 Men appreciate women where they can be their hero, the act of service, and what better way to be in a sense of service to someone is when you ask a man for help or his advice. Let me repeat that, help or his advice. This is a great way to engage with a man when you say, Hey, I'd like to have, I'd like to get your advice on something. I'd like to get your advice on something that actually makes a man feel respected because that means you're genuinely value what he has to say.