 If I want to learn, let's say I only knew English and I want to learn Spanish, is all Spanish within me? If I want to live in China, is all Chinese within me and I go inward? No, you actually have to go outward and find another person who speaks Chinese and the best thing you can do is go live in China and it rubs off on you, your social circle. So change your social circle, change your living and dead advisors and you change your bank account forever.