 You need to understand trust does not mean somebody has to behave the way you expect them to behave. Trust means whatever they do, it's all right with you. If you come to such a state, otherwise don't use such a big word as trust. Trust means they must do what you expect them to do. This is a certain imprisonment, your trust. Trust should empower people, trust should not limit people, isn't it? Don't get into all this trust business. Handle your life and relationship sensibly. Whatever they do, they may be doing it in their own understanding of life. Right now probably that's all they're capable of. If you can evolve them to another place, fantastic. If you cannot, then you must see what to do.