 This amazing Buddhist temple on the beach There's something else here on top of this rock Not sure what it is just coming to the end of a four or five hour drive And they will have pictures and videos of that on My Instagram story very soon. So check out my Instagram. It is naks5u2 White sand palm trees Quite some big waves today though But there's also something here That you might not normally expect to see on a beach And I don't know if you can see it there in the distance But yes It is a cow For some reason there is a cow laying on the beach And I have to say it is something I've not seen before Amazing temple there Really beautiful Yes, there is a cow On the beach has anyone ever seen a cow on the beach before? Let me know in the comments down below Because this is a first for me I've seen a cow on the beach before But he or she Looks like they're having a good time just relaxing here just as I am So onto the topic of this video cut off all contact with them They don't like it when you do that They take it as rejection. It makes them feel completely worthless and insignificant It makes them feel unimportant and irrelevant Because they look at it like if they mattered if they were significant to you. How could you just go no contact with them? Just think about how much effort they put into their manipulation and to secure in you as a source of supply They do that to keep you stuck to keep you hooked on them And when you just go no contact They can't believe it. They're shocked Because they put in all of that work to secure you And it still didn't work It was still ineffective So they look at it like At that point they must mean nothing They must be completely worthless because They did everything they could to attract you To manipulate you to secure you all of these things and it's still didn't work You still walked away. You still went no contact And not only that But if you not only go no contact, but you also move on and live your best life As I am doing right now as you can see Better completely destroys them Then they're really going to suffer Just towards the end of the relationship they had to create this false narrative that you were the problem But if you move on and you do better without them it completely destroys their false narrative But it's not always that simple to just go no contact and live your best life Of course, they're not just going to let you do that Because that would completely destroy their false narrative It would affect their false image their false display So they will Stalk and harass you They will come back and try to tear you down Because remember it's all about the image that they display to people If you just move on and you start doing better without them It just shows everyone that they are full of shit And they can't argue moving on and doing that They're not going to let that happen So of course they will come back and try to destroy you. That's just what an ass is this going to do You have to keep moving You have to climb higher and higher So that they can't pull you down You have to stay on the move So that they can't get to you and by doing that the narcissist will suffer forever Remember They see you as their supply. You're this object you that you're this extension of them They use you as a tool to regulate their emotions They can feel good It's as simple as that They view themselves in contrast to you If you move on and you're happy and you're doing good, then they feel like shit And that is why They have to view you as their competition They have to see you as their enemy the opponent the adversary because Everything in their life is relative to you That's how you feel about your life and how you feel about yourself and how successful you are after leaving them so You just imagine a Set of weighing scales If you're up They are down if you're down They are up And they have this black awake mentality where there's either a winner or loser Someone is either right or wrong or good or bad So if they want to be a winner You have to be a loser if they want to be all good You have to be all bad if they want to be right You have to be wrong Do you see where this is going? It's as simple as that And by knowing this I'm being aware of it It can help you to prevent it and that's why I'm out here. I'm living my best life I'd like to think that's that's why I've had to go through all of the shit that I've gone through So that I can learn from it I can gain that experience and then I can share it with you so that you don't have to go through it Well, at least so you want to have to go through the worst of it Because now knowing this it can help you to prevent it But yeah, if you want to make the narcissist suffer forever Go no contact and live your best life That's really all you have to do because nothing will hurt them more than that. It will make them sick It will disgust them because They can't stand to see you happy they can't stand to see you moving on and just live in your life Just look back at all of my videos from the very beginning I've Been saying this right from the start Look at my first video The narcissist does not want you to look good or feel good And my second video. I think that was the narcissist hates your accomplishments my third video Was the narcissist wants to destroy you And there's been plenty of other videos after that the narcissist does not want you to experience real life The narcissist does not want to see you happy it goes on and on I've got hundreds of videos like this because I know exactly how it is. I've always known this Right from the beginning Why my first video that I put out was the narcissist Does not want you to look good or feel good That is very important. There is a reason why that is the first video on this channel That is extremely important and anyone who has been involved with a narcissist will know that They will know that that is completely true A narcissist does not want to see you look good or feel good They don't want you to feel good about yourself They don't want you to feel good about your life They don't want you to feel good about your future your past your present whatever it is They don't want you to feel good about nothing Nothing I think this cow is living its best life too All the other cows are in the fields This cow is coming up to the beach The palm trees are the back the waves are coming in Save the sale this cow is living its best life And I hope you are too If you're not then start doing it now go to contact move on and live your best life The narcissist hates it. They can't stand it. You've got to do it for yourself You've got to do it because this is what you want to do You want to move on you want to be happy you want to make the most of your life Because life is short. We've only got a certain amount of time on this planet. We have to make the most of it That's why you see me every day Today I am living my best life. I'm traveling. I'm going to restaurants. I'm staying at nice hotels. I'm driving cool cars That is why every day I am making the most of my life and you should be too You should be doing it too And if you're not then start doing it now Start doing it right now I know some of you you may be in a difficult financial situation Maybe you haven't got much money to do the things that you want to do You can't just take a trip You can't just go on vacation. I understand that So Find ways to make money Start looking for work get a job start a business Opportunities are everywhere. We can all do it and trust me as you can see From what I do every day I've been on here Making videos now for almost five years delivering coaching sessions. You can see that hard work pays off It's true message that I want to send to all of my viewers to all of my clients That is the message that I want to send to my children When they grow up I want them to know Hard work pays off Don't ever have a defeatist mentality that no matter what you do no matter how hard you work No matter how much effort you put in it's not gonna go anywhere. Don't even don't ever think like that Never think that way It does pay off if you put the work in If you make an effort you will get something back in return you will and of course narcissists They will try to destroy you. They will try to tear you down If it's anything good, they won't be happy with it They are opposed to anything positive If it's anything good, they don't like it So of course they will work against you And It might give you this defeatist mentality. You might think that it's all over for you You might think that you can't move on. You can't live your best life. You just got to keep trying. Don't ever give up Don't ever give up We just have to look back at our ancestors. They never gave up. They kept going no matter what It's been very difficult times In their past there were wars There were plagues everything And that's a message they wanted to send to us to never give up to keep trying And this is the message that we need to send for generations to come to our children, our grandchildren, our great-grandchildren We don't want them ever to think that it's all over for them that they should stop trying No one should ever think like that People thought like that. We wouldn't have made it this far. We would have ceased to exist a long time ago But yeah, if you want to make the narcissist suffer forever, what are you going to do? So you can't deal with a rejection And they have this black and white mentality Where You either win it or lose it You're either right or wrong, good or bad And if you move on and you're doing better without them it destroys that false narrative And then they have to look at themselves That's the problem That's the person who is wrong The person who is bad The person who is the loser and they can't stand to deal with that That's where they go This orchestration, this display, this illusion Because all they really care about is how they see themselves and they have to create this illusion That there's nothing wrong with them. They're perfect. They do everything right They winners, the champions, all of this. It's all a load of bullshit We know that And our best lives They will be forced to accept that So that's what you've got to do And as you can see that is what I am doing right now I am moving on. I am living my best life Because I know that is what God wants me to do. I know that God wants the best for us He does not want us to be in pain. He does not want us to be in suffer to suffer because We Have a positive mentality. We care about the world. We care about other people. We want to do what is right So of course We need to have the tools to move on and live our best lives Right. I'm going to get back to by traveling On to the next destination The car is very muddy as I have been driving off-road But this is A great off-road car. It can drive on any terrain. It could drive in the snow or ice Forests sand I was actually driving for the sand earlier today I don't was there for less for this car. It was really good. Really fun Okay, that's it for today I hope you enjoyed the video. If it was helpful, please give it a thumbs up down below Share the video subscribe Leave your thoughts down in the comment section and Check out by tiktok and instagram. It is nark survivor youtube And if you'd like to book a one-on-one session with me, you can do that from my website. It is narksurvivor.co.uk Thank you all for joining me. Thank you for your support and I will talk to you in another one very soon