 How do you help somebody recognize that they potentially have dysfunctional behaviors and they don't even know it? When I separate myself and say would I treat someone I care about in this way? Would I force them to do these things in this particular way? Because you know when you take care of kids there's things you do that they want and there's things you do that they don't want. Like sometimes you got to make your kids do the things they don't want to do because you love them. You care for them. If I let my kids pick whatever food they want to eat, especially my little ones, it ain't gonna look too good, right? So that's the best way I can think about it. If there's somebody in your life that really care about like truly truly care about, ask yourself would I do this to so-and-so? And if the answer is no then don't do it to yourself. Or if the answer is yes, then do that.