 I want to show y'all this you have to excuse to get bedroom girl. We still have stuff going in the house This inflatable wash basin that I used for JB this past weekend. This is where their heads supposed to go I have no idea how this would work for an adult because that's too small in my opinion. I Used this and it was it was a breeze right booboo. Yeah It only took me it took me literally half the time it would take to wash his hair and since we are growing his hair Or I'm growing his hair out. This is what I'm gonna be using now. I should probably deflate this But no, you know No, I'm gonna be washing his hair every 67 days as opposed to girl like sometimes I stretch it almost two weeks But I don't need to make sure that his scalp is cleanse. No, that's my mommy uniform So I've been using Let me show y'all for a JB. I've been using the blue magic Argan all herbal complex and then to seal in the moisture. I've been using the coconut oil just a little bit So You still be still sweetheart. Come here. So yeah, we're growing be still sweetheart Good morning you guys I'm listening to a little bit of Natalie Grant love her. She's a great Christian singer. Anyway, you guys first of all, I want to say to everyone For my last video. Thank you guys so much for your well wishes regarding my promotion I really do appreciate that from the bottom of my heart Hold on y'all. Oh I'm here at JB school and You know what I had done has been working you guys He wanted me to start walking him in there every day. No, so what I do is I park over he can see me and Walk over we've been doing that for a month, but then today he was like I'm ready to get out We have to be very careful I think as country and creators when we give advice to our subscribers viewers, etc Because not everything is going to work for everyone. Okay, and I say that sometimes in my videos Um, yeah, what the hell's going on? Hold on. Look at it. Let up my This gives a two dang old There we go. Now y'all can hear me. Sorry about that. Not everything is gonna work for everyone. Okay What I do my regimen JB's over here looking at me. What the heck? What is it baby Y'all hearing what happened? Not everything is gonna work for everyone And so I think that we have to be responsible as content creators when we're giving it advice that we be careful when we give Advice and I've had some of you guys correct me on a few things not not a lot But every now and then you guys will correct me on something or maybe you know not necessarily correct me But give me suggestions on how to use a product that maybe didn't work for me or give me suggestions And of other products in general and I am very open to feedback. I Look, I think that's how you grow as individual if you're open for feedback and if you're open to change With that being said, I have seen two videos recently where I'm like you have to really take what people say with a grain of salt and Keep in mind that not everything that's gonna work for you So you guys know I I shared a video on my community page And I know not everyone follows that it's my community page. Excuse me So every now and then I will share a video that I like a couple of weeks ago I shared a video from curl myths exposed now. She is She's a Caucasian woman with Extremely tight curly hair like when I first saw her I listen when I first saw her hair it looked like It looked like a 4a 4b rod set like I kid you now I was looking at her like Is she is she just like skin? Now girl she white at least I from what I can see that I think she is you know Caucasian um, but She gives advice on curly hair. I've gotten tips from three category to chicks. I Pull what I need from that. You know what? I mean y'all so curl myths exposed had a video Basically whether or not to detangle your hair on wet or dry hair. I'm trying to get that out the way y'all. I don't like that background I'm trying to get it out the way y'all. Sorry. Yeah, that's better and there were some for tight chicks in The comment section confused on whether or not they should really start detangling their hair Let me tell you something that advice was for a three type Curl patterns we with four textured hair. We cannot do that Especially if you're could you imagine dry detangling on a wash and go And I saw a comment someone said and I responded to it Someone said I would I would take your advice if I saw you actually dry detangle a four type hair And this is just an example of not everything works for everyone. That's what I basically said You know, she has great advice on some of her other videos. She has it She has videos on the porosity high porosity I have to give JB some sugar my baby some sugar. He's so cute Y'all it's so funny about genetics. I'm looking at this other mom and I know her mother She walks just like her mom. Isn't that funny? Like they have the same type of what do you call it gate? They have with like an unsteady gate about them how they walk the same type of walk Genetics are funny. I was gonna tell her that but she may find that offensive So anyway, y'all I feel so much better because the body I saw her at the gym yesterday She parked right up on me These people get on my nerves. I saw the body at the gym yesterday and she was like, um She was like you have a good fugue you have a good figure. I can see your curves Just work out and it'll all pull together. I'm like, thank you, body You guys let me turn on You know what don't get an attitude Vivian don't get an attitude. I'm a little perturbed. That's the work I'm gonna use I think my husband asked cuz I just text him and I've been calling him calling him calling him and I'm gonna talk a lot. You know, I've been calling his ass because we found the contractor We're gonna go ahead and go with the first guy who came over. He was very professional He let us know cuz let me back up. I was speaking to my FBI friend Yeah, girl, I got a FBI friend her and her husband work the FBI and I ran into her this morning at the gym And she's like what's going on with the bathroom My face change and her husband Jonathan and he was like that's very common with contractors Unfortunately, they were drag-out projects. So you got to be very specific. I said, oh, you ain't got to tell me You ain't got to tell me so when I came home after my, you know, she wouldn't even work out I'm talking husband. I'm like, you know what we should just go ahead and hire one of the people that we already Talked to earlier this week because he wanted me to go back and call some more people. I'm done y'all. We've been dealing with this now The hell since February I'm done. I'm like, let's just go ahead and hire one of these guys We talked to earlier this week and be done with it Girl drama drama drama drama drama. Can y'all see me? Can you see me girl? So y'all I had had some footage earlier about some stuff that had happened earlier this week And I deleted it because now some other stuff came out y'all look at the Damn back to anyway My girl Angel aka Nezzie naps did a video now by the time I look this up It would have been almost a week at this point But I want to give my insight because I have left some comments on both their videos and I know a couple y'all have seen them So Angel made a video in reaction to one of her Subscribers who wanted to know what are her thoughts on this other young ladies video? Basically saying that Greece will break your hair off if you now Let me clarify what she said because there were so many people who were confused on that video and the youtuber is Miss Mississippi. I Don't I don't want to say she was talking in circles didn't explain clearly what she was trying to say Hey, I can barely talk But I kind of got what she was trying to say even though I don't agree with with a lot of her Regiment, I don't have to agree with her regiment. It's not my hair. But let me get to the point Miss Mississippi was trying to tell her subscribers is not something that is Happening to her own hair that your hair will break off and Let's say three days if you do not wash Greece out of your hair due to product buildup Okay, now her regimen consists of basically this is Miss Mississippi her regimen consists of Shampooing her hair rinse her hair hair with hot water and then excuse me pre-pooing her hair with grease Then she shampoos her hair rinses her hair I'm not even gonna talk about the temperature rinse her hair and then she applies a grease from what I understand She does not use a rinse-out conditioner nor does she use a leave-in conditioner? She directly applies to Greece after she has washed out the shampoo, okay? And she does whatever she needs to do to use whatever styling products I'm assuming now. She does deep condition her hair. All right, so Oh So her her whole point was that she and I do want to say this to clarify because there was a lot of people who were saying I think they got the Misconception misconception, excuse me that Miss Mississippi was against hair grease and that's not what she was trying to say She was trying to say that Buildup regardless of the product build up is what's gonna cause breakage at least that's what I got But that's why she washes her hair Every two to three days to quote-unquote reset her hair. This is these are her words again though We don't have to agree with it. It's her hair. It's her hair journey. She does whatever she wants to do I will say though You got to be very careful the advice that you pull because it may not work for you your hair texture, etc I hope y'all know that you know that by now, but girl That's not what I want to talk about. So Nancy did a reaction. I don't even say reaction She clarified some things for her subscriber. Okay, and my opinion didn't come off as being petty cuz Knowing her like I think I know her she could have went there, but she didn't and she doesn't have to okay She's grown. She doesn't have to however the young lady took it. She got on a very defensive And made a reaction video a 30 minute reaction video that loaded up today and I tried to watch it you guys around the fire She was very disrespectful around the five minute marker I had to stop watching that and once you start to belittle someone physical appearance Then to me that's it. It's a wrap because you can't fight fair and it's a low blow She also shared a picture and I asked Angel about it because I watch your videos I've been watching her videos for years So she shared your picture miss misses to be shared a picture of Angel that was by the way an old picture those you who Have watched the video then let's check that she show was old That's not a most recent. I mean you could look at Nancy's recent videos. That's not her most recent length check So so y'all We gotta be very careful. I'm very careful what I The advice I give out I let you guys know a lot of the times that it may not work for you Hell some of some of the times the things that I do in my regimen doesn't work for me I have to switch it up. You know what I mean? Um, I did leave a comment on the young lady's Video and she was very defensive I ain't gonna say y'all cuz I ain't gonna say what she said But she literally anyone who disagreed with her she basically clapped back she girl She's a clapped back Queen But I'm like look I don't go back and forth with anyone because all I do is click out the X button and keep it Pushing back I stuff to do I gotta eat tacos and shit. I got stuff to do So anyway, y'all wasted a good five minutes today is thirsty, but it's really our Friday It's Friday and a minute to swing. We have a lot going on. JB is off these kids. I Don't know how the hell they're gonna learn if they're off all the time. I kid you not That's me feel like it was just off. He had a half day two weeks ago He's off tomorrow, which is Friday. Good Friday. He's off on Monday. Yeah, all these days off, right? So, yeah, y'all know I'm extra so we have things planned tomorrow I just set up a quick play date with his friend Adelaide and I love them there from Fort Worth Originally Fort Worth, Texas and so I said, all right, thank you I'm gonna bring over some wine and I played a brownie. She's there. All right, then So we have a play date tomorrow. Saturday. We have a birthday party Sunday, of course It's Easter. Let me show y'all my Easter dress now snow took this in for me last year y'all I got this dress from Montcloff years ago. Isn't it beautiful? She took this dress in for me um a While back it's very thick. It is still too big. I tried it on before I left and She could still like literally this is how this is where I'm at right now Yeah, it's this is too big. So I'm still gonna wear it though um, so that's gonna be my Easter dress and um Monday I am meeting a friend for lunch bringing JB with me and I get to pick her brain over my book because those You know, I have written a children's book and then I'm gonna actually hire an editor I've already looked into illustrator. So I'm the ball is rolling y'all the ball is rolling I'm already thinking about ideas for Well, I already did what's called like a mind map for my other book ideas See y'all look we got dr. Orlson. He was just busy busy all week and like I said, we already hired a contractor He is starting on the 28th. I could do a holy ghost shuffle right now y'all And we asked him he came by um yesterday. We signed the contract And my husband asked me like, okay, are there gonna be subcontractors coming? You know people that he hired you hired. He said no, it's gonna be me and another guy We're gonna kick this off on the 28th. We'll be done in seven days That's what I'm talking about Jerry Hell and I saw the comment girl one of my subscribers was like I'm interested. I wonder if he's married or have kids I responded to your comment But another thing I noticed Jerry is older. He's probably 42 43 But we we all know especially my subbies who are a little bit older. I'm in your over 45 We know that they don't mean a damn thing for some and some men never mature health Some men or women never mature, but especially some men girl. You could be 42 and still acting the fool So and that's not to be petty or anything. But what's my point? When jerry had pulled up his phone. He was trying to show me pictures of previous jobs. He done Well, I saw all these pictures of other females And I was like, what the hell are these all your girlfriends and he jokingly laughed. He was like, that's just some of them I'm like, oh, so no girl. He ain't married. He don't have any I know it's kind of dark you guys. Oh, there we go. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. It is really early It's like 5 30. I've been at since 4 30. Oh, yeah It is saturday. I didn't record yesterday because we just had a play date. I don't want to show too much. Um I have a lot of errands to run. I gotta I mean I have like four or five places. I need to stop by But I need to break it up between today and tomorrow. I need to break all this stuff up. So Today, we may just have a birthday party. We have to go to around one um, and then tomorrow We are Hmm, I'm sorry y'all Tomorrow we're going to church and of course I'm cooking for easter I think I'm gonna cook the pound cake today though because I'm I'm not cooking anything extravagant for easter. We don't eat pork But I am tired this morning um I slept but then I woke up in the middle of the night and I was up for like an hour Which is why I keep yawning I want some coffee and I don't have coffee because um I threw my coffee out two months ago But since I had that coffee yesterday now, I'm itching for some coffee. Let me see if I have any coffee. Y'all hold on So y'all we're kind of in the dark. This is my lemon pound cake with glaze It I this the first time I've used a tube. I didn't spray the tube enough. I'm gonna cut jay v a little piece so he could taste it Look at that. Look at that. This is the best type of icing I made this perfect because see how it kind of cracked there. That's how you want it Oh, you can help me out. No, no that's too much icing. Look at that. I'm gonna eat that top part You didn't get the word but look at that y'all. You ain't got to worry about that, baby I'm gonna eat that. Yeah, but the bottom has icing Oh, I'll eat all that so you might out there. This is what I'm worried. Excuse jay v Can you see this? I got this from Ross. So y'all I did record this style. This is a fluffy very fluffy wash and go Using miller and hair care and extreme gel I like that. It's not that crunchy. However, it's not gonna last as long as my other wash and goes I could typically get about six to seven days. That's a lot five or six days This about four Four days, but that's okay, but I will say it's It's stretch more than my typical wash and go. So let me see if I can do it Y'all can see the back. I mean, I'm gonna have this record Y'all see it? Can you see it? Can you see it? Can you see it? J.B. J.B. J.B. In nachos, you can't see but I have mini peppers seasoned turkey black beans roasted corn tomato cilantro uh, what else? jalapenos Syrup cream. Yes. This is my dinner. Okay. This is my dinner Good morning. Good morning. Good morning I forgot to wish y'all a happy Passover yesterday. Today is Easter Sunday I'm in the back guest bedroom because I have all my stuff out. We are going to church this morning Um, let me open up y'all. We're going to the these holes and lawyer church I know y'all I am quote-unquote interviewing for church interviewing churches I shouldn't say interviewing. I'm looking at new churches still new church home You guys I have visited several churches out here and I'm a type of person I really don't even mind what denominated. That's a lie. That's a lie. I'm not even going to say that because My spirit is already convicted me. I am Uh, very careful about the the denomination because there are certain denominations That don't believe in that don't share my same belief. So yeah, thank you, Holy Spirit for convicting me so But in all in all honesty, I did visit I did visit a church Um, last month and it's a historical black church. Actually, it's been more than a month. It's a historical black church here in Phoenix and y'all I'll just wrap it up real quick. It's not going to work for me. Um, it is a very slow paced church The average age of the congregation was like 65 Which there's nothing wrong with that but I'm that just to let you know that Since the members are older, they're okay with being in church for four hours Like i'm not kidding you. I got there at 10 o'clock And by 12 30, they were still singing and I asked a young lady next to me. I said, um What time do you get out of church? She's like, oh Sometimes one or two o'clock. I knew I'd driven an hour to get there Which I don't even mind that however I want to be in and out of church within two hours if I'm going to drive an hour girl Long story short, I couldn't do it. Um, the pastor was very very nice pastor black. He is originally from tylen, texas I introduced myself and told him I was from long so so anyway you guys um, but me cooking today, of course I didn't make that pound cake yesterday and y'all I'm hard on myself the pound cake for an average person That's good, but for miss jackson is lackluster Hmm, it is a traditional pound cake. It's very dense girl. Why am I even talking about this? Not that serious. All right. It's just It's real dense. So anyway, I am going to be cooking. I'm just spitting. I am going to be cooking I'm going to be making smothered chicken But I'm at fried chicken mashed potatoes Um, what else? What else? What else? Uh, no, I'm so tired um, cabbage I think I'm gonna do That's too many carbs. I'm not gonna do that I have to do another green veggie or something. I should go get pick up some green beans But not really that may be enough y'all depending on my mood. I may not feel like in some roles Yeah, that's a lot of carbs. So I need to do something else that's green Or not so bad I don't know and of course that cake Um, and that is it tomorrow. I'm going to be having lunch. I'm off tomorrow Thank god, I'm gonna be having lunch with my girlfriend Robin And then I'm gonna take JB to an indoor playground So y'all y'all more and more stuff to do. Look, my husband told me last night Well yesterday when we came back from the birthday party, he said your friends came JB looking for you I'm like these kids. Yeah, I don't know what to tell these kids like I've already told them twice that he's too young to go out and they come like every four I'm just gonna have to like lay it lay it down and be like he cannot come out at all I'm well, maybe I'll be like, um Maybe he shouldn't come by maybe a little ass and should be No, I'll I'll clean it up. I know how to clean it up I'm just gonna let them know that he's too young to go out and we'll come see you if we find you We see you outside then we'll play with you guys, but um There's no need to keep coming by because the answers still no, um And I did get him a new bike. I don't know why but I did get him a bike JB doesn't really, you know, these kids nowadays they have so many alternatives for ride on so I never this is his first bike. I know and he's six years old his first bike But he has training wheels and he's so cute on it, but I'm gonna go get a helmet for him. I think today after church And I told him, you know, we can Go out and ride. Let me show you this cute little bow tie I made for JB for his shirt For Easter today. So this is a shirt he's wearing. I'm gonna put this in the Uh drier soil get better. So I just got some fabric. Um This is zooming in or is it zooming out girl? I have some I had some gray fabric Blue fabric and a little bit of yellow fabric I don't like it kind of it's kind of going down like that But I wanted to come up and then I have this clip that I'm going to go ahead and hot glue on the back And yeah, JB has about at this point about 2025 Very easy to make these maybe I'll do a um, I have a vlog that shows how mithy's Um, I don't think I'm really that great because I could see the imperfections here So I won't I won't do an official video, but isn't it's cute just to make it A little dressy for him for Easter Yeah Yes Hmm You guys this dress just dress could still be taken a little bit more. See that Start shit fit. Are you guys next time you see me? We will be All right, y'all we've been back from church for a while now. I want to show you I know I know girl. I know I made a This is from what's from scratch or it's from scratch. It's basically a a plain vanilla cake Um, and the reason why it is very moist extremely moist. Um, I use cake flour because this cake Oh Didn't I turn out well, but you know what? I'm pretty sure my neighbors would still eat this It's dry as hell. Y'all so I made a just basic white cake I didn't have to buy any ingredients but some more vanilla and this is um Buttercream frosting james eating some hints this Buttercream icing from scratch and then I'm going to put coconut on top of it and on the side It's basically like a coconut cake, but not really coconut cake is a little bit more I don't know. It's more of a white cake than a vanilla cake. I should say