 Before we talk about the kind of behaviors quality men notice in a woman, I think it's important to establish what is a quality man? Because the reality is is there's a lot of people out there that are men, but are they quality men when it comes to dating, mating or relating? And more importantly, are there quality men when it comes to relationship? So I identify a quality man as a man with character, a man who's kind, a man who has got his life in order. I mean, in other words, he's got his shit together, so to speak, okay? I also believe a quality man is intentional when it comes to the dating process. And what I mean by intentional is that he is desirous of a significant relationship. In other words, a relationship where two people either move in together, get married, or they can live together apart, but they are actually teammates with one another. They are partners with one another. That to me is the illustration of a quality man. Does he have good character? Is he kind? Does he have his act together? And more importantly, is he intentional? However, we've got to even go deeper than that because the real quality man also has a sense of emotional IQ. He has emotional maturity. And more importantly, he has the relationship skills to actually develop a significant relationship with someone. Now, sadly, we do have a significant percentage of men and women who are deeply wounded from childhood wounds and traumas and adult traumas. When I said deeply wounded, let me rewind that. They have not, that we have a significant percentage of human beings who haven't healed from childhood wounds and adult traumas that makes it very difficult for them to be in a significant relationship. And because of that, whether it's a man or a woman, it's difficult for them to notice the beautiful qualities within another person if these people are blinded because they are suffering on the inside. You know, I know a significant number of men who are suffering on the inside, they were hurt in their past relationships, just like you ladies have been as well. And many of these men have put up walls that makes it difficult for them to lean into a relationship. This is why if you're in the active dating marketplace, it's important to learn how to vet for emotional maturity. In fact, that's my whole area of expertise as a coach. I help women craft the questions they should be asking in the early stages based on their personality to really uncover, is this person worthy of me giving my heart? And sadly, many of you ladies have a broken picker. So if you need some help with that, right there's a link to schedule a discovery call with me to see if working with a coach is right for you. Now, before we jump into these five beautiful qualities, these behaviors, men find incredibly attractive. I want to address something that I heard on a podcast today. Now, if you're not familiar with the work of Esther Perrell, Esther Perrell, let me grab a copy of her book. Where is her book? Oh, it's somewhere here. Oh, here it is. Mating Incaptivity. Mating Incaptivity. She has a great podcast. You may wanna listen to it. By the way, all the books I recommend are in the link below under Jonathan recommend books in the description of this video. She was talking about, I believe it was an article she had read, but she talked about artificial intimacy. Do you know we have artificial intelligence now that helps people write essays for school and to do a lot of tasks for them? And we also now have bots or robots, if you will, or artificial intelligence that can actually create intimacy with someone or create a connection with someone on an artificial level. But we're talking about some AI program. I'm talking about, or what she was talking about is the artificial intelligence two people have with each other, excuse me, the artificial intimacy two people have with each other because they use their devices to connect with one another over the phone, they're using their devices to connect. Most of their conversation is text messaging and there's this perceived sense of intimacy in these dynamics. There's a perceived sense of intimacy with people who are communicating incessantly via text message. But what's actually happening is artificial intimacy. It's not real intimacy. Ladies, true intimacy is built through social activities, hobbies, mutual interests, spending time with family and friends. That's how you can really connect with someone at a much deeper level when you're actually face-to-face with them. And just like in the TV show, Love is Blind where two people in separate pods spend hours upon hours upon hours communicating with one another only to then be in a blind environment, only to meet and many of the couples after they thought they have fallen in love with this person found out that it was false love. See, because real, and now while some of the couples in the most recent season, actually three of the five couples ended in marriage which is actually an amazing statistic for that show because most of them fail. It's an interesting testament. However, in most cases and certainly out in the real world like the rest of us are in as these people are possibly staying together because it's a show and they get their 15 minutes of fame, I'm here to say real intimacy is built in the doing of things together, the experiencing of one another and not the artificial way it is currently happening today. Now, why is this so critically important to know? Because folks, many of you find yourselves in relationships or perceived relationships that are merely cyber relationships, they're situationships, they're not real relationships built in the doing. And quite frankly, if you're not exploring that type of relationship, you might find yourself sadly disappointed over and over again. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating? Please let me know. So today I wanna talk about some good stuff because I do sometimes talk about the negative stuff, but I am happy to report that I have several success stories under my belt with some new clients. They are happy in a significant relationship. They're actually feeling true love because they know the difference. And it's because these folks have decided to reprogram themselves. I think most of us are running on old software, okay? And because of that old software, that clouds our judgment, it clouds our experiences and most importantly, it clouds us from actually connecting from a heart-centered way with another human being. So my work is all about the reboot. It's not the 2.0, it's not the 3.0. I'm giving you the 4.0 because life is moving so fast, as Ferris Bueller said in the movie. Life moves pretty fast. So you have to stop and look around, but look around with intelligence, with intentionality. And thankfully you've landed on my video, you've landed on my show, you follow me, thank you for those that do follow me. And if my content does resonate with you, please hit that like button, please share this video, please subscribe to my channel. So what are those beautiful behaviors men notice? I think the first one is so obvious. And yet as a single man, when I was out in the dating realm, I can tell you that I didn't experience this as frequently as you might think. And the first behavior is what I call easygoing, chill and agreeable. That's right, easygoing, chill and agreeable. I can tell you as when I was single and thankfully I've been in a significant relationship, which will be, it's 355 days as of today. I'm in a relationship with that beautiful woman right there, Marie. And she embodies easygoing, chill and agreeable. You've seen her on the videos. However, there have been plenty of first dates that I've gone on where a woman is literally wearing resting bitch face. It's literally like pulling teeth because I recognize to some degree, human beings date with their own desires in mind. And when you're focused on your own desires, oftentimes you're putting on this air of arrogance, an air of attitude, an air of entitlement. Now not all women do this, but a significant percentage of women do this. And I'm here to say that while I oftentimes espouse that you should interrogate people in the dating process, right? Frankly, I mean, do a lot of that work over the phone before you ever meet. The first date should be fun. Well, the first date is really a meet and greet, but that first meet and greet should be fun. It should be easy. It should be easygoing. It should be chill. It should be two people just enjoying each other's company to see if they pass the sniff test. And the sniff test is just like two dogs coming up to each other, sniffing one another to see if they like each other. That's what a meet and greet is. And so I invite you all to show up at your next meet and greet within the easygoing, chill, and agreeable demeanor, okay? Number two, men find this highly attractive and they notice women who have full lives that have passion for their life. You know, there's a big difference between having a busy life that's full versus a rich life of your passions. In other words, like for example, in Marie's case, she traveled. She's seen, she's been to 68 countries. Now I know that's kind of the exception, not the rule, but where are your passions? And do you exploit those passions? And what I mean to say is do you live to work or do you work to live, you know? Do you work to live? And demonstrate those passions, but yet many people have a full life that's consumed with busyness. And yet what's highly attractive are those people that have a passion for life. Ladies, you're attracted to men who have a passion for life while it goes the same way. In fact, everything I'm sharing here is equal to both genders. Number three, unapologetic for past choices. Unapologetic for past choices. Look, many people have found themselves in their second or third significant relationship by the time they get to midlife. And midlife is after baby making years and before retirement. That's the demographic I speak to. So with that said, being unapologetic about your past means not being a victim to your past experiences. It's what did I learn from my past experiences? How did my past experience shape who I am today? That's a significant way of, that's a highly attractive behavior for a quality man. Now, let me just say this, coming back to quality men. Look, I recognize that there are a significant percentage of men who are deeply wounded, as I said earlier, from their childhood wounds and adult traumas that don't make them very good candidates to be in relationship. It's probably 70, 80% of men and women alike probably aren't really capable of a significant, a significant, healthy, happy relationship. Most everybody's capable of some sort of relationships. There are friends with benefits relationships. There are casual relationships. There are situationships. Certainly there are plenty of people capable of some sort of mediocre relationship. Those that are really capable of something deeper is really a smaller percentage of people. That's the reality of it. We may not like it, but that's the truth. At least the way I perceive the truth. You have to decide that for yourself. So part of dating is a vetting process. It's to vet this person for their emotional maturity. It's to vet them for their relationship skills. Do they live in a sense of victim consciousness or are they in victor consciousness? Do they know how to communicate when there's a difference of opinion? Do they actively listen to your point of view? Do they acknowledge your point of view and even accept your point of view as being true for you? See, that's a person that can actually resolve conflicts with you. Do you know men and women alike have terrible conflict resolution skills? That's the number one reason why most significant relationships fail. Is there inability to resolve their differences? Well, certainly there are times when you can agree to disagree. But for the most part, strong, healthy relationships have that capacity to listen, acknowledge, and validate another person's point of view. And as I said, coming back to unapologetic about one's past, we all have a past. But if you're living in victim consciousness, you're gonna carry that past with you in every relationship thereafter if you haven't healed from it. Number four, this is obvious, a sense of humor. And more importantly, appreciating the other person's sense of humor. I can tell you that I'm a pain in the ass when it comes to my sense of humor. I'm a bit sarcastic, crass, and it can be even childlike. Thankfully, my sweetheart, at least she accepts my sense of humor. And we find our mutual banter between the two of us, which you two have witnessed on our videos. It's our style of bantering with one another. We've gotten accused of being, like we've been uptight with each other. No, it's just the way we banter with one another. It's where we find our joy in giving each other shit a little bit now and then. That's where our sense of humor lies. Whether you have a dry wit, sarcastic, dark wit, whatever it is, finding that mutual sense of humor, finding that space where you have a sense of humor and they appreciate, you appreciate their sense of humor and they appreciate yours. Because sense of humor is certainly part of the, it makes the monotonous a little bit more acceptable, but more importantly, do you know children laugh 500 times a day and adults laugh five times a day? I'm making up that number. It's something to that effect. Humor is what I think can bond to people together. And last but not least, I said this before is about communication, but I wanna go deeper. What men find this particular capacity incredibly attractive is people that are good listeners, but more importantly, they're interesting and engaging in their conversations. You know, I think, and by the way, men are just as equally bad at this as women are. I think human beings are bad. A lot of human beings are unskilled at being a good listener and more importantly, being engaging in conversation. You know, I've often heard women say in 10,000 words, what men can say in 10 words, okay? Women oftentimes talk in stories and they go on and on and on. But what a man and woman appreciate is succinct conversation that actually has some value, that has some meat to it. Instead of, how's your day going? Did you have a good day? I hope you had a good day. My little bit from Seinfeld, my Kramer there, people that have good listeners and also are interesting and engaging. Those are people that we appreciate being around. So I invite you, if you're weak in any of these areas, work on these areas for yourself. And more importantly, you should listen, ladies, it isn't so much about how trying to make him like you, you have to decide if you like him. If he's weak in these capacities in any of these areas, you have to ask yourself, is this a person you wanna invest your heart in? Because at the end of the day, listen, we get one chance at this, go around on this third rock from the sun, make the most of it, make the most of it. Don't choose partners that are incapable of a significant relationship. Learn how to be a better picker in relationship. Start from an empowered place from within yourself, but more importantly, and there are abundance of good people. Your job is learning how to do a better job. At picking the good ones, out of the ones who are, for lack of a better word, broken. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating? Please let me know. Please hit that like button. Please share this video with your friends. Please subscribe to my channel. And again, in the comments, in the description, are all the links to connect with me. All right, for those who know my format, this is the Q&A time. If you have a question, write the word question, then post the question thereafter. It makes it easy for me to find. Or you can purchase a super sticker, there's a little dollar sign in the chat box. Or if you're watching the replay, you can hit a super thanks. All the monies from the super sticker, super chat, super thanks goes to a scholarship fund in the name of my son, Conor Asley. That's a picture of him right there in the little woody outfit. It's my son who passed away almost five years ago. And his honor, I started a scholarship fund to donate to causes like the Hoffman process and Insight Institute. So again, if you have a question, write the word question, then post the question thereafter. All right, let's see what we've got here. We've got any questions so far. Thank you, Jeannie for posting all the ones we shared so far. Jeannie writes, some men, men act like they must be bitter against women. They contact someone on a dating site and stringing them along, telling how beautiful they are and how much they want to be with you and never show. Do this, do this so, do this to an innocent woman who never done anything to them before. You know, sadly, Jeannie, there are a lot of wounded men out there who want companionship. They want connection. They want physical intimacy. And yet they're afraid to love and they're afraid to be loved. Yes, they want connect. They've been hurt so much and yet they want something. And at the same time, they're afraid. Two truths can be held in the same space. They want something and yet they're afraid. It sadly does happen. It does happen. Unfortunately, your job is to not focus on them. Your job is to focus on you. What are you going to do different going forward? That's my invitation for you. Is that sinking in? Is that resonating? Please let me know. All right, let's see what else we have in the way of questions. Sweet art says facts. I'm so happy you brought that up, Jonathan. I'm afraid this robotic intimacy will become another battle we'll have to fight due to misuse and the likelihood of over dependency on them. You know, we are living in an age where folks, we are, you know, there's a real benefit to technology, but it's also replaced connectivity. You know, I remember growing up. I mean, I remember going outside and playing with friends. Does anyone remember that? If you're a baby boomer or Gen Xer, we used to go outside, play with our friends. You know, we didn't have to worry about being kidnapped or anything. You just went outside and all you did was show up at the dinner bell at 6 p.m. Okay, that says us as kids. Now today, sadly, we don't really interact with people. Certainly COVID changed everything as well. And we are creating, there's this, you know, we are more connected than ever before as human beings. And we are lonely than ever before. That's right. We are seeing a high rise of suicide, certainly amongst young girls. I mean, amongst adult men. There's this sense of loneliness. Quite frankly, there's a, I think we are gonna see a huge fear start to pop up. It's already here right now. As people age, they won't have the money to support themselves. There's gonna be a drain on children. We are in a world that's, I think, starting to implode because the cost to take care of yourself as you get older is significantly high and not enough people are wealthy enough to take care of themselves. And so the desire for partnership is somewhat of a dependency place because two incomes are better than one. I can understand that. But at the same time, our need for interdependency, in other words, our own individual autonomy is conflicted with one another and we don't live in tribe type of environments anymore. So there's more people supporting the individual. It's a scary time out there. I know women in fact are hugely afraid of the fear of aging. And there's this strong desire to want a partner because who wants to do this all alone? I get that. This is what we're faced with. And yet people want society to fix this. Society isn't gonna fix this. You have to start it with yourself. If you don't have a community, build a community. You know, Marie talks about her travel group. She goes, this is a group of people that she's spent time with over the last decade and they're practically family to one another and they all live in different parts of the world and they get together on a regular basis because they're there to support one another. And that's just one example. I know here in Los Angeles, I have a community of friends that span over 100 couple or 100 group of men and women, lots of them couples that are here to support one another. Build your community because it is, it may not be that you find the mate you want, but you can certainly build the community you want. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating? Please let me know. All right. Zengal says, question. What's a nice way to let a guy know you're not feeling it? I wish Marie was here because she has a nice way of saying it. She simply starts off with something positive about the person. You seem like a really great guy. I've enjoyed our company tonight. I just want to be candid with you. I'm not feeling we're a match. And because of that, I want to wish you all the best on your journey to love. She says something similar to that. It's funny, I was watching Indian matchmaker and there was a man, I think he's a ER doctor who had a date with a woman and she says, would you like to see each other again? And he was like, no, I'm not feeling it. It's stung. I'm sure it's stung for her. It's stung to watch this. But the same time, love isn't intangible. Spark chemistry isn't intangible. We all think that everyone should love us or be attracted to us, but the reality is is only a select few really have that chemical bond to be with one another. So simply say, he seemed like a great guy. This isn't, you know, and at the same time, I just don't feel like we're a match and I want to wish you all the best on your journey. That might be a way to approach it, Zengal. All right, thank you so much. Looks like we have a bashful group tonight. If you have a question, write the word question and post the question thereafter or purchase a super sticker, super chat. Otherwise, we're gonna have a, we're gonna be wrapping up early tonight. So if you have a question, this is your last chance to post a question or we're gonna be wrapping up rather early. Okay, going, okay, here we go. Sweet art writes a question. Sweet art, I like that. We acknowledge not being ready to date. I asked if we can just be friends. He asked to be friends with benefits. I said, no, he pulled away. Think I should give him a chance if we're both ready or not. You know, if, listen, if you're not ready to be in a relationship, let me ask you a question. Is this really, is this person truly gonna be a friend in your life? Is this the person that if you need a ride to the airport, they'll drive you to the airport? If you need someone to take you to the doctor, would they take you to the doctor? Are they that kind of friend or are they simply going to be some social acquaintance or not even a social acquaintance? Some filler until, because here's the reality. It's funny, I said the same thing to Marie. I don't need to, but before we met, it was long distance, okay? And I, she said, would you like to be friends? And I'm like, not really. I don't need to collect friends. I have a hard enough time spending time with my only friends. And my point bringing this up is if I meet the love of my life, if it wasn't her, I probably wouldn't communicate with her. I mean, maybe a Facebook post or a birthday message on Facebook, that would be the equivalent of our friendship. To me, friendships are the people that you get on the phone, you talk about your personal life and you get intimate with one another and you're there for one another. Do you need to collect friends in your life? Because if you have a friendship with this person, you meet the love of your life, will you really be friends with this person? Probably not. So I just want you to evaluate what friendship is. And since he wanted just friends with benefits, it just goes to show you two aren't meant to be in a significant relationship. So why should you be significant friends with one another? That's just my two cents on that. All right, thank you so much. Wanda writes question. I went, I went, or I went to a friend request to that guy after a day and he accepted it and de-friended me because I said happy birthday I am. Is this mean? You know, his reason for de-friending you could be a variety of things. He met another woman and he didn't want to, he wanted to delete people from his Facebook group. Is that mean? I mean, were you really bothered by it? I mean, do you really give that much credence to someone? And could it, was it maybe for a different reason why he wanted, maybe there is something you don't know. You know, rather than looking at the wrong, just why don't you just give it, why don't you say, you know what? He had a change of heart next. Because if you give energy to something like that, that means he has your power. And, you know, we don't want to give our power away to other human beings. Is that, do you get the drift just of that? Okay, good point or good. Thanks for that question. SW1 says, John, please speak on consuming alcohol during the dating or to get to know each other's stage. Oh yeah. All right. Alcohol is the great reducer of common sense and logic and boundaries. Alcohol can drop people's boundaries. Certainly I've had a few too many on a date. And when I've had a few too many on a date, I cross boundaries all the time. And I will, and there have been plenty of women who have relinquished their boundaries because of that. Listen, I think one cocktail on a first date is ample enough. Some people, they can have two. But certainly beyond that, just remember that alcohol is a way to reduce inhibitions and it's a vehicle to push boundaries. So I would limit the alcohol to one, maybe two drinks at the most, depending on your tolerance level. Great question. So thank you so much for that one. I appreciate it. Sweet Art said, that's a good point. Thanks, I'll think about it. You're very welcome. Zengal wants to remind everyone to read the four agreements. Folks, if you're not familiar with the four agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, by the way, there's a link below to get a copy of the book. I highly recommend checking out this book. This isn't a dating book. This is a lifestyle book. You know, okay, four agreements are, be impeccable with your word. Always do your best. Remember that other people's opinions of you are projections of them and don't make assumptions. All right? All right, hope that helps. Cassandra writes, question, is it fair to diss a man because he smokes cigars? Well, I used to smoke cigars. Would you have dissed me, Cassandra? Would you have dissed me? It depends on how often a person smokes cigars. I know I've smoked cigars when I play golf on occasion. Sometimes when I have a scotch on occasion, it's so rare these days. But is it something, is it their habit? Is it something they do regularly? Because I can recognize that smoking could be a deal breaker. I think smoking cigarettes is more disgusting, just in my opinion. Oh, that's my judgment, disgusting. I'm not anyone else who smokes. That's, you know, that's their choice. I think I wouldn't discount a person if it's occasional, but if it's something that affects the odor effects, and it's, by the way, it's physically harmful too, so I can recognize the health implications. But if it's something casual for them versus something habitual, that's where I would make my choice from that standpoint. Okay, Cassandra, thank you so much. Page writes, question. I just started dating a new guy who is newly divorced, November 2022. We're taking it slow, but we're now, but we're now establishing that we have chemistry. What is your advice to me? You know, usually somebody who is coming off of a marriage, there's an unraveling of the tapestry of their old life and they have to individuate, and there's a period of time it takes to individuate. And what typically happens is men in that space have what's known as transition girlfriends, one or two, during that particular time before they're ready for a significant relationship. Now, let me tell you a quick story. After I filed for divorce, I'd been five months into my separation and I wrote this woman on a dating profile. This was a dozen plus years ago. And she said, how long you've been divorced? And I said, well, we just separated five months ago. And she wrote me back and she goes, reach out to me when you've been divorced for 18 to 24 months and you've had one to two transition girlfriends. And I said, what are you talking about? I go, I'm ready, I'm ready, I'm ready for a relationship. And she goes, well, that's my standard. Sure enough, four months later, I met a woman. So I'm nine months after moving out. And met a great woman. We started dating and three months into the relationship, I hit a wall. I couldn't go any further emotionally. I knew I wasn't ready for a relationship, okay? And we ended our relationship and she was heartbroken. Sure enough, but I want companionship. I want connection. I want sex. So I'm back out on the dating sites, you know? And this went on for, and I had some months later, I met another girl three months in. We had a great time. I pulled back. I think I had a couple of relationships before I met a significant relationship five years after I moved out. Now, I wrote this woman back. I saw her online four or five years later. And I said, I want to share this story. And I told her she was right. I did need a couple of transition relationships because I didn't know what I wanted back then. I didn't know who was right for me. Remember, for dating for a lot of people is you learn what you want by what you don't want and you sample a lot of people. So with that said, you two are taking it slow. That's good. But just remember, this is the challenge with dating people who are newly divorced. So this is where you have to ask a lot of deeper questions, practice radical honesty, laying your cards on the table. And what I call is the rules of engagement means you establish your standards right from the get go and you do not accept anything below that because if they cross a boundary, it means they're not right for you. All right, Paige, I hope that helps. Thank you so much. All right, Rebecca writes, went on a dating app. Is it appropriate to state something to the fact not interested in booty call type statement? That's all I got from men. Anytime I saw a woman who wrote that, I knew that was a person that experienced that a lot. And to me, I felt that they were focusing on the wrong thing. Ladies, you do not put on your profile what you don't want. You put on your profile what you do want. So what would that look like? I'm looking for a significant relationship. I'm looking to get remarried. Put what you do want and not what you don't want because guess what the universe does? The universe doesn't hear don't. Here's what the universe hears. I don't want a booty call. What the universe hears is I, they take out the don't want a booty call. So what happens is they send you more, the universe will send you more and more people until you say, I want a significant relationship where I'm living with someone and then see how the universe will provide there. God universe spirit, okay? Leslie or Rebecca, I hope that helps. Question, do men mark territory after they've dated you? An ex matched with me on hinge, asked to catch up on a call, said his buddy had matched with me and told his buddy he wasn't allowed to go there. Yeah, men can be very territorial, like just like a dog wants to pee and mark his territory. I used to go pee in women's houses to mark my territory, just kidding. Yes, we men are territorial. We don't like the idea that someone we know is going to sleep with somebody we were with. So that is exactly what happened in that particular case Leslie. So I don't know what advice to give you in that but that does happen, absolutely. Diane writes, question. After meeting online and going on three dates and three weeks we found we're very compatible. While I'm packing our past, I learned his roommate is actually his ex. What is the best way to accept? That's a tricky one. That's a tricky one, you know? Hey, I mean, if they sleep in separate rooms, I think that's at least a good sign. You know, it depends on how grown up they are. You know, it depends on if they had a conscious uncoupling. I mean, I think some people, I mean, even married couples live together even after they break up because they're a financial reason. So, but I would be a little concerned about that. So tell him, I'm concerned about this. Tell me why I shouldn't be. I'm concerned about this. Tell me why I shouldn't be. And see how he responds. I mean, that's a tough one. I could go either way on that one. Now you could walk away, but you could be walking away from a great guy. So why not dig a little bit deeper and say, how would we navigate a relationship together given that that's uncomfortable for me? How would you reverse it? How would you feel if I was living with an ex lover and see how he responds to that? He's probably going to have to do something because a lot of women might reject him for this. But you know, you gotta trust your intuition on this one. This is your gut say on this one, Diane. Midnight blue says, I would not be okay with the roommate thing. I get it. Rebecca says her knee jerk reaction is hell no. Oh, hell no. Oh, hell no. Hey, you know, we got a light group tonight. I think I'm gonna head out. Marie is in Florida right now. Visiting family, I'm gonna join her. I'm gonna catch the red eye tomorrow to join up with her. We're gonna spend a little time in Florida. I'm gonna do my best to shoot a video while I'm out there for you. I'll have some pre-recorded videos as well. So folks, I just wanna tell you how much I appreciate your love and support. I hope you find value in the content I provide. And I want everyone to recognize that there's nothing easy about this thing called dating, mating and relating. I get it. This is not easy. And yet what's most important when I talk about this in my book, what the heck is self-love anyway? A journey of personal development, self-help and spiritual work, all the books you can get are listed below. The first person you should be dating is yourself. That's the first person you should be dating. And when you're dating yourself, you can bring other people into your life and hopefully a partner in your life at the same time, but always be dating yourself. And I just wanna remind everyone, most men are good guys. They might be broken. They might be wounded. Most men are good guys. They're just bad daters. But I wanna also remind you, it's raining good men. It's raining good men. It's raining good men. God, universe, spirit. I invite in a partner in my life where we have amazing chemistry with one another. And our communication and banter can go on for hours and hours at a time. And our lifestyles are blendable with one another and we share the same values to build the deep roots of trust so we can explore a fully committed, conscious, co-creative relationship. God, universe, spirit. I invite that in my life. And I invite that in for everyone who's watching today because good men, it's raining good men and there are good men out there. All right, I hope you found value tonight. Just wanna remind you that. I'm gonna send you off with a big, gigantic Jotham Bear hug. I'm gonna reach into the camera and give you a hug of love if that's okay. I'm gonna ask you to turn to someone, a pet, a teddy bear, a pillow and give Iter them a hug of love because hugs are a great source of love. And let's face it, we could all use more love in our lives. I wanna thank Sweet Art and Jenny and SW1 and Kim and Leslie and Rebecca, Zengal and Paige and Midnight Blue and Cassandra and Diane. Leslie, everyone, thank you so much to all of you big, gigantic hugs. Have a fab evening. Bye now.