 Hey Survivors In this video, I'm going to be talking about how Narciss have nothing to give Please like comment share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos If you would like to donate my PayPal link is in the video description If you are interested in one-on-one coaching you can email me at NarcissFeverCoaching at gmail.com Narciss have nothing to give in a healthy relationship There is a balance of give and take They support or assist you and you support or assist them In a narcissistic relationship, it is very unbalanced Where the narcissistic partner takes everything all of the time and Gives nothing in return in a healthy relationship people want fairness honesty loyalty and trust Narciss cannot give you any of that because they are solely focused on themselves In their minds everything flows to or from them Not to anyone else Even when they appear to be complimented someone or criticizing them They are projecting their own positive or negative traits onto them They do not acknowledge anyone as being separate from them Whatever they say about you whether whether positive or negative really has nothing to do with you It's just a projection of their own positive or negative traits They do not see you as a separate person and nothing about you interest them unless it relates to them in some way It may seem as though the narcissist is opposed to their relationship partner or that they desire to harm them or make their lives difficult But the truth is Narciss don't have anything to give anyway Narciss have an excessive interest in themselves They are self-absorbed and lack empathy They don't have anything to give to you and they don't have anything to give to themselves This is why they are always trying to extract resources from everyone around them If they already had it within them They wouldn't need to extract it from everyone else And even if they did have it within them, they wouldn't give it to you They are only interested in what you can provide to them in the narcissist mind Everything happens to them or for them Everything happens because of them Like a toddler they believe that the world revolves around them and everyone is there to serve them and provide them with what they need They do not see people as being separate from them Everyone is just an extension of them Whether they're good or bad They cannot appreciate you as a separate person with your own feelings once needs and desires They assume that you have the same feelings once needs and desires as they do Or they will push and provoke you until you do and even then It's not about giving anything to you It's about what you can provide to them when a narcissist interacts or engages with a person They see a mirror reflect on themselves The mirror can either reflect something positively or negatively When a narcissist interacts or engages with a person It's like they are looking into a mirror and trying to identify or understand what it says about them It's all about what you can reflect back to them They don't have any emotions to give to you. The narcissist will never be able to give you what you want They will never be able to give you what you deserve They will never be able to love or appreciate you. They are like cups with a leak at the bottom They cannot consider you because they're too focused on how they're going to fill their cup No matter how much of your love or energy you pour into them It will always leak out. It will never be enough It will never sustain them and because of this They will never be able to pour anything into you. You cannot pour from an empty cup When you are in a relationship with a narcissist You have to neglect your own feelings once needs and desires It is similar to being a full-time mother for a young child or baby. You have to carry them through life Put up with their endless crying and screaming Absorbing their negativity and taking their abuse You cannot get what you want from them You have to wait until they feel like bothering with you because it's not about what you want It's about what they want And due to their arrogance and entitlement They will expect you to be appreciative for having the opportunity to basically be their caretaker if you don't do what they want Or if you're not satisfied with what little they have given you It will cause a narcissist's injury and narcissist's rage Even the hint or suggestion that you have feelings once needs and desires of your own Mainly to you being discarded by the narcissist There will be no empathy compassion understanding or support Unless there is a benefit or gaining it for them if you are ill stressed Tired or just having a bad day If you make a fault or mistake They will punish you for failing them You are unsuccessful in achieving their desired result or goal Remember it's all about them. They do not consider you They do not consider your feelings wants needs and desires They don't even see you as a human being You are an extension of them When they look at you or interact with you They only care about how it relates to them or how it makes them feel They do not see you as a separate person And nothing about you interests them Unless it relates to them if it doesn't directly affect or say anything about them It means nothing to them. Thank you for watching. I Hope this video resonated with you. 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