also then the sensory to receive that way and to give that way, because he's literally, I see a woman's body and I see him, let me just say this without totally saying this, like seeing him give to a woman is what I'm saying. And that doesn't fit what we know intellectually of Freddie Mercury and his sexual preferences and partnerships. But then he says to me, Ben, you're done that. But what he's saying is, like he has a different perspective as well, because he's in the laugh after like, yes, he preferred men when he was alive in life, but he said, now it doesn't matter. It's because he doesn't see the sexes as male and female anymore. And he said, it's more of what's inside. That's the connection that he makes. For those of our friends in the LGBTQ plus I, et cetera, community, yes, like pansexual, as far as orientation is much more the vibe, which is to be fair, that's kind of how I would describe what I have shared about sexuality in general, when I feel spirits in the afterlife or spirits now, because it really feels like, like I always get such a, the hypocrisy is crazy in humanity about certain people, especially it seems like men, sometimes women too, where they're very like staunch and they're, well, I would never be with a man or I would never be with a woman. It has to be the opposite sex, not the same sex, and oh, I would never, I could never. That's not the way, the right way, when spirit and us, each of us in our spirit essence is both male and female. We're both both. So when you reject one concept or thought or ideology, you're rejecting a part of yourself. And then the afterlife, this all kind of comes together as one wholeness. So kind of the vibe that Freddie's talking about to me, when you say that, Hallie, as an interpretation of what he's sharing, it feels like God and goddesses. We're all gods and goddesses. It reminds me of the Hindu God aspect, goddess, God aspect Ganesh or Ganesha, which is the elephant, the blue depicted blue elephant, a deity. And for me, it's both Ganesh, Ganesha, like every time I channel that energy and I get Ganesh, Ganesha energy in that beautiful elephant, it's really both male and female, and it's not one or the other. And so that's kind of the vibe that I get from Freddie when he's trying to show that this is transcendent. Yes. It's transcendent. We can talk about sex in the human form. Yes, absolutely, but it's transcendent. And it kind of feels like he's saying it has its roots in spirituality, in spirit. Yes, yes. The roots of sex, it comes from spirit, not just from the core need of humanity to reproduce. He's like, it comes from the need and the desire for the connection through joy, through the joy, just the joyful like, ooh, like he makes me feel like the liquid, like I'm gonna be real, I'm gonna be just as open and explicit as I can be without being too graphic, but he's literally showing me through the flow of the fluids in the body that that is like a golden elixir and that it is literally medicine for the mind and that the body needs sex to let the mind release energetically. Now, I'm sure there's gonna be doctors and psychologists and people that say, oh, that's endorphins and oh, that's the same kind of thing you get when you're a runner and you run past a certain point and you just get endorphins released and the serotonin and whatever it is in the brain, the cortisol or whatever it is that stress relief, that's true. It's like this magic elixir and he's showing me the yellow, he's showing me the representation of body fluids that release when we have sex, whether it be in our mind chemicals or in the actual physical act of having sex with another person or multiple people, it feels like this is something that is a core need and it's from the spirit trying to be in service to the human body and making the link, the truest relationship for the human expression between the mind and the body because the mind and the body and the heart and the soul are like their alliances, like their couples, okay? And these couples are like the heart and the soul to me is like a couple and the mind and the body is like a couple but the soul and this couple is like, hey, body, yeah, okay, let me help you out, kind of thing. I really wanna support you and encourage you to be more present to your partner at the mind. So here's how you can do this and it expands, it opens the opportunity for not even a deeper connection but a more fulfilling, more fulfilling and robust connection. And again, it comes back to then almost that energy of tauntra, sacred sex. That's how it feels to me at least. When I'm looking at him, I'm like a harem of women or a harem of men, it doesn't matter, it's a harem. It's the many is what he's showing me that an opportunity to be with many and he's sharing, isn't about, okay, so we talk about the numbers of sex partners, let's have this conversation. Isn't about the, this need to like prove yourself or be this, be all that or have like, it's not because something isn't enough. He's saying it's because it's so much that it's beautiful that you wanna share it. It's almost like a hippie vibe. Like free love, let's share the love. Like legitimately, you guys, it literally feels like expression of love from him. And while you might say, oh, yeah, he just is, the desire that he has is off the charts and stuff or and maybe enhanced by drugs or ecstasy or whatever it might be, whatever at that time. But the truth is, is genuinely, it feels like a freedom of expression of love. Just sharing love, receiving love and it's not commitment-based or non-committal and it's not even outcome-based. It's really about the process of the exchanging where also, he's also showing me it was a different time then. And so safe sex wasn't a thing as much as it is now, obviously, especially at that time with all the when AIDS became, started to really, people became really aware of it and all of a sudden it's like everywhere and it's like this. And then we go through like STDs and now STIs and all that kind of stuff. We've been through many iterations of sexual education and body wellness and sexual health and wellness and stuff like that. But he's showing me like, remember it was a different time then. It was a different time then. But it doesn't, that's not to say that now you can't still find yourself in places or situations where you can have the ability to feel free to express and exchange love and also be safe, healthy and well in regards to that. Also, obviously I wanna be like responsible here and say that for everybody that's listening, make sure you're having safe sex everyone, public service announcement. But I find that interesting because he's literally showing, literally showing me the multiple partners, the harems. Do you see that vibe too? Have you guys talked about that Hallie at all? Yeah, we have. Okay, are you comfortable sharing anything that he shared with you? Because he knows that I'm like, I don't know how much I can talk about that. I don't care, bro, but... Well, I mean, he did in his life, he had multiple partners at one time. It was, I mean, I think up to about 10 partners at one time and it was just, it was just a coming together. It's like a party, the 10 people looks like a party. Yeah. It shows, I see multiple genders, male and female at the same time. And it's more like everybody's having sex in the same room, not everybody's on the same bed, having sex with each other at the same time. I wanna be really clear, that's what I see. Yeah, yeah, it's not that they... It's like a lounge or a house and people are just in their own kind of little cocoon space kind of thing. But it's not like hiding it. You gotta hide it, you gotta hide it. There's no shame. That's the multi-million dollar thing. There's no shame around the having of sex. There's no shame around it. Like having to hide it, you know? Or being ashamed of the body at all. There's none of that. And he also shares, I mean, what you like to do, whether you want to do some role playing or whatever, it doesn't matter. He said, as long as it's between two or more consenting adults, and nothing is off limits, but he stresses the consenting. He said, if another person is not comfortable, I would never do it. Because I'm not forcing myself by power onto anybody. They have to want to receive it. So just because you're Freddie Mercury, did you feel that sense of responsibility to have to kind of maybe gauge somebody else's actual willingness to participate in like a three-some, four-some, let's just be clear, four-some, five-some. Because it looks like literally there were like multiple people to get it. And men and women, I'm gonna be clear on that. I don't just see a bunch of men. I do see women also. That's accurate, right? Yeah. Even later on when he, everybody knows he's gay basically. It's like the worst kept secret kind of thing. But did you feel responsibility, Freddie, about that? I mean, to discern or whatever, because there's also alcohol involved and there's also other things happening. So how did you handle that, that part of it? Because you're Freddie Mercury, man. You're Freddie Mercury. So you could kind of exert your influence if you really wanted to do that. How did you handle that? Oh, he says, the vibe I'm getting is that it's important to have people around you that you trust. So that if you are in a place where your judgment isn't paired or your judgment isn't quite so good, he says, I'm not an angel, I'm not perfect. I'm not a saint. I am not a saint. I'm not a saint. I'm like, yeah, we know, I'm not a saint. But he's like, you have to trust the people around you because someone will inevitably kind of be that checks and balances or ask or kind of be like, he says, and like energetically, you can feel when you're not, it's not right and you just, you have to be willing to pull back or you also have to trust the people that come into your space to be able to have autonomy to make their own choices. And if they, it's hard to gauge if someone else is saying that they wanna be with you because it's you or because you're a famous person. He's like, you never really know that. And you just have to give them the benefit of the doubt that it's just about sharing and feeling good and feeling joy, that joyful energy, that life kind of like that sourcing energy from each other and just what is feeling good. Interesting, I also see, I do see some like, I don't say rough sex stuff, but he says, that's more private. He's like, that's more, that's not like necessarily a group setting, Bridget. He's like being really clear. Did you just see that? He literally like closed the doors and said, that's a little more private. And I can see that with like three, at least three people, like there's three of them. I can see that too. So we're just gonna out Freddie in all these ways and share all these little intimate details because he is super comfortable being forthright and honest about things. And I think it's good to have healthy talk about sex, especially when it's consenting adults, like you said, how he consenting adults. So, all right. So anybody else famous you ever slept with, Freddie? He's showing me parties. Like I can see other famous people at his parties. So I can see other famous people kind of enjoying things at his parties, but I don't know, has he slept? It looks like he has, but I don't know if I should say it. It looks like, we might get in trouble. Can we get sued for that? I think we could. Would you, well, let's say Halle, what can you say without exactly naming names politically about other people at his parties where things were pretty open, sexually open, expressive? Oh, maybe just that people that traveled in the same circles as him. Men and women. Yes, men and women, yes. Yeah. Yes, one person's coming to mind, but there's still actually two people, but they're still alive and I don't want to get into trouble. Yeah. So, okay, so is there anything else around in this environment or this arena that we should tap into that I'm not paying attention to? Let's just kind of see something blue. So that's like third eye again, that's like our point. I'm getting a lot of visual images, are you? I think he thinks it's hilarious to show him stuff. Yeah. Geez, Freddie, like, I still want to say it's like spiritual pornography, you know, it's like spiritual porn, you know? I'm like, okay, okay, okay, third eye board, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. Which I also don't want to, again, non-judgment or anything like that. I just wear adults here. So, all right, so what else? People have asked about his relationship with Jim and I'm wondering if we should touch them that or not. Are you comfortable talking about that? Hallie, do you have conversations with him about that? Are you comfortable talking about that? Yes, yeah, I'm comfortable talking about that. Okay, are you cool with talking about actual relationships, Fred? He's like, you're trying to redirect again. Okay, is there anything I'm missing about the sexuality piece or sexual expression piece that should be talked about that we should talk about? So, I literally just heard tools. So, I heard, like he's gonna make recommendations from the afterlife. Poor sex toys. Yeah, no, I don't think so. You know, wouldn't that be, what a psychic business that would be? Adults, discovery tools from famous afterlife celebrity guests. Wow, I can make millions on above-life channel. Wow, maybe I could pay the bills with that. I think he's just pulling my leg, but I don't know, let me just see it. There's other things in this field that, he's like, it's not stereotypical. Things are not straight forward. Oh my God, Freddie Jesus. Okay, all right. Ooh, can we talk about sex and spirituality before we shift into maybe talking about relationship with Jim, can we talk about sex and spirituality? Like a religion, religious stuff and religious views. So, people who are religious and who've been taught certain things about sex, that it's about reproduction. And it's like, I'm not just talking even just definition, but definition of like a man and a woman or whatever that is. And for the purpose of having babies and stuff. Like this whole conversation blows that all out of the water, which we all know, I think most of the people who watch Above Life Channel are much more open and understanding about different perspectives and attitudes about relationships and sexuality and sexual expression and the actual act of having sex with another person. I think it'll be interesting to hear because he came from a very religious family and background. So, what is there anything about that that you, Fred, would wanna share that might actually help other people like shed a light on maybe how they're feeling themselves or understanding how that still fits in, how you can still be religious and a sexual person, a person that does wanna express and connect with others in human form sexually? He's like, now we're getting somewhere. He said, yeah, it's a hard topic. You can't tell people what to believe or what to believe in. He says, it feels like it's deeply personal. And he says, like for me, it's my family and respect for my family. I didn't wave it in their face and it was out of respect for my family and for the values that I was raised in. And it's not that I felt like ashamed of myself and yet like many, I struggled with my sexuality because it wasn't the normal thing. It wasn't something you saw on television like you do now. It wasn't like there were gay characters and that were the main characters and movies about that or anything like that. It wasn't that, he says. So, but it's not necessarily that I tie shame to it, he's saying, but there definitely is a lot of mix of emotion. And so that I think he's saying transcend, that is true now. That would be true now for anybody. And especially, and even if you're straight, even if you're heterosexual, that having sex, when to have sex is okay in marriage, out of marriage and some of that stuff seems to be dictated by your family values, how you're raised, he says, and by the religion and this understanding of what God is and how you relate to the God or the concept of God, this is deep. And he's like, this is deep. But God, the embodiment of God for some was Jesus, for others was other, there were other forms, you know, Buddha, Allah, except Muhammad, et cetera, whoever, all the people, right? There are many adaptations of the incarnation of God. And if the human body is made in the image of God, then we are all competent, capable, able, I can't pick the right word that he would say, competent, capable, able, pick one, to make decisions that are best for us, but at the same time, honoring the values and beliefs that raised us, got us to this point. And he's saying, it's not that I rejected my religion, it's not that I was angry or felt abandoned from that or I was afraid I would be rejected. He's like, it's not about that. There is a mix up of feelings and emotions, that's for everybody. And it's also a very personal thing, religion and sex, just like politics, very personal thing. So to kind of move through that the best way you can, he's like, you just gotta be honest with yourself. You gotta be honest with yourself and you gotta be willing to love yourself and to let yourself be free of what you think maybe the past taught you to let yourself be open to maybe different ways of looking at things or experiencing the world. And that's just, and he's saying, that's just in general, that's like life information, not just like sex information or relationship information. That's just general. Like he's not giving me the vibe that religion screwed him up or anything or religion screws people up. He's just really articulating it from a personal perspective. Do you get anything to add on that, Hallie? I think the key there is loving yourself and knowing your own beliefs. You say you have to be comfortable with what you believe not what anybody else is telling you. And if you feel that this is right for you, then do it. Don't let anybody else dictate how you should live your life. You have to live it for yourself. I think that the energy that he is presenting very strongly and I hope those of you who are clear sentient empathic, which most of you are, if you're Freddie fans, that's exactly how he connects with you and his heart space. You'll feel this that he's presenting this as very much he wasn't in your face with his family. He wasn't like, I got to fight because you're the opposite of me and this is who I am and this is what I believe. And so now I'm gonna have conflict with my family. It was this is who I am and how I feel about myself and this respect for his family and how his family feels. And that's not the same. Everybody does not have that same experience. Everybody does not have a family that would be loving or accepting. And it's not, he's not making me feel like there's fear of not being accepted. There's just this level of feeling like and it's not that he's isolated either. He just literally owns it as his own identity and part of himself and doesn't think that it's something that has to be accepted by his family in order to validate that who he is. Do you know what I mean? It's like the response back effect. It's kind of fascinating you guys because people who come out and people who have the, oh God, how do I see this? The understanding of identity and sexual identity and if you're struggling with that or if you've been through this process you understand what I'm sharing here is that there's like this almost like this need to be validated by saying that or coming out when really you got to come in. You got to like be comfortable in your own skin enough to advocate for yourself inside of yourself to let the old patterns or the values that are outdated for you. It's like an old computer program. You don't use the old computer programs with the new technology. You get the new phone, you get the next technology. This is the same thing, the next values that are yours but not maybe your family's but it doesn't mean the family's bad and you're good or it doesn't mean you're accepted or rejected, it doesn't have to be that way. It's more coming in to yourself, not coming out. Hey everybody, here I am. But I think that there is a pressure or a feeling of by not articulating that or by not making it a thing in your family that it would be maybe like hiding it or feeling ashamed but he's not making me feel any kind of shame about that. The only shame that I feel when I feel Freddy about his sexuality is in his relationship with Mary. And as soon as he knew, it wasn't right away. He didn't come out and tell her. It was a while, a while. Cause he wanted to make sure it wasn't just a fad, a kind of a passing curiosity, not curiosity. That's kind of disrespectful to say it that way. That's not what it is. But it kind of feels like he started having, he started becoming unfaithful, having some experiences with men. And because it wasn't with a woman, it didn't feel like it was being unfaithful to Mary, yet he deeply loved Mary and connected with her as a human, like a pansexual, kind of overarching spiritual love energy, the God goddess's love energy. And yet at the same time in human form, he definitely had a preference. And once he realized that it was a preference, that's when he was, that's when he had to tell her. And that was heartbreaking, you guys. Heartbreaking for him, that legitimately was heartbreaking. And I think that he, I don't know if he ever really got over that in this lifetime. Yeah, I mean, that was the biggest concern of it. He did not want to hurt her. He loved her with all his heart and soul. And he knew this would hurt her. And he always struggled with that. And he's so grateful that Mary remained in a part of his life, that she accepted him for who he was. And they continued their relationship, not exactly the same relationship, but in some ways it brought them even closer. Right, right. And I wonder how Jim really felt about that. And maybe we should be channeling Jim and have a conversation with him about that. I don't know if he talked to me to be honest with you. But that brings us back then to Jim and the conversation of his relationship with Jim. So I get this feeling that Jim was more of a, not a Mr. Right, like a perfect partner, but somebody that, I don't wanna say Mr. Right now. I don't wanna be disrespectful. But I feel like it feels like it was somebody that he could trust, that Freddie felt like he could trust, but not somebody, but it feels like Jim had a little bit of insecurities, a lot of insecurities. Even if they had, I feel like in their relationship had multiple partners at the same time together. I feel like they had some, and I'm not gonna say polyamory going on, but definitely some multiple partners coming into their relationship as what it looks like to me, at least early on, and then maybe after a while settling down and not having that. Almost like a little bit of a border. Okay, let's say it this way, Hallie. Do you see what you think of this open relationship? Yes. Do you feel that? Yeah, okay. I feel that too. And I think people who are very monogamous or are very focused on like one person at a time kind of thing, I mean, one person relationships, which is traditional. Let's just be honest, that's the majority of like what's presented now. Values wise too, everybody just like, commonly, I shouldn't say everybody, commonly accepted, that's the majority, right? I think people have a hard time accepting the fact that they were in an open relationship, but it wasn't articulated that way. So I think people think that Jim cheated, because I think that they kind of expect Freddie to be able to do that. And I don't know if it's because he has more power, he has more clout or whatever, but I think that's wrong. And I think that what people are picking up on as far as the relationship and not feeling good to Jim after Freddie died, especially has kind of angst about it and that nitpicking stuff with Mary and it seems like nitpicking, I think that Jim genuinely was hurt. And I think that he wanted more of a focused attention relationship with Freddie and he didn't really ever feel like he fully had that. And I don't think it was because of other sex partners. I think it was because of Mary. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, Jim knew, I think, I don't know if it's the right word, it's his place, but he knew Mary was number one. And that always bothered him. And that's where he focused his anger after Freddie died, but it wasn't really anger towards Mary. It was just anger that Freddie was gone. And so he took it out on Mary more than anything else. He has a lot of hurt. Yeah. A lot of hurt. I can see a lot of hurt there. I am also going to say too, that I don't think that it doesn't feel to me like and maybe Freddie can validate this, that when he was with Mary, that he was with multiple partners with her. Like I don't think the three of them or the two of them were together with other people. I don't see that at all. I see her very much like, okay, well, this is where you are and this is who you are. And I'm going to love you, but it's going to be different. Yeah. And I legitimately think that that's how it evolved. And I think other people maybe might look at their relationship and think, oh, well she's just a freeloader then. She just stuck around because of the fame. Cause come on, let's be honest. People would think that I would think that until you talk to Freddie. And especially the way that Mary is vilified in the media and in books and through fans. But the fan thing I think, especially with women, it feels like a jealousy or an envy to me. I think that's a lot to do with it. Yeah, a lot to do with it. I think there's a lot of women fans that feel kind of almost this jealousy energy because Mary's still alive too. So Freddie is communicating with Mary just as much as he's communicating with you or could communicate with you. And we all know that she is definitely, he is definitely communicating with her. He is definitely connected to her. We know that you and I, like we know and he can maybe validate, should we ask him? Fred, are you hanging out with Mary or are you still connected to Mary in this lifetime? Yes, very much. Very much, yeah. He did not like her first husband. Is she divorced? Yes, she is. Okay, cause he did not like him. Really? He's like, but she has to make her own choices. She's a grown woman and I'm not gonna get involved. But if she asks me what I think, I will tell her what I think. But I am not gonna get involved because I've made, he's saying I've made plenty of bad choices. So it's easy for everybody. He's kind of like, it's easy for everybody to judge Mary for her choices because every, you know, but, but me, because she only has one or two mistakes and I have hundreds of them. That's kind of what I'm saying. Indiscretions, he says. Hundreds of indiscretions. And she has like a couple and it's like, oh my gosh, how dare she? Yeah, no. I didn't expect her to be a maid, an old maid. It's like kind of a joke too. He's like saying, don't be an old maid, Mary. Don't be an old maid. You can't be an old maid. And you know, I think a lot of the way fans treat Mary too is because she's so private. I mean, she has never really opened up after Freddie died about anything. She's kept that personal to herself and even garden lodge. I mean, like she lives there that's almost like a shrine to her. She doesn't want to share it with all the fans and they resent her for her. But I can see her point of view. I mean, it's like a sacred spot for her. You know, it's interesting. It reminds me of other places like Graceland with Elvis and here in Minnesota, Paisley Park with Prince, fans have a lot of opinions about it. And I think it's because we as fans as human beings, when these icons transition, they're like so legendary. They literally are like a saint or a goddess or a deity kind of thing that they seem so much larger than life even in the afterlife that we want to immortalize them and memorialize them in ways that where we could go pair respects or go visit or that kind of a thing. And so I think that's a natural thing, especially because we like have graveyards and cemeteries and have things like that. And I think that's natural way of grieving or collective grief. But I also think it is really a huge hardship on the family, the people who really knew that person as a person. Because famous people are people. And just because they're in the public eye doesn't mean we own a right to them. Just because you buy their music or go to their, you're receiving their gift. You should pay for that. You should feel like you're receiving their gift. You're contributing to them and they're giving to you. It's an exchange. It's a balanced exchange, but they don't owe you anything else. They don't owe you more information about their lives. They don't owe you more, more this or more that or what like when people retire like out in John just, I think his last concert in Minnesota, he just had or something they were talking about in the radio or something. And like as a big deal and that he might be, he's retiring or whatever it is. Well, they have a right to do that. We don't own them. Yeah, they're wealthy. Yeah, they have, but they've given up a lot of their privacy. So I think Mary holding onto her privacy is in a way kind of keeping Freddie as a human. Yeah. As that he was also a person, right? Frock, frock as a person. Broke, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Wow, the sex talk really got intimate and talking about relationships. We talked about Jim and Mary. People are gonna string us up. Just so you know, Hallie. I know. Don't read the comments. Do not read the comments. Like Fred would say, don't read the tabloids. Yeah. Don't read the trash. It's only good for lining the litter boxes, right? Woof, okay. So is there anything else Hallie that you want to share or express about the topic of sex or relationships or anything that he's brought up? I love that he's breaking some molds here. I really appreciate that. I think that's awesome. Especially for people who can relate to different types of relationships and different sexual orientations and that kind of a thing. I think that's awesome. The only other thing I wanted to mention, he was always conscious of who he was. So when he started a relationship, that was always in the back of his mind. Do they want me for me or do they want me for Freddie Mercury and what? Because you're not even, it's not even a relationship with just Freddie. It's the whole lifestyle of him because of who he is. And so, and that's one of the reasons why he felt so comfortable with Mary because he was with Mary before he was famous. Mary was the one that was paid the bills at first. So he knew that she loved him for him and not the money, not the fame. And that was always something. He says, I kind of screwed it up in some ways because he always challenged, he would challenge people to see how far he could push them to see if he could push them away because if they really loved him for him, they would probably say, I'm not putting up with this crap. But if they loved him, loved the fame more, they would take anything just to be in that lifestyle. Right, who are your real friends kind of? Yeah, yeah. That's a lonely place. Yeah, I've had that conversation with Prince also. Yeah, it's a very lonely place. And he said that's one of the reasons why he connected with Jim so well is because Jim didn't put up with it. Jim actually left about one point and Freddie had to go begging to him, maybe not begging, but Freddie had to reach out to him because Jim said, I don't care who you are, I'm not putting up with this crap. That was when he was a little too wild, it seems like. Yeah, yeah. Because he would kind of, you guys, he would get, he gets creative, just like he's creative in music and a lot of energy. It seems like his sex drive was a lot of energy at times. Like he would go in spurts is what it looks like, like almost not sex addict, but very much active sex drive is what I see. And then also times where there's just not that and he could be very just monogamous and very just very contented, and then like spurts of like, I want, I really need to feel excitement and alive and that is through different partners. That's what it, just to be really frank with everybody, that's what it looks like to me. Like open relationships his whole life is what it looks like to me. But he also says there's nothing really wrong with an open in relationship because you have more love to give than just one person. Right, that's what I'm saying, yeah. I would not give it as long as the other person accepts the open relationship as well. Right, and I want to be clear, it's not because he had fame and he thought, well, I can do this because I'm pretty mercury and if you don't like it, well, I'm just not going to deal with it. It wasn't like that. He genuinely was just a loving, kind of a lovable, kind of a wanting to be in connection with people, having a lot of energy and charisma, but a lot of sexual energy. That's the probably one of the best ways to describe that. A lot of sexual energy. I can feel it at the root chakra. I can feel it very expressive. And then it's like having sex very vocal, very vocal. And that like even singing and kind of getting into a place of singing could almost be like orgasmic for him. Like that his voice is connected to that sexual kind of spark, sensuality. Just fire, there we go. Fire energy, that alchemy. I can feel that, definitely. Okay, all right. Is there anything else you want to share, Hallie? Well, I don't think so. I think we've covered a lot of- How do you think he feels about this conversation? He's saying he tried to behave himself. I think he did good. Yeah, I think he did too. Freddie, you did wonderful. Thank you. And he's like not trying to push Bridget's buttons too much, you didn't, you were fine. And I'm like a teacher going, come on, let's focus, let's focus. So, good, all right. All right, well, thank you, Hallie. My friend from Canada, my psychic friend. Thank you everybody here on Above Life Channel on YouTube. This is a little unique, huh? Conversation with Freddie Mercury in the afterlife, a sex talk for you guys to listen to. And we need to just talk about sex, maybe. We talked about relationships, different types of relationships and understanding the energy of our senses and sensuality in our body and expression of love and all of the things that go around these topics and kind of bring them together for connection. So thank you guys so much for being here. I hope you've enjoyed this conversation with Freddie Mercury in the afterlife as always. I hope that we have inspired your spirit and filled you with some hope. That quite doesn't fit here. Don't you list some fire? Hopefully you've lit your fire today on Above Life Channel on YouTube. Don't forget to check out their playlist if you wanna learn more about Freddie Mercury in the afterlife. We've had tons of conversations. He's very much an advocate for empaths. He's talked a lot about love, self love, unconditional love, just really a beautiful sweet soul to be connected to and through in the afterlife. And you can also connect with him on your own as well. I do have a meditation on that playlist that can help you do just that again. That's the playlist here at Above Life Channel on YouTube. Thanks so much for being here. Thank you, Hallie. Thank you for having me. You're welcome. Thank you very much. All right, so we're gonna end this recording now here.