 What is the number one waste of time in your 20s? What's the number one waste of time? Answers Facebook that's pretty good. What number one waste of time? TV it's a good one generally a waste of time Sleep too much, right? Yeah, I'll sleep when I'm dead Those are good things number one waste of time is staying in a bad relationship You could just ingrain that in your brain. You will save yourself so much time energy effort I See my friends and bad I've seen them in bad relationships and you all know somebody's been in bad relationships You may have grown up in a home that was a bad relationship and what is the old saying is that every kid would rather Be from a broken home than live in one. It's kind of the same way Why do you want to stick around in a broken relationship that doesn't work? Oh, well, you know She moved in to help me pay the mortgage payment. She moved in to help me pay the rent, you know, it's cheaper to Then the things go sour and now stuck with this person. So here's the signs I'm gonna hit a bullet point that will do a Q&A Red flags in a relationship. I've got a lot of this stuff in my blog This is my end in my blog archives. You can go back But if you see yourself in this anytime or you see friends say and wake up. These are red flags Arguments poor communication or lying of any kind One of my early business partners I used to say this with clients you get a difficult client right out of the gate And you're like oh and we would always say if this is the honeymoon. I Can't wait to see how the marriage is going to be so if it's really bad in the first stages in the first few months Personal experience you can have a relationship with a woman for Two or three years and never have an argument there are women out there like that So don't think oh, we have a healthy debate about things. No, not really Okay, so arguments poor communication lying bad Jealousy or suspicion if she doesn't let you have boys night out if she just tries to keep you from your friends You say hey Friday night boys night out. I'm going with my friends. We're gonna hang out We're gonna talk trash solve the world's problems. We're gonna get drunk and flirt with girls if Seriously, you may not say we get drunk with girls. You say, but yeah, we're gonna drink We're gonna drink some Irish whiskey. We're gonna do some Jack Just a couple guys who've seen me on that downtown Maybe not say hey, I'm gonna flirt with girls, but they know they know you're gonna hang out with your friends If they're single friends, they know what's gonna happen. It's implicit. They'll accept if it's a good woman She'll accept it if she's like jealous and doesn't want you going out with your buddies or tries to keep you to herself Huge red flag. It's because it's only gonna get worse someday You decide to get married and have kids whether you want to go play golf on Saturday with your buddies. Guess what? There you're not. She'll say I worked hard all week. Here's the kid your turn I'm gonna go have breakfast with my girlfriends. She'll say and you like what? You know, I'm gonna go to the YMCA and take a long run and work out You just stay with the kids, but Scott my friends. No, you set the stage for it