 Bismillahirrahmanirrahim we start in the name of Allah the most merciful the most kind who has manifest his mercy by saying Wa Ma Ar-Sannaka Illa Rahmatallil Alameen That we have not sent you Speaking to the Prophet ﷺ addressing him. We have not sent you except as a Rahma to all realms Rahmatallil Alameen and This Rahmatallil Alameen SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam said I have been sent for what? I have only been sent to perfect the highest virtues of character The highest virtues of character and Allah Azza wa Jalla says about him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam In the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam is a model of conduct The person that you model yourself after the person you try to become their mirror SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam For who? For those who Hope for Allah and hope for the final day that hope to meet Allah on the final day Being Muhammad in SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam being like him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam And so in this regard the Imam of Tirmidhi Rahim Allah Ta'ala The famous hadiths call that we know compiled a book called the Shemail of Imam it is called the Shemail Muhammadia That the character the characteristics or the traits of the Messenger of SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and This book is full of Descriptions of him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam of who to model ourselves after we often we often look for People to look up to and who can be greater to look up to the him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam But there might be a an actor or a musician or or an athlete that we might try to model ourselves after but who is that in comparison to him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam Who he who he who was sent to perfect moral character? Who is that in comparison to him SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam who was chosen by Allah as his Mustafa Al-Mujtaba Habibullah Kharinullah the most beloved of Allah The most intimate closest friend of Allah and why was he as such SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam? Why was he given this Maqam? Why was he chosen on why was he the mercy to all of mankind and in this regard? There's a hadith in this in this particular Collection of Imam At-Tirmidhi. It's quite a long hadith. We'll see how much we can get through today where we just look at this hadith and learn how to conduct ourselves both in social gatherings when we're alone When there's none to witness this except Allah and there's others to witness us and so this is a very famous hadith where Imam Al-Hassan Ibn Ali radiallahu ta'alaanhu wa karmallahu wajahumah he narrates That he said that Hussain radiallahu anhu says that I asked my my father Meaning they asked Ali radiallahu anhu About the life of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam Particularly what Fijr SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in his social conduct Fijr SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam And the people he spent his time with what was he like so he says Rasulullah SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam Da'iman Bishr That the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was always smiling We know how much concern is it that you have the weight of the weight of the world on your shoulders that the people's Salvation in the afterlife is dependent on what I say and what I do with them and he saw some is still that Iman Bishr So some that he's smiling with that that heaviness that he has when Allah says Inna sunnunki alaika qawdan taqeela that we're going to reveal unto you a heavy word But he saw some is still Da'iman Bishr always smiling so that the heaviness is not felt by those around him That's what people around him are at comfort that he's smiling that he's happy to be around me Da'iman Bishr Sahn al-Khuluk, he was easy-going easy going SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam And this is who we should be like That things might come and bother you Right somebody might say something to your face or it might make a comment about what you're wearing Or tell your glasses are crooked or your your your moustache doesn't connect to your beard or something whatever they might say to you But Sahn al-Khuluk easy-going it's fine. Look it over Look it over. Look it over and Allah will look over your mistakes as well Layyan al-Janan He was lenient with people Right Sometimes we offer something to people we give them the inch they take the mile as they say Right, he's he's lenient People you know there's a hadith that mentioned that that he was so lenient with people that one time Somebody came to him and asking give me something and he said all the life stuck this in between this hill and that hill is Yours if he was so shocked. He said are you joking with me? He was so shocked at the lenience and the giving and the generosity process of them Are you joking with me said take? And he went back to his people and said go follow a person who fears no No poverty from his Lord No poverty from his Lord that his generosity was such and this is the generosity that we should try to emulate But he fears no poverty the courageousness comes with that generosity comes with courageousness with courage That if we don't have the courage to give It means we don't trust the one who's giving to us if we don't have courage in Ar-razaq and The risk that he gives us we can't be generous that generosity comes from a lack of courage That stinginess comes from what it comes from from what we call bullens like Bookhood comes from what a lack of courage from cowardice that perhaps I might not have enough if I give away If I give to someone else, I might not have you I might not have enough for myself. That's a lack of courage right Encourages one of the we call that we call the the foundations of a lot the foundations of Of good character courage is one of those four Right, and if we don't have that courage to give When we might not have a lot We might not have that much But if we don't have the courage to give it means we have a doubt in Ar-razaq the one who gives us The one who provides that we have we have a doubt in the one who provides and That's why we have a doubt in our provisions Right, and so he saw some is this is he's perfecting good character that he's teaching lenient He's teaching generosity easy-going this things don't when things happen that might come your way Don't be bothered. It's just a dunya Don't be bothered. It's just a dunya They said before then what I believe that he wasn't course or hard-hearted Right when somebody might come to you and they need a little bit of empathy and say such and such happened to me They say ah, but this person has it worse. So I had it worth So you know actually what I have what happened to me, you know You I know I understand that your father passed away But you know for me like this happened and then it's like a competition of who has it worse process I wasn't like this. They said before then what I believe that he wasn't he wasn't hard-hearted Nor did he speak harshly that sometimes you speak harshly with others or the jokes that we make with others the words that we say When we're joking around with others There's like hostility in it That wasn't how he was awesome. I'm that there was no hostility in his words Right, he didn't he didn't look to to demean someone else Well, I suck up a lot for hush. Well, I yad Right, he didn't he didn't His speech was not foul Right, and what's foul speeches you hear and you're ashamed to say in front of your in front of your mother your grandmother your teacher or whatever The pot nothing out of nothing came out of them out of the process some that would be shameful He was not for hush Right, how often do we say things that are? If somebody heard us We'd feel like This is embarrassing we turn red So one of our teachers said to make a sailor blush some of the words that we say Well, I yad he didn't look for faults and other things and other people right how often do we were given a Particular meal or something and as we eating we think If it had been like this or my mother makes it better or you know, it's better from that restaurant Whatever it might be he didn't look for faults and things Overlooking Well, I'm a shot He wasn't Constricted he didn't feel constricted when things would come To bother him Right, we get agitated when things come to us and then it leads us to what why is Allah giving why is Allah treating me like this? Why why me? Why me? He saw some wasn't like that's a lot of cinnamon Our model of conduct was not like that if we want to be people of my carim a lot of people of good character We're not people who become constricted when something Inconveniences us the AC at the musket doesn't work. Why me? All right You took off the arm and I just didn't like something. He just pretend he didn't see it Now like oh everyone look come look at this. What's happening here? You know or there might be you know, you might like find a hair in your food and lift it up and here's the hair I found in my food It's a lot of money. He didn't like he didn't like if you didn't like it He just ignored it, but then he didn't see it. He could hurt someone else's feelings Right. He was concerned about the other Who's concerned about the other he didn't look for it He didn't look for faults. He found a fault. It says if you didn't see it, you know It's a lot of money. I see it a lot of it as if I got the means to be heedless It's like to pretend to be heedless as if like you don't even have the faculties to recognize that something is wrong with that particular thing What are you assuming who I see he and Nobody who came to him would ever be hopeless in him that they knew that if you were to ask him He would give you there's hope that if you come even if it means that to to take take on a debt to To put yourself in constriction Whoever came to us on them. They wouldn't be They wouldn't be afraid to ask right How many times are people afraid to ask their friend for perhaps they might have left their wallet at home perhaps afraid to ask their friend for For for for some money they might be out or something. How many people are afraid because they're like, you know The first of all it looks bad and I don't think he's not even this guy's not gonna give to me Why would I do it when I was gonna make a Raji? The person anyone who came to him they wouldn't they wouldn't be this they wouldn't despair in him. They knew that he was a source of hope That if there was anyone that you could count on it was him sauce in them The movement is someone who others can count on the believer the person who has Maccadamon Akhlaag high Characteristic high qualities high high attributes and high care and high moral character People aren't hopeless in them They're trustworthy you can lean on them right there a pillar No Well, I ain't giving you cut the record so much in a mirror a lot of time. Well, I mean he and he Abandoned three things complete by by whole sale. He abandoned three things Al-mirat argumentation whether you're right or wrong argumentation is not good for your soul. It's it's a way to To to stroke the ego that look I'm right and this person didn't know this person had to go look on Google But I already knew it This is not his awesome wasn't a person who was argumentative, you know Let people be If it's not if it's not something that's a life-or-death situation if it's not concerned with it hereafter Leave it don't argue about it What except he wouldn't Speak so much That people get annoyed and we have people in sometimes They just like to talk They don't necessarily have something to say But they just like to talk just because to them noise like the stimulation of the senses is it gives him comfort I hear some lesson wasn't like that. He didn't talk just to talk There were because he understood saw a son that in him He was exemplars umma that if he was to talk a lot others would talk a lot and that and not everyone has the ability to Strain themselves of things are not supposed to talk about the way he saw a son and was able to restrain himself What malaya and he left things that didn't concern him If it didn't concern him, it wasn't his business. He didn't look at it. He didn't turn to it. If you couldn't do something about it He wasn't nosy. He didn't look into people's business I'm cool. No, I thought he had a was tough for a lot of it. Well, it's a nice name. Yeah, I'm just a firu In the who who will go for a rakhine? Bismillah, Alhamdulillah wa salat wa salam a la Rasulillah wa a la Ali he was a hubby and a wallah so he left himself of speaking too much of of argumentation and being nosy But then in terms of other people the rights that he had on to other people he left three things Malaya the mu'ahadan he wouldn't Criticize other people. He wasn't a critic Right if you if your criticism is not helping just don't say it Right. We learned this in in kindergarten. If you're nothing good to say, don't say it Right man soma tanaja the home servers quiet They're saved That your words are taken against you Either for your against on the day of judgment. So be careful We should be careful what we say criticizing others and what that might do to the heart of another So he saw some was concerned about that Wa la Ya'ibuho and he wouldn't Like he wouldn't like point out his faults to him You walk funny or you know that you you don't you don't you don't I see the way you make with who It's I mean it's acceptable, but I've seen better, you know, he wasn't he wasn't like that sauce I mean it look for it. He didn't look for people's faults Wa la Ya'ibuho and he wouldn't look for what people cover of themselves Oh, it's what you cover on your body, but here's who's metaphorically He wouldn't look for like he went when people have certain mistakes that are covered certain false that are covered He wouldn't seek them out find opportunities to find who inspire on people He wouldn't and he wouldn't listen to it into other people's conversations and see like what can I find it? It's wrong with this guy so that I know that I'm better or that I know that so-and-so that I like is better He saw some wasn't like that so may Allah make us of people who have Macarmon a lot me a lot There's a hadith continues on for For quite a length, but this is what Allah has given us the time to go through right now And this is if this we were able to do this this is more than enough It's more than enough Right so may Allah make us of people of high moral character may Allah make us of people who have the ability to Model ourselves after the one who's given food on a theme of high virtue high virtue The high ethos may Allah makes the people who don't seek thoughts for other six faults and others may Allah make us people who are not Argumentative may Allah makes the people who aren't coarse or hard-hearted May Allah make us people who are not rough and who don't take people into it Who tried we don't try to take people into account may Allah makes the people who aren't taken into account in this Dunya and that especially in the after that We're not people who are taken into account for the mistakes that we make but we don't realize may Allah make us of people who are Pardoned because we pardon others may Allah make us of people who? When we approach others that their hearts are open and Comfort and comforted by our presence may Allah make us of people who have trust in him As-Sawajal that whatever might be wrong with others that Allah will fix them But that and whatever is wrong with us he will fix us may Allah makes the people who are cognizant of our own faults May Allah make us of people who who speak only that which is pleasing to him May Allah make our pleasure in him. May Allah make our security in him So he say Allah ma anta as-salaam Wa minka as-salaam Tabar al-tiyyat al-injalal wa nikram Hayyina wa adkhilna dara as-salaam Rabbana atina fi al-duniya hasana wa fi al-aafati hasana wa fi nada bil-naf Rabbana hablana min az-wajina wa dhiriyatina Qurr wa ta'irin wa ja'anna wa mutaqina imama May Allah make us the people who have who make dua for our teachers Particular first teacher our parents So he say Rabbir hamhum aakuma rabbiyani segira Rabbir hamhum aakuma rabbiyani segira Rabbir hamhum aakuma rabbiyani segira Rabbir hamhum aakuma rabbiyani segira Rabbir hamhum aakuma rabbiyani segira Oh Allah have mercy on them as they had mercy on us when we were younger And may Allah make us the people who recognize that Allah and His angels send the benediction and the citation And we are asked to do the same Inna Allahumma la ikatuhu yusalluna aalana nabi Ya ayyuhal nadina aamuna sallu alaihi wa sallim utasneema Allahumma salli ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala Ali Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala Ashabi Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala Atba'i Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala Azwaji Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala Ahbabi Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala Ummati Sayyidina Muhammad Wa ba'aleku sallim salli alaihi Inna Allah i'mun bina adi wa n'ihsani wa ita'idhu m'kurba Wa yinhan ilfah shai wa munkri wa baghi Ya'idhukun aalakum tathakkarun Uthkur Allah ya'thkur kum Remember Allah and He'll remember you Wa d'u'uhu yas-tajibilakum Call upon Him and He'll answer you Wa ladhikru Allahi akbar The remembrance of Allah is greater Wa aqim al-sana