 If you are dissatisfied with your life, then ask yourself, what is your life a metaphor for? It may well be that your life is a metaphor for the life you really want to be living. So do not live a metaphor life. Live the real thing. Don't live the shadow version of what you want to do. Do it, because the clock is ticking, time's running out, it's never too late, they say, but it can get more complicated the later you leave it to do some things. So if you're in a shadow career, a shadows of what you really want to do, come out of the shadows and step up and get on stage as it were, and be the singer, instead of be the guy or the woman all the time, watching the singer and thinking, I wish that was me. It can be start today. Shadow careers, interesting, eh?