 you may want the narcissist functions can disappear. Narc ISIS are very harmful and unpleasant so you may want the narcissist out of your life. You may want them to disappear but you want to do what if a way where you are protect yourself And they will not cause any more damage to you or your life ac mae'n grifenni meddwl am ddiwedd ar y pethau. Mae'n grifenni'n grifenni'n gwiswm ychydig. Mae'n grifenni'n grifenni'n gwiswm mewn agorodol sorraeth. A ti'n ei ddysgu'n eisiau am yr oedd yn frefadaredd mewn atref. You may have noticed that something is quite unusual about the narcissist. Something is not right. They don't act normally. They don't act in a way that is typical or standard. They don't act in a way that is expected or appropriate. They go against the grain. They do things differently from what is normal or usual. They act contrary to what should be their natural inclination or feeling. So you may have done some research and discovered that they may have NPD. They may have narcissistic personality disorder. Because there are certain things happening in your relationship that don't add up. That don't make any sense. They're very self-centered. They only care about themselves. They're only concerned with their own activities. They're very arrogant. They think they're the best thing since life's bread. And they engage in careless and thoughtful behaviour. Without any consideration for you. They don't consider you. They don't consider how something makes you feel. They're only concerned with what they want. Which is not normal behaviour in a relationship. You're supposed to work together. But the narcissist is very inflexible. They don't want to work with you. So sometimes the best option you can hope for is that they will just leave you alone. But they won't always disappear on their own. You must initiate it. You must put an end to their addiction. You must cut off their supply. And when you do that you will start to feel a lot better. You will have more peace in your life. But it will cause a strong negative reaction at the narcissist. It will cause a narcissistic injury. Which will be followed by narcissistic rage. Because you're not doing what they want you to do. And they see you as an object that exists to meet their needs. They expect you to do what they want you to do. But it's not always so easy to go no contact. Especially when the narcissist is a family member. Because we have these beliefs about who they're supposed to be. But we have to accept that this person is not going to be who we want them to be. To make the narcissist disappear you need to starve them of supply. You need to starve them of attention. And you can do this by being uninteresting. Observe don't absorb. Respond don't react. Take away your emotions. Because if you react to them emotionally you may end up looking like the crazy one. And that's how they get all these flying monkeys on their side. That's how they get everyone thinking that you were the problem. So don't react to them. Put an end to their drama and chaos by not feeding into it. Because all they're really looking for is a reaction. That's why they do it. So when you take away your emotions you regain your power. You want the narcissist to disappear. Because they don't respect you. And they don't respect you. Because they see you as an object. They see you as something that belongs to them. They see you as an extension of themselves. Something they use to extract narcissistic supply. They want to own you so they cannot respect your boundaries. They want to tear them down so that they can gain control of you. So as soon as you set a boundary with the narcissist they will try to tear it down. Which is why you have to start conditioning them. You have to start accustomed them to behave in a certain way and to accept certain circumstances. Because if you do that you will be starving them of supply and eventually they're going to get fed up. They're going to disappear. If you want to make the narcissist disappear keep the conversation short. Talk to them only as needed. And when you're talking to them take away your emotions. They will do anything they can to trick you. To set you off. To cause you to react to them emotionally. You have to avoid showing any emotions. They will trigger you so that they can use your reactions against you. So that they can set you up so that they can make accusations. So you have to be very careful. They will do anything to beat you in. They will love bomb you. They will play the victim. They will create a sense of urgency. But you must avoid taking the bait. Because they're just trying to get supply from you. And if you want the narcissist to disappear you cannot give them supply to make the narcissist disappear. Stop answering their phone calls. Stop responding to their texts. Take away all communication with the narcissist. And they will get bored very quickly. And you should also avoid phone calls or text messages. Because this is where they're going to catch you. They're going to use things you see or text against you. When you are dealing with a narcissist. Anything you see or do will be used against you. If you want the narcissist to disappear. You need to initiate it. You need to walk away. You need to focus on your own life. And forget about them. So that the narcissist knows you want nothing to do with them. You have to make it clear. Because narcissists only see what they want to see. And sometimes they don't care about what you want. They may still persist. But you need to be headed in the direction that you want to go. So if you want them to disappear. You need to cut them off. Walk away. Go no contact. And the narcissist will soon fade away. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonate with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. 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