 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and today We're gonna talk about how to get your boyfriend to propose So if you need or want your boyfriend to propose and it's been a while and he's not doing it This is what you need to do So first you need to find out what he thinks about marriage So is he interested in marriage is he interested in getting married if he's not interested in getting married Or he doesn't like marriage or he come from a comes from a family where all his marriages were broken And he doesn't want to experience that you're gonna have a tough time Convincing him to get married no matter what you do So you need to figure out if he's interested in marriage or not And the best way to do that is to talk about people that are married or talk about people that are getting married And just gauge his reaction and find out what he thinks about it Or or you could just talk to him about it that also can work pretty well as well If and if he tries to avoid the topic then you probably have your answer there um Next is you need to communicate to him that you're the type of woman that he would want to marry um, so uh, there's a lot of different things a lot of different ways that you can do this, but it's Really part of this is showing him that you are compatible with him that you can That he can fit you into his life that he can see you Um being with him in the far distant future, you know A lot of men will stay with women be boyfriends to women of women that they don't think that they could be with long term Even if they've been with them for years Um And it's it's just the way that they view him. So if you want him to look at you as someone that He can marry then you need to communicate that you are that type of a woman to him Um, and that that's all comes down to alignment showing him that you're in alignment with who he is And who he wants to become and how he wants to have his life in the future And so the last one is showing him that Or or making him feel that he doesn't have forever to decide You know you um, if you want to get married and he's not sure or maybe he wants to get married and you know Or you know, he's got cold feet or whatever Um, you need to build up a life for yourself. You need to have other options You need to be able to You know go with another option if the guy you want isn't going to get married to you and and The um, you know, I know there's a lot of women that come to me and there's they say things like You know, but I don't want to date other men and you don't have to date other men But here's the thing right here's what you have to think about Here's what you have to decide Is the guy more important or is the relationship more important? So is the guy that you're with More important or is getting married and having that relationship that you ultimately want to have is that more important to you Which one is more important and the answer to that Will hopefully guide you down the right path because if you think that the guy's more important Then just stay with the guy and regardless of whether he gets married to you or not But if the relationship is more important to you then make sure that That he knows that you're not going to wait around forever and that you know if another guy comes around who does want to Provide you with that type of relationship that that you're going to go and you know get into the relationship that you want So that's it for this video If you want more information on how to attract mr. Right into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection.com and take my quiz I'm matthew coast and i'll speak with you again soon