 people will not on or there will not be any change, but then a gentle word is It can even break a bone strong enough then we also see that It's it's it is like cold water to a weary soul refreshes the person When the right words are good news First a good news, but the right words are spoken and and also that if one does not rule over his own spirit or her own spirit Then it's we make ourselves Very very vulnerable It's like a city that is broken down that is without walls. So there's no protection there is we are open to all kinds of attack and And so is the person who does not have a self-governing ability, right? So of course if a person does not have a self-governing ability then the words they speak also will be you know without self-control right harsh words Words that are spoken which are without self-control may be spoken in Spoken in anger and so on so it's like we place ourselves in a vulnerable position It's like a city that is broken down that does not have security does not have walls So, of course, we don't want that so scriptures warning us today. They are reminded today of this right, so let's let's pray and Let's ask the Lord to You know give us this ability to use these kind of words Let's pray Father we we thank you this morning that for this reminder about words appropriate words gentle words We thank you for the reminder that Yeah, God that Words that refresh a person's soul and person's spirit Father we thank you that for the reminder that when we do not have self-governing ability We place ourselves in the world a very vulnerable position open for attack God be Lord we do not want that so God we thank you for this Reminder and warning father God we pray that Me our hearts Be filled with your words Lord Maybe be filled with your spirit Lord and so the overflow of our heart Lord, I pray that will be words That come from your heart Master when we respond to situations when we respond to Circumstances when we respond to conflicts when we respond to taunts and when we respond to all kinds of things Lord temptations and Lord I Just pray that it will be a spirit lead spirit overflow a word overflow response father God and I just pray that for each one of us even our reactions God even our reflects reactions will be a righteous Reflects reaction father God that it be righteous the even the triggers God it'll be righteous father God Master we pray that you would that we would So expose ourselves to your word that we would that you would so fill us with your spirit with your presence father God that Be so molded and changed and transformed God that our response our reflects will be righteous We thank you Lord we come at ourselves to your mighty hands in Jesus name. We pray Amen, okay awesome, let's Now let's Get right in any questions based on what we discussed last class We we spoke about Conflicts right we spoke about conflicts and then we were looking at Yeah Just a minute Yeah, so we were looking at conflicts and the reason why there are conflicts so any Any questions So why do you why do you think there are conflicts? You know if we are new creations if we are born again if you follow the Lord Jesus if we are believers You know there should be no conflicts, right? Is that a good as a is that a Safe assumption or not to assume that hey two believers are getting married to two people who love the Lord Jesus What do you think what is your response? Anyone yes Yes conflicts are rights because of we are human sometimes who become emotional So conflicts can arise even between believers Yeah, they become emotional So which is basically the area of our soul right thought our mind will emotions And the Lord Jesus has on the cross. Yes Well, we are born again because of I don't know that's perfect sacrifice and we are born again by the incorruptible word But our soul Well, it remains unchanged and it is our responsibility to renew our mind it is our responsibility to be Conformed to the likeness of our Lord and Savior to be Christ like right so In order to live a consecrated life in order to you know respond in a sanctified manner, you know, so that's our responsibility right so Emotionally we get stirred up we react we lash out maybe and There are conflicts. Okay, so Zalitoli says we are different from each other. You know, that's a that's a very basic a wide category in the sense Yes, as men and as women. Okay, so marriage is between a man and a woman You know, we are very clear about that. Right. That's the biblical standard. So when we see that This is how God intended us to be We see that God is designed as wired as differently ideas created as differently and so we see in terms of personality in terms of thinking in terms of You know everything right from the way we process information the way we remember we looked at that right memory also the way we remember details you know for men it could be You know, maybe event driven for women, it could be Totally different. They might remember the details that men might have a very Where birds eye view of the big picture that women will have, you know details like dates and time and you know And so many other things like so there are differences in that way There are differences in our habits. There are differences and to and to add it all there are differences in the way We were brought up the difference in culture. They're different in customs and so on So with all these differences, you know, it's one if you look at it. It's the differences that actually kind of draw It does to each other Right, like if you look at a couple husband and wife, it is the differences that actually True them to each other in the first place So they they you know kind of got to know each other like each other and so on It is because of these differences. They say that oh, you know, this person is so different from me and it's it's like wow, this is I never, you know, this is so interesting. Maybe you find the person interesting because they are so different But then the very things that you find to be interesting You know Becomes Points of conflicts or factors for conflicts right because you are so different, you know, how can't why can't you do it like this? but the fact is I'm different and And the fact is that that is what? You know threw me to that person in the first place, but then now as a as we go through life Then these are the things which which arise a sharp differences, right? So where conflicts do happen, you know, that's that's a reality. So it's it's not It's okay if conflicts happen it it's because of these differences, but conflicts need to be you know sorted got conflicts need to be resolved and We looked at last class we looked at the anger Question there, right? We looked at some of those things which which we do or which we Some of those statements we looked at and we say, okay Is it true in my case is it falls in my case because as a result of Conflict one of the things that happens one of the emotions that gets stirred up and released is anger right and Anger we saw that it is it is a good emotion because it's it's it's like pain, right? It shows us that something is wrong. Just imagine if we did not have if you were not sensitive to pain, you know and then We would be having all kinds of problems all kinds of difficulties We would be probably walking on thorns and walking on certain things that cut our soul cut our feet And totally, you know oblivious to it Just because we have a response of pain we know that oh that's something that I should avoid Oh, I need not step there or I can't put more pressure On that particular place because you know, it is it is actually hurting me right, so So we see that like that anger is actually showing us that something is wrong Like something has we have been wronged or there has been a sense of injustice and all that so it shows us, you know, something is wrong, but it is if we would If we would act on or act In response to anger Then we would commit sin. So the Bible that is very clear efficiency is for we saw be angry and do not Let the sun not go down on your wrath. So we looked at that scripture. Okay, so Let's look at you know, why we stopped we stopped at You know the steps to resolve conflicts, right? We looked at I think a few let's just go over that again the steps to resolve conflicts. Okay, the first one In resolving conflict is something that we do personally but even before we We approach the other person with whom we have a conflict in this case. We're talking about husband and wife So even before we approach and try to resolve try to bring a solution Type to confront whatever it is even before that The first step is to pray and prepare ourselves Yeah, this is a very important step because we We would have had Some emotions stirred up anger rage right Maybe some bitterness We could have said some words in anger. We could have you know done some things right or You know, whatever it is our reaction response could have been unrighteous right sinful so We need to first of all get right with God So just go before him and say lord I did this Or I acknowledge you know acknowledge What are some things to acknowledge acknowledge what the details of what went wrong? From our side from your side and from my side to acknowledge and say god This is something that I did it was wrong. This is something that I said It was wrong irrespective of what the provocation You know, sometimes we justify our emotions or our words or our actions Because of the provocation Right because the extent of provocation saying that Well, this was done to me. Therefore. I was right in doing this Right now. That's as long as we have That attitude we can't go very far in Resolving a conflict as long as we have that attitude saying, okay, I'm justified in saying this I'm justified in doing it. I'm justified in you know causing hurt If you're going to have that attitude and it's going to be it's going to be very difficult because Sooner or later that will again crop up that will again come up Right and we're going to that will be counter it'll counteract the entire process. We cannot have Not to resolve it Okay, but first of all, you know, why do we want to resolve this conflict? Okay, is it okay to just be quiet? Is it okay to just You know brush things over Yeah, we okay. We had a fight. We had a conflict Let's move on now You know, let's just forget about it Let's just move on What do you think is it okay to do that? You know, we we just pray forget that it didn't happen You know, just like that was as far as east is from the west So far as we removed our sins and you know, it's forgotten it just cleanse. So Can't we also do the same thing? Just forget it What do you think? Is it okay to have that attitude and say okay? I know we had a fight, but just forget it. It's okay. What do you think is it okay? If it's if it's okay, right Um Why is it okay if it's not okay? Why is it not okay? Um, okay, jeffina says no So jeffina, can you also tell us why it's Why is it a big no? If somebody thinks okay, it's okay to do that You know overlook something and keep going Um, maybe you can say why? Um, so that is clear in our minds Uh, I think it's a no because uh I think we should solve the issue like It's just Because I think in my case, I don't think I'll forget it If we just move on I'll remember it one second one day and I'll be like that day you stole me to find it I didn't forget it Or something like that, but if we just solve it and if we just speak about it Um Yeah, okay, so jeffina says okay, it's better to talk um Okay, so another question, you know, are there some things that uh that we can You know just brush aside. Are there some things no like major things minor things Should we major on minor things? um What do you think are there some things that you can just Let go I don't think so But I don't think so If we really have that time to talk about it, just talk it out Right because I think we girls remember remember every details You remember the details even if it's at least more you don't remember the details I don't think it would be nice to just Because we are obviously going to remember Okay, so because of memory, okay memory is a good thing but memory also You know we remember these things so it could crop up in future of the relationship. Okay So alesha says uh, no because the underpinning issues causing the conflict need to be discussed. So we avoid Reoccurring the situation to reoccur. So uh, whatever has cost it in the first place um, you know, if you don't get to the root of it, we always stand chance of this whole thing coming up again, right? And and next time it'll be even powerful even more intense Because this is not resolved. So we're talking about a conflict. We're not talking about Let's say, you know, you you get angry about something or you get irritated about something And uh, you know, you've not settled it in your heart. Not that kind of a thing is here You've actually had a fight or actually had an argument actually had A conflict. Okay, so we're talking about that kind of a situation, right? See there are times when we feel upset Uh, and we've not done anything about it. We've not shown it to that person We've not expressed that with the person but here inside, you know, we've we've become angry with the person Um, but we've not really expressed that anger. So down in those cases We can actually get get things right with God. You know, just go before God and then say Lord I I felt this way about this person. I I should not have or you know, I had these thoughts I had these things to do. I wanted to take revenge Um, I had these I felt this way and I felt, you know, bitter about that person. So, um, I know I should not have right. So we get right with God and yeah, that's it We we clear things and we just we move on So here we talking about a situation where we've actually had enough conflict, right? So then in that case It is there as a marker. It is there as a as a banner. You know, it's like, okay, this is what happens. So, um Try as we might it is still there. It is still not ironed out. So We need to you know, especially Since the marriage Relationship, you know, we are we are striving for a lot of things We are working on a lot of things the process of becoming one We want trust to be there. We want transparency to be there. We want the communication to be there Right all those good things, right and we want it to be there So an unresolved conflict comes like it's like a slowly, you know, building up a wall. It's like a barrier that comes up So, uh, unless it is dealt with it's going to it's going to come up So yeah, so that's um, so that's the reason why we need to not brush it Under the carpet, but really Deal with it, right? Okay. So let's look at The first thing that we said, okay, we need to pray we need to prepare our heart So we go before God we confess and we say Lord. I just need your grace So take some time to do that and as we do that I'm sure, you know, when you you're revisiting Okay, um, this is the reality when you revisit Something unpleasant then you're going to feel those emotions again Okay, so maybe You're going back to that time You're going back to that moment when these things happen So you're going to feel those emotions get ready for it. You're going to feel irritated again You're going to feel angry again. You're going to feel upset again right and so there's no So it's better to be prepared and say, okay as I revisit I'm going to feel all that because I'm again thinking Replaying that whole thing that happened But this time the thing is this that um, we are in the presence of God We are talking to him and we are You know pouring out our hearts to him Right this time. We're saying God. I'm feeling this way. It's like What the psalmist would say the psalmist that if you read the psalms, you know We see that he would just pour out. He would just vent out to God. He would say God. Are you even there? Are you just it's like God, you know, I'm feeling this God my enemies are doing this God and he would just vent out Right, so this is what we're doing. We're going before God and we're saying Lord. I'm feeling this pain Lord. I'm feeling hurt Lord, I think injustice has been done God So you pouring we pour out to him and as we do that the Lord Speaks to us the Lord reminds us who he is Right and and as we pour out to him there is As he hears and as we listen, you know, there is the sense of peace because he is the God of peace And he releases peace And the work of the Holy Spirit is you know, if you if you see Galatians 5 and verse 20 22 We see that the work of the Holy Spirit the fruit of the work of the Holy Spirit is love joy peace You know goodness and patience and kindness and gentleness And self-control and so all the all these are release. We are actually giving An opportunity We are opening the doors for all these things to come into our heart to come into our to flood our thoughts to flood our minds and so We are being prepared our heart is being prepared and we are being prepared to face um Yeah, prepare to actually resolve the conflict Right, so that's the second thing that happens even as we pray even as we prepare our hearts. We are receiving Something from him Okay, so we are receiving. What are we receiving? We are receiving his love We are receiving we are being enabled by God to love and to forgive right Romans 5 and verse 5 is a very powerful verse because his it says The something has been given to us already Okay, uh, if we would turn there Romans 5, maybe I'll just um project Just a minute. Sorry, okay So we here we are receiving his empowering Okay, we're receiving his empowering to to love We are receiving his empowering to forgive Okay, so let's look at Romans chapter. So I thought I had the verse Here So let's let's look at the verse Romans 5 and verse 5 Okay says now hope does not disappoint because The love of God has been poured out into our hearts By the Holy Spirit who was given to us Okay, so the love of God Has been poured out into our hearts By the Holy Spirit who was given to us. So what has been poured out into our hearts? You know, it's it's something amazing. It says the love of God Okay, and the word used there is agape okay, which is Which is something amazing because every believer has access to agape Not just to receive In the sense not just to be a recipient of God's love for us Right, but it says here that this love has been poured out into our hearts And what is the reason so that we can Actually express because that is what we see in 1 Corinthians 13 1 Corinthians 13 if you want to turn there says again the whole chapter is about agape the God kind of love the unconditional love and Okay, let's read a few verses from there. Okay 1 Corinthians 13 and verse 4 says the old English says love suffers long But it means love is patient Love does not envy. Love is not selfish. Love is not jealous. Love does not parade itself is not puffed up. Love is not proud Love does not behave rudely nor seek its own is not provoked things. No evil and all these good things Good characteristics. We see it's found in Christ. It's Christ likeness, but it is the agape love Right, it is the unconditional love of God So this has been poured out this love has been poured out into our hearts by the Holy Spirit So it's something really amazing because uh, well, we can't say that Okay, I don't have the ability Because God has actually as a believer One who is connected To the vine we have a God kind of life Zoe in us Right and secondly we have the God kind of love that has been poured out by the Holy Spirit Okay, so we have been Empowered we have been given the resource So as we prepare our hearts God actually enables us To love with this kind of love to forgive with this kind of In a forgiveness, right? So when we pray we acknowledge God, thank you You know, we receive all right. Thank you for that love. Thank you for pouring out your love Thank you for you know for the this kind of love that forgives the love that does not Behave rudely that does not envy Love that is patient. Lord. I thank you that I have this love We are poured out. So this all this happens and it's You know, it's it's making a change. We are we are arriving personally. We are arriving at a place To suitably resolve the conflict Okay, um, so you see You know as believers How can I be? unequally yoked to one who's not a believer In order to have this kind of receiving from God right in order to have this kind of Healing this kind of an enabling or empowering from God In order to show or in order to express to each other Like how can I have access to it? Like the natural man does not receive the things of God because they are spiritually The sound they are spiritually received and one who is dead One who spirit is dead to God is unable to receive this So um, so we are prepared To receive okay, and the third thing is this third step Is to receive The wisdom to address the situation Wisdom comes from the Lord the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge and understanding I proud chapter 2 and verse 6 talks about that. So We we need to have the wisdom In order to resolve this conflict. So the thing is that you know, not all conflicts are simple Right. Some are multi-layered. Some are interconnected Right, and we need the wisdom of God We need the wisdom of God to address it in the right manner We need the wisdom of God to to even take that first step. We need the wisdom of God Um, so many times we approach the situation without wisdom and it becomes even worse And then you know, uh, how it was Right, so we need the wisdom of God Um, so and God is uh, of course we see in the book of James James chapter 1 that he is Um, more than willing he is the if we go before him and say Lord, I lack wisdom James 1 and verse 5. Let me just read that out Um Okay, James 1 and verse 5 says if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God Who gives to all liberally and without reproach and it will be given him Okay, so our hearts are prepared. We are in a much better place We've received healing from the for the hurts the love of God has been for you know We are experiencing the love of God and we've been empowered by the love of God And all this is happening in our hearts and then we are in a place to receive the wisdom of God Right. We are saying, okay God. I need wisdom. What should I do? And it says here that he's more than willing like he gives to all liberally and without the approach But let him ask without doubting verse 6. Let him ask in faith Let him ask without doubting and it will be given, right? So, uh, the Lord says, okay you go sometimes it's like Just go and Just confess Um, just go and start with this And I remember, uh, for me Uh, I was sharing about that other incident, right? So where I was trying to justify, okay This is what happened. This is what I did. This is what she said. This is what I said and all that and the Lord said stop Okay, so stop, you know, you've you've said that you're wrong because of these reasons one two three four five and that's enough I will take care of the rest Uh, but in another instance now, this was with the with the with the group actually, uh with the team and and uh, the Lord while while in prayer the Lord actually, you know Gave me a picture visual thing and then said, okay, this is what you need to do Uh, you just need to empty yourself You just need to whatever has you know, you have done wrong You just need to confess You just need to do that and publicly and then acknowledge, okay And I will take care of the rest. My my response was but but Lord, you know, how it is but Lord, you know, uh You know, maybe I should defend myself I should justify why I did what I did or maybe I should say, okay These are some things that I did right, but these are some things that I did wrong But I don't say no, you just go with this just go Whatever you did wrong Start with that. So the Lord gives a wisdom the Lord gives a strategy right the Lord gives, um, you know, maybe the starting point Sometimes uh, and that's that's more than enough right So, uh, you start off with that. We need the wisdom of God and we we Start with it. We receive it and then we work on it. You know, it's not just enough to receive the wisdom we need to take that step of um working on the wisdom or working in line With that instruction with that council, you know, many times we can receive the council and not do anything about it But we need to You know, it's like people who sometimes stop you and ask you for directions and you give them the directions And they don't take it up. You know, sometimes you wonder, you know, why did I waste my time? I stopped and I you know gave them directions you turn left one right you go there and you should reach it And then you've done that and then they're not You know working on your instruction So the Lord gives wisdom the Lord gives council now we need to work on it. Okay okay The fourth one Is to discuss and address the matter now. This is this is where it really becomes challenging okay, so Now is now now is the thing all this was personal preparation the first three was personal preparation where we prayed where we where we were empowered enabled by the love of god and we See the wisdom of god. So all that happens and now is the uh, is the is the time to really Put it to take that step. Okay, so now you're going to lovingly confront and uh, you're going to address this whole matter Okay, so now the other person now the spouse comes into the picture here It becomes challenging. There's no more about just you it's about No, it's it's us right. It's it's both of you So, uh, it becomes challenging right, so We need to speak truth Not hold back the truth Okay, we need to address the truth um But that truth needs to be spoken in love and many times we we want to speak the truth And truth hurts And uh, we speak it Without love Okay, when we speak truth without love then it can't really hurt I it can It'll be It'll be without grace And we have and we have been asked to we've been instructed to speak the love To respond to speak the truth in love. Sorry speak truth in love. Okay, so if you look at uh, efficiency four Okay, efficiency four and verse 15 Let's say we read 14 and 15 We should no longer be children tossed to and fro carried about with every wind of doctrine by the trickery of men The cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting was 15 but Speaking the truth in love may grow up in all things into him who is the head Christ Yes, so speaking the truth in love is growing in christlikeness like speaking the truth in love is Is becoming more like him right, so, um, so this is the thing so What is important is Where we speak it When we do it when we speak it Right the time that is chosen to speak speak the truth like to discuss it and And also, you know, how you do it Okay, so where do you do it? When do you do it and how you do it? Okay, very important So where you do it? Okay You need to Discuss and okay find a place where it's uh, it's conducive for resolving You know, if you're doing it in a In a manner that's a hurried manner and on the way just about to leave the house And everybody, you know, both of you are working and you're just about to leave. Hey, by the way, you know I'm sorry this happened and uh, yeah, I think we just need to put it behind We have anything to say, you know, you've got two minutes to Leave the house and do you have anything to say? No, okay fine. I think we are sorted Let's let's put this behind. Let's know that's not you know You just rush through something and the person is, you know In your mind, you want to just solve it and get going but then you need to give time Right for the other person as well to To just think through. Okay, so it's going to take time It depends right so Where you do it? Okay, when are you going to do it? Pick a time and both are Both are not preoccupied with things both are not busy Both are, you know in the frame of mind to to talk about and to discuss now Yeah, just pray, you know, you've prayed and you've asked for business and I'm sure God will give us grace to To arrive at that. Now, that's one of the first things that you come in agreement with Right. Okay. Let's let's do this Let's talk about it. Okay So what what is challenging in this is that one person is hurting more than the other? Okay So they're not ready yet Maybe it's the conflict has been very very intense and you know kind of you've had a major you know Major conflict in words been spoken People hurt etc. So it's Maybe it's it needs the other person needs a little more time. No, that's fine But you didn't give the reassurance saying, okay, I really want to talk about it. I would really want to You know address this I think it's It's not it's it's not helping It's not helping our marriage. It's not helping our relationship. So let's let's talk So if you're not ready now, so, you know, let me know when you're ready I'll ask you again or maybe you can think of any other time, but let's talk about it Okay, so so you decide that And you find the place and the time so the thing is to Start with one thing and get to the root of the matter Okay, rather than a whole lot of things right start with one thing and discuss that so maybe Since you're the person who's taken the initiative to to resolve You start with that you go first. Maybe or maybe you can ask the other person. Okay, you go first You know, you you tell me what is it that this and you know About this whole thing the other person might say, okay, I don't want to talk about it. Now you go first. Okay So you go first you say, okay, this is what this is what happened Okay, in my understanding this is what happened and and maybe you can go through the facts Okay and how the whole situation broke down right and how each person responded in anger and maybe Blamed each other maybe spoke root things to each other, etc So you can just talk about that all the while, you know, not blaming the other person but Just stating things as it as it happened. Okay So it's important for the other person to Uh, when one person is speaking together, it's important for the other person to be quiet and And just hear hear out Okay, so if the if the other person is speaking If your spouse is speaking, it's important for you to be quiet and hear out. Listen Now you might want to Jump in and say something and defend I you might be tempted to do that but don't do it I just relax be quiet and Even when When your spouse is finished, then you explain Okay So certain things to avoid You know, let me just put it in the chat Blaming while It is true, you know, there there could be one person who did this and they they know they They did something they said something they threw something at you You know, they had to be blamed but When you're resolving don't blame the person. You know, you are always like this or you are doing this. So don't blame. Don't criticize Don't attack. Don't retaliate Okay Size Don't attack the person and Don't retaliate if even if they are saying certain things don't retaliate Okay It's easy something to avoid, you know, because you're trying to resolve something You don't want the situation to go worse than it is already right. So don't do that Okay, so, you know in the notes, there are some practical steps which are, you know, taken from this website. So So we can talk about that We can we can go through that. So the thing is we are talking about one issue. We're not talking about multiple issues One major issue which is contributed to the to the Conflict so you talk about it you And then you discuss, okay, how to How to resolve this whole thing, right? This one thing at Uh, as a result in a break in a breakdown and maybe there was maybe there was misunderstanding on each side Uh, we can talk about that and clear the air Okay, it's because you thought this you assume this or I thought this way and that is why I Said this and I did this so you can if there are any misunderstandings Um, you can clear that at this time And to come up with some solutions. Okay Now now, what do we do about this now? Okay, what do we do about this? Can you suggest something? Um, well if some suggestions are shared then you consider, okay Evaluated objectively Right now all this would We'll be able to do it only if we have actually prepared our hearts initially Prepared our hearts in God's presence because otherwise, you know, we are again Uh, when things are stirred up, we will We will not be able to proceed. We'll be able to we will just go back And start blaming go back start criticizing go back in anger And the the matter will be worse than when we started it, right? So so the thing is to especially in that stage of Okay, what are the solutions, you know, because the thing is we are different one could be Well, personality wise one is maybe Um, short tempered One still has anger issues It's uh, it's a difficult thing But as a couple we need to Learn to do this Right. Um, we need to be able to Make uh, do this, you know as a couple's many things that you learn to do This is one of the, you know, you can say quote-unquote quote-unquote skill to learn as a couple Right, uh, and over a period of time you realize, okay, we can do this Yeah, we had a conflict We can but we can do this, you know, you you do it in a very amicable manner And you might even laugh through the whole thing Okay so, um Let's look at a couple of scriptures that help us Matthew chapter five and verse nine. Okay, let's uh Read that Matthew five and verse nine says blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called sons of god Okay, excuse me peacemakers so meaning that Okay, so if I'm actually trying to resolve trying to make peace The Lord Jesus says that blessed are the peacemakers Okay, saying I'm blessing you releasing my blessing upon you blessed are the peacemakers For they shall be called sons of god. Okay. Um, okay, so we'll continue We'll just take a break and then we'll continue. Thank you