 I think it depends on the type of man you want though, because if you want a traditional type of dude, he's going to want you to be a traditional type of woman. But if you cool with a 50-50 type of dude, then yeah, you get a little bit more leeway. But the difference is, I think the problem, women want both. They want to be traditional when it comes to the money stuff, but liberal when it comes to gender roles and expectations. What do you feel like men continue to get wrong about women? What's your biggest complaint with us? Because you sent me a lot of videos. So what's the biggest thing you wish men understood? The biggest thing that I feel like is the fact that women like to argue. You think we think y'all like to argue? And y'all don't like to argue? No. Okay, explain it to me. So what I mean by that is, why do you think we like to... Now don't get me wrong. I know that it's women out there that just will, just like to say, just talk shit for no reason, for no valid reason, just to run their mouth. It's really females out here that just do this for no reason. I get that. But most times y'all are going to like just assume that along the board regardless. Because like for instance, she just want to argue. She just want to argue. So I'm like, I'm very inquisitive. I like asking questions. Why is she arguing? Why is she always upset? What is it? So now we're getting into it. So find out that you did this three years ago. This happened. This happened. All these series of events have happened and shit like that. And now you're getting to the point where she just won't shut the fuck up. Well, you want to know why? Because she mad. And everything you do is just, she just hates you, okay? So it's not even a matter of... So you should leave her at that point. I mean, yes. If you don't like that, then yes. Because she not doing it for no reason. I don't think she doing it for no reason. I don't think females argue, argue, like to argue for no reason. It's a reason for everything. I'm personally, that's how I take it because that's how I feel about myself. I'm not going to do nothing for no reason. So if you feel like I'm always arguing or I'm always mad or always got an attitude, it's a reason. Because what did you do to provoke me talking shit all the time or nagging or having an attitude? It's a reason for everything. It's a reason behind all that shit. Women don't not like to argue. It starts with y'all. It's something you've done first that makes her this way. It crosses the line to liking to argue when I think we've resolved whatever the issue was and you keep bringing it up five years from now, ten years from now. Because she thinks that it... The issue can never die. Because it surprised you and now, even if he's doing better, even if she's showing better, it's still that thing at the back of your mind. Exactly. But that's the problem. So we can't move forward. How can we move forward? Because the problem is you shouldn't have did it in the first place. Women do stuff all the time. We forgive y'all. Like what? A bunch of shit. Like what? The way that you talk to us, the way that you act, the way that you take out shit that had nothing to do with me or me. This is stuff men have to deal with. But we have to forgive y'all. We have to assume the best. That's not as damaging as what... But you don't know that. That's not as damaging. You don't know that. You know what y'all are capable of. You don't know that. That's not too... What men are capable of? A woman can make you raise a kid that's not even yours. You talk about men are capable of more. Okay, that's fucked up. That's fucked up. Yeah, listen. That's fucked up. You talk about what men... The worst thing a man can do is probably like bring back an STD. That's probably the worst thing a man can do. A woman can do all that plus making... Bring back an STD. You have a baby on you constantly cheating, beating your ass. The reason why I said the STD is worse than having a baby on you is that baby doesn't really take money out of your pocket, you know, because it's not your baby. It takes money out of his pocket, but it doesn't take your money. What does that have to do with the emotional damage? Everything on name. That's shit. Everything on name has emotional damage. It's taking your time away from him. Now you have to split him. Like now he don't have... When they had a baby on you and you're saying that that's not as bad. He don't have a baby on you. So now you have to... Everything on name has emotional damage. Yes. The reason why I say it's not that bad is because typically you'll hear women, for instance, single mothers, they'll say where a package deal. Single fathers not saying where a package deal. It's like that's your baby. Handle that baby. You know, this, this and that. That's the difference between having a baby on somebody though. She still knows that's not her baby. She's not obligated to that baby. But still, that's your man that done made a whole life outside of your relationship. Do you not think that's not damaging enough outside of the fact that it's not even your baby? You're not hearing what I'm saying. I'm not saying that's not damaging. Okay, so now why are you trying to excuse it? No, no, no. I was saying that's why something like bringing home an STD is worse because you have to deal with that yourself. That's what I'm saying. Or a woman having a baby on you is worse because now you have to raise that baby. But a man having a baby, you don't have to raise that baby. I don't think any of those are a matter of what's worse and what's less worse. They all fall into the same category. Do you think a woman having a kid, I mean, tricking a guy into thinking it's his kid is the same level as a man having a kid outside? Okay, so I ain't even gonna lie. I ain't even gonna lie on her part that's worse. That is like the most evil, despicable. Because it's everything that you said, plus the seat and the lie and the... You know what I'm saying? That shit is next level. Yeah, you've seen that for 18 years. That's not your kid. That shit is next level. Like, ain't any of you to spend your money, your time, like your family. The emotional investment, yeah. Oh, shit. Yeah, that's the... And it happens. It happens to niggas a lot. Shit. Okay, I get what you're saying. I get what you're saying. So my thing is, you know, I'm all about doing homework. I'm all about... My mom would say prevention is better than cure. So even going back to your point earlier, I like to avoid things. I like to avoid things because again, for me as a man, if I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it. I'm not somebody who likes to scare people or none of that shit. Because I don't play, you know. So I encourage men to be the same way. But outside of that, outside of you think men don't... Men think women like to argue. What else do you think we're getting wrong? I really can't even tell y'all what you're getting wrong because... Because you be complaining about us. You be like, man, listen, we want to keep women down and... But y'all do, though. We gotta sit in the corner and be this tiny little fly on the wild while you get to be outside and spread your wings and do all that type of shit. We gotta sit in one place. Well, it's 2022. I don't think that's gonna work no more. Exactly. So that's why people who stuck on that need to get out of there and learn how to like... I think it depends on the type of man you want, though. Because if you want a traditional type of dude, he's gonna want you to be a traditional type of woman. Exactly. But if you're cool with like a 50-50 type of dude, then yeah, you get a little bit more leeway. But the difference is, I think the problem, women want both. They want a nigga who's traditional when it comes to the money stuff, but liberal when it comes to gender roles and expectations. So I want him to pay all the bills, but I want him to help me clean. I agree with traditional to an extent. And what's the other one you said? Liberal. Liberal. Yeah. 50-50. And for all that shit, like I ain't gonna lie. I'm perfectly okay being the only one cleaning and doing all the house shit. I'm perfectly okay with that. And because I'm okay with that, it takes a lot of pressure off him, right? I'm okay with that shit. Like house work, I'm cool with that shit because it's just a personal thing. I just feel like nobody cleans better than me. If I'm not gonna clean it, then I don't want to eat from it. It's just my own personal thing. So I really don't have a problem with doing housework at all. Trash dishes, cleaning up after the kids. No, I'm gonna need help with the kids. All the house shit. I really don't have a problem doing all that shit. You need your tie and your shirt iron before work. I don't have a problem. Like I'm cool with it. That's why I said traditional to a certain extent. Because I just feel like I speak for all women. No, Lord. No, no, no. Okay, you know what? Let me take it back. They about to crucify you. Let me take it back. Let me take it back. Let me take it back. I ain't even gonna say all of them because I ain't even gonna say that. Most women would want somebody who is responsible for at least the big stuff when it comes to bills. But like that, I'm just pretty like this. I take care of myself on my own. I do whatever for myself, by myself, for myself. And I ain't even gonna lie. I see how y'all feel. That shit do get exhausting because it be sometimes, some days I be feeling like, damn, I'm really tired of being independent. I really be wanting somebody to just do all that shit for me. I'm tired of paying to get my own hair done sometimes. I be like, just a little shit. But that shit do get exhausting. So when y'all carry it all the way, I can understand how tiring that can be. So it's important for a woman to submit if you're doing all that. I can understand the even trade and the balance when it comes to all that stuff. But then, you can combine liberal and traditional in one, based on the person and whatever y'all cool with. If a female and a dude living together and they going 50-50, maybe it's better for them financially to do it like that. You just never know what people's situation is, so... I mean, I feel you, but the problem is most women would still have a problem with submitting. They're like, oh, he's just my roommate. If I have to contribute, he's just my roommate. And I feel like maybe submissions should have a lot to do with who the man is and not like what he can... Like character, they got a lot to do with it too because if he a man who can stand for something and, you know what I'm saying, he say whatever he want and he do everything with his chest. And he is a firm believer in God and he has his own way of being. And it's respectable. That deserves submission being, you know, submissions. But I don't think it got nothing to do with the fact that y'all going 50-50. Should it matter? Like, I don't know. You tell me, you need to talk to the women. See, because most of them, like most women, especially these days, they don't want to do anything. They just want to be taken care of. Yeah, see me, I want to be able to do something too. I wouldn't want my dude to have all that stress. Like if it's anything I can do, then I'll do it. If you need me to pay for this or put this much aside for something or you want me to go out and do this or do this for you or whatever, then that's understandable. But I don't want to just... Leisure is important, but I feel like a man, like y'all a team. So y'all should like act as such. I mean, ain't never wrong with being taken care of. I ain't knocking nobody because that shit is nice. It's just personally, I feel more useful when I'm being useful. You get what I'm saying? Yeah, so I don't care how much money he got, like whatever small thing that like means a lot to him, I don't think it should be a problem. I don't care my socks, you know? Do this, fix this for me, do this for that. Like it's just... But at the same time, just know that I'm a person too now and I am somebody too. I'm not just good for these things. Like when I give you my opinion, don't fucking just act like what I gotta say don't mean shit. I want you to listen to me talk too when I got something to say. Like don't act like I ain't nobody over here either because you can get somebody else to iron your socks. So a lot of dudes, we talk about how women feel like they're perfect. Who's pussy? Let me finish, let me finish. Like women feel like they're beyond talking to you. Like you ain't got to tell me nothing. Don't tell me nothing, I don't want to hear nothing. So I think it might be therapeutic for men to observe a young lady who's willing to like address her flaws. So what are some things you feel like you're working on or that you need to work on to become that level of woman where like you know what I'm saying, my Prince Charming is gonna, it deserves. Or do you feel like you're perfect just as you are? Hell no, I know I ain't perfect, I know I got problems. Some of them I would say, I ain't gonna lie, I'm gonna say things I need to work on is being a better listener and my attitude. Those are like too many things I can for sure work on because if people tell you enough of something then you might need to consider that like, you might need to look at me so I ain't gonna lie. And I'm just, I'm growing still, I'm still learning. What you mean by your attitude? Because a lot of women say that, but like what do you usually say? Like assy and shit. Like I know I can just, it's just be the mood in that very moment that'll make me just act a certain way. You know what I'm saying? I just can calm it down a little bit, just bring it down a few notches, that's all. Because like three years ago I can be like this and this is what I believed in and now fast forward to now and I'm like, yeah that wasn't the best way to be so I need to fix that. So I'm just taking it day by day but my attitude being a better listener. Oh, being defensive 24-7. Being defensive, yeah, because sometimes that's why I said being a better listener because it can actually tie into me being defensive because I might not have heard you and I'm thinking that you might be like coming for me but you gotta like stop and be like, oh he wasn't even trying to say it like that, my bad. So yeah, being defensive, being a better listener and my attitude. But everything else, I'm cool. I know how to be submissive. I know how to lay back and chill and just let you do you. I know how to do all that but that's just a whole different topic. So yeah. You have any final words, final thoughts? What do you think you should work on today? Me personally? Yes. I'm constantly working on being a better listener. Patience. I'm constantly working on patience. It's funny, a lot of people like watch these videos and they think I'm really patient but I'm not. I actually need to work on my patience too. And I think you are patient so I don't know why you don't think you are. Thank you. Or maybe you just got a different way of handling your patience. It might be that. If, yeah, I'm very impatient. When I need something, it needs to be done within that millisecond. Yeah. And I would say even like being more forthcoming because it's funny, I'm really good at getting information from people but I'm not as good at sharing information from people. So that's something I need to work on too. Yeah but, yeah. That's it. That's the only thing you need to work on. That's a bunch of stuff. That's just what comes to mind. I'm getting my six pack right now. Whatever you say. You tell me, what do I need to work on? I ain't saying shit. I ain't saying shit.