 How to stop being fake and start living your authentic self? Authentic. It's a word we use to describe when something is real or genuine and not a copy or something false. By this definition, humans too, are naturally authentic. Your mere existence makes you so. Many people struggle with showing their authentic selves due to fear, anxiety, and other uncomfortable emotions. So, what does it mean to be your authentic self? Being authentic means you don't change your views, actions, or opinions to please other people. And you answer questions with honesty and consistency. The examples previously mentioned should give you a good idea of what it means to be authentic and how to live an authentic life. To make it even more profound, being authentic will show you where you're going and give your life clarity. As an authentic person, you know what your core values are, and you make every decision in your life based on those values. Common mistake people make about authenticity, as with everything in life, there will be obstacles and bumps along the way. To be authentic means to evaluate those obstacles, get over those bumps, and be the person you are inside on the outside. Some of the mistakes people make on the road to becoming authentic selves include. Not being sure of who you are. Trying to remove the risk of failure, embarrassment, or pain in equating being authentic with being rude, aggressive, or mean. How to start being your authentic self. Learn what your strengths are, whether with language, emotions, physical skills, etc. Actively practice spotting and dropping judgment of yourself and others. Spend time every day doing things that help you realize who you are and what you stand for. Read books, listen to podcasts, learn from a mentor, practice being authentic, etc. Don't try to do it all at once. Start with smaller goals like becoming healthier, setting boundaries, and speaking from the heart. Remember, becoming your authentic self isn't something that one day happens and is set for the rest of your life. As you grow and mature, your authentic self will change and evolve also. If you allow that person to shine, your life and the lives of those around you will be much brighter.