 Hello family, welcome to another NARC survival live video. In this one I'm going to be giving you the reason why the narcissist ghosted you. And no, it's not about new supply, although they may have moved on to new supply. But why did they do that? Is it because the new supply is better than you? Because of course, as we know, that's exactly what they would want you to think. Or is it because you're simply not good enough? It's another thing that they want you to believe? No, that's actually not it at all. You see, you've been manipulated, gaslighted, brainwashed into thinking that it's you. But I can tell you that no one in their entire lives probably did even a fraction of what you've done for them. And they'll probably never find anyone else on your level ever again. They'll never find another chosen one, another empath, they're never going to find that. That is never going to happen. So here's the question, if you're really as great as I'm saying you are, and you're a chosen one, an empath, you've got all of these wonderful qualities, you've got all of these things going on, doesn't make any sense. Why would they ghost you? But I'm here to give you the answer to that question right now. And I can tell you that, believe it or not, the narcissist ghosted you because they knew that they weren't good enough for you. And yes, they knew this the entire time. I mean, that's why in the beginning they manipulated you, they gave you a false character, they lied, they future faked, that was the whole point of all of that. And that is also why they then moved to the devaluation phase. They began to devalue you because they began to reflect on the fact that they were not good enough for you. That's what caused them to stop love bombing you. The fact that they knew that they weren't good enough for you. Because I can tell you any narcissistic person. A lot of them, they're so grandiose, they're so full of themselves. If they really think that they're the shit, they're the best thing since like bread, they're going to go all out and show you that. And they're not going to leave any stones unturned. They're going to show you just how great they are. They're going to pull out all the stops. They're going to go to extreme lengths. If they're really what they say they are, you're going to see it, you're going to know about it. So when you don't see it, when you don't know about it, there's a reason for that, and the reason is because they believe they're not good enough for you. That's really yet. That is actually how it is. Because if a narcissist believes that they are good enough, and this could be in anything. It could be in sex, in money, in intelligent conversation, whatever it may be. If they believe that they are good enough for that, they are going to completely dominate the situation. And it may seem as though they're giving or sharing something with you. It's still all about them. It's all about them getting the validation. And they're going to get their validation in any way that they can. Whatever they think is going to work for them. So if they don't think that manipulating and love bombing you is going to get them the validation that they need, they're not going to do that anymore. And instead they will resort to devaluation. And if even the devaluation isn't working anymore, and you still have this belief and confidence in yourself, then they're not even going to bother doing that. They're just going to completely ghost you. It's whatever they think is going to work for them. Whatever they think is going to get them the validation that they need. And that's why the cycle runs in this specific order. Because their diamond supply, what they really want, their first choice is to love bomb you. So that you will then validate the false character and make them feel attractive and desirable. Which as we know, they can typically only get that from either buying you stuff or getting you to validate them in conversation. If they are a cerebral narcissist or if they're a somatic narcissist, the only way they're going to get that validation is through sex, through performing sexually. But if they know that they can't do that, if they know that that's not going to cut it, maybe you've had too many experiences already in terms of people buying you stuff or maybe it's conversations, you may be very intelligent yourself, but even sexually, maybe they think they can't please you, they can't satisfy you, then they're going to stay out of that arena. They're not going to get involved. They're not going to put themselves in a situation where they could be humiliated and rejected, where you could get the chance to laugh at them. They're not going to give you that satisfaction. They're not going to do that at all. And why? It's because they believe that they are not good enough, despite what they may say to you. Because of course they'll try to spin it around and make it seem like there's something wrong with you, but it's not you. Remember in the beginning they were manipulating you, they were love bombing you, and then they changed the devaluation because they could see that their love bombing was not effective anymore. That's why. And that's really the only reason why it goes from love bombing to devaluation. The narcissist is going to do whatever they think is going to work, whatever they think is going to be most effective. But what they would rather do is love bomb you. I mean that's why it's what they do at the beginning. And in fact as soon as they start devaluing you, then they're off love bombing someone else. Because that is what they would prefer to do. But if they can't love bomb you anymore, they're not going to fall in for it. Or if they can't please you, they can't satisfy you, if they're not good enough, they're going to stop doing it. They're not going to keep doing something if it's not working for them. They're not going to waste their time. So they ghost you when you stop believing in their lies, when you stop validating the false character, when you choose to live in reality instead of sharing their delusion. Because that's the only way that they're ever really going to remain around you, is if you do share their delusion, if you do choose to exist in their fantasy world. But let's be real, even when you do that, you're not really happy because when you're sharing this fantasy, your happiness isn't coming from within. It's coming from this external alternate reality that doesn't even exist. It has no basis in reality. And that is why, even when they're manipulating and love bombing you at the beginning, you still feel like something's missing. You feel like something's wrong. You feel like something's not right because it isn't even real. They're not grounded in reality. They have to pull you into this fake world. They have to impose a false character onto you so that you can even be around them. Because otherwise you would argue, you would fight, there would constantly be problems, but at some point you begin to wake up. You begin to realise what you're actually dealing with and that is when they begin to devalwg you. They gas like you. They make you think that you need to do more. You need to be something else. You need to be better. And when you stop believing in that, that's when they completely ghost you. But that's not really what they want to do because that's like their coal level supply. Their diamond supply is when they can love bomb you. And sure it may look like there are for this new supply that love bombing them now. They don't need to love bomb you. That's not going to be the same. That's not going to be anywhere near what it was like with you because you are an empath. You're a chosen one. You're highly sensitive. You're highly receptive, highly satisfied with whatever a person does for you, whatever they may buy for you, or even if it's something sexual, you're highly receptive. You're highly sensitive to that. So of course if they buy you a gift or if you're listening to them, talk about themselves and their achievements, or if you're involved in them sexually, that is such a potent source of supply to the narcissist. Unlike something that they could find anywhere else because most people are not like that, most people are not going to give them that emotional response, that high grade fuel. They're not going to find that anywhere else. This is why on average a narcissist will return to their victim seven times before it's finally all over. Yes, they typically come back with a hoover even if they have moved on to someone else because then they realise it's very different. They're not getting that type of response. They're not getting that grade of fuel and they start to miss that because it's like with you when they could elicit a reaction out of you, when they could please you and satisfy you and make you happy. Even if it was just this fake happiness, to them it made it seem real in that moment and when they could do that, it was such a spike in their energy. It inflated them. It fed their egos and it shot up like a rollercoaster when they get with the new supply and the love bomb in them. It's kind of like, well with you it was like a rollercoaster and they climbed up and when they devalued you they went down a little bit and then towards the end of the scards by that point it was all the way up the bottom and then that's why they ghosted you and then when they get with the new source it just comes up a little bit so it's better than what it was at the end with you but it's nowhere near what it was like when they were love bombing you. So then they do begin to think back. There's no difference between bad, good and incredible. They do know the difference and they see that that type of fuel that you're giving out it's just not the same anywhere else. No one can do it like you do. No one else can give that to them and this is just how it is. When we're in our energy it's in our responses, our reactions most of it's in our eyes that's where the energy is transferred it's in our facial expressions when they can see when we're happy, we're smiling when we're sad, we're frowning when we're excited when we're angry maybe some of you you may even cry at times but with other sources they don't get that full range of emotions they don't get that emotional depth and I think that's what it is a lot of times with my videos that's what keeps people coming back I see through my work it's not just the words and what I talk about but it's how I say it you can tell that I am passionate about it that it's authentic and that it means something to me you can tell that it's real that's really what people want they want something real they want something authentic that's really what they're looking for is something authentic and real innocent and natural pure and untouched uncontaminated the problem is they got with you and they contaminated you they made you impure and that's what affected the potency of your fuel in the beginning it was high great but as time went by they began to deplete you and then it was no longer as powerful it was no longer as effective and that's why they eventually ghosted you and they went off and found someone else but here's the thing finding someone who is pure and uncontaminated in this world someone innocent that is extremely rare that is extremely rare because most people are being indoctrinated by television music, movies, social media maybe their peer group their family or whoever it may be they're not innocent, they're not pure they're not thinking for themselves they're not playful curious like a child who has never been exposed to anything negative anything that makes them think that the world is not safe anything that might otherwise put them in a state of fear and yes things may happen to you but unlike them you come right back you return to your pure and innocent state they do not they were contaminated a long time ago and they've stayed that way ever since but when you're around someone who is truly innocent and pure such as another empath I mean even for us I've experienced it myself but it is a very powerful and uplifting experience because you know straight away this person they're not being indoctrinated even if they are they're just not even susceptible to it they're not absorbing it, it's not affecting them it's not changing the way that they might otherwise behave it's not doing anything like that and they're still able to be themselves they're still innocent, they're still pure, uncontaminated they're unaffected, unmoved and changed and that's what makes that experience so powerful because then they're able to connect they're able to be intimate with you and you're able to share this emotional depth with them of course narcissists aren't able to do that but as long as they can elicit an emotional reaction from the empath because it's that contrast if they can get you to the opposite of what you would normally do that's what makes it so powerful so normally you're just walking around the world on this earth and you're not overthinking anything you're not over analysing you're just being you're not doing, you're just being living, experiencing and then when they can pull you out of that state and elicit an emotional reaction out of you it's so powerful for them and it's so addictive because that's not how you normally are as a pure and innocent empath or chosen one and I know many of you who are watching this right now you will be able to identify with that because that's what makes it so painful it's how they change us they take us from one state to another they alter our condition because otherwise we would just exist in such a pure and uncontaminated state and I know that's exactly how I am as a super empath and a chosen one when I'm out in the world I'm highly sensitive to everything to everything I see everything I hear everything I smell everything I touch and taste I'm highly sensitive to it all and I notice everything I pay attention to detail when I go out into nature I notice the colours of the trees of the grass I pay close attention to the birds, maybe I see some cats the colours of them the sounds and it affects me on a very deep level in a positive way because this is just how it is to be an empath a chosen one a highly sensitive person of course we would be sensitive to the world because we came here with a gift and with a purpose to uplift everyone and raise the vibrations and of course when you're vibrating at a very high level you will be highly sensitive narcissists are emotionally dead they're very unsensitive they don't experience things on a deep level like we do because they are low vibrational they're shame based but this is why they ghost you because they've contaminated you they've ruined polluted your supply and it's no longer effective so then they run off and they'll come back later on in the hopes that you have recharged just so they can drain you again and this is why typically they will try to return to the love bombing again they're not going to come back just to devalw you or just to cause problems for you they will keep trying to go back to the love bombing because although you may not even realise it it's so powerful just that rush of adrenaline that it gives them when they love bomb you and they get your emotions your reactions your validation I mean I can't even describe it in words the effect that it has on them it's unlike anything else that they have ever experienced in their lives and they feel like it's something they've been missing forever they've never had anything like this before and that is why they typically get addicted to it but because when they realise that they're not good enough for you they have to devalw you and they don't really want to but it triggers them when they realise that your qualities of yours are not theirs they realise that all of these good things that you have it's you and not them so then they turn against you even though they don't really want to I mean they wish that they could just remain around you and be good enough for you they do that's why you will see them bringing back the false character that's the whole point because they wish that they could be around you and be good enough for you that's why they keep bringing it back that's why they keep trying to impress you because they want to be good enough for you but typically they will try to impress you or make you envious or jealous of something from a distance they don't want to get too close at a certain point because then it's more believable it's more believable for them to be giving something to someone else rather than to you and you being the recipient of it because then you're in a position where you can judge and they don't want you to be in that position because they already believe that they're not good enough and it's like what if they can't make you happy what if they can't satisfy you and then you get the last laugh you've got one over on them you can reject them, you can humiliate them and they don't want to give you that satisfaction so that is why following the discard they go off the new supply they flaunt them in front of you maybe on social media because in a way they're still trying to impress you and they want you to think that they are good enough they do have something of value that they are sharing with someone else because it's much easier for them to do that when you are not the direct recipient of it when you're just an observer of it and you assume that it must be true, it must be correct because that's how the person seems to be happy with them so how can it be wrong when in actuality they've just fallen for the false character just as you did in the beginning that's all that it is and they know that they can't fool you with that anymore so they go off and fool someone else and they also use that as a punishment for you so that's what they're doing and this is why they ghost you but yeah, they're never going to find that supply that they got from you anywhere else it's not going to be at that level it's not going to be high grade what you have is very unique and this is how they were able to manipulate you in the beginning they were able to manipulate you because you're innocent because you're naive I mean here's the thing, they can't really manipulate people who are already contaminated that's not going to work if people are broken and damaged they're going to see it a mile away they're going to know that they're being manipulated and in actuality people who are broken and damaged they're going to be highly paranoid they're going to assume that they're being manipulated even when they're not they're going to assume that anyway but you, because you're so pure innocent and contaminated and at times maybe even naive that's what made you so susceptible to the manipulation that's how they got you because if you weren't and if you realised what was going on if you were maybe exposed to this so many times already to the point where you can no longer operate in a natural state then you wouldn't have been fooled you would have seen that a mile away but as I said that is very rare what we have as chosen ones, as empaths where we are pure we are natural, we are uncontaminated yes we may have been exposed to certain things but it doesn't have that much of an effect on us to where we refrain to where we pull away and this is why we just fall for it so many times we're always the fool we've been fooled so many times, why? because we are pure we are innocent and at times we are naive which isn't always a curse in many ways it is a blessing in disguise we are also highly sensitive we can experience things at a very deep level we have emotional depth and people who tend to be more manipulative, deceptive they're liars, cheaters, deceivers, future fakers those types of people, they lack emotional depth they're not highly sensitive they don't experience things at a deep level they don't experience deep satisfaction at a moment like we do and that's why they're so miserable that's why they're the ones who manipulate and deceive and they try to get one over on us because we've got what they want they want what we have and what we have is this gift as empaths has chosen ones this emotional depth this high sensitivity yes they want to experience feelings, deep satisfaction just as we do but they can't and this is why they can't be alone this is why they need so many people so many sources of supply so many enablers and flying monkeys because they just can't be by themselves that experience deep emotion deep feeling deep pleasure with life, they can't do that and yet they come around us because they want to experience that and they know that the best chance they've got is by being around us because they can't find that anywhere else but they can also be very cautious at a certain point and tend to keep their distance because getting close to us puts us in a position where we get to judge them and it has the potential to make them feel inferior to us if they fail to satisfy or please us and that's not what they want they don't want to be put in a position where they're going to feel like they're not good enough they're trying to avoid that at all costs they're looking for the validation and yes, while they most definitely can have the opportunity to receive the greatest supply of validation they're going to get from anywhere from us it can also have the opposite effect as well if they do fail to satisfy us so that is why they may just go off the new supply, ghost you and settle for what really is low grade supply it's kind of like you know you've got like one of those extreme roller coasters at an amusement park and you get on there for the first time and you might scream you might close your eyes you might be like, yeah! in contrast to maybe like a kid's ride and you get on there maybe you're on it with your children it's kind of boring for you but you're doing a ruin the mood you don't want to ruin the fun for the kids so you're like, yeah! it's kind of like that that's what the contrast is like between you as the innocent pure chosen one or empath and just any other source of supply that's the difference and that is why they may come back if they believe that they can I mean I can't even put it into words but the supply that you have they're not going to find that anywhere else they're never going to get that again they're never going to find someone else at your level so let's take a moment to be grateful for these wonderful qualities that we have this high sensitivity this ability to experience emotional depth I know at times it may seem like a curse when you're around the wrong people when you're around narcissists who manipulate and exploit it they use it for bad for evil but when you're around another empath someone who knows how to use your gift to their advantage and to your advantage at the same time when you're around someone like that it can be an incredible feeling it really can and the best way to describe that it's kind of like you know we have these nerve endings in our bodies and it's like you might be ticklish on your neck because there's a lot of nerve endings here for an example so if someone tickles you there it's going to be a very strong sensation and it may be highly pleasurable but at the same time if someone pinches you there it's going to cause you a lot of pain and this is what it's like with our high sensitivity with our emotional depth yes we may experience low lows but that means we can also experience high highs not like that for narcissists they experience far lower lows than we do that's how they rage they experience depression, anxiety but they don't really experience points of emotions at all they make it look like they do but they really don't I mean you've got to think if they did then why would they be so manipulative and abusive there would be no reason for that to begin with and this is why they come around you to elevate themselves at your expense because you have what they seek you have that innocence about you you have that ability to experience positive emotions and they will not be around that that's why they love bomb you in the beginning because your positive emotions will be valid in the first character that is such a potent source of supply for them yet then they have to settle for your pain your suffering which is not what they really want that's their cold level of supply what they really want is the diamond supply the problem is they're emotionally bankrupt they can't afford to sustain that level of supply if they could believe me they would but they get insecure, they feel inferior they feel like they're not good enough and then they've got to pull back then they've got to devalw you and it's sad when you think about it because the truth is that's not what they really want and you can see that but the amount of times they try to bring back the false character and manipulate you again it's telling you what they really want the problem is they feel insecure they feel like they're not good enough they don't want to put themselves in a position where you get the last laugh where you get to humiliate them because as many of you have experienced the reality is they're not good enough narcissists aren't good enough and that's the whole point of their arrogance their entitlement they show an exaggerated sense of their abilities and importance it's exaggerated because deep down they are inadequate this is why they're leeches they're parasites, they're bottom feeders they lack the skills, the qualities, the capabilities they've manipulated people their entire lives so they've never had to do the work they've just relied on their manipulation but that can only get them so far especially with an empath, a chosen one but this is just how it goes they want to have the best but the reality is they're not even good enough for it it's like they apply for a job in accounting and they haven't even got the qualifications they haven't got any experience but they want the money, they want the payout so they stay in that job and then all of these things go wrong there's all of these problems but they still went for that job even without the qualifications even without the experience just because they wanted the payout the getting situations where they're really just not even fit for a purpose they're really not they can't handle being around someone like myself someone who is high energy highly intelligent, I'm direct, I'm real I don't like manipulations I don't like lies I don't like any fake stuff I like to be open and honest I like to be real I enjoy deep intelligent discussions I can stay in high vibe 24 hours a day, there's no problem for me at all I'm highly motivated, I'm hard working and I'm sure many of you are as well they can't be around someone like us for long periods of time but we are exactly what they want the problem is they can't sustain someone like us so then they feel inferior they feel like they're not good enough and that is why they devalue us they try to cause all of these problems for us they want to sell and charge our lives because they feel like they're not good enough for us and the last thing they want is to see us walk away and share these amazing qualities with someone else because then it's like oh that person is good enough but I wasn't and then they feel jealous it triggers them to reflect on their insecurities on their inadequacy and that's the last thing they want they don't want that to happen so they've got to bring you down they've got to destroy you in the end to prevent that from happening so that they don't have to be served this reminder of just how inadequate, irrelevant and insignificant they regard which they try to cover up with their arrogance and entitlements their exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance but they can only do that for so long until you start to figure them out and then even when they ghost you the last thing they want is to see you moving on they want you to be left alone and isolated without any help or support they want you to just stay in the ditch where they left you because when you climb back out and you move on and you become successful you become happy maybe you get into a new relationship you get married, you have children you start a business all of these things this all becomes a reminder to them of where they have failed of how they were never good enough for you and although deep down yes they may know that that is true they do not want to be reminded of that they want to feel like they were on your level or the fact that they were superior to you even if it is just in a fantasy even if it is just in this delusional world that they have created in their minds that they try to pull you into or maybe you have your own fantasies maybe you like to read certain books watch certain movies the certain characters that you admire and then they try to impose themselves on you as though they are that like all right if you are that let me see you be that let me see you actually do the work but of course no they can't because it's all a lie it's all manipulation, deception, gaslighting lies and future faking and the reality is that they're never going to be anything but once you separate yourself from them and you move on you have some time to heal and it's like despite everything they made you believe about yourself you can heal move on and become successful just as I have done I've got a YouTube channel now with over 170,000 subscribers with over 40 million views and my TikTok as well with over 18,000 followers massive achievements and I was always told that I'm not good enough I'm never going to be anything but guess what, that's by people who knew they weren't good enough for me I knew that if I could be my authentic self and live up to my true potential I would quickly elevate and leave them behind and then they would be forced to recognise that in fact they're the ones who are not good enough for me it's really sad but this is just how it is this is exactly how it is and this is why they devalue you they leave you in such a state and then they discard you and then just to make it even worse they may even start a smear campaign against you triangle it with someone else inflict all of this pain and hardship on you just to bring you down even more and sustain this false reality because that's just really how it is all along they knew that they weren't good enough for you but they're in denial that's really how it is and I know for a lot of you this may be difficult to accept it may be a shocking truth but I'm telling you after six years of research five and a half years of making these videos I can say that this is actually the reality and if you look back I've been saying this from the very beginning I just don't really make a big deal of it anymore because it's nothing new I mean I've known this for over six years and in all honesty I think I knew this from the very beginning I knew this since I was a child and you may have noticed on my community page I posted a poem that I wrote back in 1999 when I was just ten years old a poem about how it's not my fault I was being blamed and punished for things that I didn't even do and I'm sure many of you were as well when you were a child by your parents, your family maybe your teachers or someone else and yes believe it or not it's actually because they feel inadequate they feel inferior to you that's actually what it is it does not matter what they say to you or what they do it doesn't make a difference that should not change anything of course they're not going to come out and just tell you yes okay you're better, you're superior you're more intelligent or even you're more attractive you're more successful you have more potential what kind of analysis is going to come out and tell you that that is never going to happen but that is exactly how it is they're never going to tell you that but I'm telling you that right now and as you know I don't like to sugarcoat things I am a truth teller and if the opposite was true I would just tell you that and I would tell you to work on yourself be better but this is the reality of it they already know that you are far greater than them this is why they target you this is why they bring you down this is why they talk about you behind your back to as many people as they possibly can this is why they do all about this is why they do every negative thing that they do just look at their behaviours they're negative and what is a negative behaviour it's where they're trying to take away from you because you're already too good you already have too much in their eyes in comparison to them a negative behaviour stem from a negative emotion what are negative emotions they are emotions that are at the lower end of the emotional vibrational frequency chart emotions such as pride fear, guilt, desire, shame, apathy the types of feelings that they are experiencing when they are being negative towards you and yet sometimes they can be negative even while displaying a smile and in that moment they're still taken from you which is how you should know when they move on they broadcast their new source they're trying to hurt you, they're trying to punish you they're still miserable they're still trying to take away from you and they're always going to be that way because they feel inadequate and just being around you it causes a narcissistic injury every time because they know that they can never measure up to you they feel inferior and many of you don't even realise just how great you are you really don't but that's the thing I mean of course at this point in my journey maybe I don't fully grasp just how great I am but it's like even with this channel I mean there's like 326 viewers watching right now and 170,000 subscribers 40 million views of course I recognise this must make me quite a valuable person the message that I share it is in demand I'm wanted, I'm needed by so many people around the world I get that but at this point I don't really care that much it's not something to where it goes to my head as it would for a narcissist where it's like I'm such an amazing person I've got all of this attention all of these people looking at me all of these people listening to everything I say it's really not like that at all and when I read the comments I get hundreds of comments every day it really doesn't change my emotional state that much my happiness, my confidence it comes from within it's not dependent on what other people say or do for me even though at some level yes I do realise my worth I'm just not that concerned about it but just as it was many years ago where I underestimated myself I do believe that even right now I am underestimating myself I really do believe that I believe that I am far greater than what I believe right now I believe that I am capable of so much more and I don't even know it but at this point it's like even though that I could be more it's like do I really want to do I really need to is it really that important to me because for me as an empath rather than just consuming everything mindlessly for myself it is more about sharing the experience with other people I mean everything that you see in my past videos that you see on my Instagram even all of those times where I'd be staying in five-star hotels, villas driving luxury cars it was rarely ever about me it was more about me thinking all of the victims, the survivors everything they've been through they may feel hopeless, helpless like nothing's ever going to change and as though nothing could ever change for anyone else who has been through this for me when I showcased the hotels, the cars or my YouTube and in the Instagram when I did that it was more about me seeing it from your perspective and how it would feel for you to see this man who was once a boy and went through so much pain, trauma and abuse now sitting in the car of his dreams sitting in a five-star hotel that you never believed you could afford and despite it all now has a smile on his face I can still be happy and of course I've seen from the comments but that was the experience that many of you had it did make a lot of you very happy and that is why I continue to do it because I already knew when I was taking those pictures making those videos I knew it was going to make a lot of you smile just as it does for me there's some YouTubers I follow many of which, the REM paths they went through a difficult time there's one, I won't say the name but he has a very good channel and I saw not too long ago he had a new girlfriend that he was really happy with and he also bought a new Lamborghini and yeah that really did make me smile made me really happy for him, for his success and sadly although yes there's always the haters I think it's important to do that to work hard and then show your success to your followers because yes they will be happy for you if they are empathic if they do appreciate your hard work but sadly yes there's always going to be those out there who will get jealous and they will want to sabotage it they won't want to see you with anything despite all of the work that you have done and that's really sad because for us of course we would never have that experience with them if we've seen them and they've done the work it's like they climbed the mountain of course we would want to see them proud of themselves satisfied with what they have achieved but unfortunately it's not always like that because some people do feel inferior they feel insecure they have no belief, they feel like they're never going to be able to achieve what we can achieve so that's just really how it is sometimes we get all of the five star hotels the cars the trips around the world of course I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy that I'm someone who didn't really get to experience too much in his life probably compared to most people didn't have many holidays didn't have many nice cars vacations, stuff like that when I was younger so of course I did enjoy that but for me the best part was to be able to share it with you to show you that hard work does pay off if you're putting the work for many hours every day for many years you will get something back and you can be happy, you can enjoy your success despite all of the pain, all of the abuse that you may have been through there is light at the end of the tunnel I've asked really what you wanted to show you but unfortunately these days we can't just go broadcasting our success because people will see it and they will hate us for it they will want to tear us down they're not going to share our happiness and I hate to say it but it's true you can't just go sharing your happiness and accomplishments with everyone share it with people who will be happy for you not with people who are only going to seek to destroy it but yeah that's why I wanted to share it with you because I knew you guys would love it just as I love it when I see my favourite YouTubers it makes me so happy to see that they have moved on they've got the house that they want maybe with a pool they've got the car of their dreams, a Lamborghini a new girlfriend nothing brings me more joy than that even if I haven't got that even if I'll never have that because I know that those people have worked hard and I know that they have suffered they've been through a lot in life so naturally as empaths of course we want to see that anyway being on here for over an hour and I've enjoyed sharing this message with you I know that you all resonate with a lot of my work and it just feels good to know that I am helping so many people but you know I don't earn a lot from putting out this content not nearly as much as I used to so I really do appreciate the donations and you can donate by leaving a super chat a super thanks in the comments section or also by going to my paypal which is paypal.me and you can also show your support by giving this video a thumbs up down below and sharing your thoughts in the comments section and also remember to hit the subscribe button and click all notifications so that you will be notified when I upload a new video and if you would like to book a one-on-one coaching session with me you can go to my website it is Narcsefiver.co.uk and you can also follow me on Instagram it is Narcsefiver Youtube okay I am live from my hotel room here as you can see I'm just going to have a shower maybe do some work and get some rest wake up early ready to work on another video in the morning which I will be uploading soon I would just like to thank you all my Youtube family for joining me on another live video and I want to let you know that I do appreciate you all your support means so much and as always I look forward to speaking with you in another live video very soon