 The first thing to not do is try to force it. There's, this usually is what most women that come into our community want to do. They want to try to force or manipulate a man into having the kind of relationship that they want to have with them. And so they'll use games, they'll use manipulation tactics, they'll use just all kinds of different techniques and tactics in order to try to trick this guy or force him to get into the relationship that they want him to be in. And I'm just gonna tell you that's a bad way to go. If he figures out what you're doing, he is going to lose all of his trust for you and he might start playing games with you or he might just leave and never wanna talk to you again because being in a relationship based on games sucks. So the second thing that you don't wanna do is wait it out and hope you end up in a relationship together. And I just told you we've had women that have spent a long, long time in situations where it was going nowhere and you don't wanna be one of those. The third thing that you don't wanna do is try to convince him logically that you're good together or that you should be in a relationship together or show him all the different things by telling him about how your genetics would be really great with children or how you guys have so many things in common and that you shouldn't ever leave each other or any of the other logical arguments that you have about why you guys should be together, that does not work and it only puts you in a position of weakness and looking needy and the guy's like, oh, okay, this is where we're going now, right? So you don't wanna do that and you don't wanna shame him or attack him for not wanting more with you, right? You set yourself up to be in this situation and it was a mistake and he was just doing what he was doing and you allowed him to get into this kind of situation with you instead of making sure that you're taking care of your own needs and it sucks, however, attacking him and shaming him isn't gonna get you anywhere. It might make you feel better but if all you wanna do is feel better then you wouldn't be watching this video anyway. So here's what you need to do instead. You need to, and so if you have questions about anything, make sure that you end up putting those questions in the chat. I'm gonna be answering questions at the end of this video. If you have questions, put them in the chat. If you're here, make sure that you say hi and tell us where you're from and also if you want to get, if you wanna get help and advice, personalized help and advice and lots of great information on how to have the relationship that you want, go to thegoddyscommunity.com and you can join our community for free there.