 It's 2021. Welcome to the new 21 report. I'm Tony Bruno and today I have with me Coach Greg Adams. Coach how you doing? What's going on Tony? Good to be here with you brother. I'm glad you're here. First thing I want to ask you is how has your experience been at 21 so far? It's been great. You know a new group of men, some men that I've seen before and new speakers. So it's been great. I did three speeches and I talked to three different audiences about three different things so it's been good so far. Okay Who benefits from your, we'll say your patriarchal speech first? I would say the fathers because what I talked about is the protector. You know the removing of the protector to allow other things to come into and influence your family, your friendships and your children. So fathers would benefit the most and men who are looking to be fathers and what they can anticipate by having kids and going into society. So when they see that one when you see that one at home and you got a chance to see that in the audience, it put the value back into the man and to the relationship instead of making him just a provider, we put the protection in the secure and actually not allowing outside influences with your children and your family. Okay so patriarch what about the 21th convention? 21 convention was more geared to men looking to put more value in what society I would say is entitling themselves to your money, energy, attention in your time and so people basically are entitled to this. They feel entitled to this and men feel entitled to exchange their most important resources for very little in return and men that don't know how to manage that and associate with that, they are going to find themselves having trouble in the marketplace less opportunities. They'll have a scarcity mindset and I'm trying to show men that you have true value out here. You have measurable, tangible value. You have the commitment that benefits more people other than yourself so you got to treat it like that. Okay and the 22 convention for women? The 22 convention was great. I got a great response for the 22 convention for the women. Only one and a half people were a little upset but for them it was the valuing of the protector understanding how we silenced the protectors but we still want them to provide, protect and serve. How we put roles that are silent in addition to their protector roles and why it's not beneficial to have the male not be the leader and the protector. So the audience is well received on the women's side but you know there's always going to be a couple failures. I want to dive a little deeper into that. Why do you think women take this advice as a man talking to a woman? Why did they take it, we'll say a little harder than a man would? Well because they want to they want to make men versions of themselves of women when they need him to be that but then when there's an emergency they want him to be masculine they want him to sacrifice himself and so as we're negotiating this power struggle between the dynamics of the genders while we're negotiating this they want to control the narrative and make them well if you say it like this and if you were less bravado maybe I would listen to you but since you have it then we're just going to disregard everything you say. So that's the emotional side of women and I encourage the emotional side of women but be there for yourselves with that if you want men to be consumed with that then they can't be the protector that you need them to be. Now there's one thing you said that was power struggle that kind of stuck out to me. Right. Explain that a little more. Well the power struggle is basically you know women want they want their voice to be heard which they should be heard. They want a better place than they've had in the past in society which there should be. There's a lot of women that believe that there should be more. They should have more and but with that more they're taking away from men in the progress and this is what they may not be aware of or what they may not care. So as they're taken away from men men are becoming you know they're not becoming they're discontent about the situation and so there's a power struggle between what's what's fair and fair to men and so we're trying to negotiate that right now. We're trying to negotiate it with dating and romance. So you know men are supposed to be traditional. Men are supposed to pay for dates and they're supposed to assert and they're supposed to be the ones to approach but we're also saying women should be the one to be able to lead. They should be able to have the jobs and be managers. Now how do you negotiate that in a romantic setting and then how do you negotiate that in a romantic setting and a professional setting. So there's a power dynamic that we're trying to figure out and unfortunately we're born in a time where we're trying to figure this out. I look at it and say maybe we figure this out in the future or maybe it destroys itself in the future. Right now we're on the path of destruction or you know maybe it reverts back to traditionalism which I don't believe is going to happen but we'll see. Okay now you are on three stages Let's start with Patriarch. What did you learn? What did Coach Greg Adams get out of speaking? Well you know what's funny I think when I'm speaking men tend to not give you a feedback. They don't give you the feedback and so as you're talking to them you're like I don't know if this is resonating. On the women's side they will give you some feedback as you're talking to them and they will interact. They're not afraid to interact with you. So you got more feedback but what I learned is after I got off the stage people were appreciative of the message. They said hey you know what we needed this and we need men like you to continue to speak. So men are trying to find a way to show their appreciation for you and it may not be vocal but they're absorbing the message and that's what I love about it. That's what I love about it. And so what did you learn from speaking to the women next? I learned that and most people have to understand that there's a silent majority of women who really want men to be protectors, providers, secures. They want them to be alpha. They want them to be the leaders. And unfortunately their voices aren't being heard and they're getting caught up in the process of the loud minority pushing the agenda forward. And so we got a great appreciation for women that really want relationships to learn and some of them are getting beat up in the middle of learning this and some of them are getting the message that they need. So after I got done with the speech there were a lot of women that were very receptive of the message so I appreciated that. And then the 21 convention? Man the 21 was a little bit more energetic. I was giving them a different message than I gave to the previous crowd and there are some guys struggling with their value. So what I learned is that they won't ask questions out in the open for fear that people will judge them and men are always judged so they won't ask questions but in private after I got done with the speech they also had a lot of questions for me at the evening. Also Coach Greg is an author. Yes sir. Let's talk about your books. This book right here let's start with that. Got the free agent lifestyle which this is the cheat code. This is the cheat code for men going forward and giving them a strategy. That you can use in dating romance life and I think this encompasses just not dating, marriage, romance it encompasses life and it basically puts you on a path of self discovery before you can offer anything of value to women. This isn't a book to segregate yourself from women. This isn't a book that says forget women for life and live this lifestyle. This is a lifestyle that you have the resources to benefit from, have more fun. Deal with people, not just women, people will see value in you and then you can determine what your contract is as a free agent. You can increase your value and then you're basically going to deal with less low value people and win at life. And you have other books. The evolution is a book about feminism. It's my interpretation of radical feminism. How it has now infected the culture with the lower marriage rates, the divorce rates, the declining birth rates. It's basically going to talk about if we continue this path, where we're going to go. And probably not going to go anywhere successful as a country. It's going to lead into more socialism. I don't get too much into the socialism or communism idea. But the things that they promote, the marketing strategy that they're promoting is socialist communists based. And so if we are going to continue this and we don't have a big step up, this is where we're going to end. Now you live the free agent lifestyle. And to me, a speaker and a person like yourself, I think congruency with your message is so important. How important is that to you? Well people are going to look at you and say, well, you know, he got married to a lower value women or I see him with lower value women. I see him messing around and hanging out at bars and picking up women. Well, then they're going to look at it and say, didn't you say, and people are going to hold you accountable to your message. So there's different stages of this. There's stages where you have to go off to yourself and not date. And that's good. That's going to be great for you. But then again, this book is inclusive of people who do want to date at some point, even almost to the point where you do want to marry. Although I do caution you in these stages of that decision making. So, you know, you might see me with a girl at some particular point. You might see me with a bimbo or something like that. But at the same time doesn't mean I'm not living that lifestyle. This book is inclusive of that. And it never says you're not supposed to do that. What I want you to do now is talk to the women out there. Give them a message from coach. Yeah, ladies, what I would tell you is first of all, I love you because most of the time they think this message is to separate or to not like them. I love women. I love the value that they bring to men as long as it's a tangible, equal, measurable value. But what I would say is if you're in the silent majority as I call you, be a little more vocal. We hear enough from the blue haired, overweight women of the world. We can hear less from them and more from you. Although, you know what I always tell women is that you get penalized from feminism. Better than we do. They tell you don't make these choices in your life and then they push you into careers which you didn't want. You wanted to get married and settle down and have family. So they get penalized. You get penalized for being conservative. You get penalized for being in shape. You get penalized for towing the line of the social construct. So yeah, you don't get to be on Cosmopolitan Magazine if you're under 150 pounds. So what I would say is don't let them bully you. Like myself and throw it back into their face and challenge them on the things that you know to be true. These ideas and constructs that you know are false are costing you families, opportunities, and they're costing you relationships with good men because the toxic women, the loud minority are affecting the entire culture. Okay. And let's do a quick message to men. Of all ages. Yeah. Men of all ages know your value. Know your value. Money, energy, attention, and time in your commitment. Know the value of your commitment. The value of your commitment is more important or just as important as hers. The reality of you taking yourself off the marketplace to focus on one woman is not what you're naturally designed to do. So it holds value and understand that value and not be so impatient to give it away for someone who doesn't deserve it. Now, Coach Craig, we appreciate you coming here to 21. You know that. It's a big deal. I'll be back again. Yes, you will. We appreciate it. But how can everybody find you? Find me on everywhere. YouTube, Coach Greg Adams is the channel. I have seven channels on there. So you shouldn't have a problem finding me there. Find me on Instagram if they don't delete me. Coach Greg Adams TV. I was on Facebook at one point, but anywhere Coach Greg Adams, you could find me. Excellent. Coach, we appreciate you. Thank you for coming. Absolutely. Thank you, Tony. Thank you.