 What he represents is patriarchy. We're here to do work as men, as patriarchs. There's nothing more natural than being a father. Welcome back to the 21 Convention Second Patriarch Edition 2020 of Orlando, Florida, being held for the first time ever at the Big Badass 21 Summit. Our first speaker of the day here at 21.com Patriarch Edition is going to be Coach Greg Adams. He spoke for his first time yesterday at the 21 Convention Main Event for men. This will be his second time returning to the 21 Convention stage. He was a woman's basketball coach in college and high school for over 16 years. And a couple years ago on YouTube, he became a coach for men. He's been blown up. He has over 150,000 subscribers across all his channels. He has a bunch of them. He has like a media mogul here, a media empire he's building. It's awesome. And I even hear Socrates better watch out. Harry's a runner-up nominee for vice president of the Manusphere. So without further ado, let's let me welcome back to the 21 Convention stage, Coach Greg Adams. Thank you, brother. Thank you very much, man. Thank you. What's going on, gentlemen? Appreciate you being here. Yesterday I did a little bit of intro about my background coaching. I'm not going to do much of it, so if you missed it, I'm sorry. I'm not going to do it again because I had to make time for the other stuff that I'm doing. But I'll give you a little bit of a background. I got coaching after a subpar basketball playing career. All right? As you can see, genetically, I wasn't blessed with a lot of height. A lot of people got tall, right? And a friend of mine said, hey, I'm looking for a JV Girls basketball coach. All right? I said, I'll do it. From there, I started coaching high school, AAU basketball. Then eventually that led me into college basketball coaching. I don't know how I got there, but I did, all right? I coached at five Division I universities. Then I was a head coach Division II. So I spent 16 years being a parent father figure for women's basketball. Okay? It was a great career. I got to travel the world, move coast to coast three times in moving bands. Eventually got married, had two children. We'll talk about that. And the reason why I kind of got out of that and started a new thing, got into fitness training was because I wanted to raise my kids, okay? I dealt with a lot of kids that weren't, they didn't have father figures in their lives. They didn't have parents, okay? Either strong male figures. And they sought me out to be that, okay? So I raised a lot of kids from high school, middle school, all the way through college. And then I got the opportunity to be a father. Now, how many guys are in here fathers right now? Okay? You already have children. All right? The vast majority. How many in here would like to have children? Okay? You don't have children now. You would like to have children. Okay. Good. So the conversation here is going to talk about the absence of male authority, okay? And this father figure idea that we have that maybe if you want children, this idea that you have in your head, we're going to talk about what obstacles you face going into wanting to be a father, okay? Now, if you follow my content, I've made content that is geared towards relationship dynamics between men and women. Being a guy that's been through a divorce and having to fight for my kids through the family court. Okay? That's going to be my experience. And we're going to talk about how that has played a role in society. So for the people who said they were fathers just out of curiosity as I'm presenting this, how many of you still live with the mother of those children? Okay? So I would say half of the fathers are divorced. Co-parent or something, some similar arrangement to that. Okay? That's going to be important to what we're talking about. Okay? Because if you listen to my YouTube channel, I tell people about the free agent lifestyle, which are there's three tenants to the free agent lifestyle. And that is no cohabitation, no long-term relationships, and no marriage. Now, I advise guys of that because of the dangers that come with it. If they're not prepared to be a leader and authority over their child, and they just want to have a kid, we'll talk about that, they're not going to be prepared for what the world has in store for them. You guys are seeing some of the social unrest that we have here. You guys are seeing it. The reason why we're seeing it in my opinion is because there's an absence of male authority. So when people come to my channel and they see and hear what I'm talking about, and I say, you just went through a divorce? Stay away from moving in with women. Stay away from long-term relationships. Don't marry again. The reason why I'm telling you that is because the deck is stacked against you already. The worst thing you can do in the first three years of your post-marriage, post-bad breakup, is to get back into that. Until you build value and authority, then until you build that, you're not going to be ready for what it takes to, if you're going inside of those three tenants. So people watch the channel, they're listening. They're not all red pill hardcore. They're like, what is this guy talking about? I want to find love. What if I want to have kids, coach? That's what they ask me. What if I want to have kids? And to me, it's the toughest question to ask. Answer, what do I tell a guy? I just told you not to move in with a woman. I just told you not to get involved with them long-term unless you have authority or are willing to lead. So instead of holding in my hands or with my mouth, my words, instead of holding their ability to procreate, the ability to pass on their lineage, their legacy, their ability to want to have the pleasures of having children, instead of doing that, what I tell them is you need to do your due diligence in terms of what it takes to be a leader in an authority figure. You need to do your background information and understanding what the powers that be might have in store for you. As you guys know, I have two children of my own. So I am a father, so it's hard for me as a father who loved my children to tell another man, don't have kids. So I will never do that. I will just give you information that you need to process in order to really figure out if you really want to do this. First of all, you're going to need to be able to have the authority. Be willing to lead. See, the desire to have children is not enough. It's not enough. You're going to want to have to lead and be a responsible person for them. There's going to be some things in place for you to knock you off of being a parent. I call it the removal of the children. If you've been watching anything going on in the society right now, this removal of the children is very intentional. If you're looking at the kids now, it's very intentional. It was designed to subvert the authority of men, removing them from the household. It was designed to pervert society. This is where we're going with this particular presentation. And you as one man is not enough. Your desire to have one child, two, three, it's not enough. These things are in place intentionally to divide not only the family, but to divide everyone else. If they have access to the child, they must remove the man. And if you're easily removed, then they have access to the child. Once they have access to the child, then they have access to the rest of society. And they do right now. We're going to talk about how they do. And we're going to talk about why it's important for you to claim that authority amongst all costs. Now, some people may view my content and say, man, this guy's a Debbie Downer. I'm more of a realist. I basically just call it how I see it. You can take it or leave it. You can take 10% of what I say. You can take 50. You can run with it and take 100. But I just kick it real. I'm just telling you how it is. I don't live what I call the hope strategy. I don't prescribe to it. I don't lead you guys into hope. I don't wish. I don't pray on the point of lucky star. I don't pray to God. I don't do any of that. I see what I see and I devise a plan to see if I can work against it. So for you guys, let me give you some positives so you can say, at least you talk positive about being a dad. The positives are the majority of kids are still raised into parent households. The majority, but that number goes down every year. Every year. Right now, we're hovering around 60%. For the most part, another positive real quick is that a lot of these two parent households leads kids. They have a better chance into being productive citizens, two parent households. So if we can keep the vast majority of people raising this condition, it'll be great. Unfortunately, let's go back to some negatives. The media has told the two parent household raised kids that they have what they call privilege. Oh, you got white privilege. You were raised in a two parent household. Lucky you. Well, it wasn't designed for the rest of these people to live in a two parent household. They already had influenced them to live in a single parent household. But now they continue to demonize it and saying two parent households are privileged. How likely are those people to want to do that when they grow up? Remember, I said they're designed to pervert the society. Let's take a look at something real quick. Okay. We have what we call going on right now, beta male energy. Beta male energy right now going on in society. We're seeing it now. Look at these numbers right here. They have what we also call single mothers are heroes. Look at this 1950. These are percentage of births that are to unwed women. We think single motherhood has been around for a long time. It really hasn't. This is a new concept and they use marketing campaigns to get you to accept it. 1950s, 5%. Not a lot of children born to unwed mothers. We get the 2012. We're almost dang near half. Okay. Some communities, some communities, 70% of the children born to unwed mothers. What typically happens right now, the father absence is a crisis in America. 19 million children more than, more than, well we're approaching half at this particular point. This is in 2017. Live without a father in the home. Okay. And I'm telling you this for a reason because the guys that want to be fathers, the four or five of you that raise your hands, probably half of you will not even raise your kid from zero to 18. You won't even have the authority to do so. The systems are already in place. They got a whole bunch of things in place for you to not be in that home. Your job is to maintain that authority. Remember I said, oh, being a father is not enough. Or wanting to be a father is not enough. You have to have the authority. You have to be willing to lead. Okay. So what does that lead to? Kids that grow up without a father. Four times as much to be raised in poverty. Seven times likely to be a teenage pregnancy victim. More likely to be experienced child abuse. That's normally because potentially the single mother, the co-parent has moved in another man into her domicile. Okay. Behavioral problems. Who in here was raised by two parents? Okay. Wow. Look at this. Okay. That represents. Remember that graph I showed you? Okay. What about this? Incarceration. They talk about mass incarceration. More likely to go to prison. The stat that I put in my second book, The Evolution, 73% of the prison inmates were raised in single parent households. Primarily single mothers. Okay. Child obesity. Are we seeing this today? Are we not seeing this? Okay. Two times as likely to suffer from obesity. Why? Video games. Social media. We're going to get to that. More likely to be a criminal. Somebody said one time in the 80s, oh, the numbers of the crime rate is going down. Okay. While single parenthood was going up. They wanted an explanation. Well, why is that happening? Okay. It's happening because they're all in jail. Right. Can't be out there committing crime when you're already locked up. Education. Two times more likely to drop out. See this? Beta male energy right here. This is beta male energy. Okay. And the media can get to your kids to incite you to do anything when you don't have an authority figure around. They can incite you into this division. Now you see me, I'm black, but this right here ain't it. This ain't it. This is right here being a victim. Now, if you have a father that's leading you, you're not going to be a victim. If you've got a father that's leading you, you're not going to say, yeah, let's go outside, son. If you grew up with a father, you're not going to be out there thinking that this is going to make a difference. See, I teach my kids they're not victims. You make your own way. You design your own path. You don't go out there and yell and scream in the streets to try to force people to give you something. This is beta male energy. And I called it out. I'm not afraid to call this out on social media. Okay. I called it out from day one that this ain't it. Okay. What about this stuff? Anybody hear this? It's a movie called Cuties in which these girls represent 11-year-old girls. Okay. And they're in provocative poses designed to, well, the producer of the movie and the director, oh, this is a coming-of-age film about girls developing and realizing their sexuality and their power. Really? Is that what you're calling it? Because this looks like none of them had a dad. This looks like all of their mothers dragged them down to the audition and said, this is the only way to do it. Let's sell that peace leave. If you've been listening to my content, you know what that is. Let's sell it because that's all we got, girls. See, if these women have fathers, these young girls have fathers, you're not going to let your daughters go out there and do any of this. Okay. Even if you're in a marriage, okay, even if you're in a marriage, a lot of men right now, you're in hand-pecked relationships, meaning she's the authority figure in the house. You can't even say anything about raising the kids because she believes she owns the kids. We're going to talk about that. So being married and having the kids in a two-parent household still is not a guarantee if you do not keep the authority. So let's go to my background a little bit. I have two kids. Love them to death. 14, my daughter's age 14. She right now is developing her personality. Boy, is she ever, all right? She is now engaged in the world. Okay. My 13-year-old son, they're separated by 16 months, so they will have that, you know, year they're born close together. Okay. He is more like me. The daughter's more like the mom. I'm not saying anything negative. Both of them, black belts in Taekwondo, I got them really active. My son following my footsteps and my mother, we both played basketball. So he wants to be a basketball player. My daughter wants nothing to do with that. She went from soccer to US Junior National Tennis, and then now she's a cheerleader. Okay. So I was very influential in their life. Solid students. Love being a parent. So this is why it's difficult for me to advise you to not be a parent, but I want to tell you what you have ahead of you. Okay. But I have what they call a co-parenting agreement. Anybody a co-parent in here? Okay. We got a lot of co-parents. I can go on and on about my opinion about co-parenting. Okay. That's another topic. All right. I'm not a big fan of co-parenting. Two kids, two authority figures living in two separate households. Splitting time. I think that was probably trying to make a deal with the devil. At this particular point, it's not that beneficial. I don't think they turn out any more better than single parent raised households. That's just my opinion. Okay. But in order to get that deal, I had to fight for that. This is where you need to know, I want to be a dad. Well, this is probably what you're going to have to do. I had to fight for that. Through the courts, spend tens of thousands of dollars to get a 50% custody arrangement. In which I see my kids half of their childhood, not a second more. She doesn't give me a second more. Now, that's what it was the first seven years. Since I started doing YouTube, she said, uh-oh. I better make sure I let this guy do something. I'm tired of him calling me out. Okay. She made three attempts to get full custody after the initial judgment of 50-50. Over seven years, she went back to court. I want the kids. She went back to court. I want the kids. Went back to court. I want the kids. What did that make me do? More lawyer fees. More lawyer fees. More time. Remember, we got 50% approaching single motherhood. Showed you the graph. We got 70% in the black community. You know how much this is going on every day. Have you ever been to a family courthouse? Anybody raise your hand? You ever been to a family courthouse? This is going on in tens, I mean, across the country everywhere. In many cases, per judge, six courtrooms. And they're fighting for these children. They're fighting for the authority, okay? So for me, a lot of people would say, look, just give them up. Pay your child support. Let them be raised by the mother. Save yourself the money. Don't fight. To me, I said I can't do that. I've seen too many strippers, rappers, kids that ain't got molested, basketball players all saying, well, if it wasn't for my father not wanting to be there, I would have been this. Well, my father was never there. Okay, so I didn't want to be that guy. I already medically knew that that wasn't going to be me, okay? But for me, okay, I didn't want to explain to a broken child about the system. They don't want to hear that. I didn't want to explain to them that the women have an advantage in the courthouse. I didn't want to do that. I didn't want to tell them, oh, well, you know, the system is designed to get the male authority figure out. You think kids want to hear that? They don't care. They're like, where were you, dad? So I had to fight. Pay $60,000 to see my kids half of the time of their life. Okay? And I found other ways to see them. This is what I'm trying to advise you to do. So if you're in a situation, this is what you have to do. Okay? If you can afford the time and if you can afford the expense. These are possibilities for you. She wouldn't let me see them. So what did I do? I volunteered at the kids' school. On the days she had custody. I said, I'm going to go volunteer at their school, right in the classroom. Teacher, what do you need? You need a math assistant that day? I'm going to be there. And I will go in there, sit at the kids' tables. The kids love me. They were like, oh, how are you doing, Mr. Adams? They love me. All the kids. And the teacher saw me. So when she went in there being a spin doctor, oh, dad, dad, this, dad, that. So he's in my classroom all the time. Okay? I coached all of their sports. I signed them up. You're going to play basketball. She balled. The mom was like, no. I was like, they're going to play basketball. Tell your son he's not playing basketball. So we play basketball. Who was the coach? Me. My daughter played soccer. Who was the coach? I didn't know. None of the ball soccer. Nothing. I'm doing soccer drills. I played ball with my hands. I don't know none of the ball soccer. But I learned I was the coach. Three years straight. Five teams. Spring summer, spring season, fall season. I'm coaching them up. She's on the sideline telling the moms how bad of a dad I am. They're going, hmm, girls seem to like them. I got on the PTA board. I was on the PTA board. I ran a fundraiser for the kid's school. You know, she called the police twice on me for having access to my kids on the day's her custodial day. My daughter's at a tennis tournament. She called the police. It wasn't my custodial day. She brought my daughter to tennis. I'm talking to my son. You can't do that. It's not your custody day. Call the police. I recorded it. Put it on YouTube. She took me to court. The judge threw the case out. He can do whatever he wants. He has freedom of speech. Plot twist. Unfortunately, she failed ill. She had to get a medical transplant. I can't give out too much advice. I mean, information on that. HIPAA laws. But I got full custody during that time for a year until she recovered. She came back to get 50% custody. The judge said no. Eventually she got back to full health and all of that to be able to get back to resuming to our co-parenting. But listen, I tell you all of that as a backstory to make you understand that you want to be a dad. You better anticipate that that is a possibility. Why? You don't have authority over that woman. She can do whatever she wants whenever she wants. There's judges, lawyers, mediators, social workers, counselors, child support officers, child protective services. All of these exist for the moment. She says, you know what? I'm not going to demand it in my house anymore. By virtue of that, I can get the benefits from him being here, aka financially, but I'm going to remove his authority. Now, when I tell you all of those things are in place, they're designed for this very thing. The absence and the removal of male authority. Okay? So what must you do? Okay? What must you do? You must select who you procreate with very carefully. I want to have kids. Select them carefully. Now, the process of procreation does not require great judgment. You get real dumb real fast. Okay? You don't intend to procreate with people when you do. You're just practicing. Okay? However, that practice becomes reality when you let one slip past the goal. And now, that is your co-parent. If you haven't married this woman, the likelihood of you getting co-parenting rights dang near zip. Good luck. If you were married to her, you got a little bit more of a power position, which fortunately I was married to my children's mother. Then you have a little bit of negotiation in terms with the judges, okay? But today's young men, they're missing out on their fathers, okay? You look at today's young men and women. You try to find out what's missing. If a kid is born after 2010, essentially they were born with what we call a smartphone in their hand. They know no other life. They're used to being able to access information from that smartphone. If you've ever been around kids, and I've been around a lot of them ever since... That's our coach in 1998. 1998, 96, okay? Kids will look like this now, okay? That's what they do. Their whole world is right here. See, I was born... You're born anywhere in the 1970s, 1980s, maybe 1960s. Some of you guys, you don't know nothing about a smartphone. You live life without one. Your world is outside of that. Kids today, their world, their authority, everything they look up to is right there. Plus video games and all of that stuff, okay? For some of them, the drive, the ambition is no longer there. You were born in 1970s. Remember, you wished you had a video phone like the guy on the Jetsons? You remember that. They was like, damn, they got a video phone. They got them now. They can have... We live in the Jetsons world. So, with that comes a lack of drive because everything's right in front of their face. They can get to it. They're running around with a $1,000 phone in their hand. You guys can't even get shoes from Payless. You have to beg your mother. Now they have that. So, they're giving everything, and a lot of their examples, unfortunately in America, most kids want to be, not doctors, not engineers, not lawyers. They want to be content creators. They want to be YouTubers because they see YouTubers getting rich. They worship women. Worship of women comes from social media. Do you realize a kid has seen more naked flesh before the age of 13 than your grandmother, grandfather, granddaddy, great-grandpappy ever would have wished he would have seen? Your kid has already seen that. And if you're not managing it or willing to manage it, guess what? You're not ready to be a dad. You're not. If you're not willing to take that phone away from them, if you're not willing to go on their social media sites, let me see who you're following. Let me see who's following you. You're not ready. And a lot of people aren't. You see the tight jeans wearing guys. Remember that beta male behavior? Everybody walking around with tight jeans, tight clothes. Subservient behavior, especially from boys towards girls. The whole women empowerment, they can't talk to anyone. They're scared of girls now. You can't even say anything negative to a girl. You're going to be considered what? Toxically masculine. Anybody heard of the app Tick Tock? I call it Tick Thought on my channel. Okay. You got that going on. You got obviously emotional behavior and responses to things. Emotional responses are what? Beta energy, feminine energy. Boys crying. Boy, you can cry. That's what the mother would tell them. The father would be like, let me see something, son. I'll tell you something. You need to wipe them tears real quick. You need to learn how to respond to things without using emotion all the time. This is what a father would probably tell a kid. The mom would tell them just to fall out and cry. They make excuses for failures in their life. Make excuses for failure. Kids got to excuse for everything. Don't be born black, short. You got one leg longer than the other. You can get out of anything. You can get extra time for tests. You can claim, my kids are half black and half white. They can claim they half racist, people half racist to them. It don't matter. There's an excuse for everything. This right here is on purpose. The society was designed to provide kids with excuses in order to divide, okay? Anybody got teenagers? How many of them leave the house? They wake up, go get some breakfast, go right back in their room, video games all day, social media, a little online porn. They're satisfied. They don't got no reason to go out. So listen. Here's the deal. We turn over our kids to people who don't have our best interests. Now, this is kind of the meat of what's going on. This is what's going to tell you, you, I want to be a dad, or you're trying to be a better dad, what you got coming for you right now, okay? What you, as the authority figure, once you release that, once you put yourself in a situation, divorce, co-parenting, you knock a girl up, okay? You're a weak leader in your house, no authority. You let the system remove the kids from you. You don't fight. If your mother, the mother of the kid, has authority over them, she's going to turn them over. See something here? It's a social media, video games. Tick, thot, snapper, chat, Instagram, fake book, okay? A lot of these things are distractions. The kid cannot release themselves from these apps. They can't. They're designed that way. They're direct marketing machines for socialism and communism. You don't see what they're seeing unless you check. Now they'll have conversations with you and you'll pick it up, and you'll be like, ooh, where'd you hear that? Well, you know where you heard it from. They heard them from these things, okay? On tick, thot, there's daughters, your daughters closes her bedroom door, starts twerking, grinding, and she's doing this for her friends, her girlfriends. She posted, oh, isn't it cute and this funny? There's grown men watching your daughter do this. Seductive dances. You go on this thing, man, and they're doing it. Girls everywhere. It's a smorgasbord for pedophiles, okay? She doesn't have any idea about child predators. You can tell her all you want. Are you gonna give her access to this? Are you gonna deny her the ability to post? Are you gonna control the post? If you're not willing to do that, I'm gonna tell you. If you're not willing to be the authority figure she needs, okay? Once slip up, she posts her address, she tells everybody where she lives, she puts a shirt over her school, okay? She does a dance. Everybody knows where this kid goes to school. She's a target, okay? This is what social media is doing, okay? So the social Marxist movement, they're dominating the feed. Your friend follows the recording artist. Oh, this is my favorite artist. You better do some research on that artist. You're like, who is that? When I was growing up, we had the gangster rap coming in. Too short. We had Tupac later, NWA. My mother caught me with a two-short tape, made me take it right back to the store. I was raised by a single mother, corporate America working woman. Somebody at her hair, one of her hairdressers said, if your kid comes up with this two-short tape, kill it, all right? Guess what I came up with. She said, where'd you spend that $10 I gave you? Or I bought some music. What'd you buy? Too short. I was like, she ain't gonna know. She said, oh, you got bought two-short tape? Take it back to the store. And this was before the parental advisory explicit lyrics. Stamp was on there. Now what about your son? We talked about your daughter. What about your son? He's seeing a lot of naked girls on there. It's basically gonna kill his drive to go get a piece-of-piece leave himself. Why he got it right here? All he needs is some napkin, some lotion. He good. I'll jump right back on the video games. And then you said, what son? Why don't you want to be anything? He already got it right here in his phone. Now, what about what he's seeing from his female counterparts? We talk about sexual marketplace value. I don't have time to really talk about it. But kids at a certain age group, young girls develop. They're gonna get a lot of attention. Young boys are simply not. That's just the reality of the situation. His female counterparts on TikTok, 10,000 followers, 20,000, 30,000, million followers. What does that do to the dynamics and the hierarchy on campus? Can he get this girl now? He has no chance and he's gonna grow up with them through high school believing I have no chance at women. This is what's happening with the garnering of attention. The self-esteem of this kid is going to get killed. The only thing he can reach out now to are Instagram thoughts and pornography and video games. This is our culture. What's the next thing? Teachers, teachers, remember your teacher used to come to school, she had a big old nice modestly dress, big old dress on. Hi, students. Anybody here what these teachers are doing now? They're doing monkey double backflips crazy amount of what's happening. A lot of them, this is a teacher, by the way, this popular meme is a liberal professor. She's a teacher. Do you realize when you send your kid to the public school indoctrination camp, that's what I call it, 93% of their primary school teachers are female. 93%. From kindergarten to sixth grade, 93%. You're the male authority figure. God forbid you don't have to go through a custody battle. You're remaining with your wife but you send them to school, 93% of the people that they're going to get in contact to encounter are women. Today's modern teacher are young women. Like this, they've been trained in the public school indoctrination camp themselves about how to make kids the victim. They're not teaching arithmetic, they're teaching victim studies. Your kid comes back fired up, oh my teacher says she don't like Trump. I'm like why is she talking to you about Trump? How did that conversation come up with your fifth grade teacher? Has no place in the school but that's what they're doing. When they get to high school, the chances get a little bit better. 76% of the teachers that they're going to be around are female, 76%. More women exposed to women, women exposed to socialism, Marxism so you have less of a chance. By the time they get to college, 31% of the college professors are female. So let's focus on academic studies. If you look at the test results of kids, they're not performing very well. There's no emphasis in that. There's really no need for it anymore. You can make money without a college education for the most part. But in regards to the socialism that is going on in these universities, the gaslighting of the kids related to social justice which is social division is prominent. How many men are in here fighting for these kids? You've been at work all day. Your kids been on that screen way more than they've seen you. I want to have children, coach. I'm just telling you what you're about to come against. You got to be willing to be able to be the dominant over all of these things. If you're not, I'm going to just say good luck. Not only that, your co-parent selection skills, your mate selection skills are going to have to be perfect. What do they call it? Coronavirus? This coronavirus the teachers in Los Angeles Unified School District, their union decided when they said it was safe to open the schools, they said, well as a union we don't want to return to school until our demands. You think they would have said we would like more fathers to be present we would like the kids to have better exposure to books you think they would have said we want kids to be able to have a great learning environment when they leave this you know what they said they wanted as a list of demands we want to defund the police we want increased taxes on the wealthy we want implementation of Medicare for all this is what they're focused on they're not focused on your kid they're focused on indoctrinating your kid where's your authority going to come in there some teachers said we should just get rid of history altogether guys if you know anything about history alright the people who lack knowledge of history are normally doomed to repeat it they are covering up their misdeeds their hiding things this is what you have to deal with in the school so again I volunteered at my kids school to be able to see them more I saw nothing but women the new name was a women the launch ladies women teachers assistants women PTA board members all of them were women except for me special ed etc etc so you think you're just going to go to work and leave your kid at the public school indoctrination camp and all as well no they're creating more division in order to subvert your authority you have to be able to counteract that who's the next person you're going to leave them over to oh there she is mom who grew up with a mother that was a stay at home mom look at that that's more than I would have thought see the myth of single motherhood has been exposed I gave you the statistics already kids are failing in that dynamic recipe for disaster it is exactly privilege if you have the opposite of a single motherhood household so today's woman is told get your career go to work I'm not against that go ahead and do so oh you're going to be a super mom too that ain't going to happen it's not going to happen you're going to have to make a choice 72% of women today on the outside of the home 72% in the 1980s it was 50% so those guys that raised their hand they look like you guys grew up in the 80s so they have a special place for her to drop off the kids because you work and she works the public school and doctor nation camp if you get a divorce they'll do it for free daycare we'll give you a program you never meet the teachers dealing with your kids as a result what typically happens is these kids are taught more on how to be an unwed mother we already talked about the statistics in order to do that she'll pass the kid through a network of babysitters elderly relatives if you're in a single parent household free programs to drop off the kids many times she uses these as a network to prevent you from getting custody you're gonna have custody of the kid and she's fighting you for custody what is going on here this is because remember I told you about the lawyers all of these people the mediators counselors these things are in place to remove your authority a working mom in my opinion cannot raise the kid properly if her only option is to pass him through the public school and doctor nation camp wait there's no way do we see the results of this now the evidence supports my argument now the people who don't want me to say this oh well that's not necessarily true and then they enter into evidence the one obscure case of where it worked oh look look at this kid he's okay well I'm looking at remember I worked at schools in volunteer I'm looking at everybody I'm looking at it it's not working so when you select your mate are you selecting a woman that has more degrees than a thermometer waving her degree around I'm a single strong independent woman and you knock her up well you have a publicly school indoctrination camp raise kid son husbands products of the single mother raised kid that's basketball player kissing his mother I have a mother I don't kiss her like that not as an adult but the son husband is a direct effect of the removal of the masculine man who she could not maintain or chose to turn over his authority to sell you out for nickels and dimes in support of the public school the son husband essentially he basically is the masculine he's the masculine presence that is used in place he's the masculine present that is used in place of the absent male in a single mother's life that community in particularly 70% or better I believe he's from Washington DC go look up the stats he basically is going to assume the duties of the father or poorly selected by her and he's going to give her all of that masculine energy up into a point I won't say what else is going on but what she's going to do she's going to keep him close as she would a husband she's going to guilt him into supporting her because she's highly likely is never going to get married ever again she knows that she hopes she's on tender she's going to date me or date somebody who has beta male energy to be the father who's stepped up not the stepfather but she's going to guilt him into being that life long support as a husband would be she's basically going to sabotage any connections that man will have at selecting his mate she'll sabotage him and that is her means of support going forward if she has a daughter that daughter is going to be seen as competition to her so if that daughter remains in the household long enough what's going to happen is that daughter's going to be the younger version of her she's got to remove that daughter in order to find her a man so she'll feed that daughter to the lions out there Pookie, Ray Ray Chad, Tyrone, Dexter Eric, whoever it is she'll release him to the hounds and she'll be a victim teenage pregnancy, pregnancy at a young age and then guess what the cycle repeats we're going to keep this will going who benefits, not you as the man not the male authority, who else benefits the government because now we got future prisoners we got public school indoctrinated kids we got a whole dang thing that can feed this line, this beast that we call United States church, the pastor alright we turn over all of our authority to give nickels and dimes to this man unfortunately there's not a lot of men running the church the church is a rest haven for progressive thought and ideology the church is no longer but there's still people that have faith and believe, they have spirituality, they have religion no big deal you'll still be able to go there but you'll see a lot of things that you don't want to see there a lot of trans ideology a lot of homosexuality people masquerading as choir directors with more feminine energy than you see even the women they will volunteer themselves to raise your kids in the nursery program you don't even know you're listening to the pastor okay the progressive ideology has infected and infested the church and the pastor doesn't want to fumble the bag alright, I'm not going to give this up I'm not going to assume authority even in my own church I need this money what's happening money becomes the priority so instead of leaving a man, alright or instead of leading men with the message that can help empower their community the church is led by women now female pastors which that is against the biblical principles, right that's against the bible far as I'm concerned, I'm not a very big bible scholar but I grew up in the black church they try to hook me up with all the hood rats, the single mothers and try to save their life and I say, hell no I don't want her but that's against biblical principles but progressive ideology has told them let's just let it happen what's the worst that can happen those are some words to die by what's the worst that can happen or they just want to get married what's the worst that can happen where do we see now, little boys got TikTok, Instagram channels putting makeup on themselves you remove the authority of the man you feed them to the lions so you guys, I want to be a dad this is what you should think about because it is happening live in front of our face you got to be the authority and it's going to take fighting every day paying attention we turn our kids over to coaches some things are good, this is a good thing I was a coach, I took care of a lot of kids I was with them through a lot of their first experiences with things they came back and talked to me some kids, this might be the very first male authority figure that they've ever seen the only way they see them is they show some sort of signs that they can be talented in sports if they're not talented in sports they miss this person altogether so this man basically volunteers he may be a self-employed guy blue collar worker, he may be a dad himself he may be a guy that just loves sports and be passionate about them but he's going to give your son or daughter their first lessons and being responsible he may push them but let me tell you something I started coaching in 1996, 1998 something like that and coaching from there to when I left in 2012 was completely different the kids were different, everything was different what I could say to a kid was different oh she got an eating disorder, don't say you got to be oh don't tell them to run through the wall tell this one to run through the wall oh be conscious about this jeez Louise I'm just trying to get my kids to perform but now I got to be a counselor in this one, this is what the responsibilities are this person is essentially the savior in many communities this is the only part of masculinity left, and I'm going to tell you it's not very much left by the time they reach coach it might be way too late some of your biggest sports heroes right now were products of single mothers and a coach saved that kid a coach saved that kid from being on the 7-Eleven All-Star Team LeBron James Kevin Durant, they had to go get these kids out of the house no, he needs to be at this tournament we're going to pay for that kid to fly all over the damn country to be seen by scouts Zion Williamson same thing mother with single mom she met a man she married him that was the basketball coach he was the basketball coach now he was the number one pick in the draft a few years ago both of these men Kevin Durant Zion Williamson got on tv when they had their best moments in life Kevin Durant wins the MVP Zion Williamson first pick in the draft these men built like the most alpha men you would ever see in your life they got on tv and cried like babies about their mama my mama's the real MVP really she made selected very good you never seen your father you were dragged out of the house to be an All-Star she was the real MVP she sacrificed she got up early to take me to practice that's what a mama does that's what they do now if she had a dad there probably would have been a little bit better she didn't have to sacrifice Zion Williamson got on tv stepfather dragged him all over the damn country to play coached his teams he cries about his mama and i'm looking at this going is this what we're really going to teach everybody listen i'm not big on women's worship because it's by design we worship women every day of our lives they have marketing campaigns to worship women hashtag believe all women hashtag me too hashtag women create life i'm like did i miss science class i think two people created that life she was the incubator or her stomach thank goodness she did that however she did her role i did mine mother's day we make a big old celebration father's day here's your tie enjoy the football game see the last bachelor in the hope right here is you see that's you you're the protector you're the authority figure they put all of these people in place to subvert your authority the kid gets home from all of these people and all of these vehicles of influence there you are now what are you going to do okay i want to be a dad time to be a dad you got to follow up and see what your kid just went through all damn day that's if you care that's if you can focus on that how many people got time for that you got time for that you better make time for it because if you don't follow up with this kid on a routine basis the influence will not be you now our fathers and mothers sometimes we forget how young they were when they had us when i see my kids i'm like okay my kids are 14 you know i had my kids around 28 something like that my mother had me when she was 20 now when i think about that i'm like dang like wow these people were really young when they had us but they didn't have the things that we had in place to supersede their authority so as a father guys i just want to let you know you're facing uphill battle many of you guys will be the place this place from the home unfortunately and even if you're this place from the home you got to be the authority you have to find a way divorce rates are approaching 60 percent single motherhood rate in the black community approaching 80 percent in some areas in the white communities we're talking about approaching 50 percent most of them your kids are going to be split up in these so called co-parenting arrangements since i have a little time i'll talk about co-parenting real quick there's two castles there's two set of rules how in the world are you going to be able to manage what that person does with your children it is impossible unless you're one of the few co-parenting situations where you have a good relationship i was talking to a brother that was here earlier and he seems to have that or on his way to have that and we're like that's not the norm so good for you to have that but i've seen co-parenting situations where the kid comes over this was a teenage daughter of a neighbor that i knew when the daughter was at this the mom's house the boyfriend would come in and spend the night this daughter 17 is that happening at the dad's house hell no but it's happening at the mom's house and legally he has no say in that how good is co-parenting working it ain't going to be too good because the dad has no more authority over that child so that is the problem with co-parenting even if you get along there's two castles and the kid can do what we call parent shopping i'm going to ask this parent first if she says no i'm going to ask the dad and i'm going to go back and forth until i get what i need from one of them and i'm going to use both of them, pit them against each other to get what i want kids are very crafty so these are why i don't agree with it what's the solution? well damn some societies just leave the kid with the dad why? the dad's going to look after the kid better look at united states of america how are we doing with the kids being with the mom so another uphill battle you'll be disenfranchised through the workplace i hope you guys are doing well in your employment but there's more women coming in there's more competition they can lower the wages up in this world right now especially right now they're ruining your businesses it's going to be tough for you to keep this up if you have a bad situation you might face disrespect from the mom the mom of the child and you'll get trampled over in the courts if you're not willing to spend all my dad's to be i want to have kids you're going to have to spend $20,000, $30,000 just fighting fighting for your kid i have a thing called the marriage will in my book she'll probably go rogue on you we call it the bait and switch in which once you're fully invested once she's got what she wants she got the house, the car, the kids she don't have to be anything to you you're worth more divorce than married she can still get the benefits from you and remove you and then live independently and the government and the states they will prop her up and give her a false sense of security here's a job here's a little bit of support here's a program for this we'll have you get some free day care guys, the days of where they could their only choice was to stay with you they're gone now and a lot of people have this fantasy of being with kids and being with a family that's almost a thing of the past for the most part if you live in a major city that's gone you live in Los Angeles, New York, Chicago, Washington DC that is gone if you live in Orlando, we're here we might have 200,000 people a little bit more possible because you don't have that corporate element dragging and trying to get them out of the house it's still here, but not so you might hear me talk about women a lot I don't blame the women for this I don't like anyone children, men they will take advantage of the situation they'll just take advantage of what's presented in front of them you'll do the same thing if it was you that was going to benefit unfortunately you're not the beneficiary in this so you'll watch your children be taken from you and have to come up with the solution or you'll have to try to maintain that authority it is important that you do not abdicate your position of authority and allow women to continue to lead they're not born to lead biblically they tell you that they're meant to be in addition in a support to your life some people are uncomfortable with men who say that oh we hate women now that's progressive women we talking about I don't hate women I hate them progressive women because they have bitten from the apple of feminism and your young boy and your young girls life are at stake now for the irresponsible fathers I do have to say hey man that's messed up that you did that to your kid most of the time it's not the kid that they're trying to be away from it's the woman that they chose to bust a nut in that woman becomes problematic it seems to the lever so you guys again with mate selection you have to really be careful about what's going on here so look solution wise again be conscious about the mate that you select if you want to have authority in your life if you have kids now try to get back into your position of authority with that kid be involved with all of those things that we talked about because all of those things all of those people social media teachers all that stuff they will see your kids way more than you see them especially when they get to middle school they'll have 7 teachers now 5 or 6 of them will be women alright then they'll have a coach then they'll have their phone by the time you come in hey dad alright are you going to say hey hey hey johnny get back here how's your day worst question you can ask a kid damn fine good yep hey johnny where's your phone let's go through and see what you've been looking at all day that conversation is going to get real eyes going to start bugging out I did that to my daughter once she jumped out of her skin wasn't ready you should be doing this to your wives too your wives should be doing it to you okay because if that's what you're going to do everybody's oh we need a little bit of privacy oh no you need privacy okay you don't need no marriage then you damn near don't need no kids kids want to go and close the door bam oh no we got closed door hours here your door could be closed between these hours and these hours the rest of the time open them damn doors up so when I walk by I can see what the hell you're doing those computer screens alright I want to be able to see it walking past the door I don't want to have to walk clean into the room turn around and hear you click click clicking off that damn app or whatever you're doing when I roll up or they hear you coming up the stairs or right down the hallway if you have a chance get involved stay involved if we don't do this I'm telling you if we continue to go in the direction we're going kids have no chance you dads need to stay involved the future dads I know I just chased a lot of you guys away from being dads but it is now more important than ever that if you choose to be a father you have the mindset to be an authoritative father doesn't mean you have to control everything but you have to be the position because I had the father last right there right the father should have been first everything should be influenced from there so for me YouTube is where you can find me I have a YouTube channel here that's what it looks like the return of masculinity masculinity for me is not how you look how strong you are how many bench press reps you can do how many girls you can get it's about being valuable and having authority these are two books that I wrote they had some in the hall okay I couldn't haul it all away from California everything but the free agent lifestyle is really geared towards men who maybe you went through a bad breakup you're trying to recover you're single and you're trying to find your way in a society where there's no more women willing to present value to you and they're presenting entitlement to you how do you adapt they want to be worshiped now can you out worship the internet right now can you out attention to the internet right now you can't they got dating apps you know how many do you want to know find a marginally looking woman five photos of her make your own dating app as a woman and see what response you get you will be shocked at the amount of men that will throw themselves into worship at her feet you'll be shocked I've done it and I was like wow now I see why she won't return my message same thing on Instagram same thing with DMs it's going to be difficult the solution is the other book that I wrote feminism's reverse engineering of American women by design they've done the Adam and Eve live in front of you and she bit how do we overcome that this is my podcast it is free SoundCloud, Apple, Google Podcast, Spotify, Anchor that's all free that's my website right there GregAtomsOne.com then you can get to everything YouTube or the website will direct you to everything else this is a course that I did here because a lot of people in talking to about relationships they believe that I'm saying be scared of women I'm saying be more selective and where should your focus be in life men focus too much on women everything you do revolves around women except for the 21 convention you probably were thinking where the hoe's going to be at even coming to a men's convention you were like I wonder if there's going to be something at the 22 maybe I can go over there I know it you want to go to the gym you thinking about all them girls running around with the booty shorts you doing your bench press you come by she know you watch okay you waiting out there trying to get a date so I try to get men to remember why we're here yes women are fine I love women I love the pleasures of them but it ain't going to be my all day everyday thing there's a whole bunch of things that I can accomplish in this life and men right now are stagnant because there's too many women to worship alright I always told the last group yesterday I said let's play a game let's go through your Instagram I'll pull my Instagram up let's roll through 5 minutes let's see how much ass is on your Instagram how much is on mine and I can tell you who's worshipping women the most you guys following all these thoughts on Instagram and you wonder why you're distracted okay and conquer we teach you everything that you should be thinking about other than that and then when you get to the women there's a section on there I'm teaching you how to understand their lingo I've been around women for 16 years from age 16 to 22 everyday I've been hearing them they learned how to manipulate me I learned how to manipulate them I had the position of authority therefore I often was the winner right so I understood what they were trying to do with me and what they mean when they say certain things specifically when I hear men say this I go they say I feel that's when they start their sentence off with you feel I feel that that right there is a red dead old flag no men should be saying I feel you should say I know I think I believe I understand see that's evidence you're about to hit them with evidence a lot of people that counter me with the stuff that I produce I feel like you're saying that so are you saying no you're putting words in my mouth you're leading with feelings and I can't counteract feelings when I present it hours worth of logic and evidence and proof and background you see what I mean I feel requires no evidence it only requires the feeling that is a female characteristic a female trait and they will use that against you I feel like okay let's get past your feelings now what evidence do you need what evidence do you have that something exists okay so there's a code there for this coaching program convention or it says 21 con 50% off what I call conquer you can go to if you go to my website Greg Adams one dot com it'll be there and thank you very much gentlemen I hope this was enough information for you to think maybe you can take 10% of what I said and apply it to you maybe 2% maybe 50 100 doesn't matter but if you have any questions there's a microphone there if not thank you very much for listening have you got a question yes sir thank you for saying it real thank you for sharing some of your story on what we need to be prepared to do to fight to be fathers so say I had a kid today or tomorrow you know Thanos snap into thin air what do you see as some of the upcoming trends 10-15 years down the line when that kid is a teenager you talked about smartphones today time now but in the future what do you see as potentially complicating that issue even further good question man thank you for that question I really believe this trans issue is going to be prevalence in our society okay and this is because there was a recent court battle between two co-parents two divorcing parents one was a liberal professor she was an educator other dad is an employee well they had a son on the days the mom had the son she wanted the son to be a daughter on the days the dad had the son he wanted the son to be a boy they went to court he won initially then they because what happens is when you go to court there's a hearing the judge makes a preliminary judgment but then you go in and fight at the trial so once they got the preliminary results the judge was in favor of not having a procedure hormones to be injected in this boy to make them a girl okay when they went through the trial the mother won so the kid is going to be chemically altered and I believe the kid is no longer than 11 going to be chemically altered to a girl now they're pushing this guys they're pushing it and now some of the people that you seen there was a clip here I'm just guessing let me see if I can go back a photo that I showed you they sneak this stuff in one of these girls looks suspect to me doesn't look like 100% female could be wrong however they sneak in this stuff in guys and they're introducing this stuff to your kids they're introducing this stuff to you when they're at school they're teaching them how to play with the butthole alright and then over time you're going to see more you don't see kids right now dressed as boys and girls or whatever vice versa but in the next 10 years you're going to see it with your eyes and by the time you start seeing it with your eyes you have to realize that fight's been going on 10 years ago it didn't just happen by the time you saw it they've been fighting this battle already now I'm not a sensitive person so I'm not sensitive to the needs in regards of peoples wanting to express themselves the way they need to be expressed I just know how society balances out stuff is either natural or not okay we need we need hierarchy which is important and we need order some of this stuff that they're opening up they're allowing them to do everything there's people that are black saying they're white now there's people that are white growing dreadlocks and saying I'm a black woman there's a woman running for vice president saying she was black then she was Indian then she was Asian because India's in Asia what the hell are you what we're talking about this is all chaos and disorder and they introduce you to this stuff your kids to this stuff every day what makes sense no longer makes sense so that's what I would see right now next 10 years you got a kid that trans issue is going to be big and they're gonna come home one day you're gonna see your kid come home remember you put your t-shirt on your head and act like you have female hair he gonna have a full wig on what do you do now what do you do now alright thank you guys appreciate you