 Social experiment time? I think so. There's a set behind the scenes, I guess. They'll probably put it in the video. I don't know, I need to get like clothes on. The trigger warning. Warning! In this video, I talk about festive season. I talk about, you know, reasons to have subjects surrounding consent and if this may trigger you, feel free to click on a different video or find something fun to watch. Makeup and clothes are not consent. Today's video, we're diving into that subject. The Dramatics of London. Fucking light everywhere. Is it more ironic to film here or just stupid? I don't know. If you don't know where I am, look in the background. If not, I'll point it out on the screen now. My back hurts too. I'm sat in front of New Scotland Yard. Hey, what's up you guys? Welcome out to my channel. If you're new here, hi, hello, my name is Lydia. And to those of you who don't know, this is a voiceover. The audio from yesterday, when I went out filming this, just isn't great. But I also don't have the motivation right now to go and film, and re-film everything that I said. So there's going to be clips where I'm actually talking in the clip and the rest is going to be a voiceover. So yes, you get me a day later, who is quite emotional right now, doing a voiceover for a video that I filmed yesterday with no script. This is going to be interesting. And I hope you guys appreciate the fact that this is more awkward for me than it is you. Let me assure you. You won't get a fuck what I say or idea because I'm irrelevant. And we all knew that I was irrelevant. But there's something about... This video is about consent and the seasons and all our trail. This is a subject I don't know how to address properly. This video for me was inspired by Chloe's last video on Dissocia did before she integrated into the system. Not my channel, Dissocia did. Her video really inspired me to get up and make this video by going OTT on my makeup. I literally never had my makeup a star. I used to. I used to go out drinking. I used to. Alcohol is not permission. Sex is the last thing on my mind. Believe me, I don't want it. I have no interest in it. Me being like that when I was drunk, my heart obviously knew, like, no, she's just very drunk. I was. But there's a point here. Just because someone's drunk dressed up wearing makeup, I'm probably wearing short skirts, wearing dresses, doing whatever, whether they're drunk or not. If you do not have that person's permission, it's not consent. Clothes, makeup, what's good. Alcohol, being drunk is not consent. If a person is not capable of giving consent, you do not have that person's permission. Do not have a right to, like, a finger on that person. You cannot use alcohol as an excuse. It's the same as if you were, like, drunk driving. You have to take responsibility for it. You was drinking, you drove. Why is it any different when it comes to having sex? And there's an inability to give consent. Like, if someone's drunk, they are unable to give you consent, which is why I think it's so fucked that people gone might go just to get fucking sex. Like, you can't consent. Like, you have to have the capacity to consent. Irony and filming it here, people who know my story will know why the fucking irony is here. Do you have that permission to lay a finger on them? No. If a person has makeup on, does that give you permission to touch them? No. One question that I get asked a lot, and that's with makeup without makeup is walking around. And what gets me there is, yeah, that asking how old I am, which in one way is good, you know, they know that I am a legal agent, but the danger then is when they lose interest and they're like, that's sketchy as fuck. Because if I had answered 15, 14, what could have happened? Like, don't ask these questions to people you don't know. Please think before you ask before you do. I don't really know a thing about doing YouTube. People don't realise it, but people are more likely to approach you and be like, oh, what are you doing? How old are you? You know, it's not okay. I never said it was okay. But people do it. People think it's okay. But it's not. This way. Think if wrongs are first year a bit. Imagine me walking up to someone and offering them a drink. It never mattered before. I don't know how old you are. And you know, they could basically be anybody. It's wrong and it's fucked up. So why in the reverse roles of someone who I don't know offering me a drink is me saying, no, a bad thing. I feel like I have to make this video. I don't really... I've never addressed it. But I did. And then I took the video down. Because I just... The comments were triggering. I feel like... I'll get some quiet and I'll talk. Quiet and sensual and... Yeah, it's gonna happen. The way we're filming around here is to not get arrested. I don't know what I'd get arrested for. At least it's a well lit. I don't know my mind. My shoes aren't built for it. But hey, I can't be asked to put shoelaces back in shoes. What did you know? Is it's nice and quiet here? When I filmed here, it was a time. Because I used to love how chill it is by the way. I used to spend... When I did the Lancashire, I used to spend so much time by the water. I used to love going to parks and bridges and everything like that. Also, that was the bridge I didn't want to cross. But I did, I did. I just... It's weird. I just don't feel safe personally. She was drunk. Oh, I was drunk too. It doesn't matter. Yes, it does. It's potentially emotionally scarring because it's warm. And it's horrible. Like... Consent is required. By law. It doesn't matter on your stay. I can't stress it enough. Clothes, makeup, costumes, Halloween, Christmas, drugs, alcohol. It's not an excuse to unconsensually touch somebody in any way, shape or form. It's just not okay. And it never will be. Also, I was in a way Westminster. Which is why there was such a police activity over there. And you just don't know. The whole Brexit thing is going on at the moment. And... I don't really care for it. Alright, from the side in the London. Wow. This is where I am. It's South Bank Westminster Bridge. What I wanted to say. I literally walked with her just to say one thing. Personal safety is obviously important. And there are some things you can do to help yourself. If you are going out and getting drunk, you shouldn't have to protect yourself from other people's illegality and fucking illegal thoughts and wanting to hire a little hard year. There are some things you can do. You can buy these drink kits that can test to see who a drinker has been spiked, refeed, or whatever you want to call it. There are things you can do to make sure the drugs you're using are safe and not, you know, covered in a fucking mojito. You know, you're giving safety advice on a bridge. Trying to avoid triggering yourself. There's, like, I can't avoid it. I'm going to have to go under. See, now my phone's dead and now I've had enough of walking insurers and I literally hate myself enough to want to go. I'm just going to walk out here. You get your teenage girls, well, sit in a park and drink at them. Just because they're drinking in a park does not mean you can go and harass them. Wow, that was a perfect try. Wow. Now to go get a train and go home. Always make sure it's charged. Sure it's good, not concerned. Make-up, not concerned. Being out late, not concerned. Wearing heels, not concerned. The only word that means consent is yes. My phone's dead, so I'm getting a bus. It's due in one minute. Bus is due, but it's not here. It's like London problem. It's like London area. I have one of the bus lines. Don't let me drive Don't let me drive