 You said that you, you were struggling with dating as well. Like, did, like what happened? Did you have like a, a glow up and then. No, no, there's still no blow up. I guess I should just put this out there. I'm still single. So I guess I'm still struggling. I guess I'm still struggling. So I think that the irony is like everyone, everyone struggles with dating just for some, for some of us who are more privileged, we have, we have more resources at our disposal. And so I had more options. And so there's, there are more ways for me to navigate that world than there were for my cousin specifically. And so I think that, that's the disconnect. Well, um, for ladies wants to send in or lady or men, I don't, I don't know. If, if the people out there want to send in some, some emails and sentiment, sentiment. It'll be a new segment.