 How dare you ask me to cook and clean so they don't want to cook or clean? Sometimes you'll meet a woman that'll say, I don't mind doing any cooking or cleaning. And while she's cleaning for you, you know what? She's cleaning up. She's looking at you. I mean, you should be doing equal amounts of this work too. She's keeping score. And so this is a violation of the social contract because they're entitled to your meat, which you can measure. Then she tries to couple this with equal partnership. You're literally giving up tangible resources to her if you actually measured what you get back to her. I can almost guarantee you it's a 90-10 relationship. You give the most, she gives back very little.