 There's a common denominator that everybody suffers from. So the average guy shares some of the same issues that a financially well-off guy does, a super-rich guy or whatever. And that is that there's something they don't have. But there's something that they want. And they focus all of their energy on the wanting of it. Now, I think that that is one of the biggest stumbling blocks to actually having what you want. It's your wanting of it. Now, before you start thinking, well, Brent, how can I have something if I don't want it? Good question. And that's what I'm going to answer here today. I'm going to teach you how to stop wanting and start having what you want. And you'll understand what I'm saying as we get further into this conversation. I also want to say that throughout this talk, please ask questions. If you want clarity, ask me questions about what I'm talking about. Because I really want to know what you want. And you probably have the same ones as a lot of guys out there watching this. So wanting I've figured out in my life equals lack. This is why wanting is negative and just focusing on negativity. If you just focus on want, a lot of people, they want, they're wanting, they're trying, they're becoming. And really in life, there's only three things. There's being, doing, and then having. But what we do is we focus on what we don't have. We focus on the lack of it. It's just normal that we would do that. It doesn't make you a bad person, that's just being human. So you focus on, Brent, I want this, I want that, I want the other thing. I want more women in my life. I want more beautiful women in my life. I want more money. I want a bigger house, a nicer car, whatever your wants are. We end up focusing on that and just focusing on that. And then our story in our head is just consumed by that, right? We become obsessed by what we want. And so today I'm going to teach you how to actually start having what it is that you want. And it's a pretty easy process. But I do want to continue to talk a little bit about wanting and why it's not going to get you where you want to be. Okay? So wanting and focusing on just the wanting is the thing that causes you to actually over communicate with people. Have any of you ever over communicated with a woman before? Right? Yes, me too. Anyone else? Right, so you guys have. So the wanting of it and the thinking that we actually need it for our survival is the thing that's causing us to push it away from us. Okay? Now, I'm not saying that you shouldn't want what you want. Okay? So I'm not saying that anything is bad that you want. Right? But it's all relative. So it just depends on how you go about having it. So if you're just focusing on the want and your whole story is I want this, but I don't have it. Want equates the lack. So you're just focusing on the lack of it. Wanting causes you to over pursue women in this case, but it could be anything. You over pursue anything that you're obsessed that you don't have. So it causes all these negative things to start happening. And instead, if you just focused on having what you want, you would actually have it much sooner. Okay? So the one thing I'll promise you is that if you really listen to what I'm talking about here today and you follow what I'm going to tell you, that you will not only have like 10 times more than you want right now. You'll get 10 times more than what you actually want, but you'll actually receive it effortlessly. So people will actually walk up and hand it to you. Women will come up and give you stuff. Okay? Because we're taught as man. We got to go out there and we got to want it. So we focused on the one team. We got there and we try to make it happen. And the problem with that is if you ever run into someone who really wants something badly and is kind of desperate and needy, you guys probably have all seen that, right? Or you've probably done that. I know I've done it, but you don't want to give it to them, do you? Right? Because they want it. You can tell they're like needy and they just have this weird vibe about them and you're like, oh, it's so creepy. I know this person is trying to get something from me. So I'm going to hold it back from them. So imagine what women feel like when you approach them and you've got this kind of wanting vibe. So it's about reversing that and becoming someone who actually adds value to conversations and adds value to interactions as opposed to constantly being desperate and needy in interactions with people. So how do you really do that?