 Welcome to Psychic Medium Tony Green. I am Tony Green, the Psychic Medium here. So it seems as though there is an issue with blog talk. So we won't be able to take callers today. It makes me just a little bit sad for anyone who would have called in and hopefully they know about the YouTube option and can come over here and ask questions. So if you are trying to connect through blog talk or the call-in number it's just not working. I can't get through today either. But here we go doing the show on YouTube. So thank you YouTube. I am just going to give my normal announcements for the day. It just feels so weird not having the second screen. I keep looking over and going, I'm doing something wrong and I'm not. So here we go with the announcements. First and foremost I am on social media. Today's TikTok clearing was being your authentic self. My TikTok is at Psychic Tony. Go on over there. I have like 210 videos and I think about at least 200 of them are healings or clearings for something. So there's a whole therapy store right there for you. Did I just say that? Yes I did. Yes I did. Okay. I'm also on Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn and I think something else. But I will never reach out. My whole point is I will never reach out to you. I will never like try to reach out to you and tell you you need a healing reading whatever. If somebody reaches out to you it's not me. Don't get scammed. Please don't get scammed by anyone. Okay now that's out of the way. I'm going to do this all the way I would normally do it. I'm going to start with names that I hear. These can be your loved ones on the other side. It can be your name, their name or somebody you both had in common, their name. If you hear your name it's your loved one that you've been thinking about saying hi. Okay. If you hear their name they're letting you know they're with you. Either way they're letting you know they're with you. But it's up to them if they want to give your name or their name or in some cases both. In some cases they really do both. The first name I'm hearing is Maria. And actually that's that Santana song. Maria Maria. Something South Harlem. I don't know. I don't know. Maria. And then the next name that I'm hearing is I don't know this name. Graziella. Okay. I get out roll my tongue or say fancy names. You also cannot eat in fancy restaurants but that's another story. No I can. I just like don't do it the way the fancy people do. Okay. I'm joking, joking. Take me to nice places. Let's see how that turns out. I'm kidding. I'm trying to be funny. Okay. Graziella. Okay. I think I said it right. I think I said it right. Okay. The next name I'm hearing is Emmanuel. And the next name I'm hearing is Eves. E-V-E-S. Eves or Evers. Evers. E-V-E-R-S. I think they would call you Eves or call this person Eves or Eves for sure. But the name is Evers. I don't know. Okay. The next name is Penny. P-E-N-N-Y. The next name is okay. So it starts with a J but I have the feeling it's not pronounced like an American J would be pronounced. So I don't know if the J is like an H or if it's silent. I'm trying to listen so carefully. J-U-A-N-O-O-I-T-A Juanita? Johnita? Juanita? I don't know. I don't know. I really don't know. I wish I knew. I don't know. It might be Juanita. Juanita? Johnita? Okay. Okay. Okay. Oh my goodness. However, that word is pronounced for you. That is is the name I'm getting it. That's the way they're spelling it. Okay then. And the next name please. The next name and let's hope this girl can pronounce it. The next name is Mary Ann and then Mary Beth or Mary Elizabeth. Okay. So those are the next names and then Jack is the next name. Oh. And then the next name is and the next name is June like the month the month and I just I had to pause for a moment because some of the names that were coming through I did not say out loud because I feel like they are people that I may know and I don't know if you guys also know them but I do know that I know them. So some of the names were like Sylvia and so those were so there were some other names. Okay. I'm going to move into the songs now and Maris Maris or Maris says June is my niece. I love that. Now just because she knows June as her niece it doesn't mean that if you if you know of a June in your life here or in your life there it is still for you. It could also be for you. Okay. But I love that. Thank you for the confirmation and Maris says Evee or Eve is her daughter. I love that. So somebody on the other side is definitely connecting and Juanita is my mom and sister is Maris. I need to ask you and Rebecca is asking me Juanita Juanito. I think it's Juanita Maris is are any of those is your mom or any of those people on the other side or are they all here with you? Okay. Now I'm going to go into the songs while they answer that and some of the people online were asking me for songs and I made them wait until the show started because because I that I knew I wasn't gonna be able to get into blog talk and I was gonna have to have a lot of things to do on the show today. Okay Maris if all of Maris says all of her people are still here they're all here that means somebody on the other side is probably saying hi to you and I feel like it is a grandfather. So please just know that. I feel like it's an older male olive skin. I don't feel like this. This is what I'm seeing. Older male olive skin stocky build would sometimes wear a hat. I'm not saying a cap definitely a hat. I see this person in a what looks like a this is so funny to me as I say this. What looks like a button down shirt but it could have been one of those shirts that snaps and it's light in color. That's pretty descriptive. I know this person didn't wear this shirt every day but Maris or Maris if that fits that would be for you. Now if it's not your grandfather could be a great grandfather uncle a male on either side of the family. Okay so I'm going to say that maybe who put all those names forward for you or not. Okay the songs that I'm hearing today are come a come a come a come a come a come a come a chameleon you come and go you come and go and I want to add some lyrics to the song you're just a player that's all you are so please just go and don't be slow. Okay those are my own lines to that song like if somebody comes and goes and they're a chameleon they're just a player so I felt the need to like just add that in if you don't like it it's okay but if you love it let me know because I love it I love the way I change that song. Okay okay I think that's really what that guy singing culture club guy wanted to say you're just a player so please go and don't be slow. Don't come back because you're nothing but a jack. Jack yes thank you. Just saying folks just saying okay next the next song should I make up lyrics to every single song today like do the real lyrics and then do my lyrics on top of it. Oh you guys I'm sorry for the pain I'm about to inflict upon you. Okay the next song that I'm seriously seriously the next song I'm hearing today is I don't know this song so I can't even try to sing it but the words to the song are in the dead of the night and that's the only line I'm getting so if you know that song you get it. I think whoever is giving me that song does not want me to massacre it. Does not want me to massacre it. They're like no you get these words and that's it in the dead of the night. The next song I'm hearing is from um it's uh oh my god I call it the the cocaine song because when they're singing it they're grinding they're literally grinding their jaw it's the um by the Bee Gees um well you can tell by the way I use my walk I'm a warmest man no time to talk and it's all right it's okay oh gosh um whether you're a brother whether you're a mother staying alive staying alive. Okay that's the song. Oh my gosh you guys I'm going to just not apologize anymore and I'm just going to say uh yes ha ha ha ha thank you Rebecca says she loves it okay you guys I am going to go to questions if you do have a question please put it in the chat I will get to your questions in a second I think they're not afraid to give me too many more um Alberto Alberto is on the other side that wants to come through Alberto I think I'm supposed to be rolling my tongue someplace in there but yeah that's not happening on an Alberto Alberto Alberto where would you roll your tongue on that one Alberto Alberto oh Alberto maybe that's I don't know I don't know I can't even believe I can do that I can't even believe I rolled my tongue there okay yeah I'm a total dork and I love it I can't I can't feel my something but I love it okay there's that okay um next oh I can't feel my life and I love it there's that I don't want to feel my life and I love it um okay I'm just making up lyrics I'm just making cool songs up now um okay back to the songs um that song uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh um that song uh I think if you know that song I don't need to say anything else the next song I'm hearing is um it's actually not a song it's a movie so this person just loved this movie in the heat of the night because I keep saying this got these two characters and one of them is an older I think he used to he looks like Archie Bunker and then the other one is a I don't know I I I don't even know how we're supposed to describe skin tone anymore what is the correct word and I apologize for that but one of them is very dark in skin color and he's also in it um he's been in a lot of movies but those two characters and I think the name of the movie is or the show that was on tv is in the heat of the night so whomever was on the other whoever is on the other side loved that show and then they're showing me the Lawrence Welk show again ah Lawrence Welk the Lawrence Welk show so somebody on the other side who loved the Lawrence Welk show or would watch it like every week is also here for you just to let you know and um and the wheel of fortune okay so all of those things I'm going to go to questions now but I'm also going to take messages I want to thank everybody who's sticking with me through this if you have if you like the show already if you hit that like join whatever button thank you so much for doing that and being with me during my shenanigans of a show um love that thank you so the people with us today just for those of you watching on tv or just able to listen and not be able to be in the chat are Terry and Anne hey Anne um I think Anne technically asked the first question so I'm going down to where the first actual question is and I'm pretty sure it's Anne but I'm going to try to follow the the questions today oh uh yep I gave her her song um oh is that from snow white whistle while you work whistle while you work oh but that's also a hip hop song and now I'm hearing the song Torquette the female Torquette I know that's not the beat but that's just how it sounds in my head and I can't do anything other than what how it sounds in my head uh wait the females work at something something Torquette and he has a really deep voice it's a complete it might not be the whistle while you twerk song it might be a completely different song yeah that is kind of how my brain works it's a true fact um okay um do my loved ones have any messages for me that's Anne and I'm going to pick one loved one it's a male he was mid-age when he passed not even mid-age I don't know what mid-age is anymore um I'm going to say he was a little younger when he passed I see him in like a white t-shirt or a great a light t-shirt with something on the front of it but I can't I can't make out what that is it's not important um wants to say that um that he loves you and you're doing better than you think um find something different or new to do every single day keep yourself occupied take notes or write because you could just write and before you know it you could have a book if you do a little bit every day um or just write whatever it is you want to write but you need to start writing things down he's just showing me pen and paper and writing things down whether this is what you're supposed to do or want to do every day or the things you would like to do in life um like a wish book if you will whatever it is write things down write things down write things down um and so you don't lose them or so you don't get so you don't forget I don't know but that's what he's saying so that's your message and thank you so much for asking that and of course then uh like some other people stepped in with him and they're saying that they all love you and just um try to find a way every day to do something that you love and then write it down and then also write down the things that you still need to do and or want to do okay and that's your message hey Sal Sal I really Sal is such a good good being he is such a good being um and then Michelle is here with us and yes Michelle uh finally made a live again I'm so happy that you're here thank you so much char bar char bear this is why I barely made it out of high school because I cannot like letters flip on me um okay um Michelle I did find some things in the back of the truck not exactly what I thought but it was something I wondered where it was I'm happy you found it Michelle that's awesome Jenna I didn't even see you check in earlier how was your weekend I hope it was amazing um thank you for sharing uh some of the pictures with me um char char char bear or share bear sh a r okay I had reviewed 10 days and will be will great but five days ago they eliminated our department okay she had a work review 10 days ago and it was great five days ago they eliminated our department we all got moved to other departments will I do will well in that position yeah you're going to do amazing you're going to like it even more than you did where you were um there's going to be a moment where you're catching up or acclimating into the situation but you're absolutely going to love it so please um go in with the best attitude like it's a job change without a job change which can be really good and then just flow with it for the rest of the time Isabella hi Tony do you see Nick uh proposing anytime soon or taking things to the next level oh Isabella um I feel you girl I do I feel you so here's the thing with women we're so consumed with this right once we because women are task masters we are even in a relationship when we go out on a date I'm gonna just I I'm gonna say this and I'm not I'm not putting you on the spot Isabella in relationships traditionally and men have all the power as far as how far the relationship goes and how quickly it reaches that distance so for example we can meet a man right women can meet a man and we can like say I really like this guy he checks all of my boxes um come on put the glass slipper on my foot already it fits but the guy gets to decide when the next step is taken and um if if if he wants that stuff but the same thing is true for women because we can opt out too but we always think we have to wait for the man and to propose or take that next step right because traditionally that's how things are done and I do recommend women we let men play their traditional roles right we are designed to be feminine we are designed to operate in a certain order and handle things in a certain way and we are designed to let men have that masculine role that's why they have all the testosterone okay if we start in a relationship with a man and we take on the masculine and there probably have been times when in in relationships where I stepped up in a masculine bit um and not by choice just like when you know you you have these two people and one goes here you feel the need to pick up the pick it pick it up and make sure that those things are being done so um Isabella what what I'm going to say to you is if this happens it's going to happen exactly when it's supposed to and not one moment before and I know it's very very difficult to be in a situation with someone and not know but here's the other thing I want to say to you Isabella if you have to question it if you have to ask about that there's something inside of you that is very nervous this isn't going to happen or there's something inside of you saying like almost as a warning that maybe because when we have this much nervousness about a relationship and where it's going either it's because we're ignoring red flags from the other person so we just want to lock it in as quickly as we can or we want to um or we are knowing maybe this we're afraid the other person doesn't want the same thing and then we're trying to get there quickly in my personal experience and I've had a couple different very um interesting experiences sit back and let this person show you who he is Isabella um and then act accordingly relationships are not just about the getting together meeting the person getting married because that's when it gets tough right so everything up until the point of the proposal or the marriage should be a piece of cake and I actually think people should do year by year contracts that we can change as we go over full on marriages because once you're married you have so many assumptions and expectations of the other person and it can ruin a lot of things but if you have a six month three month one year contract like at the end of the contract you can be like uh this really isn't working for me or can we change this dynamic um um or you know you know that your contract is coming up and you're like oh I better get on my game because I've really been slacking lately I think when people think they have somebody for the rest of their lives they just they kind of you know there's just a lot of um abuse of that is the one way I would say that now not for everyone and this isn't really me being negative look at everybody you know who's married especially younger people who are married and how they behave in that marriage and their expectations of the other person Isabella the short answer which I'm way past that way too late to give you a short answer don't worry about the end game don't worry about a proposal don't worry about um those sorts of things just pay more attention to the behaviors and whether this is something you can live with for the rest of your life or not I don't know why they're saying it to me that way I hope that's helpful for you love I hope you you find some something in that that's helpful okay Rebecca if you are joining us please feel free to post a question I'm going to get to as many questions as I can in the post um question from my 30 year old son he would like to know what is going on with their children's mother not noticing what is happening to the kids um I want to make sure I understand that question Rebecca if I'm understanding it correctly he wants to understand why the mother of his children are not seeing or not noticing what is happening to the kids is that is that correct Rebecca I have to remember where I am so that I can scroll back down there Rebecca if that's correct let me know I want to make sure I'm answering the correct yes not seeing okay so um Rebecca give me your son's name just his first name and so I can tap into him and I think okay and as you give me your son's first name I'm going to tell you I think the mom might have there's one word I hear but I'm going to explain why this might be happening I think the mom of these kids the mother of these children might be very self-absorbed now that doesn't mean she's arrogant all the time it just might mean she has quite a bit going on right now in her mind that she's not able to see or understand it and sometimes people do get so overwhelmed in their mind they're just kind of checked out of it or they've been seeing it for so long and trying to fix it that they just realized they don't have the power to fix it I think it's a combination of those two things I think like also people in their adult life repeat things from their childhood so if her parents didn't notice what happened with her she will also she may also be in denial about those things the first thing but the first answer I'm going to go with is there was some self-absorption going on there or just so much going on in the mind that she's not able to see it or feels helpless to it um in this case I wouldn't in in this case I feel like there's a lot going on in this situation where everybody involved is extremely overwhelmed for a lot of reasons and again medications alcohol drugs yada yada can play a really big part in these things I'm getting on one side or the other and when I say medication and drugs it can be like literally somebody needs to be on medication or somebody's abusing a medication and or drug and that is also playing into this Rebecca I hope that that that was helpful for you I'm going to go back up here we are we're at Terry uh Tony will things go well with my work in the committee I feel pressure don't don't you've got this um Terry you've got this don't worry it's going to fall into place it's going to be beautiful the only pressure your feeling is you want to exceed expectations you will just breathe in breathe out get her done get her done get her done okay um Sal he's out um I was thinking about trying a book trailer for advertising on youtube I love that yeah I love it um remember on youtube you really have to take whatever you do on youtube and put it every place else to really get that going like I'll do my tiktok video but then I put it on absolutely everything else to like up those numbers and to get the visibility to it I love that please do it Sal it's going to be amazing and do different ones for each venue but share them all with each other absolutely do that okay Mary's Rebecca took care of that took care of that let's see Heather's with us Jay Francis hey Jay Francis I love you too um let's see and I answered that question already um I don't know if I'm repeating things um Michelle Lee says I would love to hear from my late husband Casey I hope I'm saying his name right I believe I am and yeah he's here but somebody else is here Michelle um a female I'm going to a it could be a mom but it also could be a grandmom and she really wants to speak also and the first thing she wants to say is she sorry uh Michelle she feels like you feel alone or you you feel and or think you are alone a lot of the time like you have this loneliness or this feeling of loneliness about you and she's really sorry and she wants to say it's okay to get get back into life I don't know if this is making sense to you and it doesn't have to mean um like maybe you you are doing certain things but to really get put yourself out there again in whatever area you've been kind of holding back I do feel like I'm hearing the word fear like there might be a certain amount of fear with you um just fear in general or fear with getting back out and doing certain things now one of the things that I'm getting is she is just saying just get out there and do what you can live your life while you can and then um Casey Casey is coming through and he is uh the first thing I hear is that song and I you know I know the song but when they come through only the part that they're singing to me is the part I'm getting because that's the part that's meant for you those those specific words so even though I if I weren't on the show right now I might know the rest of this song but right now these are the only words I'm getting and it's I'm sorry so I don't I can't get the rest of the songs but basically he's saying he's sorry for whatever for leaving for something that happened whatever it is he's sorry and you're gonna know better than I do what that is and um the next thing that Casey would want to say is he really misses okay he really misses the in bed time but not the time the um like just holding touching time just being in bed like the snuggle touching time sleeping together whatever it would be but not the actual stuff time he misses that too but you know that's a different show um he really misses that like just like I don't know if it would be like I'm gonna make a little bit of a guess here like you know how some people like sleep in on Sundays or just hang out in bed on Sundays or just whatever talk that that time that's I feel like what he is referring to and then the the next thing is um that what there's another song he's uh singing just a line to his uh just a little bit just a little bit I think that's Georgia something line um uh but he's only singing that saying that phrase of just a little bit just a little bit like whether that's just a little bit more time just a little bit more just a little bit okay or you just had a little bit of time just a little bit is what's coming through and then the next thing is um that he wants to say is that oh it was just a little bit it was such a I'm gonna cry I can't cry it was just such a little bit and what I wouldn't get for all of it what I wouldn't get for all of it okay I'm gonna have to move on because this is gonna make me just lose it um but yes those are the messages and love love love bringing you love every single day um white butterflies and many labs or mobs whatever you want to call them are one of his confirmations or signs for you okay lovely um okay love love love okay um I'm gonna go to um yeah that's it okay sorry um in the beginning of the show I talked about the heat of the night and the Archie Bunker but Carol O'Connor um thank you Jay Francis Carol O'Connor was in the heat of the night but doesn't he kind of look like the Archie Bunker guy are they the same guy that's what I want to know right now um they seemed so similar maybe I'm wrong okay Margaret hi Tony is my mom Rina around it's R I N A H so I'm sorry if I don't pronounce that appropriately uh Rina I'm just gonna call her Rina Rina I'm just gonna call her R are you yes and my screen flashed as I said that so yes she's here um what would you like to tell Margaret um the first thing that comes through is I'm um something about being sick I just hear something sick something sick like I'm not sick or it's okay um something about sick and did she lose a lot of weight because I see a fuller woman and then a thinner woman a fuller woman not really big but you know normal size and then very thin just like I hear the term weight loss or significant weight loss and then I'm so please Margaret I'm gonna I'm gonna see where I am here and then I'm gonna go down and ask you Margaret please give me confirmations to let me know I'm I'm getting the right person here and then the next thing I'm hearing is that she had she had a good a good life it was a good life it wasn't perfect but it was good it was better than most it was better than most even though it wasn't perfect and you know of course everybody's life could be a little bit you know uh uh what everybody has good and bad but she had a good life she had a good life and thank you and the next thing she wants to say is that uh there's a a proposal a proposal I don't understand if this is for you Margaret or for someone else but some kind of proposal with like I see somebody down on a knee with a ring and I don't a proposal I hope I'm not using ruining a surprise from someone maybe she's talking about her own personal proposal um and that's supposed to be a confirmation of some sort I don't know if this is from the past something that happened already or something coming in um the next thing is that the next thing she would want to say is yeah I I feel like there might be something coming in but the the biggest thing she would want you to know she's okay she's for for however we would think about it it's not like when she was here she's healthy she's happy she's free she's very free now okay um I am going to go to uh let me see where was I uh okay I have to go down a little further I feel like I lost my place and I want to apologize to everybody for that um okay this is where I was okay um Jay Francis says her grandpa loved the wheel of fortune which at the beginning of the show I brought up so hey I love that uh he also like saved by the bell I love that too um Nancy wants to know is the healing organization that I am involved with now a positive and good fit for me for now it is um it is for now um in about six months you might get an option or an opportunity to either move up or move on it'll be up to you what you decide to do I do feel like you will be involved with this for about six more months and then after that something else is going to come in and be a really good fit for you now sometimes the way I'm hearing this is you may find something else that's a good fit and then then your current company offers you to move up or the current current organization offers you something to move up but I feel like you might move on but that won't happen for four to six months like you might find something or decide in four months to start looking and then within that six month period there may be something there that's what I'm hearing for that Nancy I hope that answers your question and I'm understanding the question appropriately um okay so there is Terry uh is my forever guy coming to me anytime soon I'm feeling lonely again lately um you know people are sometimes we meet someone and they can be our forever person depending on how much we're willing to deal with or put up with or negotiate or sacrifice but what I'm hearing um Terry is someone is going to be coming in in approximately within a month and a half um go slow have fun don't take it too seriously just enjoy it um I feel like there's the potential for two or three people to come into your life um and I know you know here's the thing some people really enjoy dating and having that variety and there there's really nothing wrong with that however um some people just want to meet that person and get to the like all the good memories and what we would call the rest of the life with that person and I understand that aspect also especially if you meet somebody and you're so into them and you think this is the person um I will say this Terry I feel like you have the potential to have two or three relationships prior to meeting the one so the sooner you start talking to people that doesn't mean that each relationship has to be like a um come to heaven moment it doesn't have to have the involved with it um it can just be a relationship that is non or non uh intimate um in it um I feel like the relationships will be either a couple weeks or a couple months and then you're going to meet the person who has the potential for the very very long term relationship and I'll tell you I feel like the person with a long term relationship for you is a little older than you now and here's the thing I'm going to say I know when we hear this we're like I I'm just going to skip the other relationships and jump right into the next I don't don't do that don't feel like that because if you have to learn lessons or still have things you need to learn about yourself or another person do it with someone who's not going to stick around forever because because if we're going to have chaotic moments let it be with a temporary person then with the person so if there are still things that you need to learn and heal and get through let it be with somebody that is you know not that you don't care about that person but you know whatever um but I feel like depending on how long you stay in each or what you learn in each situation it will either either be two or three people and then you're going to meet the final or the person who is the who you have the um potential to have a long term relationship with I do feel like that again this person's a little bit older than you they have um a little bit if not gray hair graying hair they might have like a little bit of gray already coming in um they're a little bit more I don't want to say sophisticated but maybe a little bit more mature than some of the people that you have been with prior you are going to meet these people organically so you do have to get out and start dating and being in that dating scene and enjoy being out and dating with people um make it fun like I know a lot of people especially women don't love the idea of dating to meet someone new like when we first meet someone that whole dating process because for men you throw on pants a shirt and you know comb your hair pull it back whatever you do with it for women there's like 20 outfit changes hair makeup it just there's so much more that goes into it I think for women than for men and knowing that men typically have the power to say if they want to go out again or not puts a lot more pressure on the women so men be gentle with us um but here's what I'm personally going to say if I meet a man and I go to dinner and he feels like it's not going to go anywhere just don't take me out on a second date I won't be offended I hate most restaurant food okay so I will not be offended I will not be upset I will be happy the pressure is off that one's done let's get to the next one this is why I don't date oh my god all right then so but but it is a lot the the whole dating thing for women is very different that meant so here's my dating tip for women go out on a date with your your female friends go out on a date with your friend with a with a male friend friend or a female friend and practice that whole dating thing to the point where you're comfortable if you have a really good female friend that's got you like go out and say okay we're going to pretend this is a date and we're going to do the awkwardness of the date and get it out of the way Terry you are going to meet some people more naturally organically out in public um I do feel like there is if you don't go to farmers markets or to places where you can just like what do they call them roadside fruit and vegetable places I feel like you should do a couple of those um because I see you picking out some kind of fruit and veg or vegetable and I do feel like it is in an outdoor environment so I do feel like you should hit a couple of those and then I also feel like if you do go to places to eat either with friends or whatever uh if you can for as long as you can do the outside literal outside venue of eating like if they have outdoor tables sit there because you're literally going to meet this person outdoors um I do feel like the person who has the potential to be the longer term relationship given the fact that you date a couple of them first is coming in in six months approximately okay now here's my thing sometimes people don't like the idea that there's going to be one or two or maybe three people before now you know just like just get it done like go talk to them date them push buttons let them push your buttons and get on to the next one like seriously now you know this is what you have in front of you until you get to this guy it's like taking um classes that you have to take to get out of the way to get your your diploma I don't know how what other analogy to use but that's the one I'm using so please by all means do that get out be out of doors and uh literally in the outside I also see okay so I'm gonna I'm gonna do something a little different I think I I've um uh I'm going to do something a little different and Terry I hope that helps I'm going to say um Margaret said after you channeled my mom a lot I I lost the feed thank you I believe that was her I'm so sorry Margaret go back and re-listen after the show and see if that comes through again um here's what I'm going to say I'm going to say this um I don't know where was good okay so this is what I'm gonna do for today's show that the I'm going to tell you some ways that I'm seeing that people are going to meet potential partners you guys it could be for you it could be for somebody else but if you hear something that fits for you do it I'm seeing Halloween I'm seeing a lot coming in in the fall so some of you are going to meet your potential partners at Halloween parties dress up Halloween parties not not just like a show up as you would show up any place else but some someone out there or a couple people out there are going to costume costume Halloween parties and they're going to um meet partners there um and not bar parties like house costume parties or themed costume parties of friends if somebody's going to one and they invite you who cares if you don't know everybody there thank god you don't know everybody there freaking go just go the next thing is pumpkin patches and hay rides a lot of partner meeting at pumpkin patches and hay rides so get some girlies together and go I see a lot of people having lattes and hot chocolates and meeting each other picking pumpkins apples um at the fruit picking is another one that I'm seeing um get groups of people together and go and meet people the other thing that I'm seeing is for people to potentially meet um a lot of being like outside like even if you're at a bar a restaurant a coffee place make sure it's someplace that has something outside okay I went with um um some uh some someone and we we every place we went we sat outside we sat outside to eat dinner we sat outside to have dessert and it was just so nice and I think where I live the weather turns so quickly um and we get such a short amount of nice weather to be outside if you if you can do it um going into the winter I see quite a few people meeting people on the slopes or the snow which to me is um skiing snowboarding that being in tubes and and going down snow things I don't know if that's called tubing maybe it seems very logical it would be called tubing um but down snow um as summer um is coming to a uh not a close because we still do have a little bit of summer here I see people meeting um if you a couple of people are going to take a single's cruise or and it doesn't have to be like a cruise out of Florida it could be like a single going on like a um like a drinks at night cruise like that just goes around the water where you live like drinks and appetizers at night a couple people meeting up that way I don't really like this one I actually don't like this one at all but a couple of people meeting where they throw those axes like throwing axes how much is the insurance on that I don't even know that's craziness to me okay the next thing that I'm seeing for people meeting in is a couple of people meeting during golf but not actually golf just like where you hit the balls like I know that looks more like baseball than golf because golf is way down here and looks awkward but like a driving range that's what it's called a driving range of meeting somebody at a driving range and then the next one is um an actual singles cruise and a singles yeah it's a singles cruise meet a couple people will you'll meet uh have a potential to meet a partner on a singles cruise and in a water park somebody's going to meet their partner in a water park I feel like this is a younger couple that's going to meet up and meet your partner in a water park I think like maybe one person might meet somebody at a museum indoors staring at a picture it won't be me that will not that will never be me just museum art museum any of that that's not me you will never I will never voluntarily go in there and look at art for hours never and meet somebody there that I think I can have a future with because if you like to do that sort of thing that's I'm not your partner sorry but somebody people do like that and the people who do get there do that um okay there's just a couple things with boats like being out on water and boats whether it be a cruise a sailboat whatever if you get the invite go for it do it um otherwise a lot of people meeting in the fall which is coming in actually and like in around bales of hay and corn mazes and pumpkin patches I love you all so much thank you for spending this time with me I'm really grateful to each and every one of you