 Number one, I would say, are you replicating in the therapy session your interaction at home? Do you mean like when you go to typically what people think of marriage counseling if they've never been, where you go, you sit, and you basically start complaining about your spouse and then you end up screaming at each other and the therapist is basically just sitting there? So is that what you're talking about? Yes. It's pretty much the same thing at home? Right. So if you're doing the same thing at home as you're doing it in the therapy office, you're going to get the same results and that's, you know, pretty lousy, the same results that made you come to therapy in the first place. So the therapy office has to be structured differently. The first thing that I tell couples when I do a two day private retreat with them is that before everything, the most important thing over all of the issues that you have is safety. If you don't have safety, you can't interact. So creating an environment with emotional safety where, and what we do is we have a couple facing each other, this, they're not talking to me about each other, they're talking to each other.