 Alright, so how to pick up a girl in a bar? Get yourself into the right mode and mindset when you're out Okay, talk to anyone when you first get into a bar or club or whatever a venue of some sort It's gonna be loud. It's gonna be there's gonna be flashing lights. There's gonna be people drunk There's gonna be people laughing around and talking in groups It's gonna seem very intimidating to you Especially if you just walked out and you haven't really talked to that many people You're not in the right mode and frequency to start having fun So what I like to do is I like to start talking to people as soon as possible Now if you're with your buddies or you're with your friends Make sure you have good energy between you guys and you're not just sitting down and saying nothing Okay, the best way to start doing this is to go to the bar order a beer Drink whatever if you don't want to drink maybe get a club soda and just talk to the person to your right Or to you to your left. I would recommend starting to talk to somebody that you think is gonna give you a good reaction Don't worry about talking to the love of your life right at the beginning of the night I take the first two hours in order to get myself into that mode So if I show up at the bar at like 10 or 9 30, I'm not worrying about getting girls until around 11 30 12 Okay, I'm worried about me and myself Remember have fun first when women go out they are looking for fun And if you're not having fun if you're not having that good positive energy where you're in the flow state They're probably not gonna want to hang out with you So that's the first thing go to the bar talk to the person to your right or your left Then maybe talk to the person in the bathroom line There's a some easy places where you can start a conversation where you'll probably at least get a five-minute talk out of it or whatever See where it goes and then just keep that momentum going. Okay, keep introducing yourself and talking to people now When midnight comes around or 11 30 or sometimes it depends on the city that you're into like people in Miami Or people in other parts sometimes they go out a little later So it might be pushed back a little bit for those people might be around 2 a.m. Or something, okay So once that happens and you're in that flow state or even if you're not in that flow state start thinking about some of the people You talk to some of the girls or maybe there's some girls that are kind of hanging around you Which ones that you like which ones that you want to speak to you more and see if they're into you as well Okay, so what I like to do is I like to kind of see which girls are hanging out around me Maybe I've talked to some girls in the past. They gave me some positive reactions Those are the kinds of girls that I'll be going for okay So once you've found your girl and you've gotten to her step number three is to figure out if she likes you Okay, and the way you figure out if she likes you is you try and move her Okay, if she moves with you like you could say something like Hey, let's go to the bar and get a drink or let's go sit down. It's kind of crowded up here I'm tired of standing if she goes and moves with you that means she's into you Okay, or you know at least in some way shape or formula There's a chance that she might have a boyfriend still and she just enjoys your presence, but she can't do anything But usually that means that she's interested in you Okay, now you can also test this out with smaller movements, too You can take maybe a slight step back and see if she comes forward or you can take a slight step forward See if she stays there or takes back as a step back herself Now a lot of times people are gonna be really nice to you to your face They'll smile be friendly charismatic or whatever, but you don't know if they're actually into you The way you find that out is with their actions people can lie with their words But rarely will they lie with their actions if a girl won't move with you Probably might be best to talk to some other girls like if they're saying things like oh no I'm good here or it's a girl's night. We're just hanging out with each other or I can't leave my friends Maybe might be good to go and talk to another girl who will move with you Okay Now once you have a girl that's willing to move you step four is to then progress it to an area where maybe you can Start touching maybe you can start getting into each other spaces a little bit more and see if she's cool with that If she's cool with that then maybe keep progressing farther. Don't go full in as much as you can Like if you're just going for what you can get away with like you're the make-out king or whatever Probably not a lot of girls are gonna be into that or maybe they will be into it for a little bit But then they'll get kind of bored and then not be into it later Okay, remember you want to build up some tension you want to build up some some push pull Have that romantic flirty dynamic going with you Okay, so you found a girl that you're into you're moving her around you're progressing it Maybe you guys are getting closer a little bit Maybe you're going to different venues or whatever and you don't have to move her just within the bar like I recommend actually Changing venues and seeing if she'll come with you to a different place Because if you're trying to bring home a girl that night and if she moves with you from place to place Chances are she's willing to go to your place as well too so when it comes down time to it if you want to bring her home and invite her back and Maybe have something to do there That's like something platonic or something where she can get comfortable with you and decide if she's like willing to do this I don't I'm not into the people that just try and go for what they came really quickly Because that's her energy even from a purely selfish standpoint doesn't work And it's also not great for the girl either But if she's not done to come home with you that night Totally cool get her phone number and try and figure out something for you guys to do that week and then follow up with her there Okay, you know not every girl's gonna be down to come home with you the same night That's totally fine. And a lot of times I find that might even be better if you want to start a relationship with this person Okay, cool a couple things that I should mention is that the night life you guys is crazy Tons of different things are happening like you can't get upset if a girl gives you like a negative reaction She's mean to you or maybe she just like ignores you or or maybe some some guys root to you or whatever Don't get frustrated Okay, the worst thing that you can do is start getting angry at the world because if you're angry you're negative women Don't want to hang out with that guy. They want to go for fun So lead them to fun be that fun positive energy that they're looking for and you're gonna have a lot more success Guys if you're looking how to do this if you're looking to learn how to do this I have a one-on-one coaching program. That's perfect for you. This is my bread and butter Although I think bars and clubs might not necessarily be the best place for everyone if you can get good at this You can meet a lot of great amazing women and also too It's gonna help you out in your everyday life because you're gonna be able to introduce yourself handle certain social situations Very well with strangers and other people and friends too So if you're looking how to do that fill out the coaching form down below if you seem like a good fit We'll reach out to you guys if you're looking to get trained by me in person I would recommend you check out my live training schedule Basically, I'm gonna be touring the United States in January and February and I'd love to see you guys there So check out the list of places that I'm gonna head to if I'm heading to it If I'm not heading to a city that's nearby you and it's a major one and enough people want me to come there I will come there so write that city down. Thanks a lot you guys. Good luck out there