 If there is a deep deep prayer and asking for grace, bending before the soul, you will contribute more to that whole thing in a positive way and support those children than if you suffer because of what they are suffering. It's tough, I know what I'm saying is tough, but it's the way a spiritual adept has to live. There is no place for, you cannot give in to that emotional suffering that you undergo. You can't give in to it. You have to pull back and you have to go into prayer and go into being a servant of the soul. There's just one more person suffering. That's what it is.