 Relationships are complicated, and one of the most dangerous parts of a relationship is admitting that you've taken your emotional well-being and placed it into the hands of someone else, someone who could tear you apart from the inside out if they felt like it, sometimes just despite you. The scariest part of a relationship is that lack of control, the lack of proof, knowing just how deeply you love another person, but never fully being able to know whether or not they feel the same way. You just have to trust and assume that they do based on their actions and the way that they treat you. But for Steven, it doesn't seem like he was willing to place this amount of control over his life into the hands of someone else. Whatever he found on Natalie's phone that evening was his breaking point, and unfortunately Natalie suffered for it. Police say in the days leading up to the crime, Steven had searched on his computer most painful ways to die, so it's safe to say that whatever he did to Natalie that evening, she didn't deserve it. No one does.