 when the narcissist flaunts their new source the narcissist will use their new source to get to you but they're not really in a relationship there's no official duties or responsibilities there's nothing that they have to be accountable for it's just for their image it's just meant to make them look good but most often their new source ain't anything special they're not top quality they're not on top of their game they're not really about anything but narcissists are delusional so they will flaunt their new source they will put it out there for you to see but when you observe it they could have just hidden it from you because it's not even affecting you but they're doing it just to get a reaction out of you just to get your attention to make you think that there was someone else and they're happy they're trying to maintain an image of reputation they're trying to manage your perception by creating an orchestration they know how to plan and coordinate the elements of a situation to produce the desired effect to make you react they depend on their image it's all about how they want people to see them so you won't see too many posts you won't see too many pictures because they ain't all that they just have too high an opinion of themselves they think they're greater than they actually are so you won't see too much because if they did they would be putting themselves in position for you to laugh at them because what you don't realize is that they picked this person out of desperation they had a hopeless sense that the situation was so bad and impossible to deal with so they had to pick someone because they were willing to do anything to change it they were desperate and they felt like they had no other choice which is why eventually they get tired of the new source they get bored and they no longer want to deal with them and that's when they have to create this story as though there was something wrong with their new source as though there is a reason why they had to leave them and come back to you but it's all nonsense it's all bullshit they were trying to make you jealous but it didn't work because you didn't react because you've got to approach with a lot of energy if you're going to flaunt a person in someone's face if you want to make them jealous if you want to make them feel bad you've got to come strong you can't come foolishly you can't come bullshitting if this new person is meant to make you feel a certain way if they're meant to affect you but they don't even know who the narcissist really is they don't know what they're really about it's just a distraction it's something they're using for a short time because this new person really ate about shit it's just something they are using to hurt you that's why they're putting it out there but you won't hear too much about it because this new person isn't on your level so they will keep them quiet they won't want them to start talking because they don't want you to hear that they do not want you to hear that because that makes them look bad then they don't look good but even the things they do flaunt it's not official they don't have any duties or responsibilities there's no accountability it's just something to make you regret really quick so that they can live in this moment of satisfaction of feeling like they've won or feeling like they got one over you and then they will come back with these excuses to make you feel like you've won them back you've beaten the other person when it's just all a game they put all of these pictures up for you to see but it's all fake it's a natural their smiles are forced they pretend to be happy but it's exaggerated it's not real they're just putting on a show and you are their audience they're bragging and boasting about all of this stuff but if you could be a fly in the wall if you could see what is actually going on in that situation you would be laughing at them because it's a joke but they will use this to come back to you especially if you don't care especially if you're not worried about them they have to act like they have something without you but it's not official and with time you will see that you will see things fall apart because they always make the wrong decisions they have poor judgment and decision-making skills so it won't be long until you see it now as the citizen masters the focus duration and perception management they put an image in front of you and they make you choose after it because you believe that it's real while they're standing off to the side looking sloppy and then wash like a homeless person while they're looking depressed and disappointed but they don't want you to see that because if you saw that you'd be laughing at them you'd be laughing because it's just a false persona it's a false identity which they are using to deceive you to make you feel like you've lost something to make you feel like you're missing out but you ain't missing out on nothing it's just an illusion that they are trying to create for you to keep you under their spell so that you can feel that sense of loss and then they could feel better because you feel like you've lost something and they've moved on and they're happy without you but they can only trick you in the moment it doesn't last for long because they're never happy they're always in everyone else's business they're always looking at what the next person is doing or what the next person has got they don't have the time to think about their own happiness they are never happy but they will try to make things look good they will try to act like they're happy but that's not what's really going on they're miserable and depressed because they constantly make mistakes that they regret they constantly bragging and boasting things that they can't bring into reality because whatever they're trying to make you think they're doing it's actually the opposite some of you may feel like you've lost something but the only thing you've lost is the problem you didn't miss out on anything they're not doing better without you they haven't changed anything about themselves the only thing they changed the scheme because they're dealing with a different person so they will make adjustments to their manipulation but that is the only thing they're going to change they're not going to change to become a wonderful person so with the next person all they're going to do is adjust themselves to what that person's likes interest and needs are so it may look a little bit different to what you were doing with them and of course it's going to look better in the beginning but check back in a few months or one year later and see if they are still with them some of them may still be together because maybe they don't know who they're dealing with maybe they don't know what a narcissist is but eventually it will fall apart just as it did with you thank you for watching if you found this video helpful please give it a thumbs up share your 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