 You know what? I love the book, Why Men Love Bitches, because bitch stands for babe in total control of herself, ES. Babe in total control of herself, ES. This is an empowerment book. A bitch says, I'm gonna go after what I want. But I'm also not going to settle for less than what we both deserve for each other. That's not what I deserve, what we both deserve for each other.