 When you're hooked, a fantasy starts being built, a beautiful fantasy, I might add, because I think when we're in a state of we're feeling love but the other person isn't, we romanticize, we take red flags and we turn them into green flags. I am guilty of doing this, so I'm completely aware of this. The challenge we have when someone is experiencing attachment and not love. One of the main differences when a person is experiencing love, they're all in. They're all in. They recognize you as somebody they want as a partner in their life. Doesn't mean they're not in the relationship but there's an all-in.