 And then I see something on my door and I'm gonna play the clip for you. That's crazy. That's crazy. When people are used to fuck with clip bloody tampons on your door. Yeah. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. What's good y'all, it's Gord Ross back again with another video. So I'm gonna be doing a story time for you guys. It's been quite some time since my last story time video. I know you guys have been asking me here and there to do another story time. And I honestly was gonna hold off on this to maybe talk about this later on this year, this particular story. But some recent developments just happened and I was like, you know what? Stuff like this only happens to me so I only think it's only right and fitting to kind of break down this entire saga for you guys and you know, just actually just have a good time with it, man. Me personally, I like to turn negative, not so great things into something positive for you guys so we can all have a laugh and have a good time with it, man. So this is the story of the tampon bandit. All right, so let's get to how we got to where we are now. It wasn't always like this. I didn't always call this person the tampon bandit. This is a new phrase, but you know, certain things happen and you know, people get nicknames. So for those who don't know, I wanna say a few months ago, I was talking to someone or I guess you could say dating someone. I was interested in this individual, not gonna say no names. If you follow me on Instagram, you know exactly who I'm talking about or whatnot. So I was messing with this individual or whatnot and I had been really trying to talk to this person for quite some time. Like I wanna say sometime in 2020, this person that'll follow me on Instagram and I had been trying to shoot my shot, but nothing happened. I finally ended up getting the number when I randomly met her out and about and once again, nothing happened, but I didn't force it. It was just one of those things. Shit, you know, you know how you get somebody's number and you text here and there, conversation don't really go nowhere. But all right, cool. I ain't overdue it. Like if I see you, I see you. If I don't, it's whatever. So I finally ended up linking up with this person. We actually go out to eat. Everything's cool. I'm like, okay, I like the vibes. We have similar interests. I'm like, okay, I'm really rocking with this. Maybe this could potentially be the one you will see. So I wanna say, and this is kind of a lesson to all y'all out there, males and females, you gotta pay attention to the signs. They show up, but sometimes we don't pay attention to them. So we ended up going to this after our spot. This was like, I wanna say the first time me and this person actually like rode together or whatever, or I believe we met up there. I forgot the logistics of it. And as we're going to inside, there was another homie or whatever. He's coming outside that after I was spotted. So I'm chopping it up with him. Like, yo, it was good. Nice to see you hadn't seen him in a while. And he saw who I was with. And he pulled me to the side. Had no reason to. He could have just let me kept going in, but he pulled me to the side and he said, yo, be careful with this person right here. Watch out for her. I was like, what you mean is I just be careful. Now, mind you, I probably should have paid attention to that. Cause this is my first time really interacting with this person on this level. Like also, you know, we just getting to know each other. But the fact that he said that, and then he just walked away. He just disappeared into the night. It was like he was some type of foreseen spirit that just popped up to tell me, hey, watch out for this person and poof, disappeared. So I never even thought to hit the person up afterwards. Like what they were talking about, but I thought it was kind of weird. I was like, hmm, that's interesting. And then I went in there and I paid attention to the sign, turned up, have a good time. It was cool, whatever. So we vibing out. We had been vibing out and you know, I'm feeling good, feeling great or whatever. Some of y'all seen it on the story or whatever. You know what I'm saying? I'm just having a good time. Everything is cool. There's no, I don't see any signs outside of that initial warning from the homie. I don't see nothing that would indicate things about to go left, but that's how life is. A lot of times when things are good, the shoe always falls. So you got to kind of be prepared for that. That was not. So I want to say, I'm not sure exactly when, but I was actually, I had planned a little date with this person and at this point we're dating. She said it herself. So I planned a date with this person, went to a bowler now. Had a great time. It was fun. You know, it was just a good time. Good vibes or whatever. We pull up to meet up with my other homie that was DJing at one spot and then we pulled up to an after-hours spot. The same one that we normally would go to. And everything cool. Night is fantastic. It's just, it's a great night. You know, I'm not getting too lit. She's lit cause we, she rode with me. And you know, I'm the designated driver and I, you know, I'm big on not getting too messed up because I'm not one, I'm not trying to leave my car out and about anywhere I'm at. And two, you know, you just, if you're going to be the designated driver, you got to, you know, got to stay true to that cause I got to make sure everybody get home. That's just how I always am. So I'm chilling. She's super lit, turned up, just throwing ass. I'm like, you're just having a good time. She gets up and go to the restroom. Now mind you, I'm not looking for nothing bad. I'm literally just vibing out. She goes to the restroom. She comes out and I'm just chilling. Next thing I know, I see her throwing cheeks on another guy. Now I thought I was tripping. I'm like, maybe I did have much too much drink. I rubbed the eyes and she throwing cheeks on a random guy and she looking back at it. Like if a female looking back while throwing the cheeks, she having a great time. Now I get it. She's drunk. She's lit. Maybe doesn't recognize it, but that's still no excuse. Cause if I was getting rolled up by another chick, whether I'm drunk or not, and I'm with you and we're quote unquote dating or whatever the situation is, there's a good chance it's not gonna go well for me. So she comes back to where we were. And I don't even make a big scene. I'm just like, yo, what's up with that? You know what I'm saying? Like I see you dancing on some other guy. She kinda ignores it. Like she kind of like passes. Like she don't, like she kind of ignores the situation or whatever. And I'm like, what the fuck? You know what I'm saying? I'm like, I'm just addressing it and she kind of just patting, you know, glances over. Like it's not a big deal. So at that point, my mood changed. I'm big on respect. And at that point, I'm like, bro, I'm not feeling this like at all. So my mood is I'm irritated. She can tell. So because I'm irritated at what she did, she turns the fuck up. I'm mind you, it's zero. We're at zero and then it goes to a hundred quick in front of people that I know, friends, all these people are seeing her like, we can go right now. We can fucking leave right now. Like, I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa. I'm confused. I'm like, what the hell's going on? She going insane. Like person just like talking, talking kind of spicy. So my hominess with me, he trying to figure out what's going on. And I'm trying to get like, can we calm down? Like let's go talk outside. What is going on? You really doing this? I'm like, what? I'm so lost. So we go outside, bro. And I'm trying to talk to this motherfucker, bro. I'm really trying. Like, I'm like, what are you talking about? Like, I didn't like what I saw out there. And she's like, uh-uh, we're not about to do this. Mr. Ross used to call me Mr. Ross all the time. We're not about to do this. Mr. Ross, you, you're not about to, you're not about to come at me like that. You should know me better. I'm better, I'm better than that. I'm like, what are you talking about? You, you wasn't dancing on nothing, dude. I'm just addressing it, let you know. I'm not cool with that. If we supposed to be some type of item or trying to get to know each other or dating whatever this situation is, I don't rock like that. And she just, just kept going off. Like, oh, you, oh, this is unbecoming of you, Mr. Ross, you being insecure. I'm like, oh, Lord, bro. And one thing I'm not a big fan of is someone calling you insecure because you don't like a certain action that they're doing. Considering is one of those things where if I was to do the same thing, you would not have a, you wouldn't like it. That's just, that's just what it is. If you like someone, you're not gonna be cool with someone dancing on somebody else in front of you. And then you're addressing it and they just not should learn about it. Like, I don't, I don't call that insecure. Maybe some people do whatever. I have standards, that's just my morals on it. So at that point, I'm like, and I'm not getting upset. I'm just trying to get her to calm down. We're outside, she yelling and shit. Next thing I know, now this person, she smokes weed on the regular. I'm like, all right, whatever. I'm not really, I don't really smoke like that. You know what I'm saying? So I went, went a big deal. But the next thing I know, she pulls out the cigarette, the cancer stick. And I'm just like, wait, where did this come from? Like, she pulling out the sig bro. She's stressed out now. I'm like, wait, what? So even though it kind of threw me off, I'm still trying to get her to like relax, relax, calm down, relax. And at this point, it wasn't working. She wasn't trying to hear. She's like, you can go home, Mr. Ross, if you want to, I'm gonna stay here with my friend. So guess what I did? I went home. I'm like, bro, I'm not about to stay here. The disrespect, you know what I'm saying? And my friends that was in there, they weren't liking the energy because she just went back in there and start throwing ass. Like nothing ever happened. So I was like, I bet all the time I'm heading back to the crib. She texted me, screw you, Mr. Ross, you actually left me. I'm just like, wait, wait, what? I'm not about to stay. Am I supposed to stay? You told me to leave. I'm gonna leave. I don't, I don't want to know parts of this. Apparently that's how you get down. Like I don't get down like that. So she upset because I left her. And it's like, ah, eff me on my eye, cool, whatever. So I want to say maybe that next day after everything I guess cooled off, we had a conversation or whatever. And she apologized, whatever, you know what I'm saying? And I'm like, all right, cool. I even apologized even though I shouldn't have because I really didn't do anything wrong. But just to make things on an even playing field, I was like, you know what? I'm sorry if I made you feel some type of way, whatever, whatever, just, we want to even playing field now. You know, I'm that type of person, I'll meet you in the middle. I ain't gonna be like, hey, apologize to me. Nigga's like, no, I'll meet you in the middle. Just so, you know, there was a misunderstanding, whatever. Now that honestly, I probably should have stepped away from there. At that point, should have stepped away, but I didn't because I'm a person of giving, giving at least a second chance, you know what I'm saying? I definitely got to work on that. Cause sometimes people don't deserve second chances in certain situations. Like sometimes people are just who they are. So I'm like, all right, cool. So I want to say a week go by, maybe like a week go by or whatever. Everything good, everything chill, everything's fine. We pop out again. Oh, what's that? He was actually turning up with my homie, one of my good friends. He went, he, you know, he had been kind of dealing with some stuff. So he was able to pop out. So we only went to the same after I was spot just because of him. You know what I'm saying? He had been dealing with some stuff. So I bet we're going to turn up for you, bro. You know what I'm saying? It's good to get you out and about. So we chilling, having a great time. It was fun. Everything was cool. I'm not paying attention at this point. I'm feeling good dancing, not paying attention. And my friend was there for the first incident. He said something to her. Cause apparently there was a guy that she was like slow dancing with. And I wasn't paying attention. He was like right next to me. I wasn't looking. I just knew she was next to me, but I wasn't paying attention. And there was a guy that she, you know, had her arms wrapped around. She was like kind of slow dancing with him or whatever. And my friend was like, yo, chill out, what are you doing? Like that's not cool. And I'm like, what he talking about? And then I saw it and I was like, oh, not again. So she get mad at him. Oh, we can fucking go and mind you, she rolled with me. I'm like, oh no, bro. I'm like, well, this night is shot. She did the same thing just in a different way with a different individual. And I'm just like, ah, there ain't nothing I can do about this one. So once again, she turning up outside. And it seems like every time she's like in a stressful situation that she caused, she pulls out a cigarette. Any other time is smoking the blunt all day, but for whatever reason, she pulled out the cancer stick. And mind you, this is someone that's big on working out and healthy lifestyle. And you back though, pull out the cigs when you upset. That's crazy. That's wild. Anywho, she pulled out the cig. I'm trying to talk to her. It's like three, four in the morning. I'm like, yo, can you calm down? We can fucking go. Whatever. Oh, what not? Bro, tell me why. Tell me why. She going off on my friend. And I don't know how y'all operate with your friends, but I'm pretty loyal to them. At the end of the day, if my friend did something wrong and was out of line, I would address it. But this was one of those things where my friend was just legitimately looking out for me. He wasn't disrespectful. He was just like, yo, chill. Like, what are you doing? That's what friends are supposed to do. If they see some BS, they're supposed to call it out. And I'm not about to go at him for having my back because I wouldn't even pay attention. So she being disrespectful, talking down to him. And I'm like, yo, you gotta chill. That's my homie. You know what I'm saying? I don't sell out my homies for any piece of ass. It's not that serious. So at that point, I'm getting irritated. The first time I was trying to be cool, calm and collective. This time, the irritation is setting in. So we get in the car. She talking about this last time I'm gonna come up here with you. I don't know if I want to continue to keep messing with you no more. This is just too much. This is your fault you started. I'm like, what, bro? I couldn't believe I'm getting blamed for something that she did again. So at this point, I'm like, bro, all right. I'm gonna take your ass home, bro. I ain't got time for this. Mind you, the drive from her crib was like a good 40 minutes. So I'm like, fudge. I am screwed. Now, for those who don't know, I love my car. I love my baby. If you see my car, you already know what it is. So anytime she was with me, anytime I was speed, you know what I'm saying? I let the horse powers rip or whatnot. She would love it. She'd be vroom vroom, like she loved when I was pushing it in my car. But this time it was different because I'm pushing it now to get her home, to get her out my shit. So I'm getting slowly, but surely getting upset. She talking to me crazy. And I'm talking to you like I'm talking to y'all right now. That's how I was talking to her. I was like, yo, you ain't gotta yell. You ain't gotta curse at me. Calm down. And she was like, nah, I got to, because you clearly don't understand. You clearly don't fucking get it. I'm like, whoa, I'm like, what is this energy? Mind you, it's zero to 100 for no reason other than you just don't like someone telling you about yourself. So at this point, it's like five in the morning. There's no traffic or whatever. I'm getting heated. Imagine someone yelling at you and raising a voice while you're trying to get them to calm down while you're driving. And at this point, I stopped in the middle of the highway. There's no cars. And I'm like, yo, I'm gonna need you to calm the F down. We ain't doing this right now. You got me messed up. And she's like, you can drop me off right here. I'm like, no, I'm not about to drop you up in the middle of the highway. Even though I probably should have, but I'm not about to drop you off here. No, no, no, no, no, I'm gonna take your ass home. But you got to calm that down. You doing the most. And at this point, she yelling and I start raising my voice. Now, mind you, I'm not calling out her name or anything like that, but I'm raising my voice now because now it's only so much you can take. And this is one of those things where I start, you know, I want to take a lesson out of this and I'm gonna give you all the lesson afterwards. So I'm raising my voice like, yo, you ain't gonna talk to me like that. Like my mama don't even talk to me like that. I've been nice to you, I've taken you out on dates. I showed you, you know what I'm saying? My affection, my, you know, I showed you, I ain't like everybody else. And you come at me very disrespectfully over some motherfucking shit you did. So at this point, I'm pushing it. You know, I'm gone because I'm like, you got to get out of my car. So I got to make sure I get you home as quick as possible. She was like, nah, drop me off at the next exit. I was like, okay, look, I ain't about to argue with you. If you want to get out my vehicle, I'm gonna get you out of my vehicle. So we get to the next exit. It's like just random gas station. It's mind you, it's like five on the sixth in the morning. Now, here's where I made my mistake, guys. I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm not proud of this. Some of you guys may not make think it's justified me being who I am. I know I'm better than this, but shit happens. So as I parked, like I stopped the car, she getting her stuff. I'm not looking at her cause I'm so angry. I'm just looking straight. I'm not paying attention to if she got everything. I honestly don't care. I just want her out my damn vehicle. So before she can even close the door, I sped off. And I heard something fall. I think she ended up falling. I think she dropped some of her stuff out her purse, but she ended up falling before she could fully get out the car. So she ended up falling. I circle back around and I can see her like on the ground or whatnot. And I just sped off and I went home. I ain't checked or nothing like that. Now apparently from what my homie had, let me know, cause my homie was trying to talk. Well, my homie was trying to, you know, talk to a friend that was with us that same night. Everything went down or whatever. Her friend had to come pick her up. Apparently she broke her phone. She had two phones. They kind of cracked because she fell off the car or whatever. She was a little scraped up and you know what I'm saying? She was very, very upset. And I get it. I get it. That wasn't my best moments. She ain't deserve to, you know what I'm saying? Fall out the car. But at the same time, it was one of those scenes where it's like I ain't deserve someone talking to me crazy, being disrespectful to me and my own shit while I'm driving, trying to get you home. So I'm not saying two wrongs make a right, but that definitely, you know, wasn't the best moment, but it happened. You know what I'm saying? She fell out the car while I was trying to, you know, drive off my bad. You know, I'm not proud of that. I felt bad about that once I found out what happened. But at that point, she had blocked me on everything. So it's not like I could apologize. The only thing I was gonna apologize for is her falling out the car. But I was out of that, leaving her at the gas station. That was the play. So at that point, we done talking. We don't talk no more. So I hit up, if you guys remember, at the beginning of the story, my homie that said, watch out for her. I hit up the homie and I'm like, yo, what did you mean by watch out for her? And he told me pretty much before I was, me and her was the thing she used to mess with his homie. And apparently that's just what she does. Like she'll be out with people or whatever that she cool with or mess with. And she'll just, she'll get lit and then start section hopping and dancing on other guys. So that was just what she does. That was in her nature to be like that. Oh, shit, damn, whoa. I probably should have listened. I would have avoided all of this, but that's neither here nor there. So this done, right? You think the saga is over. There's nothing to be said. There's nothing to worry about. We have not talked in a few months. Everything cool, right? No. So this literally happened last night. As I mean filming this has happened or earlier this morning, technically. So I'm out with my homie. We chilling. I hadn't been to this particular after our spot and since the last incident. So I finally, we go out, we go to it. And out of all the times I go out, she happens to pull up right as me and my homies parking. She pulls up. I see her and her friend. She saw me. So I'm laughing because I'm like, yo, this is hilarious. So I'm chilling, chilling in the section with my homies, which is having a good time or whatever. No, no issue. She walk in or whatever. She hugging everybody or whatever. She see me in there. She know I'm in there, but nothing happens. She dancing, having a good time or whatever. She ends up rolling up one of my homies that I personally know on the stage, grinding, showing out. And then she ends up grinding on another homie that I know saying they don't know our relationship. So it's whatever. It's free game at that point. But she's showing out. She was just section hopping, just showing out. And I'm like, that's crazy. Now I don't know if she was trying to get a reaction out of me, but I wasn't because at the end of the day, what's done is done. Shit happens, life, you know, life is what it is. So you just move on. I'm not about to be pressed like, okay, we dated for a little bit. It didn't even go far. All right, cool. So at this point, she leaves, right? I'm like, okay. And something said, check my car. Now she knows what my car looks like. She knows where I parked that because she saw me. So I'm like, all right, let me check my car. So as I step outside and I see her drive off, I'm checking to make sure there's no scratches or anything. I'm just, just something told me to do that. And then I see something on my door and I'm gonna play the clip for you. That's crazy. That's crazy. When people are used to fuck with clip bloody tampons on your door. Yeah. She left a bloody tampon on the door handle on the driver's side. She took time to get a bloody tampon. Don't know if it was hers or friends or whatever she got it from, taped it up and put it on the door handle, bro. Now, mind you, at first, I wasn't sure what it was because I don't know if you guys know there's been people that's be that they'll try to talk there's been people that's be that they'll try to target women so they'll put stuff on their, on their door seal on a car. So when they touch it, they get poisoned with something. You know what I'm saying? They have like a reaction to it. So I'm thinking, is somebody trying to sex traffic me? Like wait, I'm looking for white bands and stuff. But then I look and I was like, that's a tampon, bro. That's a bloody tampon on the door handle. And I know it had to be her because nobody else know that was my car. No other chick was in there that I mess with or no one at level. It made no sense for a random chick to put a damn tampon on my door seal. Hence, this is why she is forever will be known the tampon bandit. So at that point, I'm laughing as you can tell from the video. I'm laughing cause I'm like, yo, you got to be kidding me. Like, what are we doing? We haven't talked in months and this is the energy I get. You know what I'm saying? I get it. You fell on my car. My bad, but damn, like, let it go. So I guess that's the whole way of getting me there. The point I want to make out of this whole story is at the end of the day, you got to take time to get to know people. When things are good, they're great. But you really get to find out someone's personality and their intentions and how they feel when they're upset. And when she was upset, there's no reasoning. There's no getting through. It's just you got to deal with her talking to you any kind of way and coming at you crazy. And me personally, I can't deal with that. That's not what I want in any type of relationship, whether it's a friend or more than a friend. You know, if you're upset and you can talk to me any kind of way, then that lets me know how you feel. You know, and I'm not a big fan of that. I've been pretty good on being upset and dealing with that for the past few years. And I want to maintain that peace. So anybody that's around me, if you feel like that's how you feel when you were mad at me or whatever the case is, even though I wasn't the one that did anything and you do that, it's a no-go for me. So the lesson here is one, pay attention to them immediate red flags, they may be subtle, you got to pay attention. And two, you got to make sure you give someone that amount of time, that proper time to see them when they're not at their best, when they're upset, you know. And also it's another lesson learned for me because I know I have a platform. So putting people on my stories like that, you know, that can be dangerous because you know, people see that and know everything's good. And then, you know, they're not on my story no more. And then, you know, it's like what happened, you know? So I got to also be aware of letting people, you know, be on my social medias, you know, like that until I know for certain this is someone that's going to be there for the long call. But overall, man, I had to bring this story time to you guys, I hope you guys enjoy it. Because once again, this, only this can happen to me, man. So I will say this to you guys, man, be careful of the tampon bandits. They are out there, they are, you know, putting tampons on your car. Make sure you check your car seal, all that stuff. Oh, by the way, I did have like, you know, I have some wipes in my car. So I was able to wipe it down disinfected, but I'm actually going to go get the car washed today. Get it thoroughly clean because we got to get all that tampon juice off my door seal. And I didn't touch it. I had me a rag with me always come prepared in case something wild like this happens, man. But hope you guys enjoy that story time, man. More story times are underway. It's just, you know, I got to find a way to formulate them or whatnot, but I appreciate all the love and support. Rollin' to 150K. And I'll see y'all in the next one. Peace.