 and that can be terrifying for a narcissist. What are some ways that we can disarm this narcissist and use their psychology for the benefit of us and others? One of the most important things to understand about behavior is we always act on a basis of needs and fears. So we need to understand what is the thing that they're actually prioritizing? How do they want to be seen and how can you talk to that identity? And what's the things that they're actually fearing? Are they fearing being seen? Are they fearing everyone seeing through the narcissistic mask? Are they looking to have more status and have more power? If you're talking to someone who's highly controlling and is looking for that power, but you can kind of talk to that covertly by saying, well, everyone knows the most powerful people or the most successful people will actually act in this manner. And also, you know, depending on how confrontation they can get, you can start playing on those fears as well and sort of saying, look, everyone's starting to see through actually who you actually are. And that can be terrifying for a narcissist.