 Okay, cool. So what we just did is we just posted it on the actual business page and so when it comes to a video may take a few minutes to reflect there, but whether it's an image or an actual video. You always want to post and let me rephrase that when it's an ad so when it's an ad, and it's a video or an image you always want to post it on the business page first. Okay, and then what's so so important is that we look at make sure the text is spelled make sure everything's correctly there's no, you know, grammar errors or whatever. And then when it comes to video will take a look at the video once it actually post, but sometimes we may want to change the thumbnail. Right, sometimes when we do video, the first thumbnail shot is a retarded one or eyes are closed or we're looking freaking up you know I mean like sometimes on the actual so with Facebook, you're able to change the thumbnail. And so we want to make sure we do all that before we actually run the ad before we actually, before we actually run the ad because once we run the ad we can no longer edit. So you won't be able to edit that video post or image post. So it's very important to make sure everything is correct now. So in the meantime what we'll do is let's simply go to the business manager and we'll just set up the ad so let's go to our folder at the top and we'll just go to ads manager. Perfect ads manager and then from here will always want to make sure the star is where we're bookmark so that star in the top in the in the top right so that that's the blue that's our bookmark we're in this account sometimes by default as you come into the ads manager just like we did right now. Sometimes by default Facebook will have you in the other account. So if you click on that drop down in the top left Whitney, you see see more ad accounts. Sometimes they'll have you are actually most of the time, they'll have you in that other account so click on see more ad accounts. That's the one so the bottom one by default, you'll be in that one a lot of time so you'll be halfway through setting up a damn ad and you're like holy shit I'm in the wrong account. So you always want to just double check that you're in the right one which we are so we're perfect. So from here all we're going to do is click the green one. Click on create. And so with this account info need we need to confirm if you do before you publish an ad you can either go to account. Okay so go and click on that whatever that is. So, this video is going to be and is going to go out to 10s of thousands of people in that local area, and not all of them are going to watch it not not all of them are going to even watch half of it. You're going to have thousands of people that watch maybe 15 seconds of it, 20 seconds of it maybe 25 seconds of it, but anyone that watches just a little bit of something. If I sat there and watch 10 seconds of something. I know who that person is now. Right like 10 seconds is a long time. Okay, now three seconds that might be just someone scrolling through watch go to your newsfeed real quick let's just test this for ourselves go to your newsfeed. Let's just randomly go through the newsfeed let's just look at random stuff. And as we scroll down there's an image let's see a video. Here's a video right here. So if we sat here look at 2345 that's a long ass time. So if I'm sitting here and I watch it for 10 seconds. That's someone that we should get back in front of right and that's the whole objective the whole purpose of video views is to find that small percentage that actually sat there and watched it for 30 seconds. Because if I can turn around and show them another ad. And when I do, I'm going to turn around and show them a conversions ad. And that's when they're going to they're going to see me for the second time they're like holy shit I saw her last week. Right and so now we just continue to retarget and all we're doing is branding ourselves in a local area, which is which is going to create that omnipresence. So video views, and then now what we're going to do is we're going to drop down before we continue with that yeah we'll hit that drop down we'll scroll down just a bit. And then we're going to add the ad levels that we're about to go through right the campaign level the ad set level and the ad level. So as you start to run ads you want to start titling these levels. Just so when you come into the dashboard you know exactly what ad is what because if we're not super detailed with the with the with the with the title of the ad, we're going to have to click on it we're going to have to go into it we're going to see what add that was, and you So here campaign the title name this campaign. Let's name it intro video intro video and then in parentheses in parentheses. We're going to put video views, because that's the objective we're going with that's the campaign level on the campaign level all you're doing is choosing the objective. And then also we're going to choose the housing special ad category but that's it so it's really just naming it that intro video video views perfect. Let's go ahead and name that and we as we go into that section, the second ad set section for example, we're going to that's where we set up everything but here again we're giving it a very basic detailed specific title so here I would, I would name it, I would name it maybe the target so what what city or what town Lakewood perfect Lakewood and then just put put Lakewood 15 miles Lakewood 15 miles, so we know exactly what we're about to set up, and then the ad, you can just put intro video, same thing as as the top intro video. Perfect that's it and then continue. Awesome. So now as we go in we're still on the first level so to the very left top left, those are the three levels intro video video views Lakewood 15 miles intro video those are the three levels we're about to go through. So here, the campaigns a special ad category that campaign drop down, hit that drop down categories and go to housing, not that one though, yeah that one. So, you're going to always do housing from this point on. And that's why with boosted post you don't see this section so when you boost a post the ad ends up getting rejected all because of this. So you always always always have to go housing. So that's it for step one of the campaign level now you hit next and we go to this the second step. So now over here we're going to go budget and we're going to go calendar and we're going to go the location which is Lakewood. So with, with daily budget click that drop down you got daily and then you have you have lifetime. And do you know what the, what the difference is. No. Daily, daily is what it is daily, for example, 20 now we're going to change the 20 we don't want 20 day we don't need 20 day at all, but 20 is daily so you're forcing Facebook to spend that 20 bucks in a 24 hour period, you're forcing them, right you're forcing them to do it. Lifetime is where I can set the set a calendar date so I can set it for today till next Thursday. And then rather than spending, let's say let's say it is $20 a day that we're going to spend. Let's just say that for example and let's say we're going to do it for for for 10 days, rather than going daily 20, I would go lifetime 200. Okay, same dollar amount, but I'm just giving Facebook the flexibility to spend it accordingly to spend it as long as you spend it within this calendar period. I'm good. And the reason why we do it that way is because every day is different every day the traffic on Facebook is different. For example, over the next couple days, probably everyone in their mother is going to be on their cell phone everyone will be on Facebook for sure. Right. And then that's just a high demand time of year for traffic. But after this after this after this weekend, it might just fluctuate and go back down a little bit the traffic and the attention on Facebook so that's why I go lifetime. So they can just kind of spend it as the traffic goes up and down. I don't want to force them daily to spend it so lifetime with this. What I would do is I would really start maybe if the budget is 300 for the month, then just divided by four. And make this our first our first video of one of four. So what would that be 75. What is that 75 a week or what would that be 400 what's 400 I'm so bad 400 divided by four is 300 I'm so sorry was three. 300 divide is 75 yellow 75. So if anything you can go 75 lifetime and maybe run this for the next seven days, maybe even maybe even 10 days since it's the intro video. You can do it that way, or, and or one way to do it as well is to put a is to is to put is to leave it at 75 but run at the whole month. That could be a strategy as well. So your whole the whole entire month that intro video is running. That that could be that could be a strategy as well so you can go yeah you can go what I would do and here's here's another thing. When we set up ads and we always want to do it for the next day at 6am. So we're going to go December 25, either the 25 or the 26 but yeah 25 is the next day so 6am. And then what we're going to do is we're going to just. Yeah let's just, why don't we just push it out let's yeah let's go let's go 25 to the 25. So we'll go 6am. And then, and then we'll go, we'll go January 25 on on the end and then 6am. Perfect. So again I just got done saying four divided by 300, and there's a 75 and the way I'm strategically trying to set this up is one ad per week, and that's going to be the strategy, but this is the intro video. So it might it so it's also good to just have the damn thing run just let it run let it run at the month. And let's just let's just let it run, but but also stay on track for video number two video number because we can have multiple ads running so this video ads going to run all month, and then we're also going to have three more ads coming this month as well, for example, you know I mean, and you would only do this with the intro video you wouldn't do this with an open house or anything else like that this is simply introducing ourselves. Yeah, it's good to let it run a little longer. So that's good perfect so there's our, there's our budget. And if anything what I'll do to at the top so let's scroll up to the top to the title Lakewood 15 miles dash 75 75 dollars. And again that way when we glance at it on the dashboard we know exactly what what we're spending on this. So, so that's good perfect okay so we'll scroll down and then a little lower. So right here right here in the future in the future. This is where we would retarget our custom audiences. So if you click inside custom audience in that box search existing audiences little lower the box search existing audiences. If you click in there. You'll see a drop down of all of our custom audiences. So as we move forward at number two at number three at number four. This is where we'll start retargeting people who watched the intro video people who watched last week's open house open house video. Right people who who engaged on a poster ad. This is where we would retarget. So we would dump all the audiences in there. And then also below on the map also will include Lakewood, but here we're retargeting. And then as we start to capture leads as we start to capture leads as people go to the landing page enter their name and email. They click submit they go to the second page that's the thank you page as people land on that specific link. That's also a custom audience that would be named for example open house leads or 777 blue Ivy open house leads. Those leads those people every week we're going to have a new audience because every week would be a different open house so every week there's going to be people landing on the thank you page on the second page. That's when we would exclude. So we would click exclude and we would start excluding those audiences. So now United States will hit edit to the right and then we'll just go Lakewood. Okay cool Lakewood and then we'll always always go with the drop down so whenever we see the drop down. Lakewood. Okay awesome so there's Lakewood Washington. Okay, so that becomes your stomping ground that's the area we're freaking taken over. Okay so every week we're going to continue to to and would you say all your open houses will be in this area. Okay, so it could be good to target this one area every single time. But because we're going to go to open house strategy, then when we start running those ads it would be good to maybe put the address. So we'll put the address of that property in there and then go 15 miles out of out from the address. Got it. Right. So in this case with the intro will do Lakewood and we'll just blanket that whole area. Okay cool so age we cannot change gender we cannot change because we're in the special ad category when the housing category. So we can't do anything there. Detail targeting. Sometimes it's good to put to put keywords in this area, which we will for open house ads but not on this one with the intro will just target the whole damn city everyone. Since we can't even change the age, we're going to just let everyone see that see that ad. So we'll leave the detail targeting blank we won't put anything there so we'll scroll down if anything languages you can maybe change languages if anything. Or you can leave it you can leave it wide open. My new agent that's underneath me she wants to target Spanish speaking, would she Spanish. Oh yeah that's it for ads in Spanish, she would crush it. Yep, she would crush it there's not too many people that do that at all at all at all. Everyone's kind of targeting English and that's it. And then I also have another agent that speaks Vietnamese. They would crush it to, they would crush it to, they would literally crush it like crush it crush it, because no one's doing that no one's putting out pure content or running ads on on another language, like especially Spanish like if she started doing stuff in Spanish and then just targeted language Spanish holy shit she would take over. Cool, I'm going to, I'm going to contact you. I know I will to do your class so whenever you're ready to for your like. Yeah, for sure. She's going to contact you or again they could start paying you with like shit like for real like that's why what I'm doing here is giving you this skill. So you can literally start teaching these people if you wanted to, you can always send them my way for sure, but I mean shit like that's what's going to I truly believe that's what that's what would bring more value to people want to even be on your team. You could teach them some shit, you know, I know but I, but if you had the time. What's that, I don't want to leave you out. No it's all good that's all like trust me you're not like you're not at all like your support here you've already you've already blessed me enough like I want to help you like let's just freakin build your team this year and take you 100 plus. You know and deal so yeah but no for sure if you don't a lot of times I extend that out and then people are just super freaking busy so they just send them my way anyway so yeah if you're too busy than shit yeah I'd love to help anybody but with this skill you can easily you know run through and add for her. But yeah we'll play about your so automatic do you know the difference between automatic and manual. No. Okay, so if you click on manual automatic is right here manual so everything you see checked if you scroll down you see Facebook audience network instagram messenger all of this shit is checked. That's automatic so automatic is letting Facebook run that ad anywhere and everywhere, which which which can be a good thing it can be a good thing. And that's that and this part sometimes it's worth testing now in this with this in this intro video case. We don't need to test there's really no need to test but as we start to run other ads. Sometimes it's going to test we'll run some open house ads where we go automatic will do some open house ads where we do manual. Because if you look at if you look at if you look at this manual. You have all these different placements on Facebook so you have placement feeds, you have stories and rules, you have, if you scroll down even farther you have it, you have in stream, you have rules overly you have search. So all of this shit is what's in the Facebook platform, all these different random parts of Facebook that we don't even really pay attention to. That's everywhere, anything and everywhere and that's everywhere and a post can be or an ad can be placed. That's the way that I look at it from a consumer's perspective because we're consumers. Where do we spend the majority of our time where is the majority of our attention. The majority here, right it's in the feed it's in the freaking news feed I'm in my news feed, watch go back to Facebook real quick the other tab that's open to the left top left. We're here, like we're spending all of our freaking time in this damn news feed looking at cats. It's very rarely where we're carrying what the hell is on the right side of the page. Right, like you see those glasses to the right now every now and then that will catch your attention every now and then, but 99.99% of the couple billion people that are on Facebook and Instagram, all their attention is on the news feed. Well, and when you're on your phone you don't see this exactly right all you see is damn news feed. So, so in the Facebook ad platform in here, Facebook gives us the ability to uncheck all this stuff if we don't want to be placed over there. So if I want, if I want every single penny of my dollar going to only the news feed, I can do that I can uncheck all of this shit and only go to the Facebook news feed and let all of it all of that penetration all that dollar go there. Right, so sometimes that's good to actually a lot of times that's good. But in this case, it's an intro video we're trying to just get exposure this is our intro into the into the community this is like our are just welcome hey here's what we'll go automatic we'll let it we'll let it run everywhere. So scroll down, and that's about it so now in the second step right what did we do we went, we went, we chose the budget we chose the location we chose the, the, the, the, the calendar. And then also we can put in our custom audiences we can exclude include. And then we can change the placement. That's all on the second step. This is the ad set level step two. Okay, and that's it. So now we click on next and we go to the third and final step. And then over here, what we're going to do is we're going to make sure that that Instagram account is is is connected which perfect perfect it is okay cool. So now over here. There's two different ways to run to run an ad okay so the way we did it that's way that's the way we always do that's one way to do it where we post it on the business page first, and then we come over here and run the ad. That's one way to do it. A second way to do it is to simply not post it there and pull it from your download folder for example. So as we come in here and we create ad, we're going to simply if you scroll down a little bit. You'll click on add video and it'll allow you to pull it from your computer. Right. That's the second way. The reason why I don't do it that way, pull it from the computer pull it from your download folder for example, is because that's what what what they call a dark post ad. So when ad is running, but it's nowhere on my business page, and it's just kind of running behind the scenes. It's it's running for sure, but it's just not on the business page. That's that's that's a dark post ad a lot of people run it that way. But the reason why I don't run it that way is because if I'm going to spend money on the damn thing. I tend to live on the business page publicly forever. Yeah, right, especially if we're going to spend money on it it's like shit let the damn thing live there forever. Let people see it in the future like I don't care if the ads turned off, let people see it nine months from now it's going to be on the page. Right. And when they see it they're going to see it with thousands of views. They're going to see it with hundreds of people that commented and click like for example right so that social proof lives on the page forever. I'm going to post it on the page first, and then come over here and run the ad. So here on the ad setup, rather than create ad, we're going to click that and go use existing post. And you know what let's go back to Facebook before we select post let's go back over here and see if it's on the page, because what I want to do real real quick is edit it. So let's let's try yeah try refreshing it. Okay, awesome. Perfect. So again, add number two and on will hold that phone horizontal because you notice the black borders on the left and right. Yeah, right. Now this is perfect for Instagram as we run Instagram ads because I'm going to teach you that as well. So as we run Instagram ads, that's the format for Instagram that's the dimension vertical. And as we run Instagram ads go back to the other to the as manager to the other tab. Click on Lakewood 15 miles to the left top left. So as we run Instagram, that's when we'll go scroll down we'll go back down to the placements, and we'll do manual placement will uncheck everything and only leave Instagram. That's how you run Instagram ads successfully, where you completely separate them. You let it run on it on its own only Instagram. So here's what we want to do first before we before we choose the post. We want to make sure that we put watch go back to go back to the newsfeed real quick click the home at the top top. Yeah, click that. So if you scroll down let's look for a video real quick, just any random. Okay, right here actually you can go back up to that one go back up a little bit right here. What we're going to add. This is an image but it's but it but it's for sure on video. What we're going to add is that bottom left. So you see the image and then bottom left you bottom right you see shot now but bottom left, you see that description optical eyeglasses dash Tijn, right that little brief description is what we want to add to every video every video that we're going to that we're going to run as an ad. And so it's not there right now so the way it is right now if we were to run the ad yours would be blank on the bottom left, but we want to add something there for sure so go back to your business page. And then what we're going to do is we're going to click the three dots and we're going to go to edit. So edit post. And then we're going to click on video options. And actually know that's a really good that was a really good thumbnail. So right to the video title video title, we're going to add something then and that's something super short, super. And in the future, we want it to be catchy, we want some type of catchy call to action in the future as we capture leads but in this one you could just put something simple, like, what did you put on the on the tech on the on the actual text you put. Just a quick hello. Yeah, a quick hello here it could be it could be something like that too just your local realtor just wanted to say hi or something like that like meet your local realtor Whitney or something like that your local realtor wanted to say hi, perfect, perfect, perfect. And then now click on. So if you go change thumbnail. If you go change thumbnail. Now Facebook scroll down choose from video. You can choose different parts of that's a really awesome one the one that's already on, but just in the future like sometimes you get stuck with your mouth open right that's an awesome one right there. But this is how you would change it in the future and again you always want to do it before you run the ad, because once we publish that ad you can't do this part no more. Okay, so so that's a good one. So we'll hit save. And we're good. So that was super super important adding the video title and then click save again, adding the video title and then change the thumbnail if needed, before we run the ad. Okay cool so we're good there so now let's go back and all we're going to do is simply go back to the ads manager and we're going to simply choose that post so if we go use existing posts we're going to click select post right below. Select post and there it is there. So we'll hit that and then we'll hit continue. And then, and then what we'll do to we don't have a lead capture page yet but what you can do is you can always scroll down just a bit. You can add button, and you can either add a send message button or you can add a learn more button and maybe just send them to your to your exp website for now if if anything, but go ahead and add a button just let's just add something. So you can go learn more or or send or send message but learn more if you do have an exp site right or send message. Yeah you can do that too. Perfect. Perfect. Cool so now you see that the bottom left your local realtor wanted to say hi. That wouldn't have been there before right now that would have been blank. So we're good there so now we're going to publish, and we're good. And actually, yeah we're good. Okay cool so publish, and then the last last part we want to do real quick, and you want to just get in the habit of doing this every single time so what we just did is we just uploaded to the business page we came over here and we made sure all the edits were done and then we came over here and published the ad. And then what we're going to do right after is going create the custom audience so we can start tracking everyone who's watching the video. So when this happens, you just clicked on the green button and then it gets stuck publishing one of three I had I see that happen every time. When that happens and it gets stuck like this all you do is open up another tab. So open up another tab let's go back to the ad manager in the in the in the folder. Yeah you can leave this one here, which is open up another tab and we'll go to the ads manager, and then we'll push it through from over here. So if you notice the blue button top right. That's what's what's review and publishes three. The three is the three levels campaigns, ad sets and ads. So because it got stuck at 24% of the other one. That's what that is so click on that. So we're going to just simply hit the green one publish and then it'll go through publishing one of three you'll see two or three and three three okay cool we're good. So now you can close that other tab that second one up there. Yeah, close out that one. Yeah, leave. Okay cool so now you're this one scheduled meaning it's already approved. So what did Facebook approve us on they approved us on the fact that we added the special ad category of housing. And they approved us on the on the objective of video views. If you click on the middle tab ad sets, these are our three tabs campaigns, ad sets and ads, and then you notice the title. So now it allows us to just look at the title and know exactly what ad that is. It's Lakewood 15 miles so that that you'll see there that's scheduled that's approved so they approve the targeting they approve the calendar the budget and all that the placement. And if you click on the ads, what they're in review what's processing and will be in review for a few hours is the video so now they're, they're checking the video to make sure there's there's no bat. I don't know if it's a if it's a machine that checks it or if it's actually someone that checks it because I've seen ads get rejected. Because of the video because there might have been a bad word and not even a crazy bad word maybe someone said shit or maybe someone said ask for example like not not not crazy. And then it'll also get rejected I have clients where they'll do they'll do they'll do like, like, do they'll do like tours like they'll do like interior, like walkthroughs of a property. I've had clients get rejected because as they're doing a walkthrough, there happens to be a wet bar in the kitchen for example and there's bottles back there, as we'll get rejected because of that too. So the video that would take a little longer that's why we always set the calendar for the next day, because this is going to take a little while to approve the video. Okay, so, so we're good there. Now what we want to do right away is create the custom audience. So we'll hit the three lines or you can go to your folder, either one but three lines and we'll go to audiences. Okay, perfect. Okay, so now over here, what we want to do is we want to click the green, I mean green, we want to click the blue button create audience to the left, and then we'll go custom audience. And then we're going to go video so yesterday we went Facebook page right so now we're going to go video. And then as we get our pages up will go website, but but really those are those are mainly from this point on you already did Facebook page yesterday so where do you have the audience for that that it never needs to be redone or reset up for any other ad that Facebook page is good. From this point on, all you're going to be doing is creating audiences for video and for website. It's really nothing else. Instagram account on Facebook listings events shopping none of that stuff. It's website video. That's it. So in this case we'll go video we'll hit next. And then what we're going to do is we're going to simply the engagement the first drop down we'll click on that. And these are the different. This is all the different percentages and in different amounts of time so three seconds 10 seconds 15 seconds. So based on the length of the video, like how long was that video a minute, 45 seconds 45 seconds. So, what we want to do is capture an audience of at least 15 seconds. So if you watched at least 15 seconds of that video you're going to see another ad. Okay, so we'll choose video top right, we'll click on choose videos, and then we'll simply. Actually it's the top right where you're in the painter page so we'll hit that drop down. We'll go down to yours, and we'll see all your videos so in the future, you can create, I would do them all separately because Facebook doesn't allow you to bunch all of them in one. But what I would do is I would, I would probably do them all, all separately. Yeah, yeah do them all separately so in this case just check that first one and they hit confirm. And then over here, the retention 365, what I would do on that is I would drop it I would drop it for sure down to down to 9090 is good 60 is good. 60 days anyone who's watched this video in a 60 day period is going to be in this audience, and then audience name intro video intro video, and then in parentheses 15 seconds. Okay, so this would be an audience say you'll always always retarget in every single ad you'll always retarget on the second step the ad set step will always put in this audience to retarget so create audience, and then done. And that's it so so this right here is is is what we want to focus on is custom audience building all these audiences to retarget or again exclude in the future. So that ad will go live tomorrow. And then our next our next step is to you know what, do you go to. Do you have a domain already or do you not have a domain already. I purchased one a while ago and my fiance was supposed to do it. I know about that find out which one you have and find out where where you purchased it. Because that that's what we want to do next is we can. We'll, we'll leave this one just for the video today, just so we don't, I don't overwhelm you with all this information but next we'll integrate the domain so Facebook can start tracking that domain. There's an integration that we got to do here on Facebook and and through the actual settings of where you purchased the domain so hopefully, hopefully you got through go daddy that's the most popular one. But whatever one you got it through it's all the same settings we log into wherever you purchased it from and then we get a code a piece of code from Facebook and then we add it to that domain, and Facebook and start tracking it. So, so this one is good to go and if anything do do another video real quick click on the create create audience click on the blue button and just do one more for the hell of it. Just do custom audience. And then let's go video. And then next and then just go choose a content type yep and we'll just go 15 will do 15 seconds for all of them. And then choose videos in the top right, and then just choose any of these other ones. Perfect perfect and then name it name it exactly what that was to those first time buyer or what was it first time home. Yeah first. Yeah, first time home buyer perfect and then in parentheses 15 seconds. So, even though, even though those were organic post and there wasn't a ton of views on them for example. It's still it's still okay to do this audience but in the future as you can see. When we run these ads on videos we're going to get literally thousands of people to view them. So the audience is so important to be able to track that and retarget those people in the future. Cool. Perfect. Awesome. So any questions on this what at all. No, okay, we're wild to like understand like be able to do it in my sleep. Yeah, nor do you have to right now that's why you got me so I'll walk you through all the stuff will be on these on these coaching calls for a while till this stuff really hits off for you. So, we'll let this one run and then our next our next one is you want to you want to for sure. I have my next Wednesday I'll have my open house for the New Year's weekend set up so we can do that one. Okay, so then so then okay perfect so then here's what we got to do on Wednesdays for Monday. Can we chat Monday. Yeah, Monday is when we'll activate the culture account. Okay, because that's when we'll need the pages for the open house. And then we'll, and then we'll just that yeah we'll just activate the 14 day trial on Monday and we'll we'll have yeah we'll have leads coming in before we even before the 14 day trial even ends. Perfect what what time works best for you. The same time actually is always perfect but I'm on your schedule so you tell me it's it's all good. 10 is perfect perfect let's do 10 Monday and I'll shoot you an email as well. But I'll be a message away if you need anything have a super super merry Christmas even though you've already celebrated it, but have a good time anyways. You have a good Christmas. It's stressful man I'm it's not even fun anymore dude I'm telling you it's not even fun anymore like it's so I'm just stressed out trying to get presents for kids and making sure everyone's okay it's it's a whole different. I'm telling you man you and your husband are you and your fiance you guys need to enjoy the hell out of each other before any little ones come around. Because once the little ones come around it's no longer hubby and wifey it's freaking feed the damn kids they need to stop crying. You know, it's not even like, yeah it's a completely different. Yes, it's so worth it I mean I love my kids but it's like shit man it's such a responsibility. Definitely have fun with your hubby and I'll be a message away if you need anything. Have a good one. Bye.