 Let me see here Go dark soon Get this hill set up Y'all forgive me for that it cuts my Whenever you create a post it just so refreshing Not refreshing but it is refreshing to see I'm gonna tell you something once we get this here Situated hopefully my service is decent Getting this hill situated He'll lie. What time it is Seven something It didn't let me set the chat either They still have an updated that the where you can set your chat. So they still have that the way they had it It's where you can't just you know Do all the adjustments and then when you share it It cuts you off So hopefully I got a good enough service and it's not too much of lagging On here what it's a Thursday night that we able to put this up on my end But I'm in the car. So what I want to do is Go live versus recording the video and then trying to upload it and It's real interesting too and that's why I want you to be encouraged of how When you step out on your dreams and you step out to do what you call to do You can't worry about the bumps in the road and the hiccups because Here we have a multi-billion dollar company Who has some of the brightest minds in the world and They still not set up and structured in a way. That's practical like if I They have a button on here for me to share the live so I Have to now if I share the live to my community page or To anywhere it shuts me off for the live And so if I'm new to this I'm gonna think that my live just glitched and that it's over. It's done but When you go back to click the plus sign like you're gonna upload a video and then you click go live Then it pops up and says you have a live going already resume or end and so it Cut me out as if I chose to cut myself out Versus allowing me to share it used to let me share it and the live would stay on Now the live cuts off if I share it But I say that to say We get so hard on ourselves when we trying to build a business and build a brand and so my site's not right Or my emails not right or my logo is not right And we don't realize that this company's worth billions of dollars still figuring it out Been around for two decades and still figuring it out still working out kinks So never worry about what you lacking in what you're doing And I want to get this video tonight. That's off the topic, but I always try to Relate the real-life situations. I want to put this video up for for really for nine o'clock But my son get out of practice at nine o'clock. So we don't have to go but I've been thinking about this because we've been looking at this and we've been seeing this a lot with our Relationships and a lot of people are saying hey is love either even worth it is love still real is love still a Thing like is it worth giving of myself and getting into a relationship and First what I want the singles to understand is If you want somebody We live in a day and time and this is a choice that you have to make but I'm gonna just keep it real with you in This day and time if you want somebody You first have to address your Packaging Meaning if you are a diamond If you are a diamond in a brown bag You are going to continue to be overlooked You have to switch to a Tiffany's box to get picked Now some people will say well Tony it looked like some Tiffany boxes are out here, but they still single well You still got to be a diamond in the Tiffany's box So the Tiffany's boxes are getting picked But when that stone get tested if it is cubics Arconia it get let go So you have to understand that the main thing that's happening today is our society is turning people into Diamonds in a brown bag or cubics Arconia in a Tiffany's box instead of having a Diamond in a Tiffany's box meaning we need to get right. You have to get right inside and out in this day and age It did not always have to be like that and then some people say well Tony I see some people that look a mess and then in relationship They attracted what they are So if they look a mess the person they wit look a mess and If the person they wit don't look a mess The person they would they wit Open the box and realize they are a diamond inside of this hill box and that's why that person with them and You can't you cannot look at what other people have and what other people doing because we never know the inner workings of other people relationships But what you have to be able to do is ask yourself am I working on my three B's? brain brand body Do I have my three B's in order most people have two B's and They lacking in one. It's a lot of people with the brains and the brand and They missing the body. It's a lot of people with the body and The brand and they missing the brains a lot of people with the brains and The body but they missing the brand Brain brand body. You got to have all three B's to get picked today The reason why we're not getting picked today Why people ain't get picked today is because of a microwave society So when you are in a microwave society people are accustomed to getting things fast and Also being able to change things out fast so people are a Custom to having a return policy and being able to get your money back People are accustomed and people are being bombarded by advertisements and by distractions. I seen an ad For BLK ironically, I coached the white woman who met a man on BLK and she met a black man and he was trash and I say well, why are you on a black out and she says all kind of races on there? I say well, that's where y'all send y'all self up for failure because the app is not for y'all the app is BLK for a reason is for black people. So if you go on there as a white person you is You going on there and you looking like a duck If you go on there as a Hispanic you going there looking like a duck Yes, we understand that people date across races, but if something is For a certain race You ain't supposed to go on there, but she say all she attract to is black men It's all she date and I told I say listen in America It's gonna be hard to find a black man That's gonna take you serious as a white woman because of the history of the black man in America Yes, you see it happen But typically when you see that happen is from a black man who He's he's been called white and they say he talk white or he act white or He is looking to use a white woman. It's very rare as it organic There are organic ones, but it even knows that's organic is typically a black man who don't really relate to the blight the inner city black race and So we also have to understand the dynamics of relationships. You have to understand Compatibility you can't just focus on what you think is chemistry and you can't just focus on what you like You also got to like what likes you But you have to evaluate what likes you and why it likes you and So when you evaluate what likes you and why it likes you then that helps you understand that That connection so how The lady say she date white man. Somebody say she date white man a white man who likes a black woman is Typically one or two types of man One type of white man that like black women is white man who was raised around blacks So they kind of have an accent like a lot of black people the other type of white man that like black women is a white man who Is seen as lame or nerdy or corny to white women So they become a prize to black women The other type of white man we got we'll go a third type is the type who See a black woman doing good and got a good job and knows that most of her black male options are trash So he goes and he capitalizes off of the fact that black men do not take her seriously and Won't do right by her the whole race of Black men Especially black celebrity men need to be thrown in the trash For the fact that Serena Williams Had to get a white man I'm not against that. God bless their union, but common had Serena first and squandered it Like what is you doing common? Here you got a dog on strong woman body talent Yes, you might got an attitude now But we don't know how she is behind closed door. We see the attitude on that court and yes She's swaying that racket at your head. You're gonna die, but still how you get Serena? Where is you let her go and Now she had to go date outside her race because the black man that was dating her did not know how to keep her and God bless God bless the interracial unions, but For the people who are not in an interracial union Have to realize when you look at an interracial union you got to evaluate it and so Serena's look is not praised by black men because of the media's programming When we get outside of the media programming we could see that she's a beautiful woman and When you look at what the media is showing us it's gonna showing us the same type of women and Then when you look at the man He Typically does is not praised by his race a lot of times It's individuals who have been taken for granted or mistreated They didn't go to another race Because you go where you celebrate it not where you tolerate it So that's what happens is a lot of times in this There are some but it is it is an exception to the rule where interracial couples is organic pure love a lot of times it's by force or It's by circumstance and not organic now You have to realize and I agree with Janine Because what I've found is that every woman got a soft place for a man but a man got to get to that place and Got to get outside of the the box But here's what we have to realize You got to understand looks compatibility The reason why a whole The reason why a whole line of Relationships are failing is because we don't understand compatibility and looks compatibility People will say oh what looks are mattering in a relationship It even mattered to a blind man y'all watch the Stevie Wonder movie or the Ray movie where he used to grab the wrists If that wrist had too much bacon in there He kept it moving That wrist had to be a certain shape for Ray The want to put that pole on her If that wrist had a little too much of the wrong shape Ray was gone And he couldn't even see So you have to understand looks do matter both ways a Woman don't want a man that she's not attracted to a man does not want a woman. He's attracted to but here's the problem Humans in a lot of cases are not looking for love Humans are looking for Approval so when you go to someone looking for approval you Do too much and you show yourself to be desperate and you show yourself to be Thirsty and You do too much and when you do too much you get taken for granted Because if you treat somebody like a celebrity, they're going to treat you They're gonna treat you like a fan So you got to understand is you should not go to somebody That you look up to in the looks department You need to go to somebody that you look at Don't go to somebody that you are groveling at their feet Because they got your tongue at your mouth You need to be able to go to somebody and say this is an attractive person But you should not go to somebody and be like, oh my goodness The most attractive person I've ever seen because if you're able to say that that means you're not on that level Because game recognized game So if you got game, you're not going to be impressed And if you got game at the highest level and and relate this to sports When you got game at the highest level you can respect somebody game But you're not finna be overly impressed by nobody game because you own that level But when you could look at somebody and you just groveling and you just oh my good. Oh my good. Oh my good. Oh my good Like nobody has made Michael Jordan say oh my good. Oh my good. Oh my goodness cuz he's that guy so You have to understand this in relationships if you go to somebody and you constantly licking your lips licking your lips And you just losing it Their relationship is going to destroy you Because that is idolatry You need to be able to look at somebody not up to them. You need to be able to look at them And so you got to understand that you got to first understand the compatibility The relationship compatibility. Okay, then what you want to understand After that is you have to understand see We don't address our childhood trauma So we bring our parents issues or our caretakers Guardians or our guardians issues into our relationships today So when you bring your daddy wounds or your mommy wounds Into the relationship You then start to treat your partner like you dealing with your parent and You're having a response to your parent even though you're not with that parent and When you get beyond the parents then it's our exes and we're responding to the present Based on feelings from the past and This affects our relationships greatly because we're not responding to the person that we're with and We are shell shot and we operate and based on what we have gone through So if we saw a parent be very controlling in a relationship then we become Controlling in the relationship or On the flip side we feel like everything is controlled and so we lash out against this person Who was just communicating and asking of us a normal request in a relationship But we are taking it as control because we grew up with somebody who Was controlling then what happens is on the flip side we then go to a place where We are defensive so we either are emulating the behavior that we seen or We are reacting to the behavior that we seen even though it is not present in this relationship so I See a lot of women Who grew up in a two-parent home? Where their mother was a homemaker Now I thought that was somebody who build houses but that means a stay-at-home mom and The women who grow up and a mom was a homemaker and their dad was controlling or Inconsider it. I noticed that a lot of those women despise Women who are homemakers because they feel like they are weak They feel like they are insignificant and they feel like they are less than so those women then do a lot of preaching about Having a career and having your own money Not realizing that the only reason they feel that way is because their dad was toxic So instead of realizing their dad's toxicity They are daddy's girls so they feel like their dad could do no wrong and they're mad at their mother for not having a backbone But what they don't realize is that if their mother would have had a perceived what they call a backbone Then they wouldn't have had that mother In that house cooking and cleaning and serving and cleaning up after them So they mad at their mom instead of understanding. It was their dad that weakened and broke their mama back So instead of looking at dad like why didn't you create a safe space if you want to have a homemaker Why didn't you if you want to kill woman? Why didn't you do the keeping meaning? Why didn't you take care of her emotionally mentally? spiritually and financially and then on the flip side what happens is a Lot of men We look down We look down on the woman who is not making money So we treat her less than and by treating her less than then a man will tell His daughter Always have your own and he tells the daughter always have your own because of How he knows he treated the mom But if he treated the mom Y'all got to forgive me that loud siren if he treated the mom with love and respect and Like an equal partner Then he would be able to tell his daughter. He would be able to believe That his daughter could be treated with respect and loved as a homemaker So when the lady says my mom always told me to have my own or My dad always told me to have my own It's because he knew that her mom Was marginalized By him So he didn't want her To be marginalized by another man who may very well be the same as him So then he takes and puts her on guard and on the defense to then be against her husband to be at war with her husband because He told her to always have your own so then she will marry her career and then have children and She wants to be everything for her children and everything for her career and you can't be 100% in two different places at the same time And so that's another reason why our relationships fail But it literally come from upbringing. It literally is all childhood trauma is Us not being able to rest In our masculinity and our femininity and Us not being able to understand that there's nothing wrong with roles and Those roles could be different But you define the roles for your relationship and for your household not based on your parents household So we take the past and bring it into the present and that's why it is said that a person is made up of The history and the biography equals the makeup of a man or a woman their history and their biography And so we have to renew our mind and renew our spirit and we have to redefine what we know to be love and Also a healthy relationship instead of just Living based on the imprinting that we received as children and So we are failing in relationships because we're not present We're not present. We are in the past and we bring in the past to the present and We do not value each other so Men and women have to come to the place that we fully respect The opposite sex and that we value the contributions and the uniqueness of that gender so men downplay how Divinely and wonderfully created a woman is and Women downplay how divinely and wonderfully created a man is But if we can have a mutual respect and we can stop pedestalizing ourselves and then demeaning the opposite sex then We will come to a place where we can have a mutual respect and we can build on that respect But Men will minimize a woman's contribution to oh all she does is cook and clean Not realizing that there is no man in the world that can give birth and That there is no robot that can give birth to a human But yet we minimize a woman to cooking and cleaning when a robot can cook and clean But a robot cannot conceive carry and birthday human But men we will minimize the contributions of a woman and even if a woman cannot have children There is still no robot and no man that can support and nurture The way a woman is because of how her brain is wired and then a woman will look at a man and minimize his masculinity and not realize the unspoken impact that he has on children and how children take and Respond to a man who is present and healthy and whole and it changes their life by his presence alone and A lot of women will ignore the fact that their child will spit in their face But then kiss the ground that their father Walks on and he's not even in the home as much as the woman Because he may be out working a lot and that child will respond and that child will give that father credit and respect and A woman will forget the value of a man and we do this to each other So if anybody when you coming in I know already spoke on the other side So if you catch one side of it, that means you missed the other side So we gonna have some people that come in late and they miss far. Oh That go boy And so we have to understand this that we have to have a mutual respect And so when we have this mutual respect now, we're able to build Now we're able to say hey You do something that I can't do And when we both can say you do something that I can't do You are priceless You are irreplaceable When we have a mutual respect for each other Then that's when we're able to build But the reason one of the reason our relationships is failing is We minimize the contributions of one another and so therefore When you don't have gratitude Then you can't have growth so a relationship cannot grow if there is no gratitude in the relationship and We always tend to think That the neighbor has a better garden and what we don't realize is that if the neighbor has a better garden It's because they spend more time in their garden. So men assume That there's a woman better than their woman and Women assume that there's a man better than their man and instead of the two of them having a mutual respect and In working together on their problems They look outside of the relationship for somebody else to solve their problems And they think that if they go to somebody else those problems will be solved and This is why we fail See we don't look within we look without and when we look without That's where We lose it and so we have to come to a place to where we say okay, what can I do? Because what you have to understand is that Energy does not die. It transfers. So what I mean by that is When you come into the space You shift You affect the atmosphere Because you are matter and you matter So when you change your mindset and You change the way you move It naturally it has to by law affect the way your partner moves But if you don't move a certain way if You're not changing and you're not doing anything Then your partner not gonna be able to change see if you reinforce the negative If you reinforce the negative Then that's what's going to repeat itself So you got to understand that because when you shift things shift And here's the thing a lot of times what we do wrong in a relationship is we wait on our partner to change We tell our partner what we want them to change and then we wait on them to change not realizing that our Actions cause a equal or greater reaction And so where we fail at is by us not changing and instead waiting to be changed for The relationship fails Because if someone is not affectionate They're not affectionate because they did not receive affection so if you tell them that you want affection and Then you wait for them to be affection affectionate But they do not know what affection looks like and feels like but you don't exemplify The affection because of your pride and your ego and you're waiting on them to be affectionate Then the relationship is going to fail But if you want affection Then you have to give affection Because when you give affection you then make it okay for them to give affection You then exemplify and show them How affection looks and feels and so this is what you have to understand When you change your situation is going to change So that's what you have to realize Now what happens is and it's don't come in here mentioning people and then get blocked If you're on my page, this is about my teachings We ain't talking about nobody else's teachings and you're applying stuff That's out of context because this ain't talking about changing nobody this talk about changing you and So if you come in here and shut up and listen then you'll hear the whole message and then you'll hear everything come together so if You coming in here working for Satan the cause distraction and confusion you're gonna get blocked off the whole channel So when you come in here You saying a man ouch This ain't going both ways and we arguing and debating I've been married 16 years and my wife changed me and I changed her too and we changed by changing our self So don't come in here with the foolishness. So you're gonna get blocked So this what you have to realize when you change the situation change and When the situation don't change That's when you change your situation meaning That's when you exit the situation Because when a person love you they're going to change but see this what we don't realize is You can't deal with a human You can't deal with every human the same way Because for some people they will raise so cold that they don't know how to be warm Some people was raised so hard. They don't know how to be soft But what you have to realize is that love conquers all So love conquers all so what that means is you have to learn how to speak love in different languages Because some people only felt pain So if you come to self and you don't know how to have tough love You don't know how to have direct love and you don't know how to reinforce Love and you don't know how to exemplify Self-love then what you then do is you reinforce their self-hate So what a lot of people think changing someone means They think that means tolerating their behavior But when you stand up for yourself and You are consistent and you stand on what you stand on Now you let this person know That you are not going to bend or fold for them and By not bending or folding for them. They realize that no disrespect will be tolerated and By you not accepting and tolerating disrespect you teach them how to treat you and What you have to understand is that some people were not raised They just grew So some people do not Understand Instruction the first the second or the third time but they understand Demonstration There's a difference between instruction and Demonstration so when you demonstrate by removing yourself From the situation so that they realize that What they are doing will not be tolerated They didn't know they need to leave or they need to change and when they fake change and Then they go back to who they were and you leave again no matter how much skin you got in the game They didn't realize That they cannot fool you They cannot play you and that you will move on with your life So that's what you have to realize So when you come to that place you start to understand that everybody can change a Cheater can change a Liar can change But they have to know That what they are doing will not be reinforced it will not be tolerated and so when you leave They didn't learn that they will lose you and When they learn that they will lose you Now they realize that who is after you won't be better But if they don't want to grow and change all that means Is that that is not your person That you are trying to love someone Who has their love language? Because love conquers all So there's different people There's different people Who can reach different people? So you have to understand that you won't be able to reach everybody So when a person won't change for you Meaning that your influence Won't encourage them and influence them to change on their own Then you don't speak their language and It's somebody else and it's a lot of times the person right after you That speaks their language and you got to be okay with that So here's the thing There's a push and there's a pull But in this push and pull what you have to understand is You have to have standards and You have to stand on Your standards You have to stand on your standards So the person has to know that there are things that you will not tolerate These standards also can be called boundaries So now you have these boundaries You love them Unconditionally you love them with everything that you have But when they do not reciprocate You do not reinforce You do not reinforce what? They won't reciprocate So now they learn I either got to put up a shut up And when they come to that place to realize that Because here's what you got to understand If a person was raised cold, they don't know how to be warm If a person was raised hard, they don't know how to be soft If a person was raised soft, they don't know how to be hard So what you have to understand is is that some people They only know destruction Some people only know brokenness And if it's not broken They want to break it Because they only feel at home in brokenness it's just like those of us who We come from nothing and not really having anything so we don't know how to be with something and Our comfort is having nothing So if we got a thousand dollars in the account We have to find something to spend that thousand dollars on Because we're so used to having nothing that we don't feel comfortable with something When we so used to toxicity, we don't feel comfortable in peace I remember being told about a study with a monkey who They took the monkey mama away and they replaced the monkey mama with a Just a live video Angelica And when they say live on that I mean that I mean it's live Just let you know a little bit somebody YouTube now when they say premiere that mean that it's pre-recorded But when they say lie that means lie And so see how I'm responding to you just lie one two three four Just lie. Okay. That's sometimes it's hard to believe when somebody ain't got no note cards And they just talking to you from the Holy Spirit. That's what you call the Holy Spirit flow So understand it. They showed the monkey and they took the monkey mama they replaced the monkey mama with an identical monkey But the monkey mama the the doll had nails on it and The baby monkey went to hug the mama and Although the mama had nails on it The baby mama the baby monkey kept hugging This fake monkey with nails because it thought it was its mama So what you have to realize is Is that When somebody know When somebody only know pain that's all They won't and until they receive love long enough To where the love washes away the pain The same thing that Jesus Christ did for those he died for until the love Is continuously poured out in the form of grace and mercy and It washes away the pain. That's when a person can't accept it So another reason why our relationships fail is because we give up too soon We give up too soon before we've even really been hurt We give up before we didn't even really went through anything and Then the first sign of going through something we run and It don't mean that you sit down and you get beat down and get beat on and all of that They don't mean that Don't mean that at all But what it does mean is Is that You endure and That you work and you try and you try different things and the person that you was drawn to That you you learn how to speak their language and This what you got to understand is because of the microwave Because of the smartphone Because of streaming services Because of fast food we are Spoiled We spoil girl K out on God bless you and so we run too fast and What we don't realize See there's a spirit That is peaceful and patient But when you not top tapped into the spirit of Christ When you not tapped into that spirit You become impatient Selfish and greedy So what happened is you don't recognize spirits So when you in your relationship and you're going through turmoil You're going to the turmoil you're going through trials and tribulations The adversary sends somebody Who looks like a savior The adversary sends somebody who looks like a tall glass of water and you feel like you in the desert dying But because you're not tapped in spiritually You don't understand that all you are going through in your relationship is spiritual warfare and What you fail to remember is that whenever a Spirit was called out of someone it was spoken to directly So when you shrink and you refuse to speak to the spirit You refuse to look at the spirit and say hey Hey, hey, hey listen listen listen to me listen to me listen to me you going through You are struggling and you are being tested and you're taking it out on me I Am here for you and I love you with everything in me But you are making me your enemy You are making me your opponent. Hey listen to me. Listen to me. You are making me your opponent and You are hurting me You are taking out spiritual warfare Physically See when you speak to the spirit directly The spirit got to respond but see what we do instead is We internalize because we do not understand The power of God and that when we pray and We confess and we call the spirit out when we don't understand the power of God and praying and confessing and Speaking allowed to the spirit. We internalize We cry We mope we complain and We war internally instead of giving it to God And then tapping into the power and the confidence of God and speaking to the spirit see For those of us who have been embattled with spiritual warfare How many times have someone you love Looked you in the eye Looked you in the eye and said to you hey Hey Stop everything stop everything listen listen slow your breathing down Slow your breathing down. Hey, listen. I need you to hear me. I need you to hear man I need you to hear me clearly There was a spirit on you and you are at war and What you going through? I don't know what it is and I can't tell you that I understand it fully But what I can tell you is that I could see it and I could feel it I Could see it and I could feel it and you are taking it out on me And I need you to understand that I am your ally and not your enemy That God placed me here Not for you to destroy me But for me to help you and for you to help me but right now You are abusing me as if I am Satan and If I hurt you See when have somebody Who loves God and who loves you said that to you See when you speak to that spirit You gonna call that spirit out, but see somebody who not tapped in to the power of God does not have the confidence of God With the knowledge of the Lord comes a strong confidence Proverb 1 and 7 So if somebody tapped in They're not gonna operate in confidence. They're not gonna operate in power instead. They're gonna shrink and when they shrink The devil gonna send a bandaid for their wounds and They're not going to see That the devil that's being sent to them is 10 times worse than the devil that they battle and right in front of them and That's why our relationships fail Because we go within instead of going to God and Instead of walking in love instead of speaking the truth and power instead of speaking To the situation We go about it the wrong way and when we go about it the wrong way then We easily deceived because somebody come up and They pretend to see What the adversary is the adversary is a decepticon The adversary can wear masks the adversary could wear different faces and They come up and they look like everything that we do not have They look like an answered prayer If a man is battling spiritually and there's some things he don't like about his woman Another woman with a Jezebel spirit is gonna come and she's gonna be friend this man And this could go vice versa. So understand everything. I'm saying vice versa now Gonna be friend this man and she's gonna be she's gonna say she cooks every day The woman ain't cooked in three months She ordered not She bringing the food to work like it's leftovers from what she cooked last night and the man Don't even know that the lunch she brought him come from the restaurant. He thinks she cooked it but she is desperate and lonely and she heard in conversation That his wife or his woman don't cook So now all of a sudden she's a cook His woman don't clean all of a sudden she hate messes She despised messes. She always got to be clean. She didn't and she didn't even clean her body last night But she's been to make this man think she the cleanest woman in the world So here this man is don't realize that he dealing with a decepticon Who is trying to trick? his woman at her spot and get in the spot and Then when she get in the spot and she get her claws in them and she get the money and she get To quit the job like his woman who don't got to work and she jealous of her She finna become ten times worse than what he thought his woman was and vice versa the same thing happened a Woman she at work or she bump into a friend. She bump into an old fling. She bump into somebody She go to talking about her relationship. Oh He always leave the toilet seat up He only bays twice a week He never helps around the kitchen He doesn't he's not handy. He doesn't know how to put anything together He forgets to take out the trash But what she fell into realize is that he's faithful He's faithful He ain't putting hands on him He's providing for But because he can't put a because he can't build a house from the ground up Because he forget to put the toilet seat down then here come this man. Oh Yeah, I just built this I built this on This this table yesterday She's like what you could build a table Wow My boyfriend or my husband couldn't build anything in a million years Then he come back the next day. Oh, yeah last night. I cooked some, you know, some beef stew and rice with some cornbread and Put a little spinach on the side. What you cook. Oh Yeah, I cook all the time. I have to cook every night. I like to eat clean Her man got a dad bar. He don't cook So now this decepticon Then came up and all he want to use her far is the money she got access to He won't her to help him with his kids He won't her To use her credit on him He want to tap into that saving so he finna pretend to be everything she said her man wasn't And this is another reason and remember everything I'm saying go both ways now. This is another reason our relationships fail Because we don't understand That the grass is never greener The grass is never greener all grass Gonna have parasites All grass gonna house a snake at some time All grass gonna change colors if it's real All lot you will be better off Learning how to pass the test That's in front of you Then asking somebody else. Can you have a test? Because every test gonna have a question that you got to learn how to figure out how to solve So you got to realize this And when you realize that your life gonna be changed So listen if you miss the end of this get this here on in your spirit get this on in your spirit and Listen to this twice three times We didn't coming up we coming up on an hour my son get out of practice in ten minutes So I'm finna put on up here and you this good restaurant Get on up here by this gate when he come out So yeah, get this here on in your spirit and and listen back to this because And remember you got to listen to these my videos when I'm teaching like this here You got to listen to them about three times Because when I say a sentence your mind start to remember your relationship or your experience and then you miss the next three or four sentences So what you want to do is listen to it a few times so that When you process one sentence and and you them process that and you miss the next three The next time you listen to it You're gonna catch that sentence that you miss and you gonna be like oh I didn't remember him saying that and that's just because of how the mind work They're just cuz of where your mind went while we was While the video was on So understand that right there And but a God bless you. Thank you to everybody in the blessed tribe For those of y'all who not in the the growth group, that's our monthly group coaching It's on Tony gasses Academy.com. I'll put the link in the description So you'll see it later. It's our monthly coaching program and Where we have at least one call every month sometimes we'll have two and three so bonus calls But by next year, I'm planning to move away from one-on-one coaching and Be doing the group coaching so that we can have a group learning from each other supporting each other and That way I could give more time to creating You know books and courses and other tools to help and so we'll be doing the group coaching So they got a practice earlier tonight. So God bless y'all and we'll talk soon. Oh and today Yeah, I got the drive home Well, he better kill me. And so the day yesterday was my son's 16th birthday. So on Tony gasses Academy You'll see $16 courses. Not normally what I do when I do a birthday sale in honor of my family member I get him the money but He's sitting in the money. So The proceeds going to war his car Yeah, you heard it the proceeds going toward his car that he got yesterday that we sitting in So God bless y'all will talk soon. So go to Tony gasses Academy calm and you'll see the $16 courses get your life, right? God bless you Everybody say happy birthday. And if y'all sent him a cash out, I did give it to him I was gonna charge him a surcharge But I did give it to him and there was a few two or three people send him a cash out. So he did get that But hey, God bless you and we'll talk soon Here go this thing. It was doing this yesterday where they say front passenger airbag off And it's like when you get in the seat for some reason it don't recognize you