 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder at commitmentconnection.com and in today's video we're going to talk about five signs that you're just a booty call. And if this is your first time to my channel, make sure you go and hit the subscribe button to make sure you get more videos about how to have the relationship you want. So, is your man serious or is he just using you for sex? Here are the things that you'll want to look for. The first sign that you're going to want to look for is that he's kind of, you can kind of sense that maybe he's seeing other people. So, he never really talks about being faithful. He's never indicated anything about it and he's secretive about things that might have something to do with it. Like, you know, maybe he does the bobbin weave when he's like, you're around his phone and he's texting somebody so that you don't end up seeing his phone and who he's talking to. That could definitely be a pretty bad sign. And so, the second sign that you want to look for is that sex is really all that you guys have in common. You're attracted to the feelings and the gratification and the ego involvement that comes with having sex, but you're not really that informed about each other's lives. You don't really know that much about him. You know, or his past or his life or what's going on with him in his world. That's a really bad sign. So, the third sign that you're going to want to look for is that he's never really there for you emotionally. He only contacts you when he wants to have sex with you. And so, I don't know, this seems like a pretty obvious one, but I think sometimes people miss it. If a guy is just contacting you for sex and he's not connecting with you on a deeper level, that's a good sign that he's just using you for sex. Number four, sign number four, is that you're not really a part of his daily life. You're not a part of you don't know his family. You don't know his friends. You guys don't hang out anytime other than when you're just having sex with each other and you're in bed and then, you know, one of the two of you ends up leaving. That's a really, that's a good sign that maybe you're just a friend with benefits or in a casual relationship and not in something serious and he's not trying to make it serious. Sign number five that you're going to want to look for is that you're sexually fulfilled, but you're never really bonding. Really, the whole relationship that you have with them is about relieving sexual tension or stress or fulfilling some kind of fantasy that you have, but there's no real vulnerability that's being shared. There's no emotional growth that's coming out of this. It's just sex and it's just superficial. That's really the big sign. If you took all this and you made it one big sign, the big sign would be this is just about sex. It's just on a physical level. There's nothing deeper. There's nothing more emotional. He's not trying to make it deeper or more emotional and those are the signs that maybe your man's not really serious and you're just a casual relationship to him. Thanks for watching this video. If you're ready to know exactly what to say and do to attract the man and the relationship you've always wanted, click on the button on the right hand side of this video and go to our website.